Humiliation ideas

[BrotherInLaw]

i am a humiliation slut

personally, there is nothing more exciting and erotic than humiliation. i CRAVE humiliation, even to the point where i will do *almost* anything to get it. i have even been so hungry for it that i have self-inflicted humiliation on myself... a few examples (remember, i am a Female-worshipping male sub):

1) went to victoria's secret and asked the prettiest saleslady to help fit me for a bra and help me pick out panties for myself.

2) jerked off with my cock over my mouth (legs in the air) til i squirted all over my face and then went out in public.

3) wear panties under my shorts around my female friends and make a point to bend over so that the back opens a bit and they can see.

4) stolen panties from girls i know in hopes that they would realize they were missing and that i probably took them.

5) covinced female friends to play truth or dare and then manipulate them into asking me very humiliating questions... (i would ask them humiliating questions, which of course they would deny, but when its my turn, they ask me questions like that and i answer them honestly... for example, i'd say to a girl, "have you ever eaten pussy?" of course <even though she probably has> she giggles and says "no" in front of everyone, but then on my turn she asks me, "have you ever sucked cock?" and i look down and wont answer, which of course implies yes... all the girls laugh and say i am a sissy)

6) served my girlfriend's families... for example, at their house, i'd ask their sister or mother if i can do some chores for them like clean their car or something.

7) jerked off in the car hoping that someone would see me.

8) called some Female friends of mine (with my caller ID block on) and jerked off until they hung up on me - and i would moan softly, hoping that they would recognize my voice.

9) sending myself an 'anonymous' birthday gift and leaving it on my counter... then when a Female friend comes over on my birthday, i tell her that this package came in the mail... i open it up and it says "for a sissyboy, love an anonymous person who knows about your fetish" - its a pink bra and panty set. i just melt when my Female friend looks at me and laughs.

10) simultaneously buying a cucumber and vaseline (and only those 2 items) from a store.

11) saying that i lost a bet or have to do something to be initiated into a frat or something - and asking a random girl at the porno store (even if she is with her boyfriend) to take a picture of me while i pull the side of my panties up out of my shorts and hold a dildo near my mouth.

12) cumming on my shirt and going out in public.

13) cumming into a popsicle mold and freezing it immediately until it is full (in about a month) and then putting it in a cooler with ice and bringing it somewhere in public like the beach and then sucking and slurping and swallowing it in front of everyone (of course everyone thinks its like a coconut flavored pop, but i know better).

14) going in public with a butt plug in place.

15) going to the adult video store and asking the female sales clerk where the section is for sissies and FemDom videos.

16) asking a female drug store clerk if they have extra small condoms (even though i am actually very well hung).

17) inquiring at body hair waxing salons how much it would cost to have my ass, genitals, legs, and underarms waxed.

18) asking lingerie boutiques if its ok for me to try on items in the dressing room.

19) going to the park while wearing baggy shorts and making sure that the leg is placed open so that people walking by can see up them and see my panties or shaved cock and balls.

20) writing degrading names on my chest (like SISSYBOY, SLAVE, BOYSLUT, etc...) in black marker and going to a college campus and telling Females that i lost a dare and have to have them take a picture of me while lifting my shirt. i give them my digital camera and SNAP.

21) wearing a french maid's outfit when a Female friend comes over... when she arrives, she is shocked and asks what the hell is going on... i tell her that i lost a bet with another friend and i have to wear this outfit all day while im in the house.

anyway, i actually still have more ideas... i am curious what others think about these ideas... also, maybe i just gave some Doms/Dommes ideas

look forward to hearing Y/your thoughts.



sissy

 

[timberwolf05]

???????

Don't know if this is BDSM but I was trying to think of the most humiliating/embarrassing scenarios. Any ideas are welcome: public/private, gay/straight, real/imagined, whatever.

evidently, "I" must not have the right mindset. there is little in life that will actually embarrass me. piss me off maybe. but not embarrass me.

what actually IS this humiliation stuff?

i have always wanted to know.

thanks
the wolf.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

evidently, "I" must not have the right mindset. there is little in life that will actually embarrass me. piss me off maybe. but not embarrass me.

what actually IS this humiliation stuff?

i have always wanted to know.

thanks
the wolf.

Get a clue.

Imagine being tied like this to be found by an innocent and try to tell me you wouldn't feel the least humiliated.

 

[RJMasters]

Get a clue.

Imagine being tied like this to be found by an innocent and try to tell me you wouldn't feel the least humiliated.

...and he disappears quietly into the foilage from whence he came leaving not a trace or sound.

 

[FurryFury]

<snip>

anyway, i actually still have more ideas... i am curious what others think about these ideas... also, maybe i just gave some Doms/Dommes ideas

look forward to hearing Y/your thoughts.

sissy

Interesting list. You clearly need a LOT of attention. More than you are getting with whomever you actually "play" with.

It sounds like you really like to take your fetish and put it out in public waving it under other people's faces who may not share your interest or find it the least bit okay. Frankly, that bothers me.

While I'm totally cool with consenting adult situations, I am not that cool with pushing your fetish into other peoples faces.

I hope you reach a level of attention and control under another that will keep you more content soon so you don't feel you need such displays in front of the general public.

Fury

evidently, "I" must not have the right mindset. there is little in life that will actually embarrass me. piss me off maybe. but not embarrass me.

what actually IS this humiliation stuff?

i have always wanted to know.

thanks
the wolf.

I have argued with some that if you seek humiliation and welcome it, how can it truly be humiliating. Is anything inherently humiliating if you want and agree to it, then enjoy it and your partner is willing?

But anyone, I believe, can be embarrassed by the smallest and most unexpected things in our everyday lives.

Fury

Get a clue.

Imagine being tied like this to be found by an innocent and try to tell me you wouldn't feel the least humiliated.

You have a good point there.

Fury

 

[AngelicAssassin]

Before the SSC clamor begins, i don't condone non-adult play.

I have argued with some that if you seek humiliation and welcome it, how can it truly be humiliating.

Think moth to the fire. Regardless, you still get burned.

Is anything inherently humiliating if you want and agree to it, then enjoy it and your partner is willing?

Humiliation relies on attacking internal precepts. As the cub mentioned above, most things probably wouldn't affect him. Tied up helpless and naked before a child that comprehends your position, but not the reasoning would bother most. Now twist it.

Make that child your progeny.

Think on the underlying principles. The child has seen the adult as a protector, and nuturer. The adult knows this. Now the adult and child finds the adult in a position of vulnerability. It's not the child with the problem. They usually have no context to understand the adult in such a position, and to them it simply seems odd. For the adult however ...

 

[FurryFury]

Think moth to the fire. Regardless, you still get burned.Humiliation relies on attacking internal precepts. As the cub mentioned above, most things probably wouldn't affect him. Tied up helpless and naked before a child that comprehends your position, but not the reasoning would bother most. Now twist it.

Make that child your progeny.

Think on the underlying principles. The child has seen the adult as a protector, and nuturer. The adult knows this. Now the adult and child finds the adult in a position of vulnerability. It's not the child with the problem. They usually have no context to understand the adult in such a position, and to them it simply seems odd. For the adult however ...

Like I said, you have a good point.

*nods muchly*

Thanks for the schooling.

Fury

 

[Jay Davis]

Without meaning to be a killjoy, I hope we're all holding in the back of our minds that displaying yourself or someone else naked and bound before a child is completely inappropriate. Not only did the child not give consent, he can't give consent; such an experience like the one in the jpeg is likely to have significant long-term effects on him even if the bound woman is a stranger. If it's his own mother...whoa...

But I'm sure we're all keeping our fantasies and our realities well-separated, right?

Actually, inflicting one's kink on non-consenters is a pretty big issue with humiliation fetishes--one that can easily land the kinkster in jail. Some are harmless--buying the cuke and the vaseline, for example, or leaving the house with a butt-plug in place--but others--the naughty phone calls to unwilling women or masturbating in public--are sex crimes, and can get you in a LOT of trouble.

 

[FurryFury]

*HUGS*

You are so smart!

Fury

 

[shy slave]

Actually, inflicting one's kink on non-consenters is a pretty big issue with humiliation fetishes--one that can easily land the kinkster in jail. Some are harmless--buying the cuke and the vaseline, for example, or leaving the house with a butt-plug in place--but others--the naughty phone calls to unwilling women or masturbating in public--are sex crimes, and can get you in a LOT of trouble.

Luckily Denmark is open-minded or a trip to the airport where i was a bit 'smart-mouthed' could have got both of us into trouble

 

[graceanne]

Luckily Denmark is open-minded or a trip to the airport where i was a bit 'smart-mouthed' could have got both of us into trouble

You? Smart mouthed? Why don't I have trouble believing that?

Good thing I'm never smart mouthed.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

But I'm sure we're all keeping our fantasies and our realities well-separated, right?

i'll repeat it here since it might have been missed in the title of my original post.

Before the SSC clamor begins, i don't condone non-adult play.

i directed my original reply to timberwolf's "i don't get humiliated" absolute.

BOT,

Everyone has a chink in their armor. It just takes time to find it.

 

[stirbird]

Everyone has a chink in their armor. It just takes time to find it.

That's correct. Since humiliation is often a sensitive issue with people and linked with sore and tender memories, if you think nothing embarasses you, it often simply means you are blocking what does it from your consciousness.

The same is true for fears, and those who claim fearlessness. Although fears, from what I've observed, are easier to bring to the surface than embarassment.

 

[marieR19]

That's correct. Since humiliation is often a sensitive issue with people and linked with sore and tender memories, if you think nothing embarasses you, it often simply means you are blocking what does it from your consciousness.

The same is true for fears, and those who claim fearlessness. Although fears, from what I've observed, are easier to bring to the surface than embarassment.

Very true. (Haven't been here in a few days, just now seeing this thread....) And another thing that I'm not sure if anyone else has mentioned, because I can't be bothered to read all (seven?) pages... At least for me, the humiliation level is different depending on who is watching or ordering me to do that certain thing. Depending on the situation. For example, I have stripped for my girlfriend before, when I was in a really sexy mood, with no prompting. But when she tells me to get naked, it gets embarrassing and I get all shy.


Heather

 

[Snoozebutton2]

Bump for a deliciously evil thread. My My allll the ideas.

 

[BongoGal]

A few years ago, an ex-bf of mine had me walk around a mall while wearing a very revealing t-shirt (pretty much see-through). I was able to do it because we were on a trip out of state where no one knew us. It took a lot of strength to keep from folding my arms across my chest. When I would see that someone was staring at me, I did feel a degree of humiliation, but it was also terribly erotic.

 

[IsabellaKing]

That's great, Bongogal - I know that feeling but I think I may be slightly more of an exihibitionist than you, in that showing my tits just wouldn't be enough for me anymore - not to mention the fact that my husband would expect more of me than that - like wearing a dress that has ridden up to expose the cane marks on my ass or making me walk bare footed.

He doesn't think in terms of humiliation - more that he is pushing my boudaries so that I learn more about myself and what I'm prepared to do for him...he makes me feel like such a slut sometimes

 

[BongoGal]

That's great, Bongogal - I know that feeling but I think I may be slightly more of an exihibitionist than you, in that showing my tits just wouldn't be enough for me anymore - not to mention the fact that my husband would expect more of me than that - like wearing a dress that has ridden up to expose the cane marks on my ass or making me walk bare footed.

For what it's worth, I was also in a short skirt without any undies. The bf also would occasionally whisper filthy suggestions in my ear and secretly stroke me under the skirt just to keep me in a state of full-blown arousal. I nearly jumped him when we got back to the hotel.

 

[RawHumor]

For what it's worth, I was also in a short skirt without any undies. The bf also would occasionally whisper filthy suggestions in my ear and secretly stroke me under the skirt just to keep me in a state of full-blown arousal. I nearly jumped him when we got back to the hotel.

Hmmmm... sounds somewhat like a scene I wrote about in my Sandy's Demise story.

 

[Snoozebutton2]

A few years ago, an ex-bf of mine had me walk around a mall while wearing a very revealing t-shirt (pretty much see-through). I was able to do it because we were on a trip out of state where no one knew us. It took a lot of strength to keep from folding my arms across my chest. When I would see that someone was staring at me, I did feel a degree of humiliation, but it was also terribly erotic.

That's great, Bongogal - I know that feeling but I think I may be slightly more of an exihibitionist than you, in that showing my tits just wouldn't be enough for me anymore - not to mention the fact that my husband would expect more of me than that - like wearing a dress that has ridden up to expose the cane marks on my ass or making me walk bare footed.

He doesn't think in terms of humiliation - more that he is pushing my boudaries so that I learn more about myself and what I'm prepared to do for him...he makes me feel like such a slut sometimes

For what it's worth, I was also in a short skirt without any undies. The bf also would occasionally whisper filthy suggestions in my ear and secretly stroke me under the skirt just to keep me in a state of full-blown arousal. I nearly jumped him when we got back to the hotel.

Hmmmm... sounds somewhat like a scene I wrote about in my Sandy's Demise story.

All I have to say is whether in r/l or print. I love how everyone thinks.

 

[sexycaz22]

Thank you, thank you for the bump!

My soon-to-be sub have mentioned that he is into humiliation, and although I am taking it slow and going private for the first few times, this thread certainly have given me some ideas! Of course, not all will suit me and him, but certainly plants suggestions in my mind! Poor him! *laughs*

 

[Snoozebutton2]

Thank you, thank you for the bump!

My soon-to-be sub have mentioned that he is into humiliation, and although I am taking it slow and going private for the first few times, this thread certainly have given me some ideas! Of course, not all will suit me and him, but certainly plants suggestions in my mind! Poor him! *laughs*

I'm sure he will be crying all the way to orgasm. lol

 

[sexycaz22]

I'm sure he will be crying all the way to orgasm. lol

I certainly hope so!

 

[Snoozebutton2]

Bump for a cache of wonderfully wicked ideas.