Once you go black...

[slichy]

Very true. Porn shouldn't leave me feeling sorry for any of the actors involved, but sometimes I really wonder if the women fully understand what they're getting into. Degradation isn't sexy.

Its a whole other conversation but ethical studios, releases and contracts, representation, having support or being in the room "alone" and self esteem matter. Its easy to get talked into things and hard to come back from sometimes but that's true in legit work too. One person's got the money and the power and the other person doesn't.

 

[slichy]

Sounds intriguing…

Thanks Milk. I mean Mike.

 

[RedmanReaction19]

Its a whole other conversation but ethical studios, releases and contracts, representation, having support or being in the room "alone" and self esteem matter. Its easy to get talked into things and hard to come back from sometimes but that's true in legit work too. One person's got the money and the power and the other person doesn't.

And the dynamic almost always works out in favor of the one with power . . . and people are left to pick up the pieces.

 

[CheekyP]

Im a white guy and dated a few black women. And I absolutely love black women

i love black women, velvety smooth skin and so erotic

 

[slichy]

And the dynamic almost always works out in favor of the one with power . . . and people are left to pick up the pieces.

The ones doing it for free have no excuse for bad content. lol But also you hear stories about girls doing jobs for say $1000 and then when they get there they're told "no we said $800" or they don't even get paid for the scene. Or they say "we'll throw in $200 more if you do this" on the spot. Lots of power plays but lots of us don't stand up for ourselves neither. Going into dumb whore mode is hard to get out of ( for men and women ) but yea I like this topic and sorry to the OP for rabbit holing.

 

[RedmanReaction19]

The ones doing it for free have no excuse for bad content. lol But also you hear stories about girls doing jobs for say $1000 and then when they get there they're told "no we said $800" or they don't even get paid for the scene. Or they say "we'll throw in $200 more if you do this" on the spot. Lots of power plays but lots of us don't stand up for ourselves neither. Going into dumb whore mode is hard to get out of ( for men and women ) but yea I like this topic and sorry to the OP for rabbit holing.

What you said about last-minute additions is something one of my favorite models -- London Andrews -- mentioned in a video. It

The ones doing it for free have no excuse for bad content. lol But also you hear stories about girls doing jobs for say $1000 and then when they get there they're told "no we said $800" or they don't even get paid for the scene. Or they say "we'll throw in $200 more if you do this" on the spot. Lots of power plays but lots of us don't stand up for ourselves neither. Going into dumb whore mode is hard to get out of ( for men and women ) but yea I like this topic and sorry to the OP for rabbit holing.

What you said about last-minute additions is something one of my favorite models -- London Andrews -- mentioned in a video. It CAN be okay, but most of the time, since she goes in with the specifics already determined, deviations just lead to negative places.

And yeah, my apologies to the OP, too.

 

[S1e2t3h]

I’m a white dude who has been with a grand rotal of two black women. If I reflect back on what attracted me to both of them it is the exotic thought of fucking with someone sufficiently different to make it stand out compared to someone from a similar ethnic background. I say this as I think the attraction of Asian women to me is also the exotic nature of the difference in appearance.
The eroticism of an encounter, for me at least is definitely enhanced by the contrast in skin color but then dark haired white women are more attractive to me than blondes so is blackness any different than any other personal trait that may or may not be attractive to someone?

To continue on this subject. I wanted to mention the danger of black women/white male power differentials in black/white encounters and relationships. One of the only two opportunities I have enjoyed was a colleague in a lower admin position at work. Not the sort of relationship I feel happy about at the best of times but with the added complication of me white, she black, it felt too exploitive to me (I don't know what she thought) and this was a major reason why I ended it. However, this is maybe just a feature of the personalities of the two of us. I have also pursued a black lady, very sassy and self-assured, only to end up one night outside her room, naked, raging hard-on and her calmly telling me through the locked door, "No chance in hell. Go to bed." Haha-who had the power there!

 

[Williampistol]

So you've heard that saying:

"Once you go black, you'll never go back."

Is it true? Of course not. "Sexy" comes in all shapes, sizes and colors, and you never know who will catch your attention. "Never say never" is probably more accurate.

Still, whoever came up with "Once you go black..." was onto something. Black women often seem to have an extra...something. Sensuality? Sexuality? Physicality? Exotic looks and body?

Or is it just urban legend?

I hear it from enough guys and from my friends and read about it often enough that I think there's something to it. Guys from different ethnicities, especially white guys, are often drawn to us, and some become addicted to something about us...our bodies? Our personality? Our scent?

The way we FUCK?

And there are people who take it a step further...and dare to venture the dark, dangerous waters of race play...

Tell me what you think. Tell me what you've experienced.

And let's make this a judgenent-free zone.

Best pussy is ever had was a black girl

 

[LustyScribe]

@ebony_pussy
Wanted to tag you as I put a lot of thought into my answer. Warning to you and to all, long post, hit the character limit, had to split it up.

I lived in Florida for a bit, but I am a northern boy trans and fuck it gets cold up here.

I understand that due to the lack of direct sunlight and how dark skin tends to block out harmful effects of sunlight, it also means darker skinned ladies need to take vitamin supplements just to be up here and also, it's too fucking cold!

I would keep you warm but... I know. It's still cold as hell and there's not a lot of black folks around, so, even if I light up your life it gets lonely here in lily white snow globe land.

But when I lived down south I had this beautiful girlfriend and she was big and sensual and smooth and I would kiss her everywhere.

Every. Where.

And I loved every inch of her body. When we made love and I caught our bodies in the mirror, it was eye-catching. Vanilla and chocolate, a beautiful contrast, and my god it felt so loving and sensual to the touch as well.

I understand some people fetishize the skin color difference and make racial or even outright racist fantasies in their porn or dating profiles.

I grew up in a place where you would almost never see a black girl, I had no idea, I did not fetishize. I wasn't really aware they were an option because I never saw them.

I met her through a dating profile meant for anyone, she was seeking a white guy and I was open to anyone. I'm not racist and I wasn't seeking someone for their racial attributes, I just wanted someone to snuggle-

And snuggle we did. She is a beautiful, loving woman, now married to a white man, and I wish them well.

I enjoyed everything about her for years. I miss her, too.

Is it true- well, I did go back to white girls because that's who was interested in me and those were who were available where I live.

I appreciate beauty in all forms.

But she was not a kink for me, she was not a racial fetish, she was a complete, loving, sensual woman I would have been honored to go through life forever with.

If we were 100 percent romantically compatible and fell in true love, not just extreme adoration and romantic interest and physical chemistry, I'd have married that girl and, indeed, never gone back.

You can't choose who you fall in love with, if I could, I would have, and I would be her white husband right now. Proud to be, too.





Aja had it all... a beautiful warm, inviting smile.
She had smooth, silky, touchable skin.
Curves for days, she was a bigger girl, bigger than me, and I adored her for it. I wasn't just chasing a BBW, I simply said yes to who I saw. She was adorable to me, and I loved who she was. If she was my size or smaller I would have loved her too. She was everything I could want regardless of her exact size.

Sensual, my god yes. She loved massages and touching and kissing in the shower and rubbing our naked bodies together and she enjoyed teasing me by going around bottomless in her apartment and I wanted her on sight.

She knew how to attract me, for sure.

Sexuality, my god yes. She unlocked all my kinks.

She enjoyed oral sex all the time, giving and receiving, and I am a giver.
She enjoyed anal play, tongue, toys, fingers, vibrators, my penis. She even gave back, and I allowed it, because I trusted her. It was always comfortable and loving, between us.
She enjoyed bareback sex and my goodness that is hot.
I also loved the pink hidden inside her otherwise dark slit. It is quite the visual.... and the sensation.

continued...

This... This is beautiful, Chloe. It's honesty & purity in the simplest of forms: You like what you like, want what you want. It honestly should be no more complicated than that, with no explanations or excuses to anybody because it's YOUR business. I hate that fears & ignorance intrude in this most basic, essential & beautiful part of humanity.

 

[ChloeOfCascadia]

This... This is beautiful, Chloe. It's honesty & purity in the simplest of forms: You like what you like, want what you want. It honestly should be no more complicated than that, with no explanations or excuses to anybody because it's YOUR business. I hate that fears & ignorance intrude in this most basic, essential & beautiful part of humanity.

Thank you.

A rare person who tolerates the wall-o-text that is the interior of my brain slipping out onto the forum.

I am a wordy bitch, as I keep telling people.