Is it inevitable for a bottom to feel feminine?

[Samantha47]

Love that butthole

 

[Raybies93]

aren’t we all

 

[Patticd]

When dressed en femme, I only bottom

 

[ZacharyFagg]

There's lot's of very masculine bottoms, who aren't submissive and I know they don't ever feel feminine.
However, us fem types love to bottom because we feel feminine, and want to play the female sexual role.

 

[SissyBrandi19]

Today, my girlfriend fucked me so hard and so vigorously that it was difficult not to see her as a man fucking his bitch into submission. Of course I, as the bitch, loved every minute of it and after it was done, I cheerfully told her, “You fucked me so hard, honey!” She ejaculated a huge amount of cum and made a mess in me, on the bed and over herself.

Now I always see my girlfriend as the woman she is. It’s almost impossible not to see her that way. However in bed, as the top with a big stiff boner, she is dominant and powerful, fucking with a definite masculine energy.

For me, as the bottom, getting her cock hard and ready, offering my hole for penetration and mounting by the top, then submitting to being fucked hard and sometimes brutally, all seem like feminine aspects of sexual intercourse.

Do bottoms, no matter what their gender, always feel feminine to a small or large degree in their sexual role?

I can only answer for myself and as a sissy CD gurl I strive for femininity but I think it's less I feel feminine because I bottom and more I bottom because I feel feminine. The cognitive precedes the behavior. Once you engage in the behavior, you are now entering a behavioral/cognitive positive feedback loop. Now, a word of caution: If you are teaching Psych 101 and you want to illustrate the linkage between cognition and behaviors? Maybe consider a different example. Or get that CV ready! Because friend, you're about to get that change of scenery you were wishing for!

 

[SissyBrandi19]

The experiences I had with another man many years ago were what made me want to cross dress. I wanted to play the role of the woman and feel feminine, but I wouldn't exactly call it submission. Even though I was bottoming I was the one driving the play, basically he submitted to my desire for his cock. I did want him to be more dominant with me and eventually he did play that role quite well. My SO now is a beautiful, feminine woman but she is far from submissive in bed. I don't think that submissiveness is synonymous with femininity.

You are correct. Femininity does not NECESSARILY equate with submission. In fact, many who love to manipulate a man's cock orally or otherwise, cite the "feeling of power" in that ability to make the cock harder...and harder...HARDER, DADDY! Whoa, whoa....sorry, it's um...been a minute. You were, uh....saying? Oh! I was saying...where was I? Oh yeah...cock. *Sigh*

 

[Samantha47]

You are correct. Femininity does not NECESSARILY equate with submission. In fact, many who love to manipulate a man's cock orally or otherwise, cite the "feeling of power" in that ability to make the cock harder...and harder...HARDER, DADDY! Whoa, whoa....sorry, it's um...been a minute. You were, uh....saying? Oh! I was saying...where was I? Oh yeah...cock. *Sigh*

I agree fully

 

[Raybies93]

Love that butthole

dont we all should have written

 

[rattles1280]

Agree with that. As predominantly a top who likes to switch occasionally I feel submissive but not feminine when I get fucked. Its a different type satisfaction, for me anyway.

Quoting an old post, but this. I’m the same: predominantly top, but a solidly built, confident/authoritative older man will make me feel submissive ( but not a bottom bitch).

 

[vvbim]

Today, my girlfriend fucked me so hard and so vigorously that it was difficult not to see her as a man fucking his bitch into submission. Of course I, as the bitch, loved every minute of it and after it was done, I cheerfully told her, “You fucked me so hard, honey!” She ejaculated a huge amount of cum and made a mess in me, on the bed and over herself.

Now I always see my girlfriend as the woman she is. It’s almost impossible not to see her that way. However in bed, as the top with a big stiff boner, she is dominant and powerful, fucking with a definite masculine energy.

For me, as the bottom, getting her cock hard and ready, offering my hole for penetration and mounting by the top, then submitting to being fucked hard and sometimes brutally, all seem like feminine aspects of sexual intercourse.

Do bottoms, no matter what their gender, always feel feminine to a small or large degree in their sexual role?

Feminine, no. I am a submissive, I like to submit to a dominant top, but I never feel feminine. However, if my top wants me to wear feminine outfits, mainly sexy underwear, I'll happily comply, if that brings more spices to our lovemaking

 

[prettylittlesissyslut]

No, ..
but I do

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Holy god this is sexy.

 

[Uncut1969]

Can't wait to find out!

 

[Socal_prv69]

Today, my girlfriend fucked me so hard and so vigorously that it was difficult not to see her as a man fucking his bitch into submission. Of course I, as the bitch, loved every minute of it and after it was done, I cheerfully told her, “You fucked me so hard, honey!” She ejaculated a huge amount of cum and made a mess in me, on the bed and over herself.

Now I always see my girlfriend as the woman she is. It’s almost impossible not to see her that way. However in bed, as the top with a big stiff boner, she is dominant and powerful, fucking with a definite masculine energy.

For me, as the bottom, getting her cock hard and ready, offering my hole for penetration and mounting by the top, then submitting to being fucked hard and sometimes brutally, all seem like feminine aspects of sexual intercourse.

Do bottoms, no matter what their gender, always feel feminine to a small or large degree in their sexual role?

 

[Socal_prv69]

OH, no way. See that;s a huge stereotype from mostly the straight community. Im a gwm, masculine, clean cut and Im a total power bottom. So getting fucked, at least for me, is never about feeling feminine or masculine. It's just about pure pleasure for both of us.

 

[Nicolewilson]

I love to feel feminine when being fucked and its easy to get in the mindset when wearing lingerie and perfume

 

[Justusnluv]

I have always found the act and intimacy of being penetrated to stir natural feminine feelings and emotions. For me this helps heighten my experience

 

[Raybies93]

I love to feel feminine when being fucked and its easy to get in the mindset when wearing lingerie and perfume

and being stunningly gorgeous like u helps

 

[saintcero]

I have always found the act and intimacy of being penetrated to stir natural feminine feelings and emotions. For me this helps heighten my experience

The act of being penetrated does it for me and even before actual penetration just knowing that you are submitting to a cock and your mindset is “Yes, come take me and make me your bitch.”

 

[Justusnluv]

Thats so true and such a beautiful moment. Nothing compares to how wonderful it feels to know you are truly desirable

 

[ZacharyFagg]

I feel feminine because I bottom. It was explained to me long ago that guys who sucked dick and got fucked had given up their manhood. They were "bitches."
Honestly, I thought that was hot. It turned me on.
Look, I understand there's masculine guys that bottom, and would get pissed if someone called them a bitch. And that's cool.
But Ill never understand how someone feels masculine when they're bent over, or on their back with their legs spread, taking dick.

 

[cdstefi]

But Ill never understand how someone feels masculine when they're bent over, or on their back with their legs spread, taking dick.

How about if I'm on top, riding a hard cock with my own erection pointing straight at his face? It might be bottoming but it's definitely power bottoming and feels totally masculine in the sense of having all the control and being on top. It's my favourite position for sure.

 

[ZacharyFagg]

How about if I'm on top, riding a hard cock with my own erection pointing straight at his face? It might be bottoming but it's definitely power bottoming and feels totally masculine in the sense of having all the control and being on top. It's my favourite position for sure.

I suppose it depends. I don't feel in control in any position, and I definitely wouldn't feel masculine riding a dick...
But, the kind of men I hook up with aren't ever looking for masculine dominate bottoms, so they would still make me feel feminine.
Yes, I know there's power bottoms and such, but I don't understand it. But I have a different mindset. I want to feel feminine.

 

[Samantha47]

I suppose it depends. I don't feel in control in any position, and I definitely wouldn't feel masculine riding a dick...
But, the kind of men I hook up with aren't ever looking for masculine dominate bottoms, so they would still make me feel feminine.
Yes, I know there's power bottoms and such, but I don't understand it. But I have a different mindset. I want to feel feminine.

Me too

 

[Burstplayer]

I feel feminine because I bottom. It was explained to me long ago that guys who sucked dick and got fucked had given up their manhood. They were "bitches."
Honestly, I thought that was hot. It turned me on.
Look, I understand there's masculine guys that bottom, and would get pissed if someone called them a bitch. And that's cool.
But Ill never understand how someone feels masculine when they're bent over, or on their back with their legs spread, taking dick.

Completely understand, and I agree it's not exactly masculine to be bent over taking dick, but it's not sub thing or feminine thing whatsoever for me. It's just a pleasure vehicle for me. Receiving anal play of all kinds gives me a tremendous amount of physical pleasure without any feelings of masculinity or femininity or Sub/Dom. It's just sex for me, could be a woman pegging me, a guy fucking me or me solo with a dildo. All the same. I just want that feeling.

 

[CharlieBoker]

Sometimes I feel feminine when I bottom, sometimes not.

On occasion I fully let go and make what some would judge as feminine noises when I'm getting a good stuffing. I suppose at those times I'd say I can empathise with how a girl feels when she's taking a cock.

That said, there are times when I'm having sex with a man when it feels nothing but masculine. All that hard cock, cum and manly scent, it couldn't be any further from feminine! It's all about men taking care of each other.