Hmmm..one of my favorite fetish is when a beautiful woman masturbates me and she is so into it that she starts talking dirty, telling me her fantasies or stories from her past. Especially if its unexpected
but then I have been in a situation where younger guys were talking about someone's girlfriend being hot in bed and talks dirty in the throes of passion and I would not imagine her like that. Then a couple of years down the track I end up with this girl and yeahhh she fricking hot like what those guys use to say about her...brinback some good memories
I love to be sitting beside him on the couch and whispering nasty things in his ear (something about whispering can be so hot!). Soon I will have his pants undone and his cock out stroking him as my talk gets nastier and kinkier. This usually ends with my clothes in a pile on the floor or my mouth otherwise occupied Wow thank you for your comments. He's a lucky man. I can imagine you there whispering nasty things to him as you stroke him to the end. What do women like to say in the heat of passion?We do this a lot, well, mostly me
For us, its usually some thing that I know turns him on. I will make up some story about some girl that caught his eye, or tell him how much I have been thinking about him that day. For him the nastier the better
Same with my wife. I think she stopped after she discovered I liked it.
I would agree with you. Mine decided that she could better control me (ha!) by using her pussy to keep me in line. It did not work.
Some women definitely use sex as a weapon.
No question about it. I'm sure some men do it too.
yep.
Some people use everything as a weapon. I think for a lot of women, it is about learning how to use their body and their mind to good advantage. I am older so have been to more than one rodeo. I still really enjoy sex and all that goes with it. I have never been a screamer but I know most guys like to be appreciated and told when they are doing good as do most women.. I find certain phrases seems to add to his enjoyment. Simple things like "I am open for you", "I can take it all" "Don;t hold back". It excites me a little bit just saying them.
I'm an old guy that has been fortunate to enjoy a wide variety of sexual experiences. I still do when the opportunity comes. Your explanation is one of the best I've ever heard. It doesn't take much for most men, especially experienced men that see it. Give me a little shot of it and a nudge and I'll make you my queen till the sun don't shine. I appreciate your thoughts. Thank you.
It is almost like having good manners. I am enjoying it and I want him to enjoy as well. Never know when you might need him again.
When I was becoming sexually promiscuous, I had heard enough from sisters, cousins and aunts about not being appreciated properly by their men. I made a promise to myself then that I would never come before my partner and that I would put forth my best effort each time we had sex. I set the bar as high as I could for the same reason as you. I wanted to be invited back again and frequently. It's ladies first where I'm from.
I agree some people use everything for a weapon. I didnt mean for my comment to come off sexist and I apologize if came off that way. I made the comment in response to another poster and my own personal experience. I am sure there are men who use sex as a weapon as well.
Thanks for your comments my fantasy revolves around getting stroked by a woman who not only knows what she's doing but shows that she is really enjoying it herself through either facial expressions or verbally by talking dirty. I like it when she tells me stories and fantasies or how much she is aroused or ask me how I like it etc.
Always good to let the other person know that you are making them feel on top of the world and of course return the favour
Yeah depending on the sexual act you can get pretty intimate during masturbation as you are completely focused on eye conact and you can pace yourself which enhances the experience
Definitely teasing lead up to an sexual act. And then during passionate make outs..yes!
