Maybe it's the psychological thrill of being in control...being the dom while your husband is the sub...so to say.
I've known women who had little or no interest in m/m porn. But offer them the chance to be present to watch 2 guys together, be it their partner or any males...different story. And to be able to call the shots....
The human psyche...there's no understanding it.
Could you convert the idea that your husband does it for you into a different situation? I can imagine he doesn't want to suck another guy, but is there anything else he can do sexually for you that would give you a similar feeling? (Since it's not about the oral sex for you).
Something you find arousing and he finds acceptable. Obviously, I cannot tell you what that is.
That is interesting. Their wives suggested this? How did they react to her suggestions and how did they handle the experiences?
a bit late reply...but that's nice, OP - it's cool to have open-minded women like you.
and: it's only gay when he slices icecube on the other guy's cock, then kisses the head and then asks him: "do you like it, cutie?"
^ actually this sounds kinda too masculine....
