How often do you give and receive oral sex?

[cdstefi]

Pretty much every time sex is on the cards. It's an essential warmer-upper and sometimes the whole thing.

 

[LMWM321]

Every time we have sex. But we take turns in terms of the sort of Oral I give her.

Her preference is for oral where the touches from my tongue are very very light - like butterfly kisses. And only to her clitoris. It's not easy to do because I barely feel any sensation while doing it. At times, I'm not sure my tongue is even touching her. But this is what feels best to her so it's what I do for her most of the time.

But every third or fourth time I ask her, "Can I ravish you 'my way' hun...?" Which is permission to give oral that is more about my pleasure. I'll then probe every inch of her vulva with a semi-stiffened tongue, and I'll kiss and and suck her lips and her clitoris. Then ultimately insert my tongue inside her as deep as I can. Then I move on to rimming her in much the same way. This THRILLS ME to no end. I feel a bit like a caveman doing it. But it doesn't do much for her - she describes it as sensation overload.. To be clear, It doesn't cause her any discomfort (I wouldn't do it if it did), it's just doesn't get her off. But she knows I love it ('need it' is more accurate) so she allows me to do it every so often. This is also true of nipple play. She prefers it very very very light - almost imperceptibly so, whereas I want to latch onto those suckers like I'm nursing.

Isn't sex weird (but awesome)?

BTW, if I had to chose, I'd give up receiving oral from my wife before I'd give up giving her oral. I'm fairly obsessed with it

 

[Goldenfinger]

Often. It’s my favorite meal.

 

[Randomguy126]

Not as often as I would like on either side unfortunately

 

[SherlockianMan]

I would give daily if I could, but seldom have opportunity to give or receive these days.

 

[Naughtylo]

I hear that hun.
I like to have no distractions when giving or receiving oral.
Usually every day. X

 

[vibes]

a couple of times a week

 

[bobsch703]

Back when we were having sex (long story) I would eat my wife out almost every time we had sex. I'd finger fuck her ass while eating her about 80% of the time while eating her,. I'd eat her ass about 40-50% of the time we had sex., which she LOVED and was really embarrassed that she: A - let me do that to her and B- loved it so much. She blew me maybe 25% of the time - not because she didn't like giving oral, nor was she bad at it, bu I preferred my dick in her pussy. When she blew me to completion, she always swallowed (except one time) and never complained. She probably would have blown me more if I "made" her, but I didn't encourage her to do it. I preferred doing things TO her rather than her doing things to me. And I'd also like it more when she initiated it, but I didn't understand at the time that she had a bit of a submissive streak and would likely have enjoyed it more if I initiated her giving me oral.

 

[Goldenfinger]

Does it count if your wearing a cage and she puts it in her mouth to tease you?

 

[StrongMaster7]

Once a week, my wife wants sex for about 20 minutes. We start off with me sucking her beautiful big tits and her rubbing her crotch on my leg. As she gets more excited, I can use a finger to rub her pussy and fingerfuck her. Once she is fully aroused, she moves around into a 69 with me on the bottom. It is at this point where I can eat her pussy and she will suck my cock for five minutes or so. She almost always comes at least once and then she is ready to ride my stiff cock until I come.

Not bad. It's almost exactly the same every week.

 

[LMWM321]

Not bad. It's almost exactly the same every week.

Sounds awesome all the same. ..So maybe change the venue?? It's amazing how doing it in a different room can infuse new excitement into an old routine. For example, my wife and I will occasionally have sex on the carpeted floor of her walk-in closet which has a full length mirror. I'll position myself so I don't see my face - which makes watching her sucking on me look a bit like watching her give head to a stranger. Very exciting.

Anyway... I love your routine.

 

[krug]

I absolutely love love giving oral (eating pussy)
I'd do it daily if given the opportunity
Unfortunately my wife has gone through menopause and I don't get eat her as often as I'd like
Getting old sucks...

 

[Sgts19]

We both love oral sex so 99% of the time we fuck oral is involved somehow

 

[lmc89]

Not enough! I like giving more than receiving, love when a woman shudders as she orgasms, watching her loose control and the utter bliss.
I like receiving but more often than not get restless and want sex.

My partner is not very sexual and I have had to have extra marital intercourse to satisfy my cravings. It is important for your emotional and mental needs

 

[hulmule]

Sexless marriage, i so miss giving and receiving. Sadly wife thinks its dirty and nasty now. Menopause really changed our lives...

 

[naughty_stories]

I suck dick pretty much daily. I get eaten out 2 to 3 times a week

2-3 times a week is NOT anything close to enough

 

[Moosiah84]

Male. Wife's duties begin each morning waking me up with my cock in her mouth between 530am-6am. If she's late there's punishment. Once im awake I decide if I cum down her throat or if I fuck her.

 

[drobert44]

Not often enough these days.

I could suck cock and eat pussy every day and be happy.

Same..........

 

[TinaG_2023]

I sent my guy off to work very happy. A nice breakfast appetizer for me! Yummy

 

[EmmAgain]

I’ve always offered to give and insisted on receiving. I absolutely cannot jump from kissing to penetration, even with a regular lover (or my husband). It doesn’t feel like ‘real’ sex if a tongue hasn’t made at least a cursory visit to my vagina.

 

[Biguy77578]

Male. Wife's duties begin each morning waking me up with my cock in her mouth between 530am-6am. If she's late there's punishment. Once im awake I decide if I cum down her throat or if I fuck her.

My wife was my alarm clock for years!

 

[drobert44]

I’ve always offered to give and insisted on receiving. I absolutely cannot jump from kissing to penetration, even with a regular lover (or my husband). It doesn’t feel like ‘real’ sex if a tongue hasn’t made at least a cursory visit to my vagina.

Always warm the woman up by licking her a bit.........so fun to make her cum!

 

[CJamarous]

What's oral sex again?

 

[TinaG_2023]

What's oral sex again?

Wonderful!

 

[CJamarous]

Wonderful!

It really is! Tis but a distant memory now