I really hate this

[Andreina]

i hate it if somebody or something (necklace, shawl,...) touches my throat.

 

[Lord David]

Hi Lord David

I'm extremely arachnaphobic too...and have much the same reaction as I do to tickling...really violently, nearly uncontrollable fear. I remember once when I was about 16, I was cleaning the living room in my parents house, and there was a spider in it's web on the ledge on the wall. It took me nearly 30 minutes to get the courage to suck the damn thing into the vacumn. Once I did, I panicked, threw down the vacumn (still running) and ran upstairs screaming bloody murder.

I'm so pathetic *goofy grin*

Sometimes I almost consider tickling a fear and I panic even at the thought. I wonder if there is a term for fear of tickling?

Oh that's nothing, I've literally RUN out of a room because of a spider that was about quarter of an inch long, shouting at my Dad to come and kill it (this was last year, hehe).

Of course the best one HAS to be from late last year, I was down my mates house (he and his cousin lived together at the time), we're sat down watching WWF Smackdown, and I see a spider, I jump up and shout "spider!", of course... they follow suit... three 18 - 19 year olds all standing across the other side of the room from this spider... it shoots under this pile of laundry, so there we are with a stick moving the laundry about trying to find this damned spider... man that was a scary, but funny now I look back on it, day.

On the subject of the throat, that's never been a problem for me, but that's because I'm now so used to being thrown around by it (no, not abuse, wrestling matches, can't take a chokeslam without a hand being around your throat first, hehe).

 

[Ebonyfire]

I think this is my first post on these here boards so erm... to start with hi .

Now.. I'm with everyone on the tickling, I hate being tickled (in fact I think the only thing I hate more than that are spiders... I'm a bad arachnaphobic... *shudders*).

My Mum (yup, English dude here) and some of my sister's friends did/do tickle me at times... My Mum and some of my sister's friends learnt swiftly not to do it, as I literally lose control of my limbs... so far my Mum's ended up with cracked ribs, and one of my sister's friends got a black eye... literally because I just lose control from tickling.

Last time I ended up grabbing my sisters friend and just dropping to the floor with him... which ended up with me ramming his hand straight into the bin... and that was just because I lost control due to it. He learnt not to tickle me quickly.

But yeah... I HATE tickling... (but as you can tell, I LOVE rambling, hehe)

Now you know why I tickle sissy only when he is tied up.


Like I said before, My bad.

Welcome. Lord David

 

[Lord David]

Now you know why I tickle sissy only when he is tied up.


Like I said before, My bad.

Welcome. Lord David

Poor poor sissy... you're a meanie to him *sticks his tongue out, before running and hiding*

 

[Ebonyfire]

Poor poor sissy... you're a meanie to him *sticks his tongue out, before running and hiding*

Yep, and he keeps coming back for more too!

Ebony

 

[Lord David]

Yep, and he keeps coming back for more too!

Ebony

Well as long as he's not angry with you there's no problem, and if he keeps coming back, there's obviously no anger there .

Of course knowing what I'm like... it wouldn't be fair for me to tickle someone when they're tied up, hehe.

 

[Ebonyfire]

Well as long as he's not angry with you there's no problem, and if he keeps coming back, there's obviously no anger there .

Of course knowing what I'm like... it wouldn't be fair for me to tickle someone when they're tied up, hehe.

Hey I am his Domme, and he belongs to Me, so I can do what I want. His body is mine to command.

Ebony

 

[Lord David]

Hey I am his Domme, and he belongs to Me, so I can do what I want. His body is mine to command.

Ebony

Point taken, I didn't mean it to sound bad though, I apoligise.

 

[Ebonyfire]

Point taken, I didn't mean it to sound bad though, I apoligise.

No need to apologize, I did not take offense. Many times a Domme will do things a subs does not like. If it is not a hard limit it is fair game with sissy. We have bene together 1 1/2 years, and I know his hard limits very well. I also know how his body reacts to the things to do to him. I amuse myself often with things that make him squirm.

Ebony

 

[LadyHeart]

Face-slapping. I hate it, even though it doesn't really *hurt* as much as it *upsets*. I'm into the mindfuck and can do lots of acts of humiliation, on both sides of the flogger, but for whatever reason slapping someone's face (or having mine slapped) is just well beyond what I'm comfortable with doing. It's too personal, too intimately attacking, and it isn't at all erotic to, or for, me.

RS
Resident Alien

Face slapping is one of those things I don't think I'll ever like. I certainly don't care to be slapped in the face. I was only slapped in the face once, by my mom. That was enough for me. I also can't bring myself to slap anyone else in the face. I always pull it at the last minute and it results in a tap. I gave up on that. Call it a Top's hard limit. I think I can't slap a person in the face because I detest it so much. Just a theory though.


LadyHeart

 

[Ebonyfire]

Face Slapping

I have to join the crowd. It seems that male subs want their faces slapped. I hate it and I am in charge so I never do it.

I had relatives that did it. My Mother was one of ten kids, andher sisters did it to their kids.

My mother never slapped me, and I never slapped my kid. I just do not like it.

Eb

 

[Lord David]

No need to apologize, I did not take offense. Many times a Domme will do things a subs does not like. If it is not a hard limit it is fair game with sissy. We have bene together 1 1/2 years, and I know his hard limits very well. I also know how his body reacts to the things to do to him. I amuse myself often with things that make him squirm.

Ebony

Heh, I understand that (what with me having Dom tendancies, not sub.)

On the subject of the face slapping, while I wouldn't like it in play. My whole wrestling thing means I'm used to it now, except I'm pulling the punches each time, and having to know the timing of the punches so I can stagger back from them, but in essence, the punches are generally a slap to the face (unless you take the way I do them now, which is more a half fist to the side of the head, but that's off topic, WAAAAAY off topic in fact).

 

[P. B. Walker]

Face slapping...

I'm mixed on this. If it's one of those little love taps then I'm cool with it. Yanno, the kind where they grab your chin firmly and tell ya what a naughty little slutboy/girl you've been and then give ya a soft tap on the cheek... more of a little flick with their fingers. That wouldn't even phase me...

now a full blown slap in the face... well I'd come up swinging.

Anyhoo...

oh one other thing I remembered that I don't like... ouching pinches on my nipples... accck. it's so painful... just makes me cring. LOL.


PBW

 

[serijules]

Face slapping...

I'm mixed on this. If it's one of those little love taps then I'm cool with it. Yanno, the kind where they grab your and tell ya what a naughty little slutboy/girl you've been and then give ya a soft tap on the cheek... more of a little flick with their fingers. That wouldn't even phase me...

now a full blown slap in the face... well I'd come up swinging.

Yeah, this is a great explanation of how I feel about face slapping...only I would substitute "soft tap" with "firm tap". I DO want to feel it....but full blown...no way.

 

[Freya]

Not really sure if I should be posting here - I've been lurking and trying to come to a few decisions on things. So, sorry if I'm out of place posting this.

I don't mind pinches - except under the arm where someone mentioned before. I dislike face slapping - but it's more because I hate hands in my face. If someone is angry or out of control at all, I can't stand to have them pointing fingers, or waving their hands in my face. When I sense anger in another, I immediately develop a space bubble - and they need to stay outside of that, or it freaks me out. I also dislike people who have their face too close to mine when they are speaking t me - again, probably moreso when it's done in anger. And don't wrap your hands around my throat. I have a slight phobia in regards to loss of breath (which seriously hinders the whole deep throat thing unfortunately), and so I hate any situation where it makes me feel as if I will lose the ability to breathe.

 

[zipman]

Not really sure if I should be posting here - I've been lurking and trying to come to a few decisions on things. So, sorry if I'm out of place posting this.

I don't mind pinches - except under the arm where someone mentioned before. I dislike face slapping - but it's more because I hate hands in my face. If someone is angry or out of control at all, I can't stand to have them pointing fingers, or waving their hands in my face. When I sense anger in another, I immediately develop a space bubble - and they need to stay outside of that, or it freaks me out. I also dislike people who have their face too close to mine when they are speaking t me - again, probably moreso when it's done in anger. And don't wrap your hands around my throat. I have a slight phobia in regards to loss of breath (which seriously hinders the whole deep throat thing unfortunately), and so I hate any situation where it makes me feel as if I will lose the ability to breathe.

He Freya2. Welcome to the forum, or should I say to posting to the forum. It is always so nice when people "de-lurk" and start posting, regardless of experience and or dedication to the lifestyle. Sometimes, questions from new people take our conversations in new directions. The bottom line is that posts like yours above, which are you thoughts about BDSM are certainly welcome here!

I look forward to reading more of your thoughts.

 

[Ebonyfire]

He Freya2. Welcome to the forum, or should I say to posting to the forum. It is always so nice when people "de-lurk" and start posting, regardless of experience and or dedication to the lifestyle. Sometimes, questions from new people take our conversations in new directions. The bottom line is that posts like yours above, which are you thoughts about BDSM are certainly welcome here!

I look forward to reading more of your thoughts.

Piggybacking ( I love to piggyback zipman, btw)

we love folks to de-lurk and post. Everyone has opinions on some of this and different perspectives help us keep us on our otes, and give us a new way of looking at things.

Eb <getting off zip's back!>

 

[Native Alien]

for me it is the tongue in the ear...and i hate it when someone talks directly into my ears...pinches i can handle as long as they are not the kind to leave bruises...but the tongue in the ear....not a thing sexy or hot about that one to me...just plain gross...

you want to whisper to me? fine then stand behind and whisper. nothing kills the mood for me like someone talking directly into my ear.

guess i just have a thing about my ears huh?

 

[zipman]

Piggybacking ( I love to piggyback zipman, btw)

we love folks to de-lurk and post. Everyone has opinions on some of this and different perspectives help us keep us on our otes, and give us a new way of looking at things.

Eb <getting off zip's back!>

Just for the record, this is the only approved reason for me to have a Domme on my back!

Zip - I ain't no P.B.Walker

 

[Ebonyfire]

Just for the record, this is the only approved reason for me to have a Domme on my back!

Zip - I ain't no P.B.Walker

ROTFLMAO!!!

I almost peed!

Eb

 

[P. B. Walker]

Just for the record, this is the only approved reason for me to have a Domme on my back!

Zip - I ain't no P.B.Walker

LOL.

PBW

 

[Ebonyfire]

LOL.

PBW

Here PBW, it won't hurt I promise!

Ebb

 

[P. B. Walker]

Here PBW, it won't hurt I promise!

Ebb

Uh huh... sure sure...


PBW

 

[MissTaken]

ROFLPIMP


You guys are hilarious!


And Freya!

Ask your questions, share your thoughts....

I love your posts out there ---------->

Bring it on, hon!

 

[lost]

Re: foot dis_ease

I cannot stand being touched on the bottom of my feet it gives me the willies! I would say yield within 10..<snip>
quiet

I am so with on this especially if it's someone else's feet that touching the bottom.