how to get a shy guy to be a top/Dom

[FurryFury]

Thanks for the advice, everybody. I've actually gotten him to go to an adult store with me - he seems to be taking a slow interest in the idea of being a top, he just doesn't know what to do with it yet. (also, I have to tell him every ten minutes to stop apologizing; if I don't like what he's doing or it hurts too much, I'll tell him.) But so far so good, it seems. Does any body have any suggestions of good D/s porn? Something with light female bondage, probably no group stuff (yet) - don't want to terrify the poor guy too badly.

Sounds great! I don't watch porn but you might get some good recommendations at http://www.janesguide.com/

My gf's tell me they review movies and more, quite well!

Fury

 

[Samuelx]

I can see where you're coming from. The guy I'm with is very aggressive on the field but a real gentleman in the bedroom. I'd rather he was the other way around. We're both men but he's way too gentle at times. I help him unleash his inner tiger by letting go. All of a sudden, he's very aggressive and humps me like a lion. We're both very happy afterwards. I've usually been the top in my pairings with previous lovers, both male and female. With him, I'm trying something new. Bottoming. I guess it's an acquired taste. Just let your man be in control and the rest should flow naturally.