Is getting a handjob cheating?

It’s surely cheating….
Masturbation, solo handjob, while looking at porn, reading lit or chat with a virtual sex friend, it’s that cheating?
 
Did you think you were going to get a permission slip from Lit? Nice try. And really, if you're getting a massage where a happy ending is an option, that's cheating too.

I love the way you put that though: '...in a guy's technical sense...' -- We've all tried to go there on one thing or another.

Are you saying that Literotica message board postings cannot be used as expert testimony in court?
 
So let me see if I have this right

Getting a handjob from a woman - cheating

Getting a handjob from yourself - not cheating

Getting a handjob from a man - possibly cheating

Getting a handjob from a woman with no arms so she uses her vagina instead - not cheating?

😁😆
Yes, something like that.

Unless the handjob you’re giving yourself is with another person who is self pleasuring and watching you? That’s cheating too.
 
My wife is insanely jealous of other women, ESPECIALLY if it’s one giving me a massage. So, to make her happy, I booked one with a male masseuse.

It’s booked for next week so I don’t know what’s going to happen. I do have that burning question in my mind “Well, if it’s a male doing it, it should be okay because I didn’t have another woman do it….”

Yes yes I know it’s the same, just stating my opinion 😁

This does raise an interesting question. Is the person giving the hand job cheating or only the recipient?
 
After perusing the many comments on this post I can only add, that I have had masseuse that while would be cheating I kept it secret as the assage and release was therapeutic.
 
Sadly the truth is that anything you do that you wouldn’t want to tell your wife (significant other) is probably cheating or wrong.
Agree if you need to hide it including trying to date someone else while in an existing relationship is cheating..
 
It’s surely cheating….
Masturbation, solo handjob, while looking at porn, reading lit or chat with a virtual sex friend, it’s that cheating?
Only is you act upon those fantasies with your significant not knowing but nothing wrong with having secret fantasies.
 
Yes, something like that.

Unless the handjob you’re giving yourself is with another person who is self pleasuring and watching you? That’s cheating too.
I believe if you are doing anything sexual even if there is no physical contact you are still cheating.

I might add in the presence of another person or if you are having a secret video call with in a long distance affair.
 
The lady giving the hj yes, if she is giving it without the knowledge of a partner if she's in a relationship

So let me pose these scenarios. Gay guy gives another guy a hand job to a guy who is not his boyfriend - is that cheating?
Straight guy who has a few beers in him and gives his buddy a handy after the Eagles win the Super Bowl. Cheating or no?
 
So let me pose these scenarios. Gay guy gives another guy a hand job to a guy who is not his boyfriend - is that cheating?
Straight guy who has a few beers in him and gives his buddy a handy after the Eagles win the Super Bowl. Cheating or no?
Valid question
 
So let me see if I have this right

Getting a handjob from a woman - cheating

Getting a handjob from yourself - not cheating

Getting a handjob from a man - possibly cheating

Getting a handjob from a woman with no arms so she uses her vagina instead - not cheating?

😁😆

I think blowjobs from the armless woman is not cheating
 
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