Husband sucking

[lynn-23]

Latendresse, thank you for the comments. I totally understand a lot of what you are saying. This little fantasy is exciting to me precisely because I know my husband is not bi, would not want to do it. But would in fact do it just to please me and show his love to me. That is incredibly sexy and loving to me.

I also love to think about and dissect the concept of what is erotic and what is not and why certain things are so erotic. I would love to discuss that more with you.

I have been a bit disappointed that I havent heard more from other women about this issue. My intent in starting the thread was to talk to other wives or women about this, hear their thoughts. Mostly I have heard from men that want to do this. While I enjoy hearing from everyone, its the idea that my husband would NOT want to do it that makes it truly erotic. I'd still love to hear from other women about this.

 

[LeeFL]

Hot Story

They were very attractive, my professor was from Kenya, very dark black short and petite with I'd say breasts about 34c, her husband was older, Asian , and the other man was also black, big ,but not huge. oh yes I knew they were sexual, that's a whole other story. It definitely wasn't the first time. I did find an older video, it was actually a gay porn video of the two men. I showed this thread to my current boyfriend while we were partying and he eventually did admit to one time sucking another man's cock at an adult store that had booths , basically a glory hole.
He used to go there to get his sucked and one time , said what the hell.
I'd love to see it live.

Hot stuff - would love to swap ideas!

 

[lynn-23]

They were very attractive, my professor was from Kenya, very dark black short and petite with I'd say breasts about 34c, her husband was older, Asian , and the other man was also black, big ,but not huge. oh yes I knew they were sexual, that's a whole other story. It definitely wasn't the first time. I did find an older video, it was actually a gay porn video of the two men. I showed this thread to my current boyfriend while we were partying and he eventually did admit to one time sucking another man's cock at an adult store that had booths , basically a glory hole.
He used to go there to get his sucked and one time , said what the hell.
I'd love to see it live.

Wow, Shelly. What did you think when he told you that? Were you surprised? Was he embarassed to tell you? Did he suck the other man to orgasm?

 

[lynn-23]

I havent heard anything for a while on this thread. I know there are far more men here than women, but I would still love to hear from other women, especially married women.

 

[shellymom35]

Watching it

Is fun and although not my husband he is closer to me than a husband could ever be . He fulfilled my fantasy, I wan on top of him in a 69 when my boyfriend got behind me to penetrate , he made sure his cock was nice and wet, at the same time I noticed his get a little harder, omg it made me so wet knowing it made him horny to suck another guys cock. While my boyfriend was thrusting while getting his balls licked the cock in my mouth got rock hard. When he began to ejaculate pulling out of my pussy , the cock in my mouth also ejaculated as he was taking my boyfriends load in his mouth. Then as per my request we had a very wet three way kiss, yummy.
If your man truly loves you he should at least try, chances are he just may like it.
All I have to do as a return fantasy is dance at a men's club on amature night, haha it was one of mine already.

 

[blowit]

Is fun and although not my husband he is closer to me than a husband could ever be . He fulfilled my fantasy, I wan on top of him in a 69 when my boyfriend got behind me to penetrate , he made sure his cock was nice and wet, at the same time I noticed his get a little harder, omg it made me so wet knowing it made him horny to suck another guys cock. While my boyfriend was thrusting while getting his balls licked the cock in my mouth got rock hard. When he began to ejaculate pulling out of my pussy , the cock in my mouth also ejaculated as he was taking my boyfriends load in his mouth. Then as per my request we had a very wet three way kiss, yummy.
If your man truly loves you he should at least try, chances are he just may like it.
All I have to do as a return fantasy is dance at a men's club on amature night, haha it was one of mine already.

If only my wife and I could get involved in such a scenario. So horny.

 

[Man4Strapon]

If your man truly loves you he should at least try, chances are he just may like it.

Agreed!

I believe romantic partners should be willing to fulfill one another's fantasies or at least seriously consider it. You have to respect your partner's boundaries of course, but immediately dismissing it without considering it is selfish so long as it isn't anything illegal or harmful to anyone.

Your husband is a very lucky man and you a very lucky woman.

 

[yukonnights]

Your question and tentative caveats and qualifications are thought provoking.

As a female, I am sure you sense the high voltage testosterone fuelled desire of the male.

And sometimes its very power can be unsettling and disturbing to a female, perhaps, especially to a female who is his partner, as she seeks to some extent to tame her mate, to make him her own. But alloying this high octane male desire to a direction the male himself would not choose .... is so interesting. Like being the director of the scene of an immense internal power struggle. And you, as woman, ride the crest of a win either way: the more he struggles, the more it pleases!

I often think about what it is that makes the erotic so. I think most of all that it is a clash, a conflict, between innate desire on the one hand, and the sense (the cultural sense) of what is taboo or what is forbidden. (Actually taboo does go beyond culture but that is another topic.) It's like a barrier or fence line which you need in order to define the game of sex. And then forever more you push that barrier. You jump over it, get penalised, go back, try again. You might stalk it, go up at night, stare at its height and length, visualise how you will attack it by day. Learn its moods. Watch it in different times, seasons. Practise, experiment, innovate.

But watching your man, who you adore, channeling his desire just in the terms which you dictate, terms which he himself would not actually choose, is immensely intoxicating. For you, it is a proof of fidelity even within infidelity, in a sea of excitement; for him, the same applies, if he is able to overcome what may be a real fear about his sexuality.

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I may have lost you with the digressions.

For me, it all started with me fantasising out loud with my partner, she gradually got wetter and wetter. And your conception of what makes it exciting is very close to my idea of it too, and the way I dreamed about it with my partner.

In fact, I don't really like the idea of male/male sex. I would absolutely reject the idea of any long term or emotionally intimate liaison with another male (just because it doesn't suit my tastes). I am very strongly attracted to women, perhaps 80% (Kinsey). But I have very strong physical desire, and I have and would again touch another male, and if there is a woman to watch and direct, I find it overpoweringly sexy and exciting. And my ideas extend beyond this: I would want to watch him fuck her (ie I would "share her" although that term annoys me, as if she were a finite birthday cake, and I have carved off a slice and given it away forever); also, to see her with another girl; and to have her watch me with another girl. Because these are all ways of dancing around the edge of what is taboo.

I'd like to hear how you progress. You could start by talking sexily to him about your thoughts. Being honest is the foundation.

This entire post is simply outstanding, to me. But the bolded section explores the whole concept of "erotic" in a way that truly resonates with me. You put into words what I intuitively feel. I don't really have anything to bring to the original conversation (yet), but just wanted to let you know that your words inspired.

 

[lynn-23]

Is fun and although not my husband he is closer to me than a husband could ever be . He fulfilled my fantasy, I wan on top of him in a 69 when my boyfriend got behind me to penetrate , he made sure his cock was nice and wet, at the same time I noticed his get a little harder, omg it made me so wet knowing it made him horny to suck another guys cock. While my boyfriend was thrusting while getting his balls licked the cock in my mouth got rock hard. When he began to ejaculate pulling out of my pussy , the cock in my mouth also ejaculated as he was taking my boyfriends load in his mouth. Then as per my request we had a very wet three way kiss, yummy.
If your man truly loves you he should at least try, chances are he just may like it.
All I have to do as a return fantasy is dance at a men's club on amature night, haha it was one of mine already.

wow, thanks Shelly. Great story. Who was this other guy? Just a friend? Would your bf have done the same? Was it discussed before hand what would happen?

 

[Mr. Briggs]

Is fun and although not my husband he is closer to me than a husband could ever be . He fulfilled my fantasy, I wan on top of him in a 69 when my boyfriend got behind me to penetrate , he made sure his cock was nice and wet, at the same time I noticed his get a little harder, omg it made me so wet knowing it made him horny to suck another guys cock. While my boyfriend was thrusting while getting his balls licked the cock in my mouth got rock hard. When he began to ejaculate pulling out of my pussy , the cock in my mouth also ejaculated as he was taking my boyfriends load in his mouth. Then as per my request we had a very wet three way kiss, yummy.
If your man truly loves you he should at least try, chances are he just may like it.
All I have to do as a return fantasy is dance at a men's club on amature night, haha it was one of mine already.

Wow! Too bad your husband missed on on that. If my wife wanted that i'd be all over it.

 

[shellymom35]

We did

wow, thanks Shelly. Great story. Who was this other guy? Just a friend? Would your bf have done the same? Was it discussed before hand what would happen?

Have a discussion beforehand , like I mentioned it was my fantasy. No details were discussed, for me it was so erotic feeling his cock get rock hard as soon as he had one in his own mouth and then when he was taking his load in his mouth he had an intense orgasm himself ejaculating into mine. My boyfriend did return the favor sucking his cock and then holding it as I lowered slowly onto it, shortly after I climaxed and my boyfriend took his load into his eager mouth.
Let me ask you Lynn would you like to see your husband suck cock or would you prefer to watch another man suck his?

 

[lynn-23]

Have a discussion beforehand , like I mentioned it was my fantasy. No details were discussed, for me it was so erotic feeling his cock get rock hard as soon as he had one in his own mouth and then when he was taking his load in his mouth he had an intense orgasm himself ejaculating into mine. My boyfriend did return the favor sucking his cock and then holding it as I lowered slowly onto it, shortly after I climaxed and my boyfriend took his load into his eager mouth.
Let me ask you Lynn would you like to see your husband suck cock or would you prefer to watch another man suck his?

I have had a secret fantasy of seeing my husband take another man's hard penis into his mouth, suck it, maybe even take the cum load. My husband is totally straight, so I would have to coax him into it, but he might do it.

 

[docisin]

If your man truly loves you he should at least try, chances are he just may like it.
All I have to do as a return fantasy is dance at a men's club on amature night, haha it was one of mine already.

It may be because I want to be a cock sucking husband, but I really like the attitude of at least trying it. I've been with many partners, and I've expressed to all of them, I'd be into trying anything that would get them off. Even water sports, if they thought it would get them off. Why not? Few of them have taken me up on anything out of the ordinary. One said that she thought it would be hot if I wore her panties when we went together for a sunday church service. No prob, but nothing ever came of it. Maybe I've just had boring lame-ass partners...which I'm thinking just might be the case...lol

 

[Mr. Briggs]

I have had a secret fantasy of seeing my husband take another man's hard penis into his mouth, suck it, maybe even take the cum load. My husband is totally straight, so I would have to coax him into it, but he might do it.

I love when this thread is bumped. Have you made any progress with this lynn?

 

[Man4Strapon]

I have had a secret fantasy of seeing my husband take another man's hard penis into his mouth, suck it, maybe even take the cum load. My husband is totally straight, so I would have to coax him into it, but he might do it.

I wish you were my wife!

 

[lynn-23]

No, no progress, but I havent brought it up with him. Not something I could just bring up I think. I am sure it wont ever happen, but its fun to fantasize about.

 

[Man4Strapon]

No, no progress, but I havent brought it up with him. Not something I could just bring up I think. I am sure it wont ever happen, but its fun to fantasize about.

Do you play with dildos while he watches? I would suggest you suck it. Kiss him to bring his face closer and closer. Then rub the dildo in your pussy. Taste your juices, then put it back into your pussy. Bring it to his lips and tell him to taste your juices.

If you get him sucking the dildo, you'll be off to a good start.

 

[lynn-23]

Do you play with dildos while he watches? I would suggest you suck it. Kiss him to bring his face closer and closer. Then rub the dildo in your pussy. Taste your juices, then put it back into your pussy. Bring it to his lips and tell him to taste your juices.

If you get him sucking the dildo, you'll be off to a good start.

Actually have done that a time or two, got him to lick my juice off of my dildo. It was hot to see.

 

[Man4Strapon]

Actually have done that a time or two, got him to lick my juice off of my dildo. It was hot to see.

Did you tell him how good he looked sucking it? Make sure you do.

 

[whiskeytangofoxtrot]

I recently have become rather interested in the idea of my husband sucking a cock. He is totally straight but we have had some pillow talk about mmf and that turns him on. We have discussed the idea of someday actually trying a mmf and/or mff. So my question is this: Have any of you ladies ever done mmf (or even mfmf) with your husband and actually gotten him to play with the other man's cock? I'd love to know how you did it, what his reaction was, etc.

hi lynn, i found your thread and will say that it is one of the most erotic and hottest scenes and sounds watching him sucking a guy. we've played a number of times and it has gotten "easieer" for him to do it. lisa

 

[lynn-23]

hi lynn, i found your thread and will say that it is one of the most erotic and hottest scenes and sounds watching him sucking a guy. we've played a number of times and it has gotten "easieer" for him to do it. lisa

Hi Lisa, great to hear from you. So you have done this?

 

[whiskeytangofoxtrot]

Hi Lisa, great to hear from you. So you have done this?

we have and enjoy the lifestyle.

 

[tubby424]

Hi Lisa, great to hear from you. So you have done this?

lynn
If you have had him suck your dildo already that is a huge step. Maybe next have him suck it after it has been in your cum filled pussy. Making him clean you up would also be a good leader to involve him in getting a little closer to eating cum. Once he tastes it a few times I think any fears he has will be greatly depreciated.

 

[Mr. Briggs]

lynn
If you have had him suck your dildo already that is a huge step. Maybe next have him suck it after it has been in your cum filled pussy. Making him clean you up would also be a good leader to involve him in getting a little closer to eating cum. Once he tastes it a few times I think any fears he has will be greatly depreciated.

Wish my wife did that to me

 

[Man4Strapon]

lynn
If you have had him suck your dildo already that is a huge step. Maybe next have him suck it after it has been in your cum filled pussy. Making him clean you up would also be a good leader to involve him in getting a little closer to eating cum. Once he tastes it a few times I think any fears he has will be greatly depreciated.

good point!