How representative is this site?

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Been thinking. There seems to be a lot of filthy people on here, who admit things I've never heard peopl admit IRL, particularly all the men into wife sharing/cuckold etc, is the reality that most men secretly think tjis way? Or do the ones that do frequent this board?? I mean IRL I haven't admitted to everything I have on here
 
I certainly don't know everyone who posts here, but my opinion is that the population is representative of the ideas that we all have going on in our heads and don't mind posting on the internet. There is a significant gray area between reality and fantasy, and I think there is a definite fantasy tilt to much of what is discussed. I can't count the number of times I have been having everyday sex someone while fantasizing about screwing her and her mom, or sister, or best friend while spraying buckets of cum on everything with 2 legs and a vagina. That being said, I'm fairly confident that most women I have been in a relationship with probably didn't want to expand the number of parties in our bed. Sure, there are plenty of people out there that masturbate 78 times a day, take 14 inch dildos in their asses, and don't wear panties under the skirts, but for the most part, I think you'll find a community here, vs. if you took a random sampling from your neighborhood, that is good at weaving fantasy and reality, which is really why we're here right?
 
Not very due to the huge slant of males and males pretending to be females. :D
 
Not very due to the huge slant of males and males pretending to be females. :D

I was fairly new here and was PMed by a woman saying she wanted to role play about my wife and her taking on a young stud. She was VERY specific about his name and looks. Should have been a tip off. Right when we got to the point that my wife was blowing him and made him cum in her mouth...she (he?) disappeared never to be heard from again. Didn't dawn on me that maybe it was a guy until afterwards. Oh well.
 
I was fairly new here and was PMed by a woman saying she wanted to role play about my wife and her taking on a young stud. She was VERY specific about his name and looks. Should have been a tip off. Right when we got to the point that my wife was blowing him and made him cum in her mouth...she (he?) disappeared never to be heard from again. Didn't dawn on me that maybe it was a guy until afterwards. Oh well.

Yeah, that's a pretty big tip-off. They usually start trailing off around the point that they've just come. :rolleyes:
 
I've experienced men posing as women.
I'd love to chat with a bi woman who has experience with being in a FMF relationship, triad or even a poly relationship. Not looking to cyber, I just need someone who can understand where I am at the moment. I'm just looking for advice from someone who can understand such a situation.
I just put it out there here as I don't want to start a thread looking.

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There seems to be a lot of filthy people on here
Awwww! He called us filthy! :) Yay!
I think there is a misrepresentation on Lit based on the type of community it is. We love erotica. So you're gonna get the extremes from one end to the other. All walks of life, sometimes the sexual taboo is filthy, socially unacceptable., sometimes sweet... as far as cucks, I think they are here because it's a safe place to fantasize, pm other men who share the same kink...ect.
 
Been thinking. There seems to be a lot of filthy people on here, who admit things I've never heard peopl admit IRL, particularly all the men into wife sharing/cuckold etc, is the reality that most men secretly think tjis way? Or do the ones that do frequent this board?? I mean IRL I haven't admitted to everything I have on here

I'm sure the idea of another man screwing his wife crosses the minds of most men. But I'm sure few sctually fantasize about it. Even fewer want it to actually happen. Im in the last category. I'd love for another man to be regularly fucking my wife. Sites like this one give me an outlet to express that.
 
I do not think it's representative of the population at large. Definitely not. Look how puritanical our society is about sex. And look how many people are absolutely petrified of anything other than one man and one woman, married, Christian, preferably white, and in missionary position IRL. That is a large segment of the population, my friend. And not just in the US. Yes, it's worse here (far worse even) than other parts of the world. But it's not just here that it's the case. I'm pretty open about my exploits and preferences in my real life. Granted I talk about it more openly here but I am in my real life too. But being that way has shown me how many people have experiences and preferences a lot more narrow than mine. And I'm pretty vanilla compared to most here.

Think about it like this. The first filter here is people who would even find a site called Literotica. Then narrow that down to people who would click on it. Then narrow it down again to people who would explore it. Then narrow it down again to people who would sign up. Then narrow it down one more time to people who would post on the forums.

See what I'm saying? It's a pretty specific population we're dealing with here. Just by virtue of that fact I think we can definitely say it's far from a representative look at society. That doesn't NECESSARILY mean we think differently than a truly representative sample would (though there are different ways to define that) but when you look at the attitudes about sex in society at large I think it would be pretty ridiculous to say it's representative of more than a certain segment of the population. It's all about sourcing. We're sourced from a very specific pool, as I explained before.
 
Been thinking. There seems to be a lot of filthy people on here, who admit things I've never heard peopl admit IRL, particularly all the men into wife sharing/cuckold etc, is the reality that most men secretly think tjis way? Or do the ones that do frequent this board?? I mean IRL I haven't admitted to everything I have on here

Filthy??? Which Catholic School did you attend?

I joined so I could talk about my most intimate secrets/desires/experiences... and to have a little fun from time to time. Healthy escapism.
 
Why would a man pose as a woman?

Because you can only get so many guys to chat with you as a guy. But women that want to have cyber sex with you? There aren't that many of them floating around here and they get real popular real quick.
 
* giggles * filthy. Thank you dear. Sometimes its hard to tell the reality from the fantasy on here, but isn't that the beauty of an anonymous forum? And personally, the fantasy is so much more fun. ;)

"What's normal to the spider is chaos to the fly."
 
If you enter marathonrunnersforum.org, you 'll see thousands of people talking about running 42 km's in 3 hours, as if it was the most natural thing in the world. It doesn't mean they represent the general population.
 
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I think that its unrealistic to think that the rest of the non lit population think like we do,

its a much higher ratio of sexually open minded people here
 
The site is all about sharing erotica in many forms. There are some interesting kinks and fetishes I have no interest in, but it is a safe place where people can share whT they wish and look for kindred spirits. I like it here very much.
 
If you enter marathonrunnersforum.org, you 'll see thousands of people talking about running 42 km's in 3 hours, as if it was the most natural thing in the world. It doesn't mean they represent the general population.
While I don't think this site is a perfect representation of the world, I think it is much better than most open forums would be. Take your marathon website example. I think it is fairly safe to say that virtually every single person that does NOT visit that site has little to no desire to run a marathon. This site is another story. Before coming here, I was just a normal guy with my own kinks and fantasies. No one but Mrs. S knew about them. Coming here you realize how many other people out there are into the nontraditional norms of sex. I love knowing that Mrs. S is viewed by most people that would only have sex on her husband's birthday. Yet he she is needing sex more than I do and posting naked pictures online. I think while that is not the norm, there are many more reserved looking people out there like her, or want to be like her, than there are people who say they hat running, but want to run a marathon (Though coincidentally I fall in that category. Hate running with a passion, would love. To have what it took to run a marathon.)
 
Just to flag up being a lister who's on here a lot and irl has a very happy married life with no plans to share.
 
I joined so I could talk about my most intimate secrets/desires/experiences... and to have a little fun from time to time. Healthy escapism.

This. I love talking sex, sharing talk about sex with others, and to generally just enjoy sharing my sexual desires, kinks, etc., in a non-judgemental place.
 
In real life, it's very hard to know what people really think, even on trivial matters, so I must imagine on kinky things.

I real life also, when you have made a confidence to someone. you never know what this person is going to do with it.

So, this site is much safer to express ourselves freely and openly, although it takes a bit of courage to get on it once found.

Does this community represents the real world, probably not. But it represents an unknown percentage of the population that has kinky needs and strong sex drive.

And in my mind, this population is larger than we think.
 
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