Impregnating and Domination - Is there a link

[graceanne]

The ratio of men to women who harbor this fantasy is slightly skewed. But that's true of most fantasies, there's less reliable data from women and fewer people are asking.

I know from my own circles that there are a lot of people who are SOOOO into how sexy and hot and earth mama they were pregnant that I can't say for sure women don't have some twisted little fantasies on this theme.

It's completely foreign to me, but people eroticize swiffers and boogers and dogs - the world is so widely weird.

True. I just can't see it, but then I hated being pregnant.

My dad always said that if men and women had to take turns having children every family would have three. The woman would have one, the man would have one, the woman would have one and the man would say 'fuck that!'

My brother in law said 'I don't need to have a baby to jump forward to 'fuck that'.'

Kenny agreed. lol After I had A he said that I never had to have another baby again if I didn't want to. Of course two years later he was singing another tune. How easy they forget.

 

[Etoile]

Boogers and swiffers? I haven't heard those before! But I know it can be anything under the sun. Pregnancy is pretty tame as these things go.

I can see it as lukewarm. Not hot, but lukewarm. In an EXTREMELY abstract way. Like, pretend Mondrian's paintings are actually the skyline of Paris, and that's how abstract it is.

 

[intothewoods]

A link. Hmm...

From an evolutionary perspective, (which by the way is total crap and laced with biases, but fun anyway)

No

Not int he D/s sense. If a dom got his female pregnant all the time you would have kids running around at inopportune moments and without enough food to go around. Plus the female would probably die from too much stress on her body.

Theory is hominid women have the impregnate or not choice in nature, because they are the judge of adequate situation to have kids in. That's why women are naturally sexually aroused by lots of money.

Theory also states that all men fuck everything women looking in sight. So they would have little control over when, but simply are more of an activation switch when the women is ready.

However, impregnating my girl when I see fit, forcing her to go through that extended and taxing process, using her body as a vessel for my offspring. That is hot, especially when its against her will. It's like establishing total claim over her. But at the same time I know the moment need to be right. My first born is gonna be a lot of work for me, and I got to be more then ready for that. So when that times comes.

Awww. Rest up, sweetie.

 

[graceanne]

Just for giggles:

My cousin has no intention of every having a baby. When I was preggers with A she said "I just can't imagine being pregnant, having something living inside you, feeding off you - like a parasite."

I just about died laughing. LOL

 

[ZRT]

Just for giggles:

My cousin has no intention of every having a baby. When I was preggers with A she said "I just can't imagine being pregnant, having something living inside you, feeding off you - like a parasite."

I just about died laughing. LOL

You'd probably enjoy a choice quote from an old acquaintance- "I've seen Aliens. That's all I need to know about 'growing a new life inside of me.'"

 

[Netzach]

Just for giggles:

My cousin has no intention of every having a baby. When I was preggers with A she said "I just can't imagine being pregnant, having something living inside you, feeding off you - like a parasite."

I just about died laughing. LOL

There's a punchline to this story? I don't get it.

 

[graceanne]

You'd probably enjoy a choice quote from an old acquaintance- "I've seen Aliens. That's all I need to know about 'growing a new life inside of me.'"

When I was about 8 months along with A she was moving, and you could see it. I called K in to watch and he was like "It's like something from Aliens."

ROFLMAO

 

[Netzach]

Boogers and swiffers? I haven't heard those before! But I know it can be anything under the sun. Pregnancy is pretty tame as these things go.

I can see it as lukewarm. Not hot, but lukewarm. In an EXTREMELY abstract way. Like, pretend Mondrian's paintings are actually the skyline of Paris, and that's how abstract it is.

I just pulled randoms from my ass. I'm counting on the law of averages that someone, somewhere...

 

[graceanne]

There's a punchline to this story? I don't get it.

Her entire comment was funny. I jokingly call my kids 'the parasites' sometimes. Not so much anymore, cause the last time I did that they jumped me and pretended to take bites out of me. Except two year old's don't pretend real well, and he bit me.

 

[intothewoods]

There's a punchline to this story? I don't get it.

Heh. Ha ha. Yes, they are parasites. Eventually they can make their own sandwiches I'm told.

 

[graceanne]

Heh. Ha ha. Yes, they are parasites. Eventually they can make their own sandwiches I'm told.

A wonderful day in a parents life. Not as awesome as when they don't need diapers anymore or they can feed themselves without making a mess, but still a wonderful day.

I'm looking forward to the day they can find their own shoes without helps and/or threats.

 

[Netzach]

A wonderful day in a parents life. Not as awesome as when they don't need diapers anymore or they can feed themselves without making a mess, but still a wonderful day.

I'm looking forward to the day they can find their own shoes without helps and/or threats.

I will admit "where the hell are my shoes" are words often uttered in my house and not by M.

 

[graceanne]

I will admit "where the hell are my shoes" are words often uttered in my house and not by M.

I've been known to say that, but when I say it they're normally somewhere hard to find. As opposed to . . . right in the shoe box where they belong, but evidently can't be found in. Or in the middle of the living room floor where the child who's looking for them has to have tripped/stepped over them A MILLION TIMES.

 

[OceanGoddess]

I adored being pregnant. And I've always found the idea of my partner and I creating a life incredibly erotic. If I think about becoming pregnant from our lovemaking during the act, it ratchets my desire up a few notches.

There is some element of domination/submission lurking in those thoughts.

 

[YourCaptor]

I've managed to restrain this particular reaction, up until now...

During the process of pregnancy and birth, a perfectly healthy woman is closer to/at greater risk of death, than at any other time in her adult life.

Amniotic embolism... Total Hotness.

Lucky for you, at any other time men are much more prone to die then women.

Plus, its been proven women can orgasm while giving birth, provide they take nothing against the pain. If you try that next time it could possibly help.



JK

Awww. Rest up, sweetie.

You know I do intend to actually raise my kids. Once the mothers boobs are not needed anymore she can do her own thing for all I care. Especially since the women I want to keep with me for life and the mother of my kid will most likely be separate people.

 

[intothewoods]

You know I do intend to actually raise my kids. Once the mothers boobs are not needed anymore she can do her own thing for all I care. Especially since the women I want to keep with me for life and the mother of my kid will most likely be separate people.

Mothers are really just a set of boobs after all. Good thinking.

 

[Etoile]

Heck, you don't even technically need the boobs. Adoptive mothers can induce lactation. You can use formula. Seems to me you just need a uterus.

 

[Marquis]

I don't hide the fact that I think the idea of impregnating a woman is highly erotic to me. But I was curious as well to the role it plays when it relates to D/s.

True submission, in my eyes, is a gift. And I can see no greater gift than for a woman to give herself in a way she is letting a man claim her womb with his seed.

The ultimate mark upon a woman's body. A collar can be removed, but when her round tummy on display for all to see, that is the ultimate submission.

Thoughts?

This makes sense to me and I appreciate the description.

I guess I've fantasized about the day I'm ready to have children, and the sex that will occur with the express intention of meeting that goal.

Never thought about what it'd be like to walk around with a beautiful pregnant woman though.

 

[graceanne]

Lucky for you, at any other time men are much more prone to die then women.

Plus, its been proven women can orgasm while giving birth, provide they take nothing against the pain. If you try that next time it could possibly help.

I've never heard this, and I didn't have any pain meds with my oldest until they got me ready for the cesarean.

That said, I don't think it's worth it.

You know I do intend to actually raise my kids. Once the mothers boobs are not needed anymore she can do her own thing for all I care. Especially since the women I want to keep with me for life and the mother of my kid will most likely be separate people.

Good luck on that one.

 

[sunandshadow]

If you're looking for an example of a woman who has a fetish for pregnancy, I'm your example. As ome look at my erotic writing will demonstrate:
http://www.yiffstar.com/?pid=58042

(But again, I'm not a submissive or a dominant.)

 

[00Syd]

Just for giggles:

My cousin has no intention of every having a baby. When I was preggers with A she said "I just can't imagine being pregnant, having something living inside you, feeding off you - like a parasite."

I just about died laughing. LOL

They are a parasite. Your body at first tries to kill the fertilized egg as if it was a foreign pathogen but then the little fertilized egg sends out a hormone that TRICKS your body into thinking its safe. Incredibly devious. Little does your body know... and then *SNAP!*

Your feeding a little bugger for 18 years.

 

[intothewoods]

They are a parasite. Your body at first tries to kill the fertilized egg as if it was a foreign pathogen but then the little fertilized egg sends out a hormone that TRICKS your body into thinking its safe. Incredibly devious. Little does your body know... and then *SNAP!*

Your feeding a little bugger for 18 years.

Yeah, I've heard this. Interesting stuff. Pregnancy is one muther fuckin mindandbodyfuck, y'all.

This makes sense to me and I appreciate the description.

I guess I've fantasized about the day I'm ready to have children, and the sex that will occur with the express intention of meeting that goal.

Never thought about what it'd be like to walk around with a beautiful pregnant woman though.

I couldn't get over the idea that I'm walking around presenting evidence of my sex life. And everyone asks you all of these questions that, absent a baby, would not be appropriate. I mean, you don't ask your coworkers when they had sex! And yet, everyone's like, so how far along are you? You got pregnant when?

And questions like, so, are you and your spouse trying? That means fucking! You just asked me about fucking!

Heck, you don't even technically need the boobs. Adoptive mothers can induce lactation. You can use formula. Seems to me you just need a uterus.

Fine, Etoile! Just take away my only claim to usefulness on this planet. Oh, I guess I still have the uterus. Hooray.

 

[Lady Reiha]

They are a parasite. Your body at first tries to kill the fertilized egg as if it was a foreign pathogen but then the little fertilized egg sends out a hormone that TRICKS your body into thinking its safe. Incredibly devious. Little does your body know... and then *SNAP!*

Your feeding a little bugger for 18 years.

This is the best post I have read in a few years!

 

[graceanne]

They are a parasite. Your body at first tries to kill the fertilized egg as if it was a foreign pathogen but then the little fertilized egg sends out a hormone that TRICKS your body into thinking its safe. Incredibly devious. Little does your body know... and then *SNAP!*

Your feeding a little bugger for 18 years.

LOL!!

 

[YourCaptor]

Mothers are really just a set of boobs after all. Good thinking.

Heck, you don't even technically need the boobs. Adoptive mothers can induce lactation. You can use formula. Seems to me you just need a uterus.

I can handle the rest, you all got something against single fathers?

No formula or strangers, I don't think its the healthiest choice.