I'm back, even if you didn't know I was missing

Furry, Miles, Curious and Lally are all still here and post regularly.

Furry can be found in the Book threads, and the others are floating around both Café and Talk.

Really? Cool. I feel a little less lonely.
 
Thanks. I'm wondering if several of those who left are over there.

There is a thread...see below... now included in this post that discusses the current status of Fet. Apparently it is not as easy to get an account there as in the past.

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1329144

Quite a few of the more established posters do have accounts there, I am sure someone could help you find folks.

I too miss people who used to be here. I miss them like I miss friends who have died. There is an empty place...and I can't reach them, and it gets harder and harder to recall their voice, but I am aware of "rooms" I am in where those voices are sorely missed. The conversation would be different with their participation.

please forgive me if the comparison feels wrong to you...it is imperfect, but the best I could reach for at the moment.

cb :heart:
 
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There is a thread...(and I would include a link to it if I were not on my phone atm ~ I'll probably find it and edit this post to add it within 12 hours) that discusses the current status of Fet. Apparently it is not as easy to get an account there as in the past.

Quite a few of the more established posters do have accounts there, I am sure someone could help you find folks.

I too miss people who used to be here. I miss them like I miss friends who have died. There is an empty place...and I can't reach them, and it gets harder and harder to recall their voice, but I am aware of "rooms" I am in where those voices are sorely missed. The conversation would be different with their participation.

please forgive me if the comparison feels wrong to you...it is imperfect, but the best I could reach for at the moment.

cb :heart:
I have an account over here. I'm DVS over there, too. I just don't care much for the format and the white text on the black background. I've posted stories of mine over there that Lit considered too "non-consensual" to post. I never really understood that, but that's one of the strange questions I'll never get an answer for. I even went to Laurel and she said no...not even with a disclaimer up front. Lit has a non-consensual section for stories. I agree, mine is pretty out there, so maybe it was just too far out there for Lit's standards.
 
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I have returned after a couple years', mostly involuntary, hiatus. I am sure you probably don't remember me, but I do remember you, and it is nice to see a familiar face amongst many unfamiliar ones.
 
I have returned after a couple years', mostly involuntary, hiatus. I am sure you probably don't remember me, but I do remember you, and it is nice to see a familiar face amongst many unfamiliar ones.
I'm sorry, I don't remember you, but that is a really nice AV. I like it. And it's also nice that you consider me a familiar face. Thanks for that.
 
I'm sorry, I don't remember you, but that is a really nice AV. I like it. And it's also nice that you consider me a familiar face. Thanks for that.

I appreciate your honesty, and there was no need to apologize. We did not interact much, and I probably remember you mostly due to your unchanged Alfred Hitchcock AV, honestly. I have quite an AH obsession.

This is a new AV for me, the old one not necessarily a good representative of who I am now. I snapped the squirrel picture in my yard a few years ago. That little guy loved the apples we put out for him. We now live close to 1,000 miles east of that house.

Enough rambling. Have a marvelous night. Or day. Or whatever it is when you read this.
 
I appreciate your honesty, and there was no need to apologize. We did not interact much, and I probably remember you mostly due to your unchanged Alfred Hitchcock AV, honestly. I have quite an AH obsession.

This is a new AV for me, the old one not necessarily a good representative of who I am now. I snapped the squirrel picture in my yard a few years ago. That little guy loved the apples we put out for him. We now live close to 1,000 miles east of that house.

Enough rambling. Have a marvelous night. Or day. Or whatever it is when you read this.
Shit, now I do feel bad, if we interacted in some way.

And my AV doesn't change much, if ever. I have an obsession with Alfred, too. Man, I really feel bad, about this, now. :eek:
 
Shit, now I do feel bad, if we interacted in some way.

And my AV doesn't change much, if ever. I have an obsession with Alfred, too. Man, I really feel bad, about this, now. :eek:

Please, do not feel bad; that was not my intent. I think our interaction was primarily limited to a few changes on the introduction thread on the talk page in 2014 (somewhere around pages 9-13. I was surprised to find my original post there, as I had guessed the thread would have hit the 5,000 mark between June 2014 and now. You tipped me about the secret to your AV. And, I couldn't really forget a man so interested in electroplating, especially because that is not of particular interest to me. Perhaps because my only experience with experience with things electric involve an unpleasant electromyogram (EMG) and nerve conduction studies (NCS) on my legs when my multiple sclerosis began causing peripheral neuropathy in my feet. N

ow I am rambling on, as I am too often won't to do, but perhaps we shall become better acquainted with one another as time goes on.
 
Welcome back fun.size.sub:rose:
I'm glad it helps to recognize DVS among all the new AVs.
Another reason I'm glad he's here and posting again.

cb:heart:

Thank you for the warm welcome, cascadiabound. You know, I really don't love my user name, but alas, it seems it is near impossible to change one's user name without a UN declaration, but I didn't want to start over 100%, because it would have meant creating a new email account/address, etc.

But, I digress. It seems we missed each other by a little less than a year, but I look forward to hopefully getting to know you in the future. Barring another 1,000 relocation/another major multiple sclerosis relapse, I hope to stick around a little longer this time.
 
Thank you for the warm welcome, cascadiabound. You know, I really don't love my user name, but alas, it seems it is near impossible to change one's user name without a UN declaration, but I didn't want to start over 100%, because it would have meant creating a new email account/address, etc.

But, I digress. It seems we missed each other by a little less than a year, but I look forward to hopefully getting to know you in the future. Barring another 1,000 relocation/another major multiple sclerosis relapse, I hope to stick around a little longer this time.


So glad to meet you officially... and why don't you tell us how you would like us to refer to you on an open thread if you dislike your nic? I think whatever it is it'll catch on if you start to use it, or if you sign your posts with it.

Cascadia :heart:
 
PM laurel. I know, as the site has grown she's had difficulty keeping up.... maybe Etoile (our mod) can help you get her attention?

I've changed my name here 3 times without creating a new account. Though... the last time was 2005

I didn't actually try, but did read that to change a user name, one has to message an admin, and have a very good reason for wanting to change it. It is not that I really hate it, but I think it seems silly now, and somewhat ill-fitting, though I am just under 5' tall. And, I didn't think about the fact that so many people would think it was cute to liken me to a full-size candy bar. And, now that it is getting close to Halloween, I am just waiting for the sickeningly annoying PMs regarding candy to start. I guess I am more annoyed with myself for failing to really think it through two+ years ago. I think I will take Cascadia's advice once I think of something that seems more suitable.
 
FurryFury, ecstaticsub, Miles Long, Curious_in_Cali, LallyH and ultramarineblue I guess you are all gone, too. I'm really starting to feel melancholy here.

ecstaticsub is active on Fetlife, FWIW.



DVS, hello so wonderful to see you. I haven't signed on here for at least a couple of months or so, maybe? Seeing you posting and seeing that you mentioned me warmed my heart.

As Etoile says (and thank you for the mention) I am more active on Fetlife than here lately, though not as active over there as i was was either.

I don't post much mostly because well...poly makes speaking out in public more difficult. I always had to watch what I said because someone else was involved and since that new someone else is very mono things changed a great deal. My D/s relationship is still as loving and strong as ever. But the D/s aspect is different now and not something I can discuss in a public forum.

I used to really enjoy talking about D/s, relationships and kink. But now since I am unable to share anything of importance visiting these forums makes me kind of sad and frustrated.

I do come back every once in a while to just lurk and check to see if any from way back when has stopped in.
 
Ecstaticsub! So nice to see you. You are the Fifth Element, and may well fulfill the prophecy.
 
Yes, just one hand. :) Discovered I liked it by mistake. I am sensible about it:)
Smart. holding both hands on the wire could also loosen the fillings in your teeth! LOL, just kidding. I'm here all week...try the veal!
 
DVS, hello so wonderful to see you. I haven't signed on here for at least a couple of months or so, maybe? Seeing you posting and seeing that you mentioned me warmed my heart.

As Etoile says (and thank you for the mention) I am more active on Fetlife than here lately, though not as active over there as i was was either.

I don't post much mostly because well...poly makes speaking out in public more difficult. I always had to watch what I said because someone else was involved and since that new someone else is very mono things changed a great deal. My D/s relationship is still as loving and strong as ever. But the D/s aspect is different now and not something I can discuss in a public forum.

I used to really enjoy talking about D/s, relationships and kink. But now since I am unable to share anything of importance visiting these forums makes me kind of sad and frustrated.

I do come back every once in a while to just lurk and check to see if any from way back when has stopped in.
Just being over there recently, I think there has been a mass exedus of many of the old regulars to Fet. And I'm not that thrilled with that place. But for one thing, it's huge, so there's that. But I don't like the format and I don't like the reverse text view that much either. But, I have made friends over there, just the same.

Maybe I should check out the scene over there more often. In the past, I've enjoyed both places, as they are so different. And there are several hundred kinky people from my own city over there. I think I'm the only one from my city over here.

It's a little too easy to exist over there and not be noticed, though. Here, you make a few waves and people notice. :rolleyes:
 
I didn't actually try, but did read that to change a user name, one has to message an admin, and have a very good reason for wanting to change it. It is not that I really hate it, but I think it seems silly now, and somewhat ill-fitting, though I am just under 5' tall. And, I didn't think about the fact that so many people would think it was cute to liken me to a full-size candy bar. And, now that it is getting close to Halloween, I am just waiting for the sickeningly annoying PMs regarding candy to start. I guess I am more annoyed with myself for failing to really think it through two+ years ago. I think I will take Cascadia's advice once I think of something that seems more suitable.
You don't have to go through some of the hoops, if you sweet talk Laurel. It's not easy, but she might just take care of it herself. Be patient, though. She's busy and it might take a while for her to get back to you.
 
Please, do not feel bad; that was not my intent. I think our interaction was primarily limited to a few changes on the introduction thread on the talk page in 2014 (somewhere around pages 9-13. I was surprised to find my original post there, as I had guessed the thread would have hit the 5,000 mark between June 2014 and now. You tipped me about the secret to your AV. And, I couldn't really forget a man so interested in electroplating, especially because that is not of particular interest to me. Perhaps because my only experience with experience with things electric involve an unpleasant electromyogram (EMG) and nerve conduction studies (NCS) on my legs when my multiple sclerosis began causing peripheral neuropathy in my feet. N

ow I am rambling on, as I am too often won't to do, but perhaps we shall become better acquainted with one another as time goes on.
OK, I feel better now. I tend to ramble, too. At least I'm told I do. And your usage of three initials to explain such technical issues, I only know of one set of three initials.

I've know a lady who has a nerve condition in her arms. She has braces for her arms that she sometimes has to wear and has trouble picking up large things, sometimes. I wonder if a TENS unit would help her condition. And I'd guess she already knows about them, because she's a retired RN. And she cold also be one of those wimps who thinks electricity is scary.
 
Just stopping by to say hello!
HEY, Sweetie! Long time no see and all of that. I hope you are doing well. Even though I'm back, I haven't posted much. Maybe I'm only 50% back. I've had some issues with a few people...I guess they think I'm being a prick or something, which I can understand, seeing they don't know me. Oh, well.

Post again. These drive by posts only give me a glimpse of you.
 
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