Is it inevitable for a bottom to feel feminine?

[Nekidinaz]

I like the idea of being strictly a bottom and it doesn't make me feel any way other than wonderful ... and excited

 

[Missmister]

Today, my girlfriend fucked me so hard and so vigorously that it was difficult not to see her as a man fucking his bitch into submission. Of course I, as the bitch, loved every minute of it and after it was done, I cheerfully told her, “You fucked me so hard, honey!” She ejaculated a huge amount of cum and made a mess in me, on the bed and over herself.

Now I always see my girlfriend as the woman she is. It’s almost impossible not to see her that way. However in bed, as the top with a big stiff boner, she is dominant and powerful, fucking with a definite masculine energy.

For me, as the bottom, getting her cock hard and ready, offering my hole for penetration and mounting by the top, then submitting to being fucked hard and sometimes brutally, all seem like feminine aspects of sexual intercourse.

Do bottoms, no matter what their gender, always feel feminine to a small or large degree in their sexual role?

I love getting fucked and feeling feminine, and submissive.

 

[nassauguy_2001]

Every other situation I have some degree of control. With oral, I feel dominant because I control his orgasm. Not so when on the bottom though. So yes definitely submissive and probably a little feminine.

I am with you, when I bottom I feel both submissive and feminine for sure. I am not into dressing girly, but if my partner kisses my neck and calls me his babygirl or similar, I melt and will do anything to make him happy!

 

[Jordanjack]

I am with you, when I bottom I feel both submissive and feminine for sure. I am not into dressing girly, but if my partner kisses my neck and calls me his babygirl or similar, I melt and will do anything to make him happy!

That actually sounds wonderful. I've never had the pleasure of being a bottom, but I fantasize about it frequently.

 

[nassauguy_2001]

That actually sounds wonderful. I've never had the pleasure of being a bottom, but I fantasize about it frequently.

Find the right guy and take the plunge, you won't regret it!!!

 

[Jordanjack]

Find the right guy and take the plunge, you won't regret it!!!

I'm sure you're right. Unfortunately, I'll likely never experience it. Unless the wife divorces me, or wants to see me get fucked by a man.

 

[tristantrotsky]

I am with you, when I bottom I feel both submissive and feminine for sure. I am not into dressing girly, but if my partner kisses my neck and calls me his babygirl or similar, I melt and will do anything to make him happy!

If the cocksucking bottom is doing it right, of course he will feel feminine, that's part of the fun...

 

[saintcero]

I would feel a little bit fem even for a pencil dicked Top

 

[Bill_Doubleu]

I am fascinated by this consideration. Navigating the semantics coupled with concepts is a wonderful exercise. I've heard of "I'm a woman trapped in a man's body" for 60 years. I wondered about this, then, and, I still do. I don't feel I am a woman trapped in a man's body. Though I do feel I have feminine qualities. The semantics of what is feminine and what is masculine need to be very clear. But, there are fuzzy abstractions. The Toaists believe that everything is Yin-Feminine and Yang-Masculine. Breathing in is Yin, as it is receptive. Breathing out is Yang. The notion is Yin becoming Yang. This may not fit into how a person relates to the world. It needs to be more definitive.

"Is it real. Or, is it Memorex?" I wonder about the legitimacy of my inner fem feelings. One things people do is mimic and act in artificial ways. Some have said that all persona and the sense of a separate self is an artifice. That leads to the higher halls of wisdom. I see a chick wrinkle up her nose while giggling and it affects me strongly. I want to do that expression. Is it an actual feminine feeling I am having or, is it simply a reflection?

I love to feel I have a pussy, an inner subtle energy body pussy. I love to be sexy. When I am on cam and showing off my cock and receiving a boatload of flattery, I feel like a chick.... or do I? I do know I love the idea of a man coming onto me and wanting me sexually.

I love the conversation!! I could go on and on about it.

 

[Escierto]

When I consider what is "masculine" and "feminine", I am really stumped as to how to differentiate these qualities or even if it is a useful endeavor.

I feel like a man but when I think about what makes me a man, I can only think of my attraction to women. Any other quality I have can be possessed by a woman as well.

 

[rc1989]

I bottomed when younger. I would start feeling less manly as I prepped for anal. Still dressed manly. When I went over to the guys house that was older than me I felt like I smiled more. I had long hair for a guy and I played with it. He would call me a hot bitch or sweet ass. Not exactly super manly.
The only other guy we fucked each other and I didn't feel less many than him. Because I knew I was going to be fucking his ass too.

 

[lowcollar]

As a man who prefers women, being her bottom is often feminizing as I am usually required to suck her strapon, take ever larger dildos inside my "Pussy". She calls my dick a clit. So, for me, yes.

 

[dodgeboy2]

Today, my girlfriend fucked me so hard and so vigorously that it was difficult not to see her as a man fucking his bitch into submission. Of course I, as the bitch, loved every minute of it and after it was done, I cheerfully told her, “You fucked me so hard, honey!” She ejaculated a huge amount of cum and made a mess in me, on the bed and over herself.

Now I always see my girlfriend as the woman she is. It’s almost impossible not to see her that way. However in bed, as the top with a big stiff boner, she is dominant and powerful, fucking with a definite masculine energy.

For me, as the bottom, getting her cock hard and ready, offering my hole for penetration and mounting by the top, then submitting to being fucked hard and sometimes brutally, all seem like feminine aspects of sexual intercourse.

Do bottoms, no matter what their gender, always feel feminine to a small or large degree in their sexual role?

I can't speak extremely well on this subject as I have bottomed for only a very special few as I am more of a top. I can say that my 1st long term guy many many years ago I would consider gay but not effeminate and I know he till considered himself as masculine as I so I truly feel that this would depend on a person to person basis!

 

[Boonerboy]

Today, my girlfriend fucked me so hard and so vigorously that it was difficult not to see her as a man fucking his bitch into submission. Of course I, as the bitch, loved every minute of it and after it was done, I cheerfully told her, “You fucked me so hard, honey!” She ejaculated a huge amount of cum and made a mess in me, on the bed and over herself.

Now I always see my girlfriend as the woman she is. It’s almost impossible not to see her that way. However in bed, as the top with a big stiff boner, she is dominant and powerful, fucking with a definite masculine energy.

For me, as the bottom, getting her cock hard and ready, offering my hole for penetration and mounting by the top, then submitting to being fucked hard and sometimes brutally, all seem like feminine aspects of sexual intercourse.

Do bottoms, no matter what their gender, always feel feminine to a small or large degree in their sexual role?

I can easily say no. I have never felt feminine, even when I bottom, even when she fucks me really hard.

 

[Terrylipstick]

Today, my girlfriend fucked me so hard and so vigorously that it was difficult not to see her as a man fucking his bitch into submission. Of course I, as the bitch, loved every minute of it and after it was done, I cheerfully told her, “You fucked me so hard, honey!” She ejaculated a huge amount of cum and made a mess in me, on the bed and over herself.

Now I always see my girlfriend as the woman she is. It’s almost impossible not to see her that way. However in bed, as the top with a big stiff boner, she is dominant and powerful, fucking with a definite masculine energy.

For me, as the bottom, getting her cock hard and ready, offering my hole for penetration and mounting by the top, then submitting to being fucked hard and sometimes brutally, all seem like feminine aspects of sexual intercourse.

Do bottoms, no matter what their gender, always feel feminine to a small or large degree in their sexual role?

Mmmmmmmmmmmmm

 

[load69]

I have never bottomed yet but have ridden plenty of dildos and definitely feel slutty. I would love to find out how slutty I would be with a real cock!

 

[claimsguy]

I don't know about feminine, but definitely submissive, and I love that.

 

[TrailerHitch]

Don't feel feminine, or submissive. I see this as just another example of people trying to make people fit into someone else's vision. I say exactly what I want and fuck back as hard as I am being fucked. I don't pretend to be what I am not. I'm just a man that loves to be fucked.

 

[SPARTAN047]

So many people have their own definitions of feminine.

I think I do feel like a girl when I'm fucked though I've felt that way since I was very young.

 

[Swuq]

Feeling submissive and feminine as a dom top takes me is what I crave to provide a balance to my alpha daily life.

 

[Uncut1969]

I think I would feel submissive as I lay there with his cum dripping out of me and him smiling as I lay there with his spent cock dripping and red breathing heavily

 

[Swuq]

I think I would feel submissive as I lay there with his cum dripping out of me and him smiling as I lay there with his spent cock dripping and red breathing heavily

I love to feel feminine and for my top to consider me being feminine.

 

[RobLivesInTexas]

I don't think it's inevitable. I do t bottom often, but when I do, I feel masculine, but in a different way from when I top. It's two men enjoying each other's bodies in a masculine way. I'm providing him a place for his cock, and he's stimulating my ass and prostate in an amazing way. So, no, I don't feel feminine. I feel very masculine in a heightened way.

 

[HenryApril]

I don’t feel feminine while bottoming. I feel gay as fuck!

 

[deucie]

What did you mean by “That’s not how her sex is”?

Het sex. Not her sex.