Is your sexuality different from what your friends/family think of you?

[easyoff]

Yes my family and most of my friends think I'm straight.

 

[Iwillgo]

Yes my family and most of my friends think I'm straight.

Ditto. I would love to find a discreet bi friend, build trust and enjoy exploring the 'with benefits' part of our friendship on a regular basis.

 

[easyoff]

Ditto. I would love to find a discreet bi friend, build trust and enjoy exploring the 'with benefits' part of our friendship on a regular basis.

It's been awhile but I do have a few friends that know I'm very bi.

 

[BongoGal]

I think my family thinks I'm celibate.

 

[aliencardigan]

Is your sexuality different from what your family and friends think of you?

Are you a secret slut?

Have a lot of weird fetishes?

Secretly bi? Gay?

Is your sexuality different from what your family and friends think of you? Yes I don't think anyone suspects where my sexuality is bent towards. I've needed to maintain a very professional image but thank goodness no one can read my thoughts and desires!
Are you a secret slut? I wouldn't qualify I think lol, done a couple slutty things but not the norm.
Have a lot of weird fetishes? I have a lot of fetishes....weird is in the eye of the beholder! There are some fetishes that are a no go and a turn off for me.
Secretly bi? Gay? Closeted bi I have no problem being open online and I have expressed those desires to mrs...(insert cricket sound)

 

[Britva415]

insert cricket

DAAAAMN, that IS kinky!

 

[aliencardigan]

DAAAAMN, that IS kinky!

Hmm maybe should have said "silence" instead of crickets lol

 

[Britva415]

Hmm maybe should have said "silence" instead of crickets lol

Or just "cricket sounds"

 

[Bisnjguy]

Yes it is. No one in my family knows my love of men. My married life is sexless, we even sleep in separate rooms.
But the truth is
1. I don’t know when I had sexual thoughts with a female.
2. I love being with men.
3. My sexy lace collection is larger than both previous wives and this one.
4.. I love pleasing men, especially those that are not getting enough attention home.
Any questions or thoughts feel free to ask.

 

[Biman29]

Is your sexuality different from what your family and friends think of you?
Yes it is. I am a straight heterosexual to them. It would be interesting to see their reaction to learning out about my true sexuality.
Only my wife knows about bisexuality.

Are you a secret slut?
I love sex and would totally enjoy being someone’s slut.

Have a lot of weird fetishes
I don’t believe wanting to or having MMM / MFM threesome, playing with sex toys including strap-on or enjoying anything other than vanilla sex is weird.
But that’s just me.

Secretly bi? Gay
Yes, secretly bi.

 

[P0peye]

I'm a closet cocksucker.

 

[AlexBailey]

Being bi, I think other peoples’ impressions of me have often been misconstrued. When I was young I was often confused for female which seemed to make people think I was gay. When I dated some seriously beautiful women who identified as lesbian, people were often surprised that I was their partner. I got pronouned as she/her before pronoun identification was a big thing by some friends who called me a lesbian. When I started hanging out with other femme males I was assumed to be gay again, then I got married to my first wife and was straight. When we divorced she told all of my extended family that I’m gay, then I got remarried to a straight woman and have been monogamous for 20+ years though internally I’m queer to the core.

 

[EdgySubMic]

Is your sexuality different from what your family and friends think of you?

People can (in)correctly think so many things and I can't know (for sure) who thinks what.

Not much family left. My sister knows a few bits (accidently, as I described in another thread), but far from everything. Well, if she's lurking on Lit, she recently might have learned a bit more, but even then...
I haven't seen most of my nieces and nephews in about 9 years, others not even in about 19 years, some even longer. Their children and esp. grandchildren likely don't even know that I exist. All of these family members have no clue whatsoever. Hell, they don't even have any data to go on.

As far as friends are concerned: see below.

Are you a secret slut?

No and never have been. Rather the opposite.

Have a lot of weird fetishes?

Weird, bizarre, "abnormal", fetish, kink, pervert, fantasy, track record, ... You name it, I'll have at least one example that fits the description. Not that this was always the case, however. For a few of them, yes, but most of them only came with time, with exposure to them on paper or film/video, and finally with some experience.

Secretly bi? Gay?

Bi: Neither secretly, nor openly.

Gay: Secretly to most people. Openly to very very very very very few. Semi-openly to a few more, in that I suspect that some people suspect it, based on "stuff". That "stuff" does not include behavior: those who see that, know for sure / at least one person that I know is convinced, based on my behavior, that I am definitely not gay – although I don't see why he is convinced. However, I do have a few tattoos that, while not openly gay, could make some people think that I might be. My tattoos are not normally visible, however, so the circle of people who have seen them without explicitly knowing what they stand for is limited to my doctor and a few more who have seen me (semi-)naked in a non-sexual context.

 

[Terrylipstick]

Absolutely

 

[Topher1972]

I am secretly bi. My friends not my family know of this. I’m sure some or even most wouldn’t have a problem with it but I’m staying in the closet nonetheless.

 

[dancerbabe2000]

Oh yes

 

[GoodGirlsDeserveFun]

Possibly I don't talk about dating or guys much so maybe they think I'm lesbian or asexual.

If they only knew I was cum hungry cock slut who posts sexy audios and pictures, they'd view me very differently.

 

[bichbo]

Is your sexuality different from what your family and friends think of you? yes

Are you a secret slut? I was

Have a lot of weird fetishes? I hope lol

Secretly bi? Gay? bi

 

[Norfolkguy49]

My friends and family have no idea of my kinks lol

 

[Travler99921]

Only my wife knows I am bisexual. With her approval I am sexually active with other married men. She is also the only one who knows I wear panties and other lingerie.

 

[bobb64]

Only my wife knows I am bisexual. With her approval I am sexually active with other married men. She is also the only one who knows I wear panties and other lingerie.

I'm exactly the same only my wife knows.

 

[MaturemanAJ]

I am pretty sure it is. I have always dressed conservatively and my outward behavior is reasonably proper. I have even been called prim. In college, I was active but not too slutty. It was in my 40's when I had a couple of occasions to let myself go and really enjoy my sexual passion. Since retiring, I have moved into the swinger/hotwife lifestyle and I have fully embraced the concept. I am pretty sure my family and friends have no idea what I have been up to and I intend trying to keep it that way. Perhaps leading a double life is part of the fun of swinging.

Good for you! Retirement years should be about letting go and if possible reliving your youth.

 

[Freebeener]

Nobody in my family has any idea my sexuality (bi) or anything.

 

[Desii_Couple]

Only we both know about each others.

 

[Islander55]

Good for you! Retirement years should be about letting go and if possible reliving your youth.

My mantra is "If not now, when". At this age it is "do it or forget it".