Incest: For Real or Just a Fantasy?

[LindsayRae]

He does trust me. I've never implied otherwise. The fact still remains that the comments from the past did hurt him. And thank you for assuming that he is jealous. He has nothing to be jealous of since I do not hold desires for another.

 

[LindsayRae]

It's not easy to write from the heart about something that has caused pain- beautifuly written and well spelled out warning for us all.

Thank you.

 

[redheadedtxn]

A few posters in this thread make me genuinely concerned for any children that may be in their life.

 

[ramrod32784]

I don't think jealousy or trust enter the picture that much I think it is the fact that you have been in so much pain from then and he is trying to lessen it to an extent.Many peoplle feel if you don't think about the pain it goes away.I've found that it doesen't and the only way to lessen it is to find someone who has been there.

 

[Stella_Omega]

My step-dad/step-daughter story is based on my fantasies, so I picked #2. I'm interested, but I don't think she is - she didn't talk to me for months when I told her I'd do her at the drop of a hat.

Or maybe she *is* interested and doesn't know what to do...? Hmmm... new story/fantasy writing itself. And me at work...

You told her?

You're lucky she only "didn't speak to you for months." You put her in a very bad position. Let's look at this.

You are offering to cheat on your wife, with a far younger woman "At the drop of a hat."

A young woman who lives under your roof with you. Who owes her MOTHER some love and loyalty. Who now has evidence that you do not feel love and loyalty for your WIFE.

Who may or may not have resources to get the hell away from you.

Who might not know how her mother would react if she told her. Would she even believe her daughter, or would she blame the girl for trying to break up her marriage? Would she lose all her security? Where would she go?

You had better believe she thought about all of those things during those months she wasn't speaking to you. If you make the slightest move toward her ever again, you will discover what her decisions were.

 

[LindsayRae]

I don't think jealousy or trust enter the picture that much I think it is the fact that you have been in so much pain from then and he is trying to lessen it to an extent.Many peoplle feel if you don't think about the pain it goes away.I've found that it doesen't and the only way to lessen it is to find someone who has been there.

Was this post directed towards my reply to Hans?

 

[IrezumiKiss]

I feel so vanilla here compared to some of you hardcore motherfuckers.* The closest I've ever gone with incest is tongue kissing and feeling the titties of an incredibly distant cousin I only met once when we were impressionable but horny youths.

*see what I did there?

 

[Fyrewing]

@Stella - Naturally, there was more to the conversation than the highly abbreviated version I gave. Suffice it to say, the topic only came up because I was receiving what I thought were encouraging signals to begin with. *shrug* I was wrong, I apologized, we moved on. But fantasies linger... so I use my fiction to "let them happen" without creating the same ripples that would be made should they be acted upon.

 

[ramrod32784]

The post was directed towards me,I carry some of the demons that have been described here and have no wish to offend anyone.If something is right for you more power to you

 

[Stella_Omega]

@Stella - Naturally, there was more to the conversation than the highly abbreviated version I gave. Suffice it to say, the topic only came up because I was receiving what I thought were encouraging signals to begin with. *shrug* I was wrong, I apologized, we moved on. But fantasies linger... so I use my fiction to "let them happen" without creating the same ripples that would be made should they be acted upon.

Which is a great way to use fantasies, after all, and so do I.

 

[Fyrewing]

My life would be a LOT less frustrating if I weren't ... blessed? cursed? with such an active and VIVID imagination!


...but then I would be boring as hell...

 

[LifeofRiley2010]

Poll choices

Need a 'nearly had incest' answer.
Older sister and I got very close -
made each other climax thru petting, humping thru clothes, in swimsuits.

She fixed me up with her best friend -
with whom I had some of my first sexual experiences.

 

[LittleMisss]

HmmmmMmmm

 

[LifeofRiley2010]

Like the sound of that?

It was hot. I think now that sis was feeling a lil guilty for taking advantage (hah!) of her lil brother.

When her friend stroked and masturbated me you know I kept thinking about my ssiter.

 

[Hans101]

He does trust me. I've never implied otherwise. The fact still remains that the comments from the past did hurt him. And thank you for assuming that he is jealous. He has nothing to be jealous of since I do not hold desires for another.

He is hurt by comments you made before you ever met him about an imaginary lover who never existed....

Yeah.....

Like I said, he needs to trust you and put aside his childish jealousy.

The other possibility is that his professed feelings are an affectation intended to manipulate you. People who can't deal with someone else on an adult level will commonly try to make them feel guilty as this is an easy way to control them.

 

[Nasty_Deeds]

It was hot. I think now that sis was feeling a lil guilty for taking advantage (hah!) of her lil brother.

When her friend stroked and masturbated me you know I kept thinking about my ssiter.

A lot of siblings explore sexually when growing up, (nothing abnormal about that); however, I assume that neither you nor your sister are children any longer, so if you are still sexually attracted to your sister, why not talk to her about it. She at least needs to get past feeling guilty about something that is normal for children to explore.

And if it turns out that both of you are still sexually attracted to each other, why not act on your natural feelings. Or you can let other people, (mostly people who know nothing about you), tell you what to do for the rest of your life.

 

[Stella_Omega]

He is hurt by comments you made before you ever met him about an imaginary lover who never existed....

Yeah.....

Like I said, he needs to trust you and put aside his childish jealousy.

The other possibility is that his professed feelings are an affectation intended to manipulate you. People who can't deal with someone else on an adult level will commonly try to make them feel guilty as this is an easy way to control them.

There are times when relationship advice is useful and there are times when it is not. You don't have enough information to make these suppositions. Lindsay Rae has already said she wasn't interested in advice. Believe her.

 

[LindsayRae]

He is hurt by comments you made before you ever met him about an imaginary lover who never existed....

Yeah.....

Like I said, he needs to trust you and put aside his childish jealousy.

The other possibility is that his professed feelings are an affectation intended to manipulate you. People who can't deal with someone else on an adult level will commonly try to make them feel guilty as this is an easy way to control them.

Your assumptions are childish, not my fiancé. You speak of things you know nothing of. As both Stella and I have said, I do not seek your advice. Go "offer" it elsewhere.

 

[punkreader]

I personally don't find it a turn-on in the least, but likely because it has happened within my family for a couple generations, father-daughter (though, I, very thankfully, never went through it), and it was without exception in context of sexual abuse. So, because of my associations with it, and knowing people (as in, immediate family members_ who have experienced it as molestation and not a consensual act/relationship, I'm not into it.

That being said, I see nothing wrong with people who do it as a consensual thing or fantasize about it. It's just not my cup of tea.

 

[Jenna2641]

Definitely a dirty fantasy I enjoy, but not at all to do with my real family.
http://motivationalpornposters.blogspot.com/search/label/incest

Certainly a sexy one! Love that one and all the others you have on your blog! Keep having fun!

 

[BiUncle]

May feelings

HmmmmMmmm

exactly! ;o)

 

[culloden]

Some of the sibling or cousin stories are hot, but that's mainly because taboos are being broken and there's an element of risk. And it's because the participants are peers. There's nothing particularly appealing about the idea in and of itself.

Parent/child incest? Good grief, no. That's an appalling abuse of parental power. And I count step-relationships there, too (I won't watch Woody Allen movies anymore because of this).

 

[SWFL_Wordslinger]

I didn't vote, because there was no answer that fits me personally. For me, it's a little of both. The taboo element of the stories is very appealing to me, and I must admit the category I read the most is Incest/Taboo. The fantasy aspect excites the hell out of me. But I don't really care for dad/daughter stories. Thats just a little much for me, although I've read several hot mother/son stories. Go figure.

On the other hand, I've also had some experience in the subject as well.

My first sexual experiences were with my 2 of my older cousins (one male and one female). Kissing, showing each other our privates, trying oral, mutual masturbation etc. when we were pretty young. Later I had an ongoing sexual relationship with my niece who is the same age as me into our high school years. It started out as just playing with each others privates and "playing house" then moved to oral, and ended up fucking our brains out every time we were around each other. She was my first for both vaginal and anal sex. But sex is all it was, no feelings of love beyond the normal family context. Just two horny, introverted adolescents. In both cases, we have never spoken of it in our adult lives.

I don't have very many family members that I find attractive now, aside from a few female cousins that are hot. I've even fantasized about them in the past, but I wouldn't actively pursue anything. I would fuck the hell out of them given the chance though.

 

[HeyAll]

^^^


What's it like seeing those cousins now? Is it awkward? Anyone ever bring it up or does everyone try to forget about it?

 

[SWFL_Wordslinger]

No akwardness that I can sense, and no one brings it up at all. We don't see much of each other though since we live in different states.