Is it inevitable for a bottom to feel feminine?

[JudyCD]

When I’m sucking, I feel very feminine.

 

[ZacharyFagg]

Yes, your last sentence. People don’t understand how I can be content servicing my girlfriend’s cock but it really is satisfying when she cums. As long as she cums, I don’t care about having an orgasm myself.

Definitely. I actually like it better if I don't get to cum. It makes me feel more submissive, and more used. I just like pleasuring a dominant. Their cum is my reward.

 

[Escierto]

Definitely. I actually like it better if I don't get to cum. It makes me feel more submissive, and more used. I just like pleasuring a dominant. Their cum is my reward.

Exactly!!!

 

[BlackSatinKnight]

Feminine, no. I’m just a guy who likes a cock on occasion. Even when I’m in panties, stockings, or hose, I still don’t feel “feminine”.

 

[Escierto]

Feminine, no. I’m just a guy who likes a cock on occasion. Even when I’m in panties, stockings, or hose, I still don’t feel “feminine”.

How about when you are wearing lipstick and eye liner? Just joking!

 

[BlackSatinKnight]

How about when you are wearing lipstick and eye liner? Just joking!

Nope, just when I’m wearing heels….LMAO

 

[kccasey]

Rational? Lie about who you are to a potential lover. Golly nothing could go wrong there could it?

I saw a story recently about just what you are talking about. A couple is getting a divorce because the husband was talking about children with his wife. She let him know she could not have children with him, due to her being a transgendered. Well, what a suprise.
Haveing said that, I find your attitude a little hateful. I think maybe you are getting a little worked up, you may really be a nice person.
I know whenever I have had sex with a TG, she has always let me know, even if I had already relized that.

 

[kccasey]

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Escierto, love to see your posts. I envy your relationship, I would love to have what you have.
I do not feel particularly feminine when it comes to getting fucked. It feels very good, I love to submit to getting fucked. I can even cum like a girl, whole body orgasms, without ejaculation, but I do not equate that with feminine. I have never dressed as a woman, at least not yet. Maybe if a lover wanted me to, I might. He or she would have to be very good lover, LOL.

 

[Escierto]

Escierto, love to see your posts. I envy your relationship, I would love to have what you have.
I do not feel particularly feminine when it comes to getting fucked. It feels very good, I love to submit to getting fucked. I can even cum like a girl, whole body orgasms, without ejaculation, but I do not equate that with feminine. I have never dressed as a woman, at least not yet. Maybe if a lover wanted me to, I might. He or she would have to be very good lover, LOL.

I have never dressed as a woman nor have I ever had the desire to do so. Early on, my girlfriend asked me if I ever had such desires and I laughed and said, no, do you want me to? She said, definitely not! She always likes to think of me as a straight man in part I think because it validates her as a woman.

 

[TrailerHitch]

I saw a story recently about just what you are talking about. A couple is getting a divorce because the husband was talking about children with his wife. She let him know she could not have children with him, due to her being a transgendered. Well, what a suprise.
Haveing said that, I find your attitude a little hateful. I think maybe you are getting a little worked up, you may really be a nice person.
I know whenever I have had sex with a TG, she has always let me know, even if I had already relized that.

I'm not worked up, or hateful. Deception is never a good idea, especially if you are looking for a long term relationship. Especially if you deceive the wrong person and they attack you or even kill you because of it. I'm not even rejecting the idea of a relationship with a transgendered person, in fact I had placed an add here for a bi-sex male or top TG. So your hateful comment couldn't possibly be more wrong. Nice try though.

 

[M_K_Babalon]

I guess it's a bit complicated for me. The idea of bottoming kinds makes me feel that way, the act doesn't. Things one would consider submissive just depends on the person and how you look at it. My nipples sucked right, makes me feel that way, that much I know.

 

[M_K_Babalon]

I'm not worked up, or hateful. Deception is never a good idea, especially if you are looking for a long term relationship. Especially if you deceive the wrong person and they attack you or even kill you because of it. I'm not even rejecting the idea of a relationship with a transgendered person, in fact I had placed an add here for a bi-sex male or top TG. So your hateful comment couldn't possibly be more wrong. Nice try though.

If you're refering to Stickygirl, you're just talking around her and she probably isn't interested in continuing the conversation. She basically said the same thing you keep pressing. I doubt she's not like like that, since those of us who've known her long enough, knows what she is, because she's said it openly. It's even less so the business of Lit, than whatever consort she's looking for, or has

 

[TrailerHitch]

Trailerman is tilting at windmills by inventing unrealistic scenarios to perpuate a non-discussion.

Trans women will always disclose their background because they'd be stupid not to - it's in their best interests. There is already too much violence towards trans women, so deceiving suitors is playing with fire.

Exactly when to tell someone is the windmill he keeps head-butting. He has already admitted it's appropriate before there's any emotional investment. Fine - I totally agree. There's nothing more to discuss.

Then just say that instead of being an argumentative ass.

 

[n2kay17]

I didn't feel feminine at the time. He was a friend and had picked up on me being curious and interested in getting fucked by a guy. He got me to relax, talk about being with another man and he eventually had me agreeing to just letting him try fucking me a bit. Ha, his cock may have popped me open but then he plunged all the way in, so much for "a bit". I was taking all of him, he wasn't giving me a out, I was surprised it was happening, submitting to him and enjoying it but no, I didn't feel feminine. I'd like to do it again but I'll take notes and answer questions afterwards.

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

I do not know about inevitably, however I think many of us want to feel feminine. My most wonderful times and memories are when a man holds me in his arms and kisses. In private or in public as he introduces me as his girl when his friends gather round. When my wife has me lay on my back and spreds my leg bends my thing so it can enter her and she takes me as two women sharing a double dildo. Or when she buys me nice scents and oils and massages my breastsand yells me I sound like a girl having her first climax.

Once I worked with a all female crew. One, much taller than me went to a training session. She and I stood facing each other ,very close, and as she looked down into my eyes my thing stiffened and we both knew I would be her sissy bottom forever under other circumstances. Hugs

 

[saintcero]

Feeling feminine? If you are doing it right you will.

 

[wetsawdust]

Once I worked with a all female crew. One, much taller than me went to a training session. She and I stood facing each other ,very close, and as she looked down into my eyes my thing stiffened and we both knew I would be her sissy bottom forever under other circumstances. Hugs

I read this and suddenly realized why I have this intense attraction to women nearly my height or (gasp!) taller than me (there aren't many around here, I'm 6'3"). Tall trans girls, too. Uff da.

 

[TrailerHitch]

Feeling feminine? If you are doing it right you will.

If that's how you feel great for you. But it is quite egocentric to expect everyone to feel as you do.

 

[saintcero]

If that's how you feel great for you. But it is quite egocentric to expect everyone to feel as you do.

It was said as a “tongue in cheek” type comment; not serious. Now, my ego allows that some simply have not done it right yet.
(Also “tongue in cheek”)

 

[TrailerHitch]

It was said as a “tongue in cheek” type comment; not serious. Now, my ego allows that some simply have not done it right yet.
(Also “tongue in cheek”)

If you are offering... I would be happy to have your tongue in between my cheeks with something hard to follow!

By the way if that profile picture is of you that is a very nice concealed weapon you are packing!

 

[TrailerHitch]

Isn’t the point of being a bottom submitting to someone and taking in the “role” as a woman?

If being feminine is your thing then yes, in your case it is. but to say exclusively male on male sex is submission is ludicrous. When my wife and I have sex there is no submission just 2 willing partners enjoying each other. I believe it is entirely possible for 2 men to have sex without either one being submissive or feminine. In fact I'm counting on it.

 

[saintcero]

If you are offering... I would be happy to have your tongue in between my cheeks with something hard to follow!

By the way if that profile picture is of you that is a very nice concealed weapon you are packing!

Thank you for the offer
Thank you for the compliment

 

[CliimaxForYou]

Today, my girlfriend fucked me so hard and so vigorously that it was difficult not to see her as a man fucking his bitch into submission. Of course I, as the bitch, loved every minute of it and after it was done, I cheerfully told her, “You fucked me so hard, honey!” She ejaculated a huge amount of cum and made a mess in me, on the bed and over herself.

Now I always see my girlfriend as the woman she is. It’s almost impossible not to see her that way. However in bed, as the top with a big stiff boner, she is dominant and powerful, fucking with a definite masculine energy.

For me, as the bottom, getting her cock hard and ready, offering my hole for penetration and mounting by the top, then submitting to being fucked hard and sometimes brutally, all seem like feminine aspects of sexual intercourse.

Do bottoms, no matter what their gender, always feel feminine to a small or large degree in their sexual role?

Nope.

I love to bottom. Nothing feminine about me.

 

[Cumpup39]

I love taking on a feminine role when I’m with a man. If that involves wearing lingerie or whatever then even better. I yield my body to the man as my superior either way and find myself defaulting to feminine mannerisms when serving men.

 

[bicurious19]

No not really. I’m only a bottom for girls, have no interest in guys.
It ain’t easy to take an 8” cock balls deep up the ass.