Just a thought....

[ichews2]

Thus just came to me out of the blue. Its about us bigger gurls and the men who like bigger gurls and those who don't.

What I wanna know (from a male's perspective), what is it about fuller/curvy/bigger women that you like? What turns you on?

And the men who get turned off by them. What doesn't do it for you? feel free to be honest, just don't be mean.

Would love to hear some feedback on this. Also the ladies are also welcomed to join in!!!

BeLL

P.S::: This thread is in no ways an attack on thin, fit, beautiful women. I think all women are beautiful, no matter what size they are. Being a big gurl my whole life and having to deal with it got me thinking how other people view us bigger gurls.
And thank you in advance for stopping by and voicing your opinions.

In the wee hours this a.m. when my head was up my ass looking for my brains, aided and abetted by some mind altering liquids I posted a punch of crap, with the best of intent, but crap none the less. So, poof, it's down the drain.

Bottom line beautiful Belinda is that guys are attracted to you because you are a lot of woman, not a gurl who is fuller/curvy/bigger. Your pic page is all the evidence we need to know you are hot.

 

[phantomlover007]

CUrves curves curves!

The curves are great to explore, you can ascend, descend, turn left, then right, and search the hidden folds!
Also, curvy women are so yummy to suck!
One can get nicely play with boobs, and the nips are so large and yummy!
The ass is so sexy, nice to pump and squeeze as well as slap a lil'
Curvy women get me hard pretty soon!

But yeah, I have nothing against the slim girls, but this is not the place to list their virtues!

 

[Inrhapsody]

Ummm what an absolutely wonderful thread....

 

[bellinda69]

Ummm what an absolutely wonderful thread....

I know.... hahaha i thought this thread was dead and buried. great to see ppl posting. Will get back to all of u a.s.a.p

xxxxx beLL~

 

[Nightfreak]

Ok being honest the reason I like BBW is because I'm a Big guy 6ft 4 about 285 last time I brought myself to get on a scale. My wife is a BBW and I throw her around like a rag doll at times during our sessions I'm afraid that I would hurt a smaller woman. It would be the equivalent of being mauled by a bear I'm afraid. Especially since I started coming to the lit forums now its more like a rabid bear. Besides no woman in their right mind wants a big burly fireman climbing all over them.

 

[Pinkneonsocks]

I am a bigger girl, and for me the reason is not big or small, thin or heavy, fat or skinny. It's how the woman carries herself.

I've always been a bigger girl. As a young highschool girl men never asked me out. Even in my early twenties I don't think I was very appealing. As I grew older (I'm 31) I've learned how to carry myself well. How to take care of myself. I don't let my fat hang out of my jeans, I try to mask my stomach and walk with a straight posture. I have a level of confidence now I never had before.

Men stare at me so much it makes me uncomfortable sometimes. It still makes me self-conscience to a point but I know that the majority aren't looking at something they dislike or are disgusted by.

 

[klippert]

I have to look at it this way.....in sizes.....I luv women with curves..natural curves....take the classic film starlets....long before we had to have paper thin....yes I know they had to be shapely and thin. the hour-glass figures.....yum, but in today's terms....look what happened when Jessica Simpson gained weight......with in two weeks she lost most of it.....

Back to the size issue...between 6-12......I just feel when you get beyond some numbers it is getting biG.....I have (in my own opinion) seen exceptions to my own rule...

I have seen Mrs_K from a size 4-12...she is still fighting off her Pregnancy weight....I have posted pix of her on RC and Lit Discussion Threads......so far all positive.....i guess it's her big tits....ha

 

[haphazard]

What I wanna know (from a male's perspective), what is it about fuller/curvy/bigger women that you like? What turns you on?

Can't put my finger on it- just love the fuller figure.

Some of my sexiest and most intimate moments have been with bigger girls.

I love the feeling of soft warm flesh. (I love the feeling of skin on skin!).

Some of the thinner girls can almost be too "blokey" looking and I can't cope with girls who are so thin that you can see the outline of bones....

 

[alladinsane]

hey

just wanted to say hi and say hell yes, i like the larger ladies.
they have it all together and have curves in the right place and love to huggle...thats a cross between a hug and snuggle...my wife, who is a solidly built young lady, loves to huggle
i have dated and slept with a lot of different size, age and colours of woman, not bragging by any means, and have found larger woman to be the more erotic, sensual and the most fun to hold and be around.
at times some of the skinnier gals, not all for sure, have a bit of an attitude and some preconceived notion that they are better than others. and some of them dont eat, im a chef, and some are bony.
basically larger chicks rock.
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[tnnikon]

bbw ladies are soft, sexy, smooth, silky, and satisfying

 

[jeepman6]

To me it's not about "big or thin" but about just being able to carry on a conversation. I just broke up with a girl who was in between and the sex was fanfuckingtastic but there wasn't much afterwords. I love sex...wild sex...sometimes even kinky sex but after the sex and the times between sex I want an intelligent and humorous woman. Big or thin makes no difference to me.

 

[bellinda69]

wow...i didnt know this many men prefer full figured women. I think RuReal is right pass a certain szie the term 'bbw' should not be used. I mean its one thing to be big and full figure, its another to totally let urself go and just pile n the pounds. And yes, i think part of the charm of a fuler women is somthing to hold on to while having sex, or something soft to cuddle to afterwards.

Buti must agree when u men say stuff bout personality and intelligence. A woman no matter how stunning she looks if she is dumb as a door nail loses her sexiness. Even as a woman i feel stupid shallow dumb gurls r just that: stupid, dumb n shallow. I mean there was a time when women thought their looks were all that matter.

Again, thank you for all ur input. It has been much appreciated.

beLL~

 

[RuReal]

Man you are so right about intelligence the sex can be the best in the world, but eventually you get tired, so what happens when you try to have a conversation with an idiot?

 

[bellinda69]

Man you are so right about intelligence the sex can be the best in the world, but eventually you get tired, so what happens when you try to have a conversation with an idiot?

LMAO..u tell them to get out. hahaha...

U know, its the same for us ladies. We want a sexy guy in bed but we also want personality n brains n humor. I can't stand stupid meat heads.

 

[RuReal]

It is true for some people on both sides, but then you have others that just don't seem to care.

LMAO..u tell them to get out. hahaha...

U know, its the same for us ladies. We want a sexy guy in bed but we also want personality n brains n humor. I can't stand stupid meat heads.

 

[Pinktacokitty]

wow...i didnt know this many men prefer full figured women. I think RuReal is right pass a certain szie the term 'bbw' should not be used. I mean its one thing to be big and full figure, its another to totally let urself go and just pile n the pounds. And yes, i think part of the charm of a fuler women is somthing to hold on to while having sex, or something soft to cuddle to afterwards.

Buti must agree when u men say stuff bout personality and intelligence. A woman no matter how stunning she looks if she is dumb as a door nail loses her sexiness. Even as a woman i feel stupid shallow dumb gurls r just that: stupid, dumb n shallow. I mean there was a time when women thought their looks were all that matter.

Again, thank you for all ur input. It has been much appreciated.

beLL~

So tell me, what I have highlighted in your statement, isn't that what you don't want the size 0/1 and 2/3 girls to think about you. How do you justify the statement, is there a poundage limit. Maybe I have misunderstood the statement?

Being chubb is in the eye of the beholder, some people think I am a bit chubb. The distinction between bbw and poundage has to be a slippery slope to define, when do you cross that.

 

[bellinda69]

So tell me, what I have highlighted in your statement, isn't that what you don't want the size 0/1 and 2/3 girls to think about you. How do you justify the statement, is there a poundage limit. Maybe I have misunderstood the statement?

Being chubb is in the eye of the beholder, some people think I am a bit chubb. The distinction between bbw and poundage has to be a slippery slope to define, when do you cross that.

Well, all i am saying is that, a woman should take care of herself. Yes,woman are beautiful in all shapes and sizes. But es, even to me there is a poundage limit. We have to admit that some larger women think its fine if they let go of themselves because there is always the tag 'bbw', but i think that term should not be misused. Thats it.

I dunt know how some people might think u are chubb, Pinktacokitty. I think u are a fine woman. Being chubb is in the eye of the beholder, same goes for what each person thinks is attractive. And you are right bout the definition between being a full figure woman but still healthy, and those who just let go of themselves.

 

[daintyfemme]

LMAO..u tell them to get out. hahaha...

U know, its the same for us ladies. We want a sexy guy in bed but we also want personality n brains n humor. I can't stand stupid meat heads.

u sum it very well....

 

[bellinda69]

u sum it very well....

well, its the truth. I hate dumb meat heads and selfish men who think we women exist only to give them what they want.

 

[daintyfemme]

well, its the truth. I hate dumb meat heads and selfish men who think we women exist only to give them what they want.

and what's with the drama king these days? lol
I think it's some kind of male emancipation?

 

[bellinda69]

and what's with the drama king these days? lol
I think it's some kind of male emancipation?

drama kings? what drama kings???

 

[daintyfemme]

drama kings? what drama kings???

I met some guys who are good looking and sexy
but they complaint a lots!!
like they complaint over the traffic, the food, the weather, the whatever.

It's a major turn off

 

[bellinda69]

I met some guys who are good looking and sexy
but they complaint a lots!!
like they complaint over the traffic, the food, the weather, the whatever.

It's a major turn off

LOL...those men! hahahaha....

well, maybe they think because they r good looking and sexy they can be dull as shit. Go figure. Its like these smoking hot men i see (actually oggle) at the gym. They are so obsessed with their bodies, so vain they dunt even notice me oggling them.

 

[daintyfemme]

LOL...those men! hahahaha....

well, maybe they think because they r good looking and sexy they can be dull as shit. Go figure. Its like these smoking hot men i see (actually oggle) at the gym. They are so obsessed with their bodies, so vain they dunt even notice me oggling them.

Exactly!
and unfortunately I found it quite often.
Too often, I think *sigh*

 

[bellinda69]

Exactly!
and unfortunately I found it quite often.
Too often, I think *sigh*

Yeah I know how u feel.I like big well built men but unfortunately those kinda guys are mostly vain meat heads. *sigh* plus I'm not their cup of tea...

But hmmmm......dramakings? never had one. phew*