husband likes porn...so i want to make some with another man and leave it around...

[LindsayRae]

Take a Midol, chick. They're pretty cheap.

You don't play "stab you" games? Then what was the midol crack? If you are really who you say you are, then I will apologize to you. The first pic I mentioned with the fishnets said it came from an Asian girl web site. The other pic I mentioned had 10 hits for web sites. Perhaps others stole your pics? It's possible. The Asian site, however, shows their water mark and URL over the pic originally. So, I asked you what porn site your husband owned since you said you pulled your pic off his own site. Yet, you cannot answer that, can you?

Time will tell if you are a real woman and the person in those pics, or not. Frankly, I do not give a shit. As I've said before, (most) people of Lit don't like liars and BSers. Hell, Am Pics "lounge" board has a thread dedicated to such a thing and those posters over there will disect some threads and report stolen pics to the mods.

FYI, if you turn this thread into a pic thread you may really wish to post over there since Lit does have specific threads for specific reasons.

 

[what_a_racquet]

A question...
Your Lit name, amywhitsend...
Do you mean "wit's end", as in "at the end of your rope"?
Or do you actually mean "whit's end", as in the name of a christian focused, children's online story-telling site?
http://www.whitsend.org/abouttheshow

Either way...

 

[amywhitsend]

"Whit" is a family name. It's a personal play on words. But thanks for questioning, now you can focus on the folks who don't know the difference between your and you're.

Lindsay, I'm quite done with this. Apology accepted. Women should stick together, not gang up on each other. About the pics, I don't know. The ones I posted were ones that my hubby also had on his site of me. Some of them may have been shared or grabbed. I don't know, it's not my thing. If you really care to police my pics feel free to set up a photo shoot. I'm game!

I "can't" give the name of his site? No honey, I very well could. I'm confident that I'm intelligent enough to post a link. I "won't" because I don't need obsessive people jumping the gun and alerting him of what I am very obviously trying to keep under wraps until it's a done deal.

Is this a pic thread? I didn't realize posting 4 pics constituted a pic thread.

Now please, channel that negative energy and cram it. Acting ugly is almost as bad as being ugly.

 

[Nasty_Deeds]

Is this a pic thread? I didn't realize posting 4 pics constituted a pic thread.

Actually, there is a separate forum for posting pictures, but no one seems to follow the rules that closely anyway.

http://forum.literotica.com/forumdisplay.php?f=8

 

[Very_Bad_Man]

The OP is just fantasizing people so just chillax.

I offered my sexual services and she never returned my PM. She obviously is not serious or she would of replied because I am a total studmuffin and stuff.

 

[Nasty_Deeds]

The OP is just fantasizing people so just chillax.

But fantasy is so much fun. It's like role-play, but you can get everyone involved.

 

[Denny Crane]

I call bullshit on the pics, too. I love when the person has been busted, and still continue to try to convince everyone it's them. The results don't lie.


So... just put up a pic, showing most of your body, holding a sign that says "Amy loves Literotica." If you refuse, we'll know it's not you, and if you fail to do so, we'll also know it's not you. Simple enough.

 

[silver_eyes]

"The marriage is dead. I really don't believe there is any resurrecting this. If he would truly rather rub one out to random images while I become more and more frustrated then it's time to move on.
Am I pissed about it? Yes. Am I bitter? Absofuckinlutely! That's why it's never going to be enough for me to just divorce and walk away.
If he's into porn, I'll give him porn.
As far as the divorce I see in our future, we're both pretty equal financially and I'm sure he wouldn't want his social circle knowing about his specific little perversions so I don't forsee an issue there." - Amywhitsend

AAAhhhh, and finally the real issue. You hate his guts, and you think this is the way you get back at him.
Fat chance sister!
It's your unsubstantiated accusations against his porn surfing against visual evidence of your fucking around..
His lawyers will have a field day!
Say goodbye to the house,
Say goodbye to the car,
Say goodbye to the bank account (the lawyer gets that!)
And his lawyers don't even have to dig!
If you have children, and it's a female judge, say goodbye to them too.
You think you have him over a barrel? No sister, he has you by the short and curlies.
If you want a divorce, do it. But if you try this, you better like anal sex, cause you're gonna get fucked in the ass royally!

 

[Nasty_Deeds]

The OP is just fantasizing people so just chillax.

I offered my sexual services and she never returned my PM. She obviously is not serious or she would of replied because I am a total studmuffin and stuff.

I think her marriage isn't as strained as she might want you to believe. It you do make a video with her, (or even for her), don't sign anything, like a release letting her use the video for whatever purpose she chooses. I'm beginning to smell a rat here, like maybe she is looking for a "free" actor for hubby's porn business.

 

[Wyldfire]

If the OP is real I know the true reason he's so into porn. The still pics don't talk. Guys might fawn all over her until she opens those legs, but that ego of hers is definately the anti-viagra.

And yeah it takes a bitch to know a bitch.

 

[amywhitsend]

The wolf pack

Interesting people on here...assholes.

Seriously I thought a forum based on sharing sexualities and enjoying life would be a bit more open-minded than this.


As far as divorces go, no kids, separate banks and i own the Goddamn house.

Now go choke on your own self-pity. The world needs your oxygen.

 

[gk6h]

Interesting people on here...assholes.

Seriously I thought a forum based on sharing sexualities and enjoying life would be a bit more open-minded than this.


As far as divorces go, no kids, separate banks and i own the Goddamn house.

Now go choke on your own self-pity. The world needs your oxygen.

Great point

 

[Nasty_Deeds]

Interesting people on here...assholes.

Seriously I thought a forum based on sharing sexualities and enjoying life would be a bit more open-minded than this.


As far as divorces go, no kids, separate banks and i own the Goddamn house.

Now go choke on your own self-pity. The world needs your oxygen.

LOL, This gets better by the minute. As far as divorces go, everyone over the age of 6 knows that regardless of who owns the house, or whose names the bank accounts are in, divorce court calls it community property.

We are very open-minded on this forum, but we didn't ride the turnip truck into town either.

 

[LindsayRae]

If the OP is real I know the true reason he's so into porn. The still pics don't talk. Guys might fawn all over her until she opens those legs, but that ego of hers is definately the anti-viagra.

And yeah it takes a bitch to know a bitch.

lol

 

[shadowheaven]

Can you feel the love in here??!!??

Man do a favor just end your marriage so you can fuck ok. Cheating is not the answer. Or take the advice and see if he is into the cuckold/cuckoldress thing. Like hubby and I...geesh but cheating is not the answer plain and simple..just a fantasy is great when in a marriage.. the fantasy of cheating...mmmm

 

[Wyldfire]

It's not about her getting to fuck anymore Shady. She's after spite and malice at this point. It's all about her and her ego, and how if she acts out like she wants to the courts will eat her alive in the community property front. Nothing says fuck me like the bitch I am like having photographic evidence in the courtroom. And none of his friends will say shit about it except "good job".

 

[Very_Bad_Man]

LOL, This gets better by the minute. As far as divorces go, everyone over the age of 6 knows that regardless of who owns the house, or whose names the bank accounts are in, divorce court calls it community property.

We are very open-minded on this forum, but we didn't ride the turnip truck into town either.

Not necessarily. They have separate accounts and depending how long married and if she owned the house prior to marriage. Prenups etc etc. Depending on the state and depends on circumstance. Many states do not even consider things like infidelity. Nothing is written in stone regarding divorce. Some states that are no faults could care less why you are getting divorced.

 

[Very_Bad_Man]

This thread is getting out of hand. I doubt many of us really have the high ground to discuss morality issues. Many need to unclench their sphincters and chill.

For the sake of argument let us say she is a fraud. Who the fuck cares? I bet a months paycheck 50% or better on this website are full of shit. Most here on Lit are living in a fantasy within their minds and most likely do not take part in what they write. Again, so what? I suggest everybody sit back read everything with a grain a salt and rub one out and stop the insanity.

Her thread is not any different then any other thread in the Fetish Forum. Mostly it is peoples fantasies. But as I have seen and been on the receiving end myself certain assholes are constantly starting shit and sniping at others heels. Then the mob mentality hits.

Maybe she is real, maybe she is not. What I do see is a lot of people making assumptions and drawing concussions with very little facts.

 

[silver_eyes]

Bs

This thread is getting out of hand. I doubt many of us really have the high ground to discuss morality issues. Many need to unclench their sphincters and chill.

For the sake of argument let us say she is a fraud. Who the fuck cares? I bet a months paycheck 50% or better on this website are full of shit. Most here on Lit are living in a fantasy within their minds and most likely do not take part in what they write. Again, so what? I suggest everybody sit back read everything with a grain a salt and rub one out and stop the insanity.

Her thread is not any different then any other thread in the Fetish Forum. Mostly it is peoples fantasies. But as I have seen and been on the receiving end myself certain assholes are constantly starting shit and sniping at others heels. Then the mob mentality hits.

Maybe she is real, maybe she is not. What I do see is a lot of people making assumptions and drawing concussions with very little facts.

Good point.
Like I said in a previous post I used to do PI work. If your wondering, I quit because I was getting paid to ruin people's lives. Not good. I was hired by a friend because I could move around with ease among both billionaires and biker outlaws. Very useful in that biz.
Anywho.....
I took a minute to do a little research. And I really mean a minute!
At least some of her pics are real.
A few observations:
1. As far as divorce court goes, we're assuming that she's in the US or UK, that's not necessarily true.
2. We're assuming that she either wants to do this for her satisfaction, or for revenge, again, that's not necessarily true.
3. I'll put to you a third option, she's yanking our chains for a social experiment. FetLife has that happen a ton, as evidenced by their disclaimers.

I don't mind people living out their fantasies here, hell, I hope I can help you with some of them!
But please, don't ask for "advice" you don't want or need. It takes time from people I really can help.

 

[amywhitsend]

Good point.
I don't mind people living out their fantasies here, hell, I hope I can help you with some of them!
But please, don't ask for "advice" you don't want or need. It takes time from people I really can help.

Correct me if I'm wrong, but did anyone solicit this advice? I surely don't recall doing so.

Wow. The majority of the people on this site are downright scary. To be honest I never really spent that much time online, opting instead for flesh and blood in the real world. This thread and the responses within are actually pretty damn disturbing.

Yes, I'm having marital issues. He has admitted to having issues with porn prior to our relationship, so as much as you'd love to "blame the bitch" I'm not the issue. Some folks have alcohol, drug, even sex addictions. I'm confident his is a porn addiction.

Yes, I've consulted an attorney. I know for a fact there is nothing that could be fought over in court. A television, and some furniture? Everything else is separate. I hold my own, so does he. We each own our own cars, accounts, etc. The home was mine prior to the marriage and he would only be entitled to compensation for any improvements he contributed which added to the value of my asset. He didn't. As New York is a no-fault state, either of our actions would be taken into account if there should be a custody, marital asset or maintenance dispute. Like I said, if me feeling like I'm taking the bull by the balls and finally asserting myself and my sexuality means I could lose some electronics and furniture, so be it. I love decorating.

For all the nay-sayers, what does it say about you that you question if I am "legit"? WTF? Are there honestly that many fucked-up people on this site that everyone must second-guess everyone else? Yet further proof of why I have always preferred people in the flesh.
This has been a ride for the past day or two and easily accessible on my phone while I'm bored but I honestly can't see myself constantly defending or seeking to belittle other people online.

As I have stated before, and just because I'm strong-willed and have an extremely low tolerance for stupidity, jealousy, weakness and ignorance, I extend an invitation to any of you net dorks who need to "prove" that I'm real. Drive your ass out to NYC and let's grab a coffee. C'mon, it'll do you some good to get away from the computer. I'll even treat.

 

[Nasty_Deeds]

Is this pretty close Amy?

This is getting good; too good to pass up.

In my, (sometimes not so humble), opinion, I think Amy is exactly who she says she is. I think she is 24 years old, lives in New York City, owns her own home and car, and probably has a substantial income; however, not everything is as it seems. My question is not “is she who she says she is”, my question is her motives? I have learned in life, if you want to know a person's real motives, “Follow the money”.

Now let’s take a look at what she has told us about herself. She is 24, and owns her own home and car. If she graduated high school at 18, went to college and got her Bachelor’s, she would have been at least 22, and if she went for a Master’s, she would be at least 24 when she went to work. Which means, she would not have had enough time accumulate enough money by working in mainstream business to buy a house and car, particularly since she lives in New York City, one of the highest housing markets in the country.

So, if she didn’t make her money in mainstream business, (even Wall Street doesn’t pay that well now), where did she get it? It is possible that she comes from a rich family and daddy bought her house and car, but if that were the case, it would be normal for a young woman, (of 24), to go to her family for support, and not here. So, where does she get her money from?

I am going to take a not-so-wild guess and say it is likely that Amy and her husband are in the Porn Business. The Porn Business and Sex Trade are one of the few businesses, (particularly in this economy), that a person can make that much money that quick.

There are a couple of things that lead me to believe that Amy and her husband are in the Porn Business. One, she made this statement: “I'm looking to take some new, in-the-flesh stills and vids with the right participant”. She used the word “stills” instead of “pic”. Pic is the internet slang for picture; however, “still” is a word that a person in the picture taking or selling business would use.

Also, Amy is a very hard, defensive woman, even for a New Yorker. If you offend her, she will get right in your face. I have met women in their 50s who are not as hard as Amy; however, I have met women in the sex trades who are just as hard and defensive toward anyone outside of their circle of friend. And by “sex trades”, I don’t necessarily mean prostitution, rather porn industry, strippers, gentlemen’s club waitress who sells cheap Champaign for $50 a bottle to lonely men, etc.

I think Amy is telling the exact truth when she says that she want to take some stills and vids of her and man in whatever sexual context she offers; however, what I don’t believe is her motive. I have met enough angry women in my time to know that when a woman is mad at her husband, she wants direct confrontation. When a woman wants to spite her husband, she may fuck is best friend, she may even fuck his brother to get his attention, but she will not leave subtle hints lying around like pictures. Also, if all Amy wanted to do is take some pictures with her fucking some guy, she is attractive enough that she could pick a guy up in any bar in New York and get the job done easily. She wouldn’t have to come here looking for a man.

Another thing that makes me skeptical about Amy’s motives is that she has been insulted a number of times by our resident Trolls, yet she keeps coming back. If a young women of 24 was having trouble in her marriage, and came here for help, and was attacked by our resident Trolls the way Amy has been attacked, she would have gotten her feelings hurt, or gotten mad, or both, and left, but Amy keeps coming back, so, she must want something important.

Now, follow the money! Amy says; “I'm looking to take some new, in-the-flesh stills and vids with the right participant”. (Read he key words in her statement) I think Amy and her husband are trying to con some poor, unsuspecting Rube into making porn video for them. A good quality porn video with a new porn actor would potentially be worth 10s of thousands of dollars on the porn market. (Guys, you have been in the adult stores, how much do those DVDs sell for?), I think Amy and her husband would put the video on DVD and sell it, leaving the Rube holding an empty bag. An empty bag as in, he don’t get paid! My advice to anyone getting involved with this woman, (and her husband), GET A SIGNED CONTRACT before the first picture is taken, guarantying you how much get paid. And run it by a lawyer before you do the video.

How am I doing Amy, is this pretty close?

 

[silver_eyes]

Amy, I like mine black.
Preferably, from Juniors. They have the best fucking cheesecake in New York!

Nasty, yeah pretty much.

 

[amywhitsend]

seriously?

I keep coming back because I'm not weak, have the next few weeks off from work and you have royally pissed me the fuck off. I'm in education, you insolent douchebag. A degree that I worked extremely hard for.
The home I own is the one I grew up in, the one that was left for me after my parents died two years ago. No major money here. I work hard, often getting zero recognition for my extended efforts because I'm right out of college. What money I DO have has been left to me. Yes, that's right. It's in the bank but it's not purse-and-plastic-tits-money, it's the cash I need to set my life to rights.

Yes, my husband owns a porn site. He has a handful of photos on there, some of me but mostly some his friends supply for him. I honestly don't know where or what he does but I never allowed him to use shots of my face, only my body. I don't want to be involved in any of his porn habit,and yes, it's a HABIT, not a source of income. His site is basically a blog where he posts and shares naughty bits. There's no way anyone can pay him for anything. He still has to wake up every morning, get dressed and go to work.

Now as far as "motives" go, as you can see I have never been on this site. I've read stories from here over the years but just recently realized there was a forum. I have been mulling over the idea of this for a while now and figured I could test the water with people who were also sexual in nature.
Pick someone up in a bar? I don't do the bar thing. Only with girlfriends and never to troll for guys. I'm not the bar type. Moreover, I don't want to risk someone we both know seeing me out with someone before I can exact my own personal form of revenge. Yes, revenge. I'm not going to sit around by myself while he nurses his porn habit. As you can tell, I always make my point. The point I will make with my husband is that I also need porn. My OWN porn.

Let's address the terminology, since you very obviously felt the need to thoroughly attack me for whatever reason. "Vids" is a common term. I don't have any vids posted on his site. He doesn't post any on his site. We have a few we have made together and I have already secured those so he will never be able to use them. I'm leaning more towards photos of myself to be taken, not of my face or anything recognizable, but clear enough to show him that I am indeed being fucked by someone other than him. The few people I've talked to know well that I don't expect them to be photographed, just the "act" itself. Oh, the terminology. For your information, asshole, my father owned a very lucrative photography business. I grew up listening to terms like "stills" before "pics" was ever popular.

Now please, step away and blink. Get out in the fresh air and breathe deeply. You have some deep-rooted issues that you need to deal with and no one on here is going to be able to help you. There's a whole world outside of your little room, a world where everyone isn't "out to dupe" someone else. Drop your conspiracies, put on some pants and get a fucking life.

 

[amywhitsend]

Is this pretty close, Columbo?

An obsessive asshole, obviously with too much time on his hands which means you're more than likely unemployed.

I knew a Private Eye once. He was a sad little obese man who had problems connecting to people on a social level and could never cut it as a cop.

......................

I take one Splenda, a dash of cream and no cheesecake please, it goes straight to my hips.

 

[Wyldfire]

In education. Riiiiight. At 24 owning a home, car, and comfortable. Is education what they call that these days?

I had and still do have all of that. I'm honest buttercup. I worked for it and not always on my feet. Three different jobs, two legal. Only way besides this way of being in your situation is that either Daddy and Mommy gave you all of this or they died and you inherrited it.

Get over yourself Amy sweetie. I think the reason you're so pissed is people are hurting your ego. Am I one of the usual Trolls? Probably. Now ask me if I care.