How to be Real on Lit

[Wonderer67]

Males don't generally deal with what women deal with on Lit.

I think THAT is the main point. The male experience is likely quite different from what women probably experiences.

Just guessing. I am male.

I am sure there’s a lot more horseshit that women have to deal w than men.

 

[Crankbait88]

Just checking. Are we still real?

 

[XShadynzX]

It's not easy but if you can say to yourself "I'm not ashamed about posting that", then it's possible to stay true to yourself.

 

[XShadynzX]

Just checking. Are we still real?

Not to boast, but I've been told I'm as real as it gets.
I try to be the same person online as I am in RL

 

[Nightbird]

Not to boast, but I've been told I'm as real as it gets.
I try to be the same person online as I am in RL

*GLOMP* Shady!

 

[XShadynzX]

GLOMP ( again!) @Nightbird

 

[kathyisgr65]

Not sure how to respond to that.

No reason to respond..she said what she said...(Pls don't give me shit for giving my opinion)

 

[Lady2020]

No reason to respond..she said what she said...(Pls don't give me shit for giving my opinion)

I was saying I didn't understand the comment. I still don't. I don't see any reason for giving you shit.

 

[kathyisgr65]

I don't even remember my opinion..

 

[Lady2020]

I'm now 70. If you can't deal with that, it's not my problem. I have enough to deal with on my own without your bullshit.

 

[Noor]

I guess you just be real as you are in rl. Though some people are never real anywhere.
Being real can be messy but it’s the best way.
You don’t have to disclose your private details or activities but lying is never good. People see through lies, they may choose to not mention it but eventually lies are exposed.
Lies also hurt relationships.

 

[Lady2020]

I'm just thinking maybe I don't ask enough of the right questions .

 

[Treeview]

I'm just thinking maybe I don't ask enough of the right questions .

That is a very existential question.

Just keep asking questions...your answer will come along.

 

[Greylag]

I'm just thinking maybe I don't ask enough of the right questions .

Different questions for different people. You just need to ask lots until.you find the right one.

 

[SmokingFap]

Not to boast, but I've been told I'm as real as it gets.
I try to be the same person online as I am in RL

Dammit, I REALLY shouldn't stick my nose in here. But why do you have to TRY to be the same person online? Why aren't you naturally just the same person online?

And saying "Not to boast, but" right before you boast?

Nevermind. Couldn't help myself. Carry on.

 

[Lexie24]

I find it quite refreshing and a little freeing on lit so I try to be as honest as I can because at the end of the day who fucking cares

 

[Execlatina2024]

All you can do is be consistent in who you are here and IRL.

 

[JJ82490]

You can’t fake genuine, whether it’s here or IRL…why not just be yourself and be free?

 

[adlon]

I find it quite refreshing and a little freeing on lit so I try to be as honest as I can because at the end of the day who fucking cares

So true