Humiliation ideas

[Learn Humility]

Discretion is important when you play in public...im an ex-nyer and i know that we get pretty un-nice when we see something that offends us. putting a submissive at risk for getting her ass kicked is not something i think a dominant would wanna do.

I don't exactly look like a wimp, so that deters anyone from fucking with her.

But, just curious....In which activities that I describe above would you consider that I am placing my submissive in danger?

I'd also be interested in knowing if anyone has had the experience of being "hassled" while playing at public humiliation in a vanilla setting.

 

[Kajira Callista]

I don't exactly look like a wimp, so that deters anyone from fucking with her.

But, just curious....In which activities that I describe above would you consider that I am placing my submissive in danger?

I'd also be interested in knowing if anyone has had the experience of being "hassled" while playing at public humiliation in a vanilla setting.

I have, and my Master has...he was asked what the fuck did he think he was doing/proving by his actions, i have been asked what kinda freak i was to allow him to do stuff like that to me.
Another thing is that i will do as im told always, but im not all too comfy with shoving my lifestyle down other peoples throats. just me i guess.
just an add on...Master was 6'4" and about 250ish..not wimpy at all

 

[Netzach]

Another thing is that i will do as im told always, but im not all too comfy with shoving my lifestyle down other peoples throats. just me i guess.

is not!

And tolerance is a funny thing. If anyone's in favor of sex worker's rights, it's me....and with good reason...


and then one day I came home to an intimidating 6 foot TV hooker outside my house at 3 am, and something just seemed...off...

I thought how easy it would be for her to whack the back of my head or pull a gun on me when I was unlocking my door...

so I called the cops on someone hooking, which I never thought I'd do.

Just a thought on tolerance.

 

[Learn Humility]

I have, and my Master has...he was asked what the fuck did he think he was doing/proving by his actions, i have been asked what kinda freak i was to allow him to do stuff like that to me.
Another thing is that i will do as im told always, but im not all too comfy with shoving my lifestyle down other peoples throats. just me i guess.
just an add on...Master was 6'4" and about 250ish..not wimpy at all

6'4" 250ish.....Jeeze...I'd look like a wimp next to him.

I've never had any problems in public. There have been snickers, finger pointing and "look at her" type comments, but those add to the humiliation for us.

I don't consider them problems, hassles, or dangerous situations.

 

[rosco rathbone]

I keep hearing "Learrrrn humility" being said in my head and I finally placed the voice. It isn't James Earl Jones in Conan or Rex Harrison in My Fair Lady ...it is the Judge in the recording of Sweeney Todd , with ANgela Lansbury as Mrs. Whatshername, that I grew up with. THe lustful villanous judge who has Sweeney shipped off to the colonies so that he can rape his wife, and years later, his daughter. Old, quavering, "British", yet still retaining a cantankerous and lustful Victorian, patriarchal authority.

Anyhow, this day I saw a woman in her early 50s, body slender and muscular, with short grey hair and a clingy pink dress, standing stock-still facing a brick wall about 6 inches from her nose. She didn't move for the 10 minutes I was waiting for the bus. Either she was schizophrenic, or there was something very interesting written on those bricks---or a master had ordered her to assume the duncical position in the public eye. I prefer the last interpretation.

 

[Learn Humility]

See, Roscoe. It's like I keep saying: Anything goes in the Big Apple.

I like your interpretation, too. And I bet her Dom was discreetly watching from close by

 

[rosco rathbone]

And I bet her Dom was discreetly watching from close by

Practically goes without saying.

 

[Netzach]

I've recently ordered one of mine, a (never tell him this!!! Shhhh!!!) somewhat better than average 50 something... to go and politely and lightly hit on one of the young, aggressive, punk/indie rock/goth-tinged chicks in her late 20's that makes him melt, specifically to document and tell me about the inevitable rejection that we both know will happen.

It's kind of the opposite of the wall-staring or the open legged crotch high skirt, normal behavior towards an abnormal end. Anyone else do similar?

Sweeney Todd, you too. I was really into that whole deal for some reason as a young teen. Seemed entirely dark, misanthropic and fucked up, more so than any popular music at the time. Must mean something. Have a little priest.

 

[Netzach]

And now that I'm remembering this right the City Opera version I saw left the whole Judge-self-flagellating-to-orgasm scene that got cut on B'way.

 

[rosco rathbone]

(from memory)

"Mea culpa! mea maxima maxima culpa! GOd deliver me! release me! restraiiiiiiiiin me!"

That guy did the best "Victorian lechery" voice ever.

 

[hiddenself]

I've recently ordered one of mine, a (never tell him this!!! Shhhh!!!) somewhat better than average 50 something... to go and politely and lightly hit on one of the young, aggressive, punk/indie rock/goth-tinged chicks in her late 20's that makes him melt, specifically to document and tell me about the inevitable rejection that we both know will happen.

PS But... what if *gasp*, against all odds, it turns out differently? Wouldn't you have a problem in your hands? That's my main hesitation with public humiliation scenes: all the uncontrolled factors. I need to work on it.

 

[AvaAdore]

Not doing anything this week with all those conservative Republicans around, though.

Wouldn't that just make it all the more fun?

 

[patchdog]

Degradation & Humiliation

An area both I and my sub have played in for some now but it’s not for everyone both my sub and I prefer this form of discipline and punishment along with the use of bondage to the physical some of the ideas we have used are as follows
I have a different slant to the collar and leash system, I tie a heavy cord around her waist with a loop tied in the cord so that when the cord is pull back up between her legs and tied off the loop remains between her legs. I then have my sub wear a very short skirt no knickers. To allow her some dignity we drive to park in the suburbs, I attach the leash to the loop between her legs, she must walk behind me with her hands behind her back at all times as I lead her around the park.
As we walk the park I flick the leash occasionally which flicks up the front of her skirt which draws people’s awareness to my sub humiliation.
We have also expanded on this to where if I see someone that looks like they wouldn’t be offend, I will lead her over to them ask them what they think etc flashing her all the while I’m talking to them my sub must stand there hands behind her back as I expose her.
Another area that we are just starting to play in involves degradation and humiliation over the internet, my sub gets really turned on when she is being verbally abused or made to read letters or e-mails chastising and make fun of her etc, how this works I’ve had my sub perform some very humiliating and degrading sexual acts things that she would never do in public. I have written up a diary of these experiences, and although she is terribly ashamed of herself, and humiliated at the very thought of others even reading about what she’s done it both scares and excites her. How it works I share her experiences over the net with another Dom this person after reading all the details would then write back abusing my sub for being so stupid calling her names laughing at her in general humiliating her. If you get the right person it play’s out really well as some people can and are very cutting with there written words, as far as e-mails, letters etc both myself and my sub have no limits to what she is called or the amount of abuse or amusement someone has told her they had from reading about her situation. If you get the right person all three can have a good time as we have experienced and it can lead into other areas, example where the internet Dom has told me what he wants my sub to do for him, I’ve then been able to report back on the results, just recently my sub had to have her pussy shaved, she then had to post her pubic hair to her internet Dom thanking him and trusting that he will find satisfaction and enjoyment in being able to now enjoy her pussy aroma. We are always looking for Dom’s to on line role play, male or female though would like to have correspondences with a Bi female Dom however any Dom interested must be prepared to humiliate and degraded my sub and above all have a real cruel sarcastic sense of humour with which to punish and humiliate her with.

 

[Dirty Anus Tokyo]

I have a lot of fantasies, but the most humilating thing that happened to me, was when a friend insisted to hang out the toilet door. Japanese loos are construcet that you crouch on top of them with the back to the door.

I had to try a lot, and it did not work, whe I could not close the door behind. He studied me always, but I could not see him. When I was successful finally, I needed long tiime, but he did not go away for a second. It was very srange but aslo very hot.

 

[rosco rathbone]

Time for a bump.

 

[stageleft]

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i do recall a saturday morning lie in with my girlfriend..before we got up i shot my load all over her face..she was then anxious to get into town quickly to do some shopping.when we were at a check out queue i noticed a streak of dried spunk along the top side of her face and little dried beads of cum in her hair..i said nothing until we got home!

 

[rosco rathbone]

I'm picturing a shy girl in a tight dress that barely covers the ass; made to stand at the bar , not sit, and sip umbrella drink whilst I watch from the shadows. Ordered to make conversation with what gnomes may come. To discourse with desperadoes.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

I'm picturing a shy girl in a tight dress that barely covers the ass; made to stand at the bar , not sit, and sip umbrella drink whilst I watch from the shadows. Ordered to make conversation with what gnomes may come. To discourse with desperadoes.

Ok, now that the appetizer has come and gone, where's the main course?

 

[rosco rathbone]

Ok, now that the appetizer has come and gone, where's the main course?

That's the main course.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

Damn the diet dude

That's the main course.

You shooting for a six pack before summer ends, or just throttled (pun intended) that wild man buried deep inside?

 

[rosco rathbone]

You shooting for a six pack before summer ends, or just throttled (pun intended) that wild man buried deep inside?

I don't even know which end is up anymore, man.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

I don't even know which end is up anymore, man.

If i'm not mistaken, Richard Pryor starred in that movie. Too early to stack arms my man. Fix bayonets and let's go for a little stroll.

 

[rosco rathbone]

If i'm not mistaken, Richard Pryor starred in that movie. Too early to stack arms my man. Fix bayonets and let's go for a little stroll.

heheh "fix bayonets".....yeaa-a-a-h

 

[AngelicAssassin]

heheh "fix bayonets".....yeaa-a-a-h

*shhhhhicckkk*

Mira, i like the start of your idea, but that feels rather like a gossamer thread on a hot day. Yes, it may tickle your fancy momentarily with possibilities (i.e. the skirt gets brushed), and that may put many in the humiliation zone. Let's skip off to see the Wizard right past Emerald City and go for the WWoW in her tower, sand running short in the hour glass and all.

After fifteen minutes of possibilities, walk forward out of the shadows, lean forward to whisper in her ear, catch her wrist at the mock slap to your face, release it, maitre d' bow her out of the bar, and have her comply to the utter shock of those too chicken or bold enough to have approached her. Sit her down for a good dinner with choice wine, no more than a single glass. Take your time with the meal and let her enjoy it. Walk out of the restaurant arm in arm.

Here's where it gets tricky depending on the locale and a bit of luck. Take a turn for the nearest alleyway. Look for the first bum you can find. Snap your fingers pointing to the ground to get her on her knees. Nod your head when she complies. When she has completed her task(s), escort her back to your car. Upon arrival, however, inform her of her less than acceptable state to be seen in public with you. Open the trunk, put her inside, and drive her home.

Now, did you still want that nouvelle, or would you rather sup haute cuisine?

 

[TaintedB]

One of my favorite humilation fantasies (and it has remained a fantasy because I never had a partner who wanted to do this) is to be forced to go humbly beg the pardon of a man or some men that I had scornfully snubbed when they approached me sexually. I would then have to make ammends by offering them a night of whatever sort of sex turned them on the most. This idea only works for me if someone else is forcing me to do all of this against my will and with men who really turn me off. Eating cock-shaped crow is hot!