If you could give advice to a 18 year old sub, what would it be?

[chy_girl]

No, cause that means it's almost Christmas season. Which means crowds, assholes, and short tempers. Know when's the best time of the year? The actual first of January cause it means all the insanity is over, and we can all return to 'normal'.

Yes, but the sooner it gets here the sooner it's over...

 

[seela]

Part of getting it, Lizzie-darlin', might be to note the poster's location: Amsterdam. It's a reasonably decent bet that English (or Amurrican or Ozzie) is not the poster's native language, and given that English (in its various incarnations) is perhaps the most difficult alphabet-based (as opposed to pictogram-based) languages to master...

Actually, my experience has been that non-natives usually have fewer problems with spelling than natives. The non-natives have to learn the spelling at the same time as they learn to speak and understand the language, so it's easier for them to make the connections. The written and spoken forms don't seem so alien from one another, because that's just the way it is. At least if you learn in school.

And he does say on his profile he's studied English, so I wouldn't make excuses for his horrific plurals. Then again, it seems like most of the natives (not on Lit, thank god) have similar problems.

 

[karma9]

Oopst, it seems as if I stepped on shit.

 

[where]

Oh good. Hopefully that means I won't be hearing from him again.

huh? you mean he PMed you?

*sulks*

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

Dick heads, it's so nice that I hear you all; screaming on all four.

every time I see this post, I'm reminded of Machine Gun Fellatio's Let me be your dirty fucking whore

That's not KK Juggy singing it, but you get the idea

 

[Pulledtaffy]

I think you're very smart to know and honour your own proclivities at your age. I didn't, and if I had, and stuck to what I knew was true about myself then, I know my life would have gone down a much more satisfactory path. However, we become free when we let ourselves, and not a day sooner. So... having said that, I shall now sort-of contradict myself and say, 18 is just a number. If you feel strong, be strong; if you're feeling weak, let yourself be weak. The number on that day won't matter to you anywhere near as much as getting through each day with your integrity and self-respect. In the final analysis, as long as you feel like you've been true to yourself, you've really, truly done the best for yourself that you could. It's the finding out what "true" means that's so difficult.

 

[Aurantica]

I actually agree. Don't totally postpone kink but don't get insane about it either. Just have some adventures. Don't get all psycho and good girls don't about it but don't get too casual about your emotions if they're getting bruised. I'm actually really glad I had a few years to stew between 19 and 23 when I was sorting this stuff. It was hard enough.

I second that!

 

[Shagly]

I am an 18 year old sub in high school. I am a writer, yet. I am a virgin. But, i've read a lot, and my fantasies are quite detailed. I will probably only share my sub side with my boyfriends. ( I am currently single and only one guy knows about that side)
I wanted to know if You educated Doms and subs have any advice for me before I enter the lifestyle.

Let loose and find a master.