How to contact a Dom online

Leda and the Swan?

well I can cook if I put some effort into it.
I give really good blow jobs keeping him on the edge of orgasm for and hour or more.
I squeal like a cute little piglet when I'm spanked or otherwise beaten.
I direct intense and perfectly focused worship at which ever part of him he allows.

but yes, I'm not a sub, you are quite right. I'm just a gal who likes being tied up and fucked in whatever way he pleases. I'm also slowly getting into pain. Luckily my Dom seems to like keeping me as a half tamed slut. Says it keeps it interesting for him :)

Hissss Hissss *Flapping of wings* :devil:
 
ha! i think zrt is the one who has me best sussed! it takes a brave man to take me on ;)

My dear Leda, I'm no mortal man. I am an immortal, evil god and my interest in you is purely short term!
 
careful, as a fellow immortal, you may end up joining my cult and becoming unmanned ;)

but short term is good. I get bored ever so easily.

As much as I want to comment, I no longer wish to hijack this thread... (Sorry rakess)

On the other hand...Boys and girls and subs of all ages; I believe Kybele and I have demonstrated one way to "contact a Dom online". Find a thread they are on and verbally "dance" with them! Bottom line? Just have fun!

Kybele: another time and another place our "dance" shall continue!
 
I don't think the rules here are that diffferent from any other relationship. Sure, the rules are trickier later on but at the start it's just a roll of the dice and hope you find someone with baggage similar to yours.
My best advice? Well, if it's worth listening to, and it may not be, put yourself out there. Take a risk, jump in with both feet. Yes, you will get hurt sometimes but you will also open yourself up to some wonderful possibilities. And of course I'm talking about opening up emotionally. Don't be unsafe or stupid about your choices. Take care of yourself but jump in. heehee, confusing enough?
 
I think just a nice normal everyday PM " Hi...saw your post/avatar etc and thought I'd say hello" works best.

If the chemistry is there between two people it usualy shows quickly IMO.
 
...I believe Kybele and I have demonstrated one way to "contact a Dom online". Find a thread they are on and verbally "dance" with them! Bottom line? Just have fun!...

Sounds like good advice. Any reason it cannot be applied to a Dom looking for a submissive?
 
Sounds like good advice. Any reason it cannot be applied to a Dom looking for a submissive?

I think it def can work both ways, after all it takes two to tango!

I certainly enjoyed my "salsa" with Kybele, I mean my gymnastic dance!
 
I contacted the dom I wanted to contact. He made it really easy for me...he was riding a tri-bike and I'm super into biking and it went from there. I didn't even have to use my super sexy sultry wink...that really makes me look like I have a facial tick...
 
I contacted the dom I wanted to contact. He made it really easy for me...he was riding a tri-bike and I'm super into biking and it went from there. I didn't even have to use my super sexy sultry wink...that really makes me look like I have a facial tick...

hahahaha! I'm sure it doesn't look like a facial tick!

and well done. hope it works out!
 
I once answered a question along these lines in another thread. I wrote something like "If you see a post by a Dom who interests you, have a look at his other posts. If what you read consistently flips your 'sub switch', send him a PM to let him know how you feel and find out if he's currently accepting new subs."

A sub saw my comments and chose to indicate her interest in me by copying and pasting them into a PM, which got her point across and was pretty original, to boot.

I still remember our play.
 
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