Thank you again. I love to hear how excited she gets as well as other teasing words to excite moreFor us, its usually some thing that I know turns him on. I will make up some story about some girl that caught his eye, or tell him how much I have been thinking about him that day. For him the nastier the better
With me, a man does not need to worry about coming first. Just let me know and I can do what I need. Sometimes I do not need or want to cum. I just want to enjoy the sensations and take care of my guy. But yes we all want to be appreciated. A few kind words or some gentle caressing and sometimes some after care. On the other hand I do expect a guy to listen when I ask for something. I am trying to convey that it does not all need to be on the guy to make her cum. She needs to do her part.
No offense at all. In fact it is an unfortunate fact of life these days. Sex is not rocket science. It can be fun and glorious. Just try not to screw it up too bad. LOL
Yes sir and more please.
I agree. My thought is that if I'm going to give myself to you and you're going to give yourself to me, both of us should enjoy ourselves, taking care of each others needs. I prefer to be a good lover. I've had some different experiences with ladies orgasms and desire to have sex. If she's not into it with me, I would rather sit and talk. I love sex but not enough to simply go through the motions. That hasn't happened to me very often but it has happened. They waited till we got in bed to let me know they weren't really interested in sex enough to do it. No judgment, just a mistake in what I thought they wanted. No harm, no foul, no sex.
I would say that I usually do. there have been times with my husband where we got started and I lost it or never got going and I would simply tell him to go ahead and finish up. I made it clear that I wanted him to finish but I am sure it was a bit of a downer never the less. To be clear, I usually have no problem reaching orgasm and most of the time I am looking for one. In the last few years, there have been times when I just wanted to give myself to my lover and just have him take me. I guess that is not something a man can do but the sensations from that experience can be very intense. Not quite the same as having an orgasm but when the mood is there, it can feel great.
I agree. Orgasms are nice, but mine are very elusive. It’s easier to cum when it’s just me and I can really concentrate. With penetration there’s too much going on and it’s hard to focus.
I have a friend that sees that the same way. For instance, when we do 69, there's too much going on for both of us to cum at the same time but we discussed it and decided we would have more enjoyment designating, in a funny, horny way, who would do what each time. We would be in the position, but not do each other simultaneously so we could focus on each other. She might pleasure me first without having to deal with my tongue, then I would pleasure her without her mouth being on me. We would have sex mid-day sometimes because she said she loved the feeling of my ejaculate being inside her the rest of the day after a furious fuck.
I heartily agree with the giving pleasure and letting him shoot off inside of you. A great feeling just by itself. It lets you focus entirely on him. Not just to give him pleasure but to enjoy his pleasure and the sensations that it provides you. In the middle years of marriage, sex was not as frequent as I might have desired. So having an orgasm was front and center. Now that things have opened up more and sex is quite regular, the concept of just giving pleasure is more feasible.
For me orgasms are usually on the agenda but there is pleasure on just focusing on him. Not just for him but for the sensations that it provides you. The body contact, the fucking and then him shooting inside of you are great feeling just by themselves. Sometimes it is nice to appreciate those just by themselves. Now the quickie sex is probably going to make me want to have an orgasm. I prefer sex in places other than a bed. The couch, bent over a counter, outside in a secluded spot. Just lifting my skirt and bending over. That brings fond memories.
That's what I'm talking. I'm in the woods and on the water quite a bit. Sex in the cab of my truck in a light rain is mind blowing. If I have a flexible partner, I love her to ride me slowly, listening to the rain. I unbutton her blouse and rub her boobs, then suck her nipples until one or both of us can't hold back any longer.
I have gotten away from sex in a car as I am not as flexible as I used to be but a crew cab pickup might work. We do not get a lot of rain here in AZ so getting out of the car and leaning on the hood or trunk can work quite nicely. As for on the boat. Yes please. It has been a long time but I have some fond memories of some weekend trips to Block Island. Some gentle rocking certainly can add to the sensations.
When I was in school, I dated 5 different girls that all drove VW's. Bearing in mind that I'm a big man, there was a learning curve but I prevailed. The crew cab is a wonderful thing. I had an old friend visit a few years back and we spent the day riding around in the woods and fucking. Mostly in the truck, but a couple of times outside. She put one foot up on the step bumper and I took over from there. It was some inspiring sex with my friends the birds, deer, coons and possums watching. Sex in a boat is unlike anywhere else to me. So many extraneous sensory stimulations that can't be found anywhere else.
I agree completely. I'm often too focused on my partner to get off but I absolutely love getting my partner off. The best is when I can make my lover come with my fingers inside her while she has my cock in her mouth.
I love that too. When she starts getting all sloppy and faster trying to make me feel how I'm making her feel. The moans she tries to get pass while her mouth is filled with cock.
I like that too but my orgasm is more intense if my clit is being licked and sucked
same here.... nothing like having my clit in my lovers mouth. I love to hold their head in place while I cum making even more intense.
Me too
Let's try it out and compare, love.
