I'm having a lesbian affair...with a married woman

[Dill_the_Dog]

Wow.
What a whirlwind!
You're right - you don't know how you'll react because you don't know what's going to be on the table. If he has a side piece in NYC it would be hugely hypocritical if he didn't allow Geneva the same lattitude.
But all you can do is think about all the possible scenarios and how you would feel about them, and at dinner just be really cool, and consider what they say very carefully before committing to anything.

 

[peekingone]

Good morning, wow just catching up. This has gotten more complicated. Tread lightly for sure. Give it 24 hours before you make any decisions. Make decisions from emotions isn’t good.
Good luck.

 

[Raybies93]

I'm not sure where it's going.

I'm crazy about her and think about her a lot and I've got butterflies and I masturbated on the phone with her earlier tonight.

I'm confused and excited and aroused.

I think I'm falling in love with her.

I’m falling in love with this amazing story

 

[jenpage]

Lass--

I would be very surprised if the husband was not planning to make love with you. Maybe both of you at the same time.

 

[MiaDani80]

I'm sure I'm not the only one waiting for Lass's update with bated breath today!

 

[Bryan_C]

Best of luck for the meeting! I might have suggested a more neutral location than their place, but probably not a big deal. I expect that she does still love him and she's being honest about them wanting to stay together. That doesn't have to be a deal breaker unless you need it to be, which it sounds like you don't necessarily.

 

[MiaDani80]

Has anyone heard from Lass? Just want to know she's safe. Been no posts since her meeting last night

 

[Michael_Keaton]

Has anyone heard from Lass? Just want to know she's safe. Been no posts since her meeting last night

Hoping for the best, preparing for the worst.

 

[PB26385]

I was concerned, as others expressed, about her meeting them at the house instead of someplace neutral and public, in case her husband made a scene. Hope to hear something positive from her soon...

 

[LaotianLass]

I'm okay. I'm so sorry if I worried anyone.

It's been very emotional and I'm mixed up and twisted around but physically well.

 

[LaotianLass]

Let's just say. Those who felt he wanted to have sex with me were right.

We met, we talked, we came to some agreements. When he's in NYC, he can see his mistress there. And Geneva can be with me.

It all seemed so nice and agreeable. He always sounds so reasonable and you want to agree with him.

He had one last condition

 

[BornNorCal]

You are always welcome to DM if you need to vent or process. All are glad you are relatively safe.

 

[LaotianLass]

You will fuck me, he said. Before you leave tonight. Or you will never see her again.

She was as shocked as I was. She said I didn't have to.

 

[LaotianLass]

He said she could watch. Or participate. But that I owed him. He threw that at me after we already agreed.

She's afraid of him and can't lie to him. That's why she told him about us.

So I said yeah. Fine

So I fucked him. He got what he wanted. She watched.

It wasn't difficult. He's very attractive, he has a nice cock, he knows what he's doing.

He insisted on in being bareback. Ok why not?

 

[LaotianLass]

I just like, found this place inside me. Like a different person. Like this whore version that would do that without thinking twice.

He was rough and nasty and he made me cum a bunch of times. It wasn't fun but the physical pleasure was very intense.

 

[Matiny]

I've posted about my budding relationship with a very beautiful, very sexy, very MARRIED woman. But even though it started slowly and shyly, it seems to be heating up in a wild and wonderful way so I decided why not post my own thread so you can see it blossom kind of in real time?

I guess maybe affairs with married people aren't too shocking on Lit, and certainly not sexuality between women. But this is kind of new to me, I've been hit on a lot by married men and long ago decided not to go there. And even though I'm bisexual, I've never been hit on by a married woman nor have I pursued one.

The woman I seem to be getting involved told me (while we were still "just friends") that she is completely straight and very happily married (no kids yet.)

I'm also a bisexual. I have also tried a non-marriage-based trio relationship, but I can't understand extramarital affairs. Is it exciting? But psychologically, I always feel that I'm being unfaithful to my marriage.

 

[LaotianLass]

I've been emotionally numb since it happened. Geneva and I haven't spoken, it's been what, 3-4 days.

 

[LaotianLass]

I whored myself out for here and I don't even feel like talking to her.

Anyway sorry i waited so long to post, I just didn't really feel like talking.

Anyway that's it for now.

Thanks everyone

 

[Michael_Keaton]

So glad you're physically ok. You had us worried there for a while! Take your time in gathering your thoughts and post when you feel up to it.

 

[MiaDani80]

I'm okay. I'm so sorry if I worried anyone.

It's been very emotional and I'm mixed up and twisted around but physically well.

Thank goodness! Genuinely was worried as we hadn't heard from you and perhaps I've read too many awful stories about love triangles and crazy husbands but it's really good to hear from you.

 

[Bryan_C]

She's afraid of him and can't lie to him. That's why she told him about us.

So I said yeah. Fine

So I fucked him. He got what he wanted. She watched.

Do you have a sense for how she felt about it, watching?

Also - her being afraid of him is a giant red flag in that relationship...

 

[peekingone]

For sure a SUPER complex situation. In the end you need to care and worry about yourself. That is what matters. Everything else will fall where it needs to fall.

 

[Iris_66]

So much to unpack there … please be careful lass. This guy sounds like a total narcissist and sociopath. The way he is seeking to control this situation and his actions dismissing his own affair whilst ‘allowing’ Geneva to see you … with conditions … makes me worried

 

[MyMostSecretLife]

So much to unpack there … please be careful lass. This guy sounds like a total narcissist and sociopath. The way he is seeking to control this situation and his actions dismissing his own affair whilst ‘allowing’ Geneva to see you … with conditions … makes me worried

Absolutely, Iris.

 

[Kissjoanie]

He will continue to want to fuck you he will not let you off.