Is getting a handjob cheating?

[Cyberfun1]

It’s surely cheating….
Masturbation, solo handjob, while looking at porn, reading lit or chat with a virtual sex friend, it’s that cheating?

 

[Spurtulator]

Only if you enjoy it.

Exactly. If it is done for palliative, curative, or rehabilitative purposes, you're not cheating.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

My ex wife said that cyber sex/chatting in AOL chat rooms was cheating back in the day.

But, this would also fall into the category of low risk, low harm cheating.
Although emotional attachments can arise.

 

[Spurtulator]

It’s surely cheating….
Masturbation, solo handjob, while looking at porn, reading lit or chat with a virtual sex friend, it’s that cheating?

My ex wife said that cyber sex/chatting in AOL chat rooms was cheating back in the day.

 

[Cyberfun1]

Exactly. If it is done for palliative, curative, or rehabilitative purposes, you're not cheating.

I do it for pleasure…..

 

[Spurtulator]

Did you think you were going to get a permission slip from Lit? Nice try. And really, if you're getting a massage where a happy ending is an option, that's cheating too.

I love the way you put that though: '...in a guy's technical sense...' -- We've all tried to go there on one thing or another.

Are you saying that Literotica message board postings cannot be used as expert testimony in court?

 

[LostHorizon]

So let me see if I have this right

Getting a handjob from a woman - cheating

Getting a handjob from yourself - not cheating

Getting a handjob from a man - possibly cheating

Getting a handjob from a woman with no arms so she uses her vagina instead - not cheating?

Yes, something like that.

Unless the handjob you’re giving yourself is with another person who is self pleasuring and watching you? That’s cheating too.

 

[Spurtulator]

My wife is insanely jealous of other women, ESPECIALLY if it’s one giving me a massage. So, to make her happy, I booked one with a male masseuse.

It’s booked for next week so I don’t know what’s going to happen. I do have that burning question in my mind “Well, if it’s a male doing it, it should be okay because I didn’t have another woman do it….”

Yes yes I know it’s the same, just stating my opinion

This does raise an interesting question. Is the person giving the hand job cheating or only the recipient?

 

[NakedMuscleGuy]

No.

 

[liqueur]

It is cheating if you have to hide it.

That's it, in a nutshell

 

[PersonalFavors]

After perusing the many comments on this post I can only add, that I have had masseuse that while would be cheating I kept it secret as the assage and release was therapeutic.

 

[Nellie60]

Sadly the truth is that anything you do that you wouldn’t want to tell your wife (significant other) is probably cheating or wrong.

Agree if you need to hide it including trying to date someone else while in an existing relationship is cheating..

 

[Nellie60]

It’s surely cheating….
Masturbation, solo handjob, while looking at porn, reading lit or chat with a virtual sex friend, it’s that cheating?

Only is you act upon those fantasies with your significant not knowing but nothing wrong with having secret fantasies.

 

[Nellie60]

This does raise an interesting question. Is the person giving the hand job cheating or only the recipient?

The lady giving the hj yes, if she is giving it without the knowledge of a partner if she's in a relationship

 

[Nellie60]

Yes, something like that.

Unless the handjob you’re giving yourself is with another person who is self pleasuring and watching you? That’s cheating too.

I believe if you are doing anything sexual even if there is no physical contact you are still cheating.

I might add in the presence of another person or if you are having a secret video call with in a long distance affair.

 

[LostHorizon]

I believe if you are doing anything sexual even if there is no physical contact you are still cheating.

That’s more or less what I meant.

 

[Cyberfun1]

Only is you act upon those fantasies with your significant not knowing but nothing wrong with having secret fantasies.

I love my fantasies…

 

[Spurtulator]

The lady giving the hj yes, if she is giving it without the knowledge of a partner if she's in a relationship

So let me pose these scenarios. Gay guy gives another guy a hand job to a guy who is not his boyfriend - is that cheating?
Straight guy who has a few beers in him and gives his buddy a handy after the Eagles win the Super Bowl. Cheating or no?

 

[Cyberfun1]

It’s a lot of fun and cum….lol

 

[MrMannson]

So let me pose these scenarios. Gay guy gives another guy a hand job to a guy who is not his boyfriend - is that cheating?
Straight guy who has a few beers in him and gives his buddy a handy after the Eagles win the Super Bowl. Cheating or no?

Valid question

 

[TomTeacher19]

So let me pose these scenarios. Gay guy gives another guy a hand job to a guy who is not his boyfriend - is that cheating?
Straight guy who has a few beers in him and gives his buddy a handy after the Eagles win the Super Bowl. Cheating or no?

If the Eagles won this Super Bowl there was a lot of cheating going on

 

[Spurtulator]

So let me see if I have this right

Getting a handjob from a woman - cheating

Getting a handjob from yourself - not cheating

Getting a handjob from a man - possibly cheating

Getting a handjob from a woman with no arms so she uses her vagina instead - not cheating?

I think blowjobs from the armless woman is not cheating

 

[TomTeacher19]

I think blowjobs from the armless woman is not cheating

What if her dentures get caught on your cock during the blow job and another woman has to come in to remove the dentures with her hands? Cheating? Threesome?

 

[Spurtulator]

If the Eagles won this Super Bowl there was a lot of cheating going on

Aw c'mon, you know that's not true

 

[TomTeacher19]

Aw c'mon, you know that's not true

I'm talking about the one in a couple weeks from now.