Is anal sex gay? - if you're male?

[intothewoods]

Gay for pay? Did the Girls Gone Wild girls get paid?

Why do you ask anyway, JM? I think that whole trend is on the decline. It's like kink becoming normal. Straight girls making out with each other. Yeah yeah, seen it.

 

[JMohegan]

Gay for pay? Did the Girls Gone Wild girls get paid?

Why do you ask anyway, JM? I think that whole trend is on the decline. It's like kink becoming normal. Straight girls making out with each other. Yeah yeah, seen it.

LOL @ gay for pay.

I'm asking because I was trying to think of the word, when writing my post to Shank about options. The closest I could come up with was Guy Who Wants to Please ITW.

 

[intothewoods]

LOL @ gay for pay.

I'm asking because I was trying to think of the word, when writing my post to Shank about options. The closest I could come up with was Guys Who Want to Please ITW.

Fixed that for you.

 

[JMohegan]

Fixed that for you.

Oh, right. Thanks!

 

[Sayyid]

Being late to this thread yet again, I don't have much to say except that homosexuality is a feeling, and anal sex with men is a physical act. One doesn't necessarily imply the other.

 

[MALIBUMAN666]

So what if a guy craves cock, but doesn't find men attractive, what does that make him?

Confused?

 

[Shankara20]

So what if a guy craves cock, but doesn't find men attractive, what does that make him?

Confused?

a cock sucker?

 

[Sayyid]

So what if a guy craves cock, but doesn't find men attractive, what does that make him?

Confused?

Attracted to the penises, not the men. Again, not gay. Gayness is about romantic feelings between men; it's very possible to be in a gay relationship without having sex (although I don't know why anyone would do this 'cause sex is fun). How, then can gay men have casual sex with each other? Simple: it's the kind of sex they like to have.

So having sex with men does not make a person gay any more than having sex with women makes them lesbians. Sex is one thing; sexuality is another.

 

[MisterSir]

So having sex with men does not make a person gay any more than having sex with women makes them lesbians.

In that it does? There's little you can do to be more gay than desiring and having sex with members of the same sex.

 

[Etoile]

And this is why words like 'biamory' were invented. If only they were used.

 

[Sayyid]

In that it does? There's little you can do to be more gay than desiring and having sex with members of the same sex.

Are MSM (men who have sex with men) gay? They're interested solely in the sex. They are not attracted to the men themselves. That is what makes them gay.

If a gay man had sex with a woman, would that make him straight or bi?

 

[radepor]

You guys are terrific!

Thank you, all. Don't know what's on GLBT but I think I'm glad I asked my question here, even if it's the wrong forum.

Nearly everyone has provided some valuable insight.

Yup. I don't touch the GB for a reason.

 

[wouldloveto]

A bit late to the thread, and my perusal shows me that most all has been covered, but I will weigh in anyway:

I love to get fucked in the ass by my gf. It has nothing to do with gay, it has to do with a sensory/sensual experience. It is also physiological, having to do with prostate stimulation... so...

enjoy, and do not let any sort of stigma get in the way!

 

[popcorn2721]

From the movie ROAD TRIP


Kyle: It's not cheating if you spread peanut butter on your balls and let your dog lick it off.
[Josh, Rubin and E.L. are understandably repulsed]
Kyle: Because it's your dog.
Rubin: Jesus Christ!
Kyle: You know, because it's YOUR dog, get it?
Rubin: Yeah, we've got it.

Thats what this thread reminded me of...


I told a buddy of mine about anal stimulation (analinguis to be specific) to which he replied "Dude... didnt that FEEL gay?".

 

[MasterMischief]

Not to mention I was taught in nursing school to milk a prostate if someone was unwilling to give a semen sample.

How you doin'?

 

[VelvetDarkness]

How you doin'?

Spot the lowest common denominator.

 

[MasterMischief]

Spot the lowest common denominator.

Oh please. I did not PM. That has to count for second lowest at least.

 

[nh23]

How you doin'?

Peachy!

 

[radepor]

Your caught me

One's past, and past post, eventually catches up with you doesn't it.

It's true, I confess; I was married for 20 years and I loved my wife and I vigorously, "loved" my wife till she died eight years ago. I haven't done sapiens (of either sex) since. [By the way, Cattypus; I'm not sure you intended to be all that helpful--but you were, anyway.]

You reminded me that one of my great physical pleasures was to have my wife lube up her tiny little foot and stick it up my ass; I regretted that she found it disgusting but did it anyway because it gave me such pleasure.

I think I may have muddled my way to the answer to my original question -- with a lot help. Thank you, all.

The OP famously doesn't "do" "homo sapiens".

I wonder if he fantasises about homo erectus (schoolboyish snigger)

 

[inferiormale]

So a guy can crave gay sex, have gay sex, love gay sex and still not be gay?

 

[Etoile]

So a guy can crave gay sex, have gay sex, love gay sex and still not be gay?

Gay is more than who you fuck.

 

[inferiormale]

Sexual orientation then doesn't have anything to do with sex. Hmmmm

 

[Etoile]

Sexual orientation then doesn't have anything to do with sex. Hmmmm

Did you hear me? I said it's MORE than who you fuck. I didn't say it WASN'T who you fuck.

 

[radepor]

Arbiter speaking

Dear Inferiormale,

I'm certain this will resolve the issue.

If I had to choose between sex with Etoile (even tho I think she said she's lesbian) and you, I'd choose Etoile.

However, under the right conditions, your dick up my ass at the same time isn't entirely out of the question. Issue resolved, right?

So a guy can crave gay sex, have gay sex, love gay sex and still not be gay?

 

[Adakgirl]

Okay, but my question is: are you aroused by the idea (or actual practice) of fucking women, even if no males are watching?

If so, I assume you would refer to yourself as bisexual. Yes?

If not, is there a special word for 'only aroused when fucking women if there's a male around to watch'? That's what I'm asking.

I'm back and will answer this now JM.

1st question- No, I am not, so no I do not refer to myself or consider myself to be bi-sexual. However, I do admire the female body form because it is beautiful to me. I enjoy looking at them, just like I admire beautiful works of art. That certainly does not turn me off. Looking at a female form does not sexually arouse me unless it is in the context of a M and F doing sexual things with each other.

Having sex with a female is only enjoyably arousing to me on the condition that I am doing it in order to please a male.

2nd question- Yes, the word would be exhibitionist or I suppose maybe man-pleaser, but certainly not "attention whore". I was just pointing that out