Is this true for other young women?

[pullmyhair3717]

I'm pretty sure it has more to do with a women's level a self-assurance. The older you get the more you know your body, are more comfortable with yourself, and more importantly you know what you want. I have always enjoys sex but I'll say it's definitely been getting better.

I think maybe I just decided early in life what I want and what it takes to make me satisfied... There's always room to spice things up and I'm not opposed to anything .. maybe its my open mind but I think I enjoy it a little too much at times.. I feel like I think about sex and want it more than my man at times... Is that even possible? I've always wondered if its borderline an addiction for me..

 

[BongoGal]

I had lots and lots of solo sex before I finally "did it" with a partner when I was 19. When I did have actual sex with a partner, I thought it was absolutely great!
After that, I went out of my way to have sex as often as I could.

 

[andyomama66]

I had lots and lots of solo sex before I finally "did it" with a partner when I was 19. When I did have actual sex with a partner, I thought it was absolutely great!
After that, I went out of my way to have sex as often as I could.

"Out of my way to have sex" I like that line. Late bloomer here...when I was in college, I drove to Cleveland (from Cincinnati). That's the farthest I traveled for nookie. Describe out of your way.

 

[BongoGal]

"Out of my way to have sex" I like that line. Late bloomer here...when I was in college, I drove to Cleveland (from Cincinnati). That's the farthest I traveled for nookie. Describe out of your way.

I wasn't thinking of distance traveled. I just meant that I made sure to take advantage of opportunities as they arose. If I had a boyfriend at the time, that boyfriend and I would have lots of sex. If I were single, well, I might just find someone else who was single and make the best of it.

 

[LilyPru]

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[yuna1981]

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Wow thanks for the link to the blog post... what WOULD happen if we defined sex as ending when the woman came? Maybe world peace?

 

[Calida]

Wow thanks for the link to the blog post... what WOULD happen if we defined sex as ending when the woman came? Maybe world peace?

Hahaha, anything is possible. ;P

As far as the topic of this thread, I can say for a fact that young women are able to enjoy sex like anyone else. While it may be true that you learn more intricate details as you get older about what pleases you, what turns you on, etc., that doesn't mean that we don't enjoy it at all. We just become more experienced and in tune with our sexuality.

That's what I think anyways.
For now though, I just know that I'm young and I love sex. =)

 

[PolyLvr]

I think it borders on criminal, the way people consciously and subconsciously hobble their offspring's sexuality. If we as parents encourage our spawn to masturbate, explore, figure out what they like and how to get off then their early explorations won't be so dismal.
I've been with my wife since she was 15 and I've pushed her boundaries every step of the way. Her thoughts were so mired in self loathing and recriminations because of her parent's attitudes and some mild abuse incidents that it took her years to gain even a semblance of comfort.
My own knowledge was very limited and I made my share of mistakes with her which didn't help. I don't believe she had more than two real orgasms until her early thirties. This was all pre-internet so we had to figure out her g-spot was a 'thing' all by ourselves.
Simply, we didn't even know what we didn't know.

Guys can't know what turns a girl on and how to get them off. They have to learn somehow so it stands to reason that those guys are going to give some girls some pretty lousy lays before someone educates them, or they figure it out on their own.

 

[Nyiatha]

I'll be 40 soon and I must say that I have never been more sexual in my whole life. I've loved sex always but now it is almost criminal. I've been told that the older ladies are always on fire and maybe that is why they get a bad rap and are called cougars. I hate that word!

 

[tumbledown]

I enjoyed sex when I was younger, sought it out because I craved it and wanted it intensely, but didn't find it satisfying in my twenties very often. Now in my forties, I think the idea of a woman peaking in her thirties is absurd. I'm so far above what I could even imagine sexually ten years ago and still climbing, it's fantastic. Take a hormone high similar to the early twenties and combine it with the skill and knowledge gained in two decades of sexual experience... a happy happy combination.

 

[NativPrincess]

I think I had sex for a few years before I really started to enjoy it, but everyone is different. It is true that I didn't know the heights I could reach early on though. Now its mindblowing and I hope it gets better

 

[takenmytime]

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[Dan and Jenny]

Push my Buttons

I've always loved sex. I love everything about sex, and all kinds of sex. From self pleasure to anal and everything in between.

sure you get those encounters that are just kinda .. meh...and I'm not just talking about the young sex where we don't know what we're doing.. i'm talking about the sex where you're bored with it as well. (most married couples know what i mean) But the truth is...On the most part sex is good... sex is very good

However, and this is just my opinion, my experience with it, As I get older I've realized two things. First, i'm so much more comfortable and confident with my sexuality then i was 5 years ago.. and 5 years from now i'll be even more so then I am today. I'm sure of it.. And this helps me to relax, to do things that five years ago i'd think 'am i gonna look stupid??'

The second thing is.. the closer and more comfortable I am with the person I do it with, the better.. the hotter it is. I have never enjoyed sex as much as what I do with Dan.. but then I've never been as close to anyone as i am with him. I'm so comfortable with him, that i can relax, and he knows me so well, that he knows exactly what to do and when.

So my opinion.. sure as u get older u get more confident with ur ownself, but it also takes having that special someone that knows all ur sexy lil buttons to push

 

[Urguycliff]

Oh yes

I think girls start thinking of sex before boys do. And they are more mature about it then we guys are. Maybe because they mature sooner than we do. One way to prove it is look at how many girls take pictures of themselves and put them on line. And they dress (mostly for themselves, but they know that guys look at them ) to show off their bodies. If you ever talk to a girl who has gone to a bachorlette party they are a lot wilder than the guys. Girls go "boy crazy" at an early age. Ask any mother. (Of course if the mother was honest she would confess she did the same thing at their age.) Girls enjoy kissing and being touched and caressed. Even from early age girls are pushing baby buggies around playing at being a mommy. I'm sure somewhere in the back of their little minds are some very naughty DNA. You sweet hot things won't admit it, but you all think of sex as much as we guys do. And from an earlier age. And as you get older you only get hornier.

 

[pullmyhair3717]

I think girls start thinking of sex before boys do. And they are more mature about it then we guys are. Maybe because they mature sooner than we do. One way to prove it is look at how many girls take pictures of themselves and put them on line. And they dress (mostly for themselves, but they know that guys look at them ) to show off their bodies. If you ever talk to a girl who has gone to a bachorlette party they are a lot wilder than the guys. Girls go "boy crazy" at an early age. Ask any mother. (Of course if the mother was honest she would confess she did the same thing at their age.) Girls enjoy kissing and being touched and caressed. Even from early age girls are pushing baby buggies around playing at being a mommy. I'm sure somewhere in the back of their little minds are some very naughty DNA. You sweet hot things won't admit it, but you all think of sex as much as we guys do. And from an earlier age. And as you get older you only get hornier.

I will be the first to admit that I think and talk about sex constantly, to the point that my fiance gets annoyed with it . I know I think of sex more than the majority of men and I'm but ashamed of it at all! I'm only 23 but I def want it more now than I did at even 21..

 

[panty_aussie]

I think girls start thinking of sex before boys do. And they are more mature about it then we guys are. Maybe because they mature sooner than we do. One way to prove it is look at how many girls take pictures of themselves and put them on line. And they dress (mostly for themselves, but they know that guys look at them ) to show off their bodies. If you ever talk to a girl who has gone to a bachorlette party they are a lot wilder than the guys. Girls go "boy crazy" at an early age. Ask any mother. (Of course if the mother was honest she would confess she did the same thing at their age.) Girls enjoy kissing and being touched and caressed. Even from early age girls are pushing baby buggies around playing at being a mommy. I'm sure somewhere in the back of their little minds are some very naughty DNA. You sweet hot things won't admit it, but you all think of sex as much as we guys do. And from an earlier age. And as you get older you only get hornier.

yes i have to agree

im a guy def see alot of women in there teens and stuff who i worked with talk about very sexual stuff

these girls were dressing like skanks sucking and fucking every cock they could

plus so many young teen mothers out there

yes these young girls playing a lot of games but they always found a guy to go home with. i saw them quite often with different guys

so in my exp normally it the chicks who are sex crazed more than the guys

 

[geronimo_appleby]

When I was 20, I thought I loved sex. Yes I enjoyed sex, but in the last 5 years it has become a lot... different? for me? I am now 36
I do believe women peak in their 30s as they say.

Sex is wonderful now, was great then but It has become over the top hot in the last few years.

my experience is more like 40s. there are some dirty, horny bitches (and i mean that as a compliment) in their forties with the libido of an eighteen y/o lad.

 

[Urguycliff]

Women, girls no matter what their age are thinking of sex even before they realize it. How many guys do you know who as small boys played daddy or husband? But little girls play mommy pushing little buggies around and holding baby dolls. And they mature before guys do and start looking at older boys. And as women get older they get hornier (science guy says so) where men start to slow down.

At work I have had women say sexual things that if a guy said them we would be up on charges. And I had two girls rub their ass against mine as I was near a filing cabinet and they squeezed by (there was room or they could have said excuse me) and then giggled. If I had rubbed their ass I'd be in jail or my face would be slapped.

And if you know of any girls who went to an all girl night out or party for a girl getting married you know they can get wild. They touch the stripper and flirt with him and it makes the guys party seem like a society dinner.

And I'm not complaining. I love girls who enjoy their sexual needs. If I must be molested and used as boy meat so be it.

 

[SmokinDolly]

So driving to work this morning on the radio they were having a discussion about young women and their sexuality. Their opinion was that women don't really ENJOY sex until they are in their late 20s if not early 30s and that they simply do it to keep their man happy! I automatically disagreed, but strangely enough every caller they had completely agreed with them! Im 22 years old and have throughly enjoyed sex since around age 19. I crave it and cant get enough. Granted I LOVE keeping my man happy, I dont just go through the motions for his enjoyment... Do any young females really feel they dont enjoy sex right now? Or are there any older females who didnt enjoy sex until later in life??? Does it really get THAT much better?? Curious to know....

Same here. I'm 20 now, have been enjoying it since I was 18, despite lots of awkward fumbling and bad experiences before then. But I think we must be highly sexed ladies.

One of your other posts said you think about it so much your fiance gets annoyed? Haha, I have the same problem with my boyfriend. But all the women in my family are.. how do I put it.. liberated women, who very much enjoy sex. They say women with higher levels of testosterone are more confident, aggressive, and horny. I think that's why we've enjoyed it, despite being relatively young, compared to what you heard. I have girlfriends who would agree with what you heard, as they're 22-26ish and they told me they've never enjoyed sex on the whole very much. But they're also the kind of women you can't imagine being passionate, or raw, you know what I mean?

Haha, I think we should be grateful we were blessed with voracious, and amazingly satisfying, sexual appetites.

 

[LucyH]

I certainly had a lot more bad sex when I was younger. There's a definite learning curve.

 

[boutrosboutros]

To give a male perspective, I do think a lot of young women tend to have difficulty relaxing into sex, with the result that it can be a bit unsatisfactory for both parties - because if you're with a girl who can't relax, it's hard to make the kind of connection which makes sex really great. I guess not being able to relax is a function of body image issues? Or maybe just inexperience?

Obviously it's just a generalisation but I'd say the best female partners I've had have all been over the age of 27 or so, and it's not because they were hotter or better but just because they were more relaxed about the whole thing.

 

[djyak]

To give a male perspective, I do think a lot of young women tend to have difficulty relaxing into sex, with the result that it can be a bit unsatisfactory for both parties - because if you're with a girl who can't relax, it's hard to make the kind of connection which makes sex really great. I guess not being able to relax is a function of body image issues? Or maybe just inexperience?

Obviously it's just a generalisation but I'd say the best female partners I've had have all been over the age of 27 or so, and it's not because they were hotter or better but just because they were more relaxed about the whole thing.

That's pretty well put right there. I never not like sex when I was younger, but nobody really took the time with me either to make sure we both could enjoy it. When I met my husband, it was like we were teaching each other all the things each of us has learned. And boy, did that open up a lot of doors and possiblities for us! So yes, at this age, it's a whole lot more fun.

Tifani

 

[KoPilot]

Women, girls no matter what their age are thinking of sex even before they realize it. How many guys do you know who as small boys played daddy or husband? But little girls play mommy pushing little buggies around and holding baby dolls.

This is fucked up in several ways.

 

[Samuelx]

I might agree with it but probably because I had some wrank experiences when I was younger. I suppose I learned by trial and error to get to where I am now. And there's still room for improvement

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