I wonder about this. Maybe not wanting to do it, but be willing to try it just to make wife/gf happy. I do think it would be very important if I were to try to get my husband to do it to constantly reassure him that I love him very much, that him sucking a cock doenst mean anything, doesnt mean he is gay or even bi, that I th ink its very very very sexy, and i think also very very important to reassure him that NO ONE will EVER know about it.
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I wonder about this. Maybe not wanting to do it, but be willing to try it just to make wife/gf happy. I do think it would be very important if I were to try to get my husband to do it to constantly reassure him that I love him very much, that him sucking a cock doenst mean anything, doesnt mean he is gay or even bi, that I th ink its very very very sexy, and i think also very very important to reassure him that NO ONE will EVER know about it.
Wow that is a hot story. Were the professor and her husband attractive? From what you knew about the professor, would you have ever expected she and her husband were that sexual? Do you think it was the two men's first time?
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As for myself, I consider myself Str8 male, but I have always craved the idea of sucking cock; my ex wife thought I might be bi, but I've never felt the need to put a label on it (even though I have by calling myself Str8!). I've just always wanted to suck cock, and have it cum in my mouth...don't know why, as I'm not interested in anything else "Male." So, if a guy's not inclined to do it anyway, I wouldn't think it would be much fun for either party, even if the wife wanted it...
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I think sharing some MMF good erotic stories from Literotica and taking the lead in talking about how hot it is to you might open up the discussion of the fantasy. To share about feeling someone licking you as another male fucks you and how erotic that would be.... would start a nice discussion. Once he is comfortable and safe with that discussion.... things might surprise most wives.
Larry, i have wondered about if we watched a vid that unexpectedly had some guy on guy stuff in the course of a mfm threesome. And I just cuddle up to him when that happens and just mention that that is hot. I wonder if a story might make him uncomfortable at first. I have never gotten the feeling at all that he is bi curious in any way. And that in part is a little bit of why this fantasy is so hot to me I guess. Maybe that doesnt make sense or maybe isn't fair. not sure.
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I wish my wife would casually bring it up like you just mentioned. I dont think she would be into it, but a bi mmf 3sum would be a huge fantasy of mine come true!
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Telling him that you think it would be hot to see another guy or gal sucking his dick might not be so threatening.
Perhaps ask him if any of his friends did MM sex when he was a young man. Hell, make up a story about a neighbor kid who confided in you about sucking cock.
There is plenty of story telling material in this thread here: http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=776170
Perhaps ask him if any of his friends did MM sex when he was a young man. Hell, make up a story about a neighbor kid who confided in you about sucking cock.
There is plenty of story telling material in this thread here: http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=776170
That is exactly how I 'introduced' the idea to my wife. I am very bi curious and found that by doing as you describe, albeit in reverse, I was able by my reaction to the male bi scenes, entice her to ask me the question. When she said something along the lines of "Ooh somebody appears to like this" or similar I can't remember exactly, I was able to walk through that open door. The rest is history. Although I haven't yet had the opportunity to scratch that itch as yet I do now have her consent to try.
So I think your idea of the vid is a good one. As you have probably noticed there are a lot of bi curious men here on lit. Your man might be 'one of us' but too nervous to bring up the subject with you. He may come to be very grateful for bringing him out of himself. Then all you have to do is find a nice man and feed his cock to your hubby. Best of luck.
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I totally agree; It's really great to have a willing partner you can trust; my ex-wife would do anything, and any fantasy was fine with her (she wouldn't swallow my cum, but would let me cum in her mouth). As I've written elsewhere, I've always craved cock and cum, and usually eat my own.. She thought I might be bi, but was totally into anything I wanted. It got so we had an arsenal of toys, vibrators, strap ons, everything. She'd regularly use a strap on on me, which I'd try to deep throat before she fucked me. I'd suck that thing for hours; to tell the truth, she always had that M Dom side, so she got off on the power too...I'd lick my cum off her tits, and ask her to snowball me when I came...
On the other hand, years later I was with a psycho bitch for a few years; the sex was hot, but there wasn't strapons or vibrators involved. At one point I asked her if she thought watching two guys together was hot, and she said "not at all." She used to snowball with me because she figured out my love for cum, but because of her reaction, I never felt comfortable enough to let her know I wanted to suck cock. From then on, I became inhibited about it, and resorted to MMF porn to get off. Needless to say, I dumped her, but to get back to the point, it's really important to have a partner where there's trust enough to broach the subject; it makes it safe, no matter what the reaction, so I hope everyone has that kind of partner no matter the outcome.
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docisin, trust is soooo important. My husband and I are soooo totally in love and have an amazing marriage. Complete trust has developed from that. As I have mentioned before I don't believe my husband has any desire to do anything with a man. But perhaps I can tell him that I do have this little fantasy of seeing him with a penis in his mouth once.
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My ex would not be into it but my girlfriend likes the fun of our friend , who ever we have visiting at times. After a few drinks and chatting and tension is gone , let the fun begin.
My ex would not be into it but my girlfriend likes the fun of our friend , who ever we have visiting at times. After a few drinks and chatting and tension is gone , let the fun begin.
She certainly wasn't shocked and/or repulsed. In fact it quite turned her on. Occasionally now she will do things like pretending to be a man whilst sucking me off. It took a while for her to give her consent for me to look for a 'boyfriend'. But it appears she is concerned that if I realise this desire and find I don't like it then the fantasy is forever lost. Personally I am prepared to risk that.
She is bi curious herself but scared to go for it. One of her reasons is the loss of her fantasy in the same way as she is concerned for me in that respect. I just need to find the right man now. Having consent relieves the anguish of possibly cheating on her but it isn't helping me to find the man.
Go for it. What's the risk in simply saying you like the look of men sucking cock whilst you watch a porno together and maybe suggesting, carefully, that you would get sooooo hot to see him with a dick in his mouth? As I said earlier he might be secretly curious, many of us are, and be relieved and grateful that you opened the closet door for him.
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baby steps. perhaps he might be more inclined to let a man suck him off than him suck a dick, at first. It is all fantasy at this point, but knowing guys like I do, most men enjoy getting sucked off. it could possibly be a way to get him to talk about the various different ways and means.
Was she surprised to learn that you might be interested in cock?
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Here is a pretty good story close to what you are interested in.
https://www.literotica.com/s/taste-so-good
https://www.literotica.com/s/taste-so-good
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nice!
Not sure to be honest. Certainly wasn't repulsed and now offers encouragement for me to pursue my desire. If I get lucky she wants to hear the full details so I think it turns her on more than anything.
I never used to even think about guy/guy stuff. But I chatted with a woman once and she told about how in a mfmf she and her husband did with another couple, suddenly something like that happened just spontaneously and she described how sexy it was. It got me thinking. I wonder if other women think about it. I know most men like to think about their wives or gf being bi and seeing htem with another woman (and I do believe that women are MUCH more likely to be bi or curious), but I think most women don't actually think the same about guy/guy. But maybe its because we just never think it would happen. I bet when your wife saw how you reacted to that guy/guy scene, she was indeed very surprised but in an exciting and pleasant way. Probably a "oh my God, I can't believe he thinks thats hot and would consider doing it! That is so hot!" sort of thing.
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He used to go there to get his sucked and one time , said what the hell.
I'd love to see it live.
They were very attractive, my professor was from Kenya, very dark black short and petite with I'd say breasts about 34c, her husband was older, Asian , and the other man was also black, big ,but not huge. oh yes I knew they were sexual, that's a whole other story. It definitely wasn't the first time. I did find an older video, it was actually a gay porn video of the two men. I showed this thread to my current boyfriend while we were partying and he eventually did admit to one time sucking another man's cock at an adult store that had booths , basically a glory hole.
He used to go there to get his sucked and one time , said what the hell.
I'd love to see it live.
wow, such an amazing story. love to hear more.
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Your question and tentative caveats and qualifications are thought provoking.
As a female, I am sure you sense the high voltage testosterone fuelled desire of the male.
And sometimes its very power can be unsettling and disturbing to a female, perhaps, especially to a female who is his partner, as she seeks to some extent to tame her mate, to make him her own. But alloying this high octane male desire to a direction the male himself would not choose .... is so interesting. Like being the director of the scene of an immense internal power struggle. And you, as woman, ride the crest of a win either way: the more he struggles, the more it pleases!
I often think about what it is that makes the erotic so. I think most of all that it is a clash, a conflict, between innate desire on the one hand, and the sense (the cultural sense) of what is taboo or what is forbidden. (Actually taboo does go beyond culture but that is another topic.) It's like a barrier or fence line which you need in order to define the game of sex. And then forever more you push that barrier. You jump over it, get penalised, go back, try again. You might stalk it, go up at night, stare at its height and length, visualise how you will attack it by day. Learn its moods. Watch it in different times, seasons. Practise, experiment, innovate.
But watching your man, who you adore, channeling his desire just in the terms which you dictate, terms which he himself would not actually choose, is immensely intoxicating. For you, it is a proof of fidelity even within infidelity, in a sea of excitement; for him, the same applies, if he is able to overcome what may be a real fear about his sexuality.
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I may have lost you with the digressions.
For me, it all started with me fantasising out loud with my partner, she gradually got wetter and wetter. And your conception of what makes it exciting is very close to my idea of it too, and the way I dreamed about it with my partner.
In fact, I don't really like the idea of male/male sex. I would absolutely reject the idea of any long term or emotionally intimate liaison with another male (just because it doesn't suit my tastes). I am very strongly attracted to women, perhaps 80% (Kinsey). But I have very strong physical desire, and I have and would again touch another male, and if there is a woman to watch and direct, I find it overpoweringly sexy and exciting. And my ideas extend beyond this: I would want to watch him fuck her (ie I would "share her" although that term annoys me, as if she were a finite birthday cake, and I have carved off a slice and given it away forever); also, to see her with another girl; and to have her watch me with another girl. Because these are all ways of dancing around the edge of what is taboo.
I'd like to hear how you progress. You could start by talking sexily to him about your thoughts. Being honest is the foundation.
Your question and tentative caveats and qualifications are thought provoking.
As a female, I am sure you sense the high voltage testosterone fuelled desire of the male.
And sometimes its very power can be unsettling and disturbing to a female, perhaps, especially to a female who is his partner, as she seeks to some extent to tame her mate, to make him her own. But alloying this high octane male desire to a direction the male himself would not choose .... is so interesting. Like being the director of the scene of an immense internal power struggle. And you, as woman, ride the crest of a win either way: the more he struggles, the more it pleases!
I often think about what it is that makes the erotic so. I think most of all that it is a clash, a conflict, between innate desire on the one hand, and the sense (the cultural sense) of what is taboo or what is forbidden. (Actually taboo does go beyond culture but that is another topic.) It's like a barrier or fence line which you need in order to define the game of sex. And then forever more you push that barrier. You jump over it, get penalised, go back, try again. You might stalk it, go up at night, stare at its height and length, visualise how you will attack it by day. Learn its moods. Watch it in different times, seasons. Practise, experiment, innovate.
But watching your man, who you adore, channeling his desire just in the terms which you dictate, terms which he himself would not actually choose, is immensely intoxicating. For you, it is a proof of fidelity even within infidelity, in a sea of excitement; for him, the same applies, if he is able to overcome what may be a real fear about his sexuality.
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I may have lost you with the digressions.
For me, it all started with me fantasising out loud with my partner, she gradually got wetter and wetter. And your conception of what makes it exciting is very close to my idea of it too, and the way I dreamed about it with my partner.
In fact, I don't really like the idea of male/male sex. I would absolutely reject the idea of any long term or emotionally intimate liaison with another male (just because it doesn't suit my tastes). I am very strongly attracted to women, perhaps 80% (Kinsey). But I have very strong physical desire, and I have and would again touch another male, and if there is a woman to watch and direct, I find it overpoweringly sexy and exciting. And my ideas extend beyond this: I would want to watch him fuck her (ie I would "share her" although that term annoys me, as if she were a finite birthday cake, and I have carved off a slice and given it away forever); also, to see her with another girl; and to have her watch me with another girl. Because these are all ways of dancing around the edge of what is taboo.
I'd like to hear how you progress. You could start by talking sexily to him about your thoughts. Being honest is the foundation.
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Very evocative. One of the best vignettes on Lit.
