How often do you give and receive oral sex?

And are you male or female. Hard to tell by names. :p

And do you enjoy giving/receiving?

I've had this conversation with many female friends before, so I am curious what others are doing. Lol.

(Plus there has been very little action in this room today and I am bored and in need or a distraction. :) )
I'm male and I enjoy both giving and receiving with my wife however, I do prefer to pleasure her orally.
I love nibbling and sucking on her clitoris while she tells me how good it feels and how much she loves it as she experiences multiple orgasms 🥰...
And she loves to give me oral well...she will tell me how much she enjoys having my penis in her mouth too...we both love sexy banter (dirty talk?) during sex, especially during oral sex which boosts the sexual excitement level significantly 😍...
 
See I am not a huge fan of 69...I like to concentrate when I am giving a blow job lol and that distracts me ;)
I agree...I do enjoy 69 now and then however I also find 69ing can be distracting when what I really want is to concentrate on pleasuring her orally and enjoying her being verbal while I'm eating her pussy and listening to her climaxing repeatedly 😍...
 
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My husband loves to eat pussy he does it for him and I get the rewards practically every time we have sex and I give him head most of the time we have sex not always to conclusion but just because he loves it
Now with my lesbian lover we usually take turns
I absolutely love ❤️ to eat my wife's pussy and listen to her climax again and again 😊 just because she loves it too ❤️
 
I was going down on girls even before I started fucking them. Wife and I have very seldom had sex without giving and getting.
Actually, most of my pre-marital sex life was me eating pussy, and not getting a blow job. Although I wanted reciprocation, not having it didn't stop me. I just love eating pussy to this day, and it has always been my way of pleasuring my wife. She and I would 69 until she started cumming, and then many times I would cum in her mouth.

Before marriage, I had a personal cocksucker, who was an older male friend (about my father's age). I got plenty of blowjobs from him. He just loved my cock and cum. I would have reciprocated, but he had ED.
 
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I never receive a BJ and I give a BJ whenever my girl puts my hand on her crotch.
 
I give my wife oral 2-3 per week; pretty much every time we have sex. I receive it less often b/c my girth makes it uncomfortable for her.

About once a month, when she's at Warm Yoga (it's a thing), I'll text her with something like "Can I eat your sweaty P in Happy Baby Pose the moment you get home? :devilish::devilish:" She nearly always replies with a smile and thumbs up. And we do exactly that - she's not home 1 minute before my face is buried in her. Usually with her leggings still on but pushed just high enough up her thighs for oral access.

I'm breathless with excitement the moment she come through the door. Mind you, I still get this way after 35 yrs of being together!

If you don't know what Happy Baby Pose is, google it. It's eye-widening.

As I've told her countless times, the thought of her in that pose with lot's of hunky younger men around who undoubtedly notice her sends adrenaline coursing through me.
 
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I go down on my wife at every opportunity. Her clit is very sensitive, so she doesn’t always love it. It took me a little bit of time, because I would always rush to the clit.

But some basic communication helped me find ways that I could pleasure her with my melt down there… sucking on her lips, tongue in her cunt, and lighter kissing.
 
I go down on my wife at every opportunity. Her clit is very sensitive, so she doesn’t always love it. It took me a little bit of time, because I would always rush to the clit.

But some basic communication helped me find ways that I could pleasure her with my melt down there… sucking on her lips, tongue in her cunt, and lighter kissing.
Yeah they are all different..
 
See I am not a huge fan of 69...I like to concentrate when I am giving a blow job lol and that distracts me ;)
Same. But I recently had a guy tell me that he enjoys 69ing because when the woman gets distracted by her own pleasure then it’s proof that he’s doing a good job and that turns him on even more. Soooo maybe I need to stop worrying so much that I’m not “doing a good enough job” and remember that men like having sex and having their cocks touched at all 🤣
 
Really? Me and the friends I have talked to always thought guys regarded it as a chore. I am shaved and always always clean. I have past experiences that tainted it for me, granted, but the main reason I don't do it with my husband pretty much ever is because even though he says he likes it, it seems like he's just saying that and I feel very uncomfortable receiving. As was it with most my friends as well. Doesn't matter how clean you are it just feels...weird and uncomfortable having something be all about you and also wondering if they mind the taste.. Doesn't matter how good it feels. Those thoughts make it a turn off for me and the few I talked to. He doesn't even try more than a few times a year (hence why I think he sees it as a chore.) and when he does I either just say no, I'd rather do you instead or let him for a little and then ask to 69 or something until he forgets about doing to me and we have reverted into either fellatio or sex without him realizing it. Bad previous partner experiences aside, and my submission fetish, I think I would actually like it if I actually believed he did.

But some guys do actually like it? Not as a chore they feel like they should have to do?
Absolutely love to give, it is foreplay for my wife and I, as it was with GFs before I got married. After all etiquette dictates that the lady cums first (& last).
 
I love giving. Only received a couple times. I don’t like getting oral from a girl… I didn’t know how badly it made me feel dysphoric. (I’m trans).

But I YEARN to receive from a guy. I will service him first or like, both before and after or he can just breed my ass, I don’t care. I just want him devouring me until my soul leaves my body.
 
I give my wife oral 2-3 per week; pretty much every time we have sex. I receive it less often b/c my girth makes it uncomfortable for her.

About once a month, when she's at Warm Yoga (it's a thing), I'll text her with something like "Can I eat your sweaty P in Happy Baby Pose the moment you get home? :devilish::devilish:" She nearly always replies with a smile and thumbs up. And we do exactly that - she's not home 1 minute before my face is buried in her. Usually with her leggings still on but pushed just high enough up her thighs for oral access.

I'm breathless with excitement the moment she come through the door. Mind you, I still get this way after 35 yrs of being together!

If you don't know what Happy Baby Pose is, google it. It's eye-widening.

As I've told her countless times, the thought of her in that pose with lot's of hunky younger men around who undoubtedly notice her sends adrenaline coursing through me.
Not really into sweaty pussy, but the Happy Baby pose is soooo titillating, or should I say "pussillating"?.
 
And are you male or female. Hard to tell by names. :p

And do you enjoy giving/receiving?

I've had this conversation with many female friends before, so I am curious what others are doing. Lol.

(Plus there has been very little action in this room today and I am bored and in need or a distraction. :) )
Male........enjoy both.........and never seem to get enough........
 
When I was in a relationship I would do it as much as he would let me. I have a cock worship fetish as well as deep throating. I get very enthusiastic and passionate about it. I really loved giving road head,or doing it while he was on the phone or playing video games.

I am shy when it comes to receiving oral and I’m ticklish so I tend to cover my face or squrim around a bit.
So sexy. Any partner would be lucky to have that from you
 
My wife and I always pleasure each other orally during sex. We’ve both expressed our desire to taste one another in the act. We often partake in 69 with her on top before we have intercourse. It just makes PIV sex that much better and wetter.
 
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