husband likes porn...so i want to make some with another man and leave it around...

[amywhitsend]

lolz. I've pretty much made up my mind about this. Tried to approach him last night about it but he was busy scanning a porno site on our bedroom pc. He no longer even cares if I'm in the room.

Okay, here goes. He's got a fetish, well so do i. I love hard cock deep in my pussy, slamming me and making me scream. That's MY fetish.

I'm going to go for it, whether I decide to leave pics for him to find or not...

 

[amywhitsend]

I did that (wasted years) from twenty-three to thirty and then left the bastard.

I'm sorry to hear that. As women we have to realize our value and enjoy our youth. To let a man waste it is a sin...

 

[AdamH12]

lolz. I've pretty much made up my mind about this. Tried to approach him last night about it but he was busy scanning a porno site on our bedroom pc. He no longer even cares if I'm in the room.

Okay, here goes. He's got a fetish, well so do i. I love hard cock deep in my pussy, slamming me and making me scream. That's MY fetish.

I'm going to go for it, whether I decide to leave pics for him to find or not...

Wow your pictures are amazing amy, where are you from? Would love to chat with you

 

[LindsayRae]

I'm sorry to hear that. As women we have to realize our value and enjoy our youth. To let a man waste it is a sin...

I've certainly made up for lost time, now. Been dating, and am engaged to, a new and wonderful man.

My ex husband was a porn, poker, and video game addict and had the mind of a "little boy" in his late twenties through early thirties. (And probably still does.)

 

[geronimo_appleby]

i sense BS.

 

[AdamH12]

I've certainly made up for lost time, now. Been dating, and am engaged to, a new and wonderful man.

My ex husband was a porn, poker, and video game addict and had the mind of a "little boy" in his late twenties through early thirties. (And probably still does.)

Good to hear you found the right person for you in the end Lindsay

 

[LindsayRae]

Good to hear you found the right person for you in the end Lindsay

Thank you.

 

[30bandits]

i sense BS.

let's hope not. wherever this lady is, she is incredible.

 

[LindsayRae]

Thanks to a buddy of mine who showed me a web site that can cross-reference like millions of porno web sites out there (tineye.com), I discovered that amywhitsend's "fishnets" pic came from:
theasiangoddess.net! Info here.
And "her" ass pic? Well, there were 10 web site hits on it!! (With various sites like amateurvoyage.com, perutops.com, and deviantclip.com) Info here.

Thank you, Tek, for the new info!!!! I think I'll like tineye!

 

[amywhitsend]

The photos are all me...these are ones my hubby had posted on his own site, I grabbed a few. Sorry Lins, if jealousy is your thing hone it on others please.

 

[amywhitsend]

Anywho, couldnt it also be said that since the pics were posted from my hubby that others could have grabbed them somehow? I don't even know how they do that.

In any case, i'm looking to take some new, in-the-flesh stills and vids with the right participant

 

[LindsayRae]

The photos are all me...these are ones my hubby had posted on his own site, I grabbed a few. Sorry Lins, if jealousy is your thing hone it on others please.

Oh, I am far from jealous. And generally try to believe others, even though this is the net. I don't go around "assuming that everyone is lying". But, like most at Lit, I sure don't like liars.

So, what's your honey's web site he owns?

 

[amywhitsend]

Seriously? The person I'm attempting to fuck behind his back? You're the detective, I'm sure you can figure it out if you try hard enough.

Lindsay, I'm a decent person with some serious needs right now. I had assumed this site was about support in one's sexuality, not acting like highschoolers.

Do you have a penis that we don't know about? If not, I assure you your advice/commentary is not needed.

 

[bigReadingMan]

Very hot and sexy pic. Would love to see the vid too. x

 

[HornyVikingMN]

July heat?

My, but things can get testy in a hurry around here. Maybe we're irritable from the July heat and humidity?

The OP didn't ask for marriage advice - this is the wrong thread for that. I'll give her the benefit of the doubt that her name says it all and that she's willing to risk inflaming the situation in an attempt to wake her hubby up from his porn induced fog. None of us knows all the circumstances, and while I agree that making a video of herself with another guy is more likely to backfire than produce the result she wants, it's really none of our business.

Many of us are also sick and tired of the fakers that have migrated to Lit as of late. For me, it works best to adopt the 'innocent until proven guilty' standard. I'd rather be duped from time to time than assume each poster with less than 100 posts is out to trick me.

Finally - the OP may just be using Lit to do a little venting of her frustrations. If I really intended to do everything I said I wanted to do I'd probably be homeless, broke, or locked up for any number of heinous crimes. Just because she said it doesn't mean she's going to do it.

Okay... I'm off to find lunch and air conditioning now....

 

[amywhitsend]

Since the previous pics seemed to have sparked some controversy, I shall post different ones. Yes, same t&a, same me *ho hum*

Do I intend to actually sleep around on my hubs, I'm leaning towards yes. In the meantime, I'll enjoy the availabilities this site has to offer.

 

[Nasty_Deeds]

Thanks to a buddy of mine who showed me a web site that can cross-reference like millions of porno web sites out there (tineye.com), I discovered that amywhitsend's "fishnets" pic came from:
theasiangoddess.net! Info here.
And "her" ass pic? Well, there were 10 web site hits on it!! (With various sites like amateurvoyage.com, perutops.com, and deviantclip.com) Info here.

Thank you, Tek, for the new info!!!! I think I'll like tineye!

Why do you always have to be a fucking wet blanket?

 

[littlekumu]

i get cauight surfing porn too. In fact she even asked what I was doing with her panties the night before last. Any guesses?

 

[Very_Bad_Man]

Why do you always have to be a fucking wet blanket?

Bedwetter

 

[shadowheaven]

You really think

Cheating on your hb is really going to get through to him? Think again. You need to really have a sit down talk and work this out. I have been there done that and got the t-shirt.

A few yrs back hb came to me and told me he had a porn addiction. We fought for 10yrs of our marriage over porn. Cause I was 2nd to it. I told him that one night. Its me or the porn. He told me the porn. I packed up and would have left but no where to go. We talked. I found 2 safe sites I felt comfortable he could go to. Everything else went down lock and key. We had thrown out hard drives deleted folder after folder and any stash he had. We talked of our emotional needs etc and here we are 5 yrs later. And he has to ask permission to look at porn. I can tell if he has and know where hes gone as well on the net.

He is so open with me about what he fantasies bout and what he wants. As I am to him. I have found out he likes it when I am dominate over him and the house as well as I am his cuckoldress.

Before jumping the gun talk it out first. If its just the sex thats bad at home is cheating worth destoring the marriage?????

 

[silver_eyes]

i sense BS.

Yeah, I'm getting the whiff of a cow pasture.
I sense that the OP is just looking for justification for screwing around from the Lit community.
If your going to do it, then do it! Don't look for other people's support in your undertaking!
I will tell you this. If this is your way of breaking up with the hubby, bad idea. I used to work as a PI years ago and this is the kind of crap that makes lawyers rich at your expense.

 

[LindsayRae]

Yeah, I'm getting the whiff of a cow pasture.
I sense that the OP is just looking for justification for screwing around from the Lit community.
If your going to do it, then do it! Don't look for other people's support in your undertaking!
I will tell you this. If this is your way of breaking up with the hubby, bad idea. I used to work as a PI years ago and this is the kind of crap that makes lawyers rich at your expense.

Wonderful post!

 

[amywhitsend]

I appreciate your intelligent post.
Yes, we've had that talk. Over and over. I've laid it out for him. I play second fiddle to no one. I'm here, I'm sexy and ready and willing. I have a great job and make good money, I keep the house, keep us social and cater to his needs both standard and sexual.
The marriage is dead. I really don't believe there is any resurrecting this. If he would truly rather rub one out to random images while I become more and more frustrated then it's time to move on.
Am I pissed about it? Yes. Am I bitter? Absofuckinlutely! That's why it's never going to be enough for me to just divorce and walk away.
If he's into porn, I'll give him porn.

As far as the divorce I see in our future, we're both pretty equal financially and I'm sure he wouldn't want his social circle knowing about his specific little perversions so I don't forsee an issue there.
I'm educated, self-sufficient and plan to have a blast on my own. He's had me since I left my mother. He can move in with his now for all I care

 

[amywhitsend]

I really posted this as an opportunity to gain some insight. As we can see, like assholes, everyone has their own opinion. I have no desire to participate in stab-you games with females who never matured past middle school. *cough* Lindsay.
How sad an existence it must be to live your days hunting down and berating other women.
Take a Midol, chick. They're pretty cheap.

To everyone else, I'll respond via pm. If I've talked to you, you know who you are. I'm ready to get this show on the road.

 

[Nasty_Deeds]

I appreciate your intelligent post.
Yes, we've had that talk. Over and over. I've laid it out for him. I play second fiddle to no one. I'm here, I'm sexy and ready and willing. I have a great job and make good money, I keep the house, keep us social and cater to his needs both standard and sexual.
The marriage is dead. I really don't believe there is any resurrecting this. If he would truly rather rub one out to random images while I become more and more frustrated then it's time to move on.
Am I pissed about it? Yes. Am I bitter? Absofuckinlutely! That's why it's never going to be enough for me to just divorce and walk away.
If he's into porn, I'll give him porn.

As far as the divorce I see in our future, we're both pretty equal financially and I'm sure he wouldn't want his social circle knowing about his specific little perversions so I don't forsee an issue there.
I'm educated, self-sufficient and plan to have a blast on my own. He's had me since I left my mother. He can move in with his now for all I care

If you want satisfaction, why don't you cuckold him? Teach him to sit there like a wimp and watch you take a real man's cock. There are a lot of guys who think they can't stand being cuckold at first, but learn to love it in the end. For a man addicted to porn, it is like the ultimate porn, and for the wife, you get to have all the cock you want. After he gets used to it, it's a win/win situation for both man and wife.