FurryFury
Addict of Sensation
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Richard49 said:topping from the bottom?
You can look at it that way of course.
I would prefer to look at it differently, of course. I see it as a collaboration. In order to truly top from the bottom, after all, I have to be the bottom and have a top. In this relationship, I am not and do not. What we have here is either two subs, two switches or some combination thereof.
Frankly I am in charge most of the time. Not because I want to be necessarily though I don't mind being in charge of most things. There are some I really would like to let someone else be in charge of. In fact, I hunger for it.
I am in charge because, he pretty much refuses to be. Someone has to make things happen. That someone is almost always me. I'm the one who makes the plans, buys the toys, and so, on. I'm the girl who sees what needs to happen and make it come true. Call it whatever you like.
I'd LOVE for him to do it! Just once!
Fury