Is there really a Big White Cock fetish amongst Asian women?

[Rockymtnman]

Sounds nice! That Aussie accent is hot too!
And how did the hooking up with the Japanese girls go? I'm assuming that you had little to no Japanese language skills, and the Japanese girls had broken English at best. But I may be wrong.

Actually, have a minor in Japanese and I brushed up for 6-8 months before I went, so we could get around fairly well. Did pretty good with the japanese women, really well with the Aussies. Being American helps, being muscular and fit helps, but mostly being good looking helped the most. When I was younger my friends called me Grieco because I looked like the actor Richard Grieco. I’ve aged significantly better though. So all thanks to my dad and mom for that.

 

[Escierto]

I have mentioned that my girlfriend has a big cock. Well her brothers also have big cocks so in that part of the Philippines, there is no shortage of guys with big cocks.

 

[svengali_decL]

That’s definitely true in the Philippines. It’s every girl’s dream to hook an old white guy who can support them and their families. Of course in return, there is plenty of love and sex. Now there are Filipinas who don’t match that description but it is frequently true.

Another anecdote- goes back to the mid eighties- not me but a guy I worked with ocassionally but was fishing mate with my best friend at the time. Seems he wandered off to Philipines for 6 months travel, got an attraction and within a year had married said lady and brought her back to the country (his job here was too good to give up). That gave citizenship rights.

Anyway another year down the track and, lets call him Trev, had moved to another coastal city (even more access to fishing) and found his wife was trying to get her sister into the country as well. Not uncommon and Trev wasn't that worried. A few months later and wifey went back for a 'holiday' to arrange things.

After 3 months away she came back, and soon 'sister' arrived as well with a visitors visa. Due process was entered to begin full access visa (called Permanent Residence). All was going well till one day Trev came home early for some reason and found 'the wife' in bed with her sister! Seems it was not knew. Trev wasn't a dullhead, but the ongoing delights had fogged his brain I guess.

Seems 'wifey' was truly lesbian, her 'sister' under another name was her real partner, so a week later they moved out of the joint home and Trev lost in a marriage settlement half his ownership on the house/ property. They couldn't tell the court that they'd falsified immigration documents that asserted the sister was in fact so under a step-name.

So Trev lost a decade in profitable home ownership, had been seduced and duped by a foreigner who with her lover, now has residence in the country, much more comfortable than her homeland. Yes- it does happen...

 

[metal4lace]

Actually, have a minor in Japanese and I brushed up for 6-8 months before I went, so we could get around fairly well. Did pretty good with the japanese women, really well with the Aussies. Being American helps, being muscular and fit helps, but mostly being good looking helped the most. When I was younger my friends called me Grieco because I looked like the actor Richard Grieco. I’ve aged significantly better though. So all thanks to my dad and mom for that.

Sounds like you won the genetic lottery! Yes, I have experience in different countries with how it charms the local ladies when you take the trouble to learn their language. Even if your language skills are pretty good, the fact that you're not fluent and clearly a foreigner breaks the ice, piques their interest, and opens up possibilities. But bravo to you for taking on the Japanese language! That's not for the faint-hearted (or dim). Whatever experiences you had with the ladies there were well-earned! I tip my hat to you, sir!
Richard Grieco was in that movie, "If Looks Could Kill" where he was a high school student on a field trip to France with his French teacher and was mistaken for a James Bond-type super spy, right? That was a fun lighthearted movie. Lol! That's the only thing I remember him in. LOL!

 

[metal4lace]

I have mentioned that my girlfriend has a big cock. Well her brothers also have big cocks so in that part of the Philippines, there is no shortage of guys with big cocks.

Well I guess it stands to reason that if the "women" have big cocks, the mens' cocks must be massive!

 

[metal4lace]

I would say no.
I have met Japanese women who specifically go out to Roppongi (a notorious pick pick-up place in Tokyo) for black cock but white was obviously considered 'nothing special'.

I see they've truly become "Western."

 

[Goddess_of_Sunshine]

Um, not that I've heard of.

 

[metal4lace]

Another anecdote- goes back to the mid eighties- not me but a guy I worked with ocassionally but was fishing mate with my best friend at the time. Seems he wandered off to Philipines for 6 months travel, got an attraction and within a year had married said lady and brought her back to the country (his job here was too good to give up). That gave citizenship rights.

Anyway another year down the track and, lets call him Trev, had moved to another coastal city (even more access to fishing) and found his wife was trying to get her sister into the country as well. Not uncommon and Trev wasn't that worried. A few months later and wifey went back for a 'holiday' to arrange things.

After 3 months away she came back, and soon 'sister' arrived as well with a visitors visa. Due process was entered to begin full access visa (called Permanent Residence). All was going well till one day Trev came home early for some reason and found 'the wife' in bed with her sister! Seems it was not knew. Trev wasn't a dullhead, but the ongoing delights had fogged his brain I guess.

Seems 'wifey' was truly lesbian, her 'sister' under another name was her real partner, so a week later they moved out of the joint home and Trev lost in a marriage settlement half his ownership on the house/ property. They couldn't tell the court that they'd falsified immigration documents that asserted the sister was in fact so under a step-name.

So Trev lost a decade in profitable home ownership, had been seduced and duped by a foreigner who with her lover, now has residence in the country, much more comfortable than her homeland. Yes- it does happen...

Sorry to hear about your friend. That's rough. I hope things got better for him after that!

 

[metal4lace]

Um, not that I've heard of.

Are you Asian, or just reporting on what you've heard as a woman in general?

 

[Rockymtnman]

Sounds like you won the genetic lottery! Yes, I have experience in different countries with how it charms the local ladies when you take the trouble to learn their language. Even if your language skills are pretty good, the fact that you're not fluent and clearly a foreigner breaks the ice, piques their interest, and opens up possibilities. But bravo to you for taking on the Japanese language! That's not for the faint-hearted (or dim). Whatever experiences you had with the ladies there were well-earned! I tip my hat to you, sir!
Richard Grieco was in that movie, "If Looks Could Kill" where he was a high school student on a field trip to France with his French teacher and was mistaken for a James Bond-type super spy, right? That was a fun lighthearted movie. Lol! That's the only thing I remember him in. LOL!

Actually Japanese isn’t all that hard. No exceptions to any rules, i before except after c. Etc… now the kanji was tough, that’s the Chinese form with characters not letters. Hirigana is the letter form and that was mildly tough. And yes, I’ve been very lucky looks wise but I do work hard to stay fit.

 

[metal4lace]

Actually Japanese isn’t all that hard. No exceptions to any rules, i before except after c. Etc… now the kanji was tough, that’s the Chinese form with characters not letters. Hirigana is the letter form and that was mildly tough. And yes, I’ve been very lucky looks wise but I do work hard to stay fit.

The Kanji and even the Hiragana intimidate me! Lol! I'm not afraid of learning a new alphabet, I've done that, but the Hiragana aren't a true alphabet, I can't remember the word for what they are. But the Kanji REALLY scare me! LOL!

 

[Goddess_of_Sunshine]

Are you Asian, or just reporting on what you've heard as a woman in general?

I'm Asian.

 

[metal4lace]

I'm Asian.

Okay, fair enough! Lol!
What country do you live in and what country were you born in, if you don't mind me asking?

 

[Bigbobnc]

Seems like quite a few of the Asian girls I’ve run across here do. I don’t think it’s as common outside of literotica though.

 

[Japansurfer]

Thank you all for the feedback, guys! Anyone have experiences to relate about dating or hooking up or whatever in Asian countries or even Asian neighborhoods in the West?

Yes lots. Had a Japanese mistress and a few girlfriends. Only place in the world a woman literallly said’take me to a hotel I want you to fuck Mr’ as her first words to me.

 

[metal4lace]

Yes lots. Had a Japanese mistress and a few girlfriends. Only place in the world a woman literallly said’take me to a hotel I want you to fuck Mr’ as her first words to me.

I would definitely love to hear about your adventures!

 

[TonyF862]

Yes lots. Had a Japanese mistress and a few girlfriends. Only place in the world a woman literallly said’take me to a hotel I want you to fuck Mr’ as her first words to me.

by "mistress" do you mean you were married and she was your side piece? or She was married and you were hers? (or some other combo)?

 

[TonyF862]

I would definitely love to hear about your adventures!

me too

 

[Japansurfer]

by "mistress" do you mean you were married and she was your side piece? or She was married and you were hers? (or some other combo)?

She was divorced I was single. She had a ‘daddy’ but I was essentially her play thing. A toy she could use for her pleasure (and generally mine)

 

[nedthebundler]

Another anecdote- goes back to the mid eighties- not me but a guy I worked with ocassionally but was fishing mate with my best friend at the time. Seems he wandered off to Philipines for 6 months travel, got an attraction and within a year had married said lady and brought her back to the country (his job here was too good to give up). That gave citizenship rights.

Anyway another year down the track and, lets call him Trev, had moved to another coastal city (even more access to fishing) and found his wife was trying to get her sister into the country as well. Not uncommon and Trev wasn't that worried. A few months later and wifey went back for a 'holiday' to arrange things.

After 3 months away she came back, and soon 'sister' arrived as well with a visitors visa. Due process was entered to begin full access visa (called Permanent Residence). All was going well till one day Trev came home early for some reason and found 'the wife' in bed with her sister! Seems it was not knew. Trev wasn't a dullhead, but the ongoing delights had fogged his brain I guess.

Seems 'wifey' was truly lesbian, her 'sister' under another name was her real partner, so a week later they moved out of the joint home and Trev lost in a marriage settlement half his ownership on the house/ property. They couldn't tell the court that they'd falsified immigration documents that asserted the sister was in fact so under a step-name.

So Trev lost a decade in profitable home ownership, had been seduced and duped by a foreigner who with her lover, now has residence in the country, much more comfortable than her homeland. Yes- it does happen...

We have a friend that we've known for the past 15 years. He met a Woman on a visit to Thailand and saw her again on the next trip.

Within the next six months they were married in Thailand, but not in Canada because he seems unable to get her a Visitor Visa.

Suddenly, there is a problem with her Birth Certificate not having the correct year and then the story how she overstayed a Visitor Visa to England. Next was her Daughter, and then her Father (that isn't her Father, but raised her) suddenly needs stem cell treatments, or her house in some backwater village needs repairs and they can't have sex because her house is too close to her relatives and they might hear.

It's constant calls for money...

And he gives it to her. I don't know how much monthly, probably $2K CAD because he wants to be able to prove to the Government that she is his Wife and he's supporting her.

He has bankrolled her "Bar" in Phuket and still continues to send money.

He told us he got married because he didn't want to be alone when he got old (he just turned 60) yet, he only gets to see her maybe twice a year for about three weeks and nothing during COVID. I think they are coming up on 8-9 years.

He's maxed out on credit, LOC and has a Mortgage on a big house and works a lot of OT so he can send her more. I've suggested to him that she should be paying for some of his trips or giving back some of the money he put into her business, and he just gets uncomfortably quiet.

She will never come to live with him because there is not good reason for her to do so. And he still insists he's married and she is his Wife.

We love him dearly, just don't know how he will react when that other shoe eventually hits the floor.

 

[Escierto]

We have a friend that we've known for the past 15 years. He met a Woman on a visit to Thailand and saw her again on the next trip.

Within the next six months they were married in Thailand, but not in Canada because he seems unable to get her a Visitor Visa.

Suddenly, there is a problem with her Birth Certificate not having the correct year and then the story how she overstayed a Visitor Visa to England. Next was her Daughter, and then her Father (that isn't her Father, but raised her) suddenly needs stem cell treatments, or her house in some backwater village needs repairs and they can't have sex because her house is too close to her relatives and they might hear.

It's constant calls for money...

And he gives it to her. I don't know how much monthly, probably $2K CAD because he wants to be able to prove to the Government that she is his Wife and he's supporting her.

He has bankrolled her "Bar" in Phuket and still continues to send money.

He told us he got married because he didn't want to be alone when he got old (he just turned 60) yet, he only gets to see her maybe twice a year for about three weeks and nothing during COVID. I think they are coming up on 8-9 years.

He's maxed out on credit, LOC and has a Mortgage on a big house and works a lot of OT so he can send her more. I've suggested to him that she should be paying for some of his trips or giving back some of the money he put into her business, and he just gets uncomfortably quiet.

She will never come to live with him because there is not good reason for her to do so. And he still insists he's married and she is his Wife.

We love him dearly, just don't know how he will react when that other shoe eventually hits the floor.

Plenty of stories like that in Thailand and the Philippines. An old white foreigner is like winning the lottery for them. I have been with my Filipina girlfriend for five years and I see her for a month a couple of times a year. Of course I send her money but she is pretty good about not being too demanding because she knows that she has a good thing.

 

[eric_erosfan]

I can attest to some of it being real in Japan. Was there a few years ago, for a couple weeks, and there were a couple times at restaurants / bars my friends and I were definitely on the menu. If they were interested it eventually got around to how big White-American dicks are compared to Japanese dicks.

It is funny. I have started to enjoy JAV VR porn and while most of it is pixelated you can still tell the relative size of the actor who is "you" in the VR movie. And all I can think is, "man, these poor hot Japanese girls with their tootsie roll penis partners". Japan is a place of beautiful sexy women who end up with skinny nerdy boys. Or at least that is what you see in their porn. I actually stop watching if i see a video where I think, how the heck is that skinny nerd tapping that sexy ass? I have nothing against skinny, nerdy Japanese guys, but they should be with skinny, nerdy Japanese girls.

 

[nedthebundler]

Plenty of stories like that in Thailand and the Philippines. An old white foreigner is like winning the lottery for them. I have been with my Filipina girlfriend for five years and I see her for a month a couple of times a year. Of course I send her money but she is pretty good about not being too demanding because she knows that she has a good thing.

His Wife knows she has a good thing and still wants more.

 

[Escierto]

His Wife knows she has a good thing and still wants more.

She needs to read about killing the goose that laid the golden egg.

 

[nedthebundler]

She needs to read about killing the goose that laid the golden egg.

He needs to learn to pay attention instead of money...

His chance of retirement keeps getting pushed back.