stickygirl
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I may have mis-typed in the original, then edited it. Sorry for confusion.
Is it inevitable for a bottom to feel feminine?
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FeminineCDnHighHeels
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Whenever I'm 'dressed to impress ' I feel like a total feminine faggot bitch
I'm a bi-sexual, heteroromatic bottom guy. I don't dress or otherwise feminize. When I'm with a man I definitely feel submissive. Very, very submissive. I mean, I'm also quite active it's just that he gets whatever he wants. But I never feel feminine.
Love_To_Be_Sleazy
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No , I bottom / cross dress more than I top and there is nothing feminine about me although I will submit.
For me feeling feminine while a real man fucks me is a huge part of a faggot's excitement as a total bottom bitch... I'm a total bottom bitch and I've NEVER even thought about myself topping...I really don't think I would even be able to if I tried... I don't even think of my tiny dicklet in a sexual sense at all... I identify as a 2 hole bitch ....
I agree 100%, however this question has been asked recently and you’ll get a wide range of responses
Samantha47
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Me too honey
I was bottoming in my teens and early twenties. I usually didn't get hard. I would push my ass out and moan more like a girl. The older guy I was with was hairy and I was mostly smooth because I don't grow body hair well. He called me bitch or baby and that kind of put me in a feminine place. That and leaning over the back of his couch and him slamming his cock in my ass.
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Dream relationship
SPARTAN047
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That's really hot and kind of what I nearly always did too. I loved sticking my ass out and feeling a guy or his friends slap it hard.
They'd hold me down and fuck me too.
SPARTAN047
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When you've a little clitty like mine, yes, you'd really feel like a sissy bitch.
That's exactly right !!! The guy who uses me is only concerned with my 2 functioning holes... I've been content being his bitch for the last 5 years plus and he knows that... When his man sized cock is inside of me I definitely feel feminine in a sense.... It excites me the way it makes me feel... I love being able to please him as his faggot bitch... He tells me that I'm a natural cock pleaser and I LOVE hearing that...
OMG thanks hun.... I'm glad you know that feeling !
AvgMan9000
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I am bisexual. When I am with a man, I am a total bottom and I don't feel feminine in the least. My entire point is to please my partner. Doing that does not diminish my masculinity.
It was WAY latter in life for me but the scenario was the same... I'd sucked him first once before but this time he decided to fuck me as well (later he told me he had planned to fuck me the first time but forgot to bring the lube)... He held my hips firmly as he put me on all 4s and positioned me as he wanted for his entry... He began slapping his hard cock against my butt cheeks and rubbing the head against my pussy... I felt something happing inside me big time.... When he started rubbing and slapping my butt check and told me I have a nice ass, I quivered inside like never before and started leaking a little from my totally soft, sunken little clitty dicklet... When he had penetrated almost his full length, he had wrapped his forearm around my waist and finally moved it to around my neck.... I was noticeably quivering and he definitely noticed and seemed to enjoy it... He kept asking me: "You like that big dick don't you ?"... I squeaked out "Yes I do...Yes I do".... He called me hun and babe when he spoke to me... I NEVER thought I could love cock that much !....
That's SO reassuring to me sweetie.... that I'm not the only faggot that admits to having known the feeling !
For me, feeling feminine while he's fucking me accounts for the lion's share of the pleasure I receive taking cock... I answer to whatever he calls me: bitch, gurl, sissy, hun, slut, cunt, etc. He knows how it effects me and that excites me even more...
RobLivesInTexas
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It's been a while since I posted on this thread, but I've been following it. It seems like a majority of the posts are from those who do feel feminine while being fucked. It also seems that they are mostly or exclusively bottoms. Now the psychology of being mostly or exclusively bottom is foreign to me, so I can't relate to that.
I'm top/versatile and I rarely bottom. It takes a certain combination of circumstances, both mental and physical, to get me in the right frame of mind to bottom, and when I do, there's not the slightest sense of being feminine. I just get the urge to feel a cock in my ass, to feel the pounding against my prostate, to get the incredible orgasm that results from that.
I'm curious to know if there are other like-minded top/versatile men who have similar thought processes to me. Or if there are men who are mostly or exclusively bottom who do not feel feminine when being fucked. There seems to be a very different psychology going on, and it fascinates me.
I'm top/versatile and I rarely bottom. It takes a certain combination of circumstances, both mental and physical, to get me in the right frame of mind to bottom, and when I do, there's not the slightest sense of being feminine. I just get the urge to feel a cock in my ass, to feel the pounding against my prostate, to get the incredible orgasm that results from that.
I'm curious to know if there are other like-minded top/versatile men who have similar thought processes to me. Or if there are men who are mostly or exclusively bottom who do not feel feminine when being fucked. There seems to be a very different psychology going on, and it fascinates me.
cdstefi
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I've honestly not had a lot of experience, but enough to know that when I'm with a guy it's totally male-on-male (even if we're both dressed in lingerie).
I get quite verbal during sex, and love to encourage him with ideas like "fuck, your rock hard cock in my arse feels amazing".
I get quite verbal during sex, and love to encourage him with ideas like "fuck, your rock hard cock in my arse feels amazing".
Astroman72
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For me as a bi guy, the whole submissive/feminine, dominant/masculine aspect is not a major part of my sexual makeup. I don't have any fantasies of being really dominant or submissive--in fact, those extremes are a turn-off for me.
I just love the genitalia and all the options they offer!
I just love the genitalia and all the options they offer!
You just like to play with all the moving parts lol
Oh honey .... That excites and makes me envious at the same time ... I'm a total sissy faggot inside but, as far as dressing to impress, I've never gone past my bra and panties underneath my street clothes .... I'm mr. average beta male as far as looks go.... 5'8", 175 lbs., medium brown average length hair and a moustache .... I'm fairly decent looking as far as beta males go, but I couldn't come close to being passable.... The ability to confidently "dress" like you would be the ultimate thrill for me .... I've been the same guy's bitch for over 5 years now and he knew I'm a sissy faggot on the inside right from the beginning and that's how he treats me... I've come to him in bra and panties dozens of times and he even said that I should try bringing a pretty wig with me to wear while I'm sucking cock and being fucked.... I ALWAYS feel feminine when with him and the fact that he knows it always makes me quiver like a slutty little gurl inside .... The overpowering feminine desire to submit to him is the main reason I love being his faggot.
I realize that you wanted to hear from those who are top/verse like yourself but I have something to add as a total bottom... I've heard similar things from other top/verse guys over time... I guess it's just human nature that a man who is basically top oriented likes the stimulation and change of pace to just try bottoming from time to time and never experiences any feelings or desires that would be considered to be feminine in any way.... I also know that nowhere near all bottoms experience feminine feelings while being fucked.... I identify in the group of total bottoms that definitely DOES experience and enjoy the feminine feeling of submitting to a man .... I have NEVER topped and never even thought about the possibility .... I don't have an ED situation but almost NEVER get even slightly erect when with a man.... I don't consider my little clitty dick to have any sexual function when with the guy who's been fucking me for over 5 years now.... For him, I have 2 holes that he knows are HIS to use.... I experience strong desire to assume a feminine posture whenever he presents me with his rigid, thick manly tool .... He told me he knew this from the beginning and that was a major reason he wanted to make me his regular "side bitch"... He likes to bring out the fem in me because that's my role as his bottom bitch and he knows I love it ,,,,
We are very much alike and I can completely relate to how you feel. It's how I feel with my top girl and like your top, she told me exactly how our sexual relationship was going to be. In bed, I love to be her "woman" and submit to her masculine sexual organ.
