Incest: For Real or Just a Fantasy?

[lz477]

I'm still attracted to older men. Sam Elliott, Sean Connery, the Men's Warehouse guy, Tom Selleck, and Kenny Loggins (to name just a few) have been by far yummier as men in their fifties and sixties than when they were younger! And my man is quite older than I. I guess I like "daddy men"...

Sorry. Great post, and not to make light of your fantasy, but the Men's Warehouse guy? That's got to be the first time he has ever been mentioned in the same sentence as Magnum P.I..

 

[LindsayRae]

Sorry. Great post, and not to make light of your fantasy, but the Men's Warehouse guy? That's got to be the first time he has ever been mentioned in the same sentence as Magnum P.I..

George Zimmer (and I knew if I said his name, people would be like "huh?") is a very sexy man and so is his voice! I guarantee it.

Also, "Magnum" was not sexy. An older Selleck, like during his brief stint on Friends, and older, is.

Same with Johnathan Frakes after Star Trek.

 

[LindsayRae]

...yummy... Selleck is on this episode of Las Vegas. *drool* lol

 

[Very_Bad_Man]

I was a physically matured youth and did engage in a sexual relationship with my mother. I'm sure such a relationship is not a healthy thing but to be honest I do look back on those times and find it hot. Most every women I ever had a long sexual relationship with was much like my mother and to this day I like women who mother me because I never ha that from my mother.

The sexual relationship with my mother lasted around 10 years and I honestly say I do not recommend the relationship. As much as I loved the sex I feel I lost out on the mother/son relationship of normal people and it caused hardship between my mother and I. I still have such mixed emotions and several years of therapy never helped me. I stoill imagine my mother during sex even after all these years.

My mother is deceased now. It was very odd that in adulthood my mother acted like it never happened and would totally ignore me when I brought it up.

I know I will never engage in sex with my children.

 

[Money1969]

I have had sexual contact with my brothers and my cousins. All of it when I was much younger. It didn't hurt anyone but it certainly changed the dynamics of our relationships.

 

[Poppy_Cross]

Mackenzie Phillips' Story

I don't know how many people know here , but actress and daughter of John Phillips, from the old group. Mamma's and the Pappas, Mackenzie Phillips has revealed her incestuous relationship with her father beginning at age 19. She wrote a book about it in her memoir: High on Arrival.

Here is an excerpt about it from Wiki. It is well known by Mackenzie herself she said she had sex with her dad. Some people think she's lying but she wrote a book about it so who knows:

"During the (Oprah) interview, Phillips read excerpts from her book. She said that at the age of 19, on the night before her first wedding, "I woke up that night from a blackout to find myself having sex with my own father." In a later article in People magazine she adds that she was under the influence of drugs provided by her father. Phillips then told Winfrey, "It became a consensual relationship," describing her participation as "sort of Stockholm Syndrome, where you begin to love your captor." She backed off from her claim that the relationship was consensual saying during her reception speech when she received a Voice of Courage award from Darkness To Light in November, 2009. Several months later she repeated her recantation in a more public setting during an interview on HLN's Joy Behar show, this assertion was repeated: "As I was writing the book, I thought, this word, it kept sitting wrong with me. But I used it for lack of a better word. Since then, I've been schooled by thousands of incest survivors all across the world that there really is no such thing as consensual incest due to the inherent power a parent has over a child. So, I wouldn't necessarily call it a consensual relationship at this time."

Phillips said the incestuous relationship had happened gradually for ten years, and that she ended it when she became pregnant and did not know who had fathered the child. She stated that her father paid for her to have an abortion, "and I never let him touch me again."

 

[pegfergie]

(I won't watch Woody Allen movies anymore because of this).

In fairness, Woody's situation had nothing to do with incest. First, Sun-Ye had no blood relationship with either Mia Farrow or Woody. Sun-Ye was adopted by Mia with her then husband Andre Previn, who Mia had previously seduced from her good friend, his earlier wife.

Then after Previn and Mia split, Woody began dating Mia. The relationship lasted for some years but Mia never could seal the deal. They lived separate and apart. To Sun-Ye at no time was Woody more then mom's boyfriend. That is to say there was no legal relationship whatsoever. Nor was he "dad", nor was he the head of the household.

Then when she was of age, Sun-Ye gave mom a taste of what mom had given Dore Previn those years before. A scandal yes, but not a crime. And since then Sun-Ye and Woody have been together something like three times as long as Woody and Mia dated. Their marriage seems successful.

As for the poll, it could have been better constructed. There should have been an option for doing it, but not necessarily as the "best".

 

[Hans101]

Your assumptions are childish, not my fiancé. You speak of things you know nothing of. As both Stella and I have said, I do not seek your advice. Go "offer" it elsewhere.

Obviously you were looking for input on your situation or you would not have posted about it here. I've offered my take on it, and you're upset because what I had to say was not something you liked hearing. If I'm wrong about things then I'm happy for you, no really I am. But if I'm right then I hope you get out before its too late.

 

[Hans101]

I personally don't find it a turn-on in the least, but likely because it has happened within my family for a couple generations, father-daughter (though, I, very thankfully, never went through it), and it was without exception in context of sexual abuse. So, because of my associations with it, and knowing people (as in, immediate family members_ who have experienced it as molestation and not a consensual act/relationship, I'm not into it.

That being said, I see nothing wrong with people who do it as a consensual thing or fantasize about it. It's just not my cup of tea.

I'm sorry that this happened to you and I'm glad that you know the difference between sex between adults that is consensual, and sexual abuse that is not consensual.

 

[sillygooz]

It has not been all fantasy for me..........I love the fantasy..........I love hearing of others fantasies........but in the end I love the fact that I had sexual relations with my family..........

For me.......the act of making love to my mother was simply one of the most exciting and loving things I have ever experienced.........she was lovely.

 

[daddyslittlebitch]

I notice a few people have suggested I should have added some other options in the poll. Does anybody know if it is possible to edit it to add them in?

 

[big_heart_nerd]

Sister and brother or Mother and son

I never fantasize about it irl, mostly fictional, I'm more into mother/ Son or Older sister/ Younger brother, I think this because I am a younger brother to a older sister, I only dreamed about it before with my sister when I was realy younge and I didn't know right from wrong, and I'm not realy into Father/ Daughter stuff, but I would like more roleplays pm me if your interested

 

[sillygooz]

I was a physically matured youth and did engage in a sexual relationship with my mother. I'm sure such a relationship is not a healthy thing but to be honest I do look back on those times and find it hot. Most every women I ever had a long sexual relationship with was much like my mother and to this day I like women who mother me because I never ha that from my mother.

The sexual relationship with my mother lasted around 10 years and I honestly say I do not recommend the relationship. As much as I loved the sex I feel I lost out on the mother/son relationship of normal people and it caused hardship between my mother and I. I still have such mixed emotions and several years of therapy never helped me. I stoill imagine my mother during sex even after all these years.

My mother is deceased now. It was very odd that in adulthood my mother acted like it never happened and would totally ignore me when I brought it up.

I know I will never engage in sex with my children.

I don't find it unusual that there are so many types of incestuous relationships and as many outcomes as well. After all we all are people coming from so many different back grounds.

But with that said............I feel fortunate to have had sex with my mother. She was loving......nurturing.......and not one to force me into anything.........although she was very seductive.......and had a naughty side.........mmmmm............I did love that about her.

Of course maybe some of the differences in my situation came from the fact that my father was aware of the sexual nature of our relationship and approved. Maybe another was that it was more about a more open family.........maybe the use of the term "family fun" would be more appropriate............

She never once acted jealous or strange about my girl friends or wife........And as the years passed my mother never denied it........she romanced about it.......cherishing our moments........and after my divorce and my father's passing.........we again shared many intimate moments.

I assume I am maybe one of the lucky few..........but I would not for a minute change the relationship I had with my parents.........

 

[Perplexi_Lexi]

As of now it's only been a fantasy for me, but as I posted in a dif thread I seriously want to make it a reality with my brothers. I understand how the majority of ppl feel about the "wrongness", for lack of a better word, of incest but I can't help wanting them sexually. On the other hand I can't even imagine being sexually attracted to either of my parents.

 

[culloden]

In fairness, Woody's situation had nothing to do with incest. First, Sun-Ye had no blood relationship with either Mia Farrow or Woody. Sun-Ye was adopted by Mia with her then husband Andre Previn, who Mia had previously seduced from her good friend, his earlier wife.

Then after Previn and Mia split, Woody began dating Mia. The relationship lasted for some years but Mia never could seal the deal. They lived separate and apart. To Sun-Ye at no time was Woody more then mom's boyfriend. That is to say there was no legal relationship whatsoever. Nor was he "dad", nor was he the head of the household.

Then when she was of age, Sun-Ye gave mom a taste of what mom had given Dore Previn those years before. A scandal yes, but not a crime. And since then Sun-Ye and Woody have been together something like three times as long as Woody and Mia dated. Their marriage seems successful.

As for the poll, it could have been better constructed. There should have been an option for doing it, but not necessarily as the "best".

I understand that, but the parent/child relationship isn't simply defined by blood. And the underage stuff? Well, I won't watch Roman Polanski, either.

 

[Stella_Omega]

I understand that, but the parent/child relationship isn't simply defined by blood. And the underage stuff? Well, I won't watch Roman Polanski, either.

In Allen and Sun-ye's case, there was zero parent/child relationship.

As in, none.

Zilch.

Sun-ye was not underaged.

And Allen is not Polanski.

In no sense of the word.

It's as if you're condemning all auto mechanics as thieves because one auto mechanic robbed a bank.

 

[Hans101]

Woody Allen married the daughter his ex girlfriend adopted with another man.

There isn't even an implied step-father relationship at work there.

The main thing that is creepy about those two is that he's Woody Allen. That's like marrying Millhouse from the Simpsons.

 

[MiriamL]

Of course maybe some of the differences in my situation came from the fact that my father was aware of the sexual nature of our relationship and approved.

The father's involvment is something you dont often see in these fantasies...its a very powerful twist!

 

[Fmature2play]

I have a friend that swears that at some point every boy will masturbate thinking about his mother. I have found my own under garments with stains on them hidden in the laundry (like I'd not remember wearing them) on more than one occasion in the past. Maybe she is right.

 

[bidaddy]

I have a friend that swears that at some point every boy will masturbate thinking about his mother. I have found my own under garments with stains on them hidden in the laundry (like I'd not remember wearing them) on more than one occasion in the past. Maybe she is right.

when men were boys they will masterbate to anything, mom, sister, neghibors, friends , any body on the street, , or even a knot hole in a tree. they have a new toy and they love to play. the nature of hormones.

 

[annievee99]

I think LindsayRae said it all very well.

I wasn't adopted, but my father left us in a bad way when I was very young, around 2. I never spoke to the man again, so I'm sure this is where my older men/daddy fetish comes from.

Having said that, I am only interested in the fantasy angle of it. I love reading the stories, and I have a burgeoning relationship with an online "daddy," which is very graphic and fulfills this fantasy in my head (and in my panties, lol).

I haven't gotten it all figured out, but I'm sure I'm somehow trying to get back at my real father in my head...but, whatever. It's hot and I enjoy it.

 

[sillygooz]

I think LindsayRae said it all very well.

I wasn't adopted, but my father left us in a bad way when I was very young, around 2. I never spoke to the man again, so I'm sure this is where my older men/daddy fetish comes from.

Having said that, I am only interested in the fantasy angle of it. I love reading the stories, and I have a burgeoning relationship with an online "daddy," which is very graphic and fulfills this fantasy in my head (and in my panties, lol).

I haven't gotten it all figured out, but I'm sure I'm somehow trying to get back at my real father in my head...but, whatever. It's hot and I enjoy it.

Good for you...........real daddies can be fun too............

 

[sillygooz]

I have a friend that swears that at some point every boy will masturbate thinking about his mother. I have found my own under garments with stains on them hidden in the laundry (like I'd not remember wearing them) on more than one occasion in the past. Maybe she is right.

Yes all boys that I know of would say they did..........even if they wouldn't say it.......

My mom caught me sniffing hers........after that she left them on top of the hamper..........and sometimes brought them to me.........she was a truly awesome mom...........

 

[partsecond]

Also, I'd like to add that this poll is really incomplete since it does not include options for people who have merely experienced incest but don't consider it "the best sex."

Right. Not best.

Fun, but not best.

 

[nisha_in61]

True

I think it is great to fantasize or RP, but I never wanted it in my real life.