Just a thought....

[bellinda69]

Have been too busy losing myself in Belinda's pics to notice this link before now, but couldn't resist the opportunity...

A fuller figure is inherently sexy, the accentuation of feminine curves is naturally appealing to men. And if I had to describe my ideal woman, she would be a curvy brunette.

However, I find different women attractive for different reasons, and beauty isn't just about a pre-ordained set of attributes. It's what works as a complete package and, more importantly, how a woman carries herself. If you feel beautiful, you will look beautiful; confidence is very attractive. A woman can have the best body in the world but if she doesn't feel confident or attractive, or doesn't dress to suit her shape, she will not look (as) attractive.

Then again, I do like the bigger woman - those with bigger brains, the one organ in the entire body which can make you the sexiest person on the planet.

mmmmm....well so glad u dropped by sexy... i never knew u preferred us curvy women.

me<----- curvy brunette. lol

And you are right, a woman is only as attractive and as sexy as she projects herself, and dress properly. Bu i think there's a fine line between being confident and being self obsessed and thinking you are god's gift to men.

Big brain huh? hmmmmmmm....well i'm happy u like smart women.

 

[longteacher]

I love the soft feel

The fact that BBWs are soft. I love being able to grip a cheek or a hip. The feel of my face being surrounded by large breasts. Sharing a nipple as we kiss. I just love BBW.

 

[lorddragonwolf]

Thus just came to me out of the blue. Its about us bigger gurls and the men who like bigger gurls and those who don't.

What I wanna know (from a male's perspective), what is it about fuller/curvy/bigger women that you like? What turns you on?

And the men who get turned off by them. What doesn't do it for you? feel free to be honest, just don't be mean.

Would love to hear some feedback on this. Also the ladies are also welcomed to join in!!!

BeLL

P.S::: This thread is in no ways an attack on thin, fit, beautiful women. I think all women are beautiful, no matter what size they are. Being a big gurl my whole life and having to deal with it got me thinking how other people view us bigger gurls.
And thank you in advance for stopping by and voicing your opinions.

I like women of all sizes but find a bbw to be just sexy. Its the curves in all the right places.

But she still has to have the right attitude.

 

[red_steve]

i think there's a fine line between being confident and being self obsessed and thinking you are god's gift to men.

Absolutely - arrogance and conceit are two huge turn-offs for me. Big is beautiful - except with ego!

 

[bellinda69]

The fact that BBWs are soft. I love being able to grip a cheek or a hip. The feel of my face being surrounded by large breasts. Sharing a nipple as we kiss. I just love BBW.

Thanx for stopping by. I never thought somany guys prefer curvy womaen (by the way i dislike the term bbw....i wished it was never cioned)

I like women of all sizes but find a bbw to be just sexy. Its the curves in all the right places.

But she still has to have the right attitude.

That seems to be an occurring thought....its the attitude that counts. Thanx for stopping by.

 

[bellinda69]

Absolutely - arrogance and conceit are two huge turn-offs for me. Big is beautiful - except with ego!

Well said, sexy steve.... i think even in guys arrogane and conceitness are such huge turn offs.... but them some people do have a smewhat deluded self image.

 

[Lominiel]

*Sigh* I've been trying to lose weight, and my fiance wants me to stop.

I'm 5'4" (163 cm) and 175 pounds (79 kg) and recently lost 20 pounds and am aiming to lose 10-15 more though the BMI chart says I should lose around 40 pounds more (which would make my weight the same as my lean body mass weighs, in other words 0 percent body fat...)


But yeah I'm getting to the point, at a US size 14-16 where he thinks I'm too skinny...

 

[bellinda69]

*Sigh* I've been trying to lose weight, and my fiance wants me to stop.

I'm 5'4" (163 cm) and 175 pounds (79 kg) and recently lost 20 pounds and am aiming to lose 10-15 more though the BMI chart says I should lose around 40 pounds more (which would make my weight the same as my lean body mass weighs, in other words 0 percent body fat...)


But yeah I'm getting to the point, at a US size 14-16 where he thinks I'm too skinny...

well,i think the BMI chart thingie can make you very insecure bout your weight. Its been years since i've weighed myself. I hate the scale, it always makes me depressed knowing my weight in numbers. I only know im a size 12 or 14...

Congrats on you losing the weight, but i think as long as both you and your fiance are happy with the way you look, weight should not be an issue. That is unless the weight is affecting your health, which i dont think so.

I think the world puts too much emphasis on being a certain body weight and shape.

 

[Mister_Wikk]

*Sigh* I've been trying to lose weight, and my fiance wants me to stop.

I'm 5'4" (163 cm) and 175 pounds (79 kg) and recently lost 20 pounds and am aiming to lose 10-15 more though the BMI chart says I should lose around 40 pounds more (which would make my weight the same as my lean body mass weighs, in other words 0 percent body fat...)


But yeah I'm getting to the point, at a US size 14-16 where he thinks I'm too skinny...

I thought 0 Percent body fat was unhealthy? I could just be very wrong.

 

[draconus_infernus]

*Sigh* I've been trying to lose weight, and my fiance wants me to stop.

I'm 5'4" (163 cm) and 175 pounds (79 kg) and recently lost 20 pounds and am aiming to lose 10-15 more though the BMI chart says I should lose around 40 pounds more (which would make my weight the same as my lean body mass weighs, in other words 0 percent body fat...)


But yeah I'm getting to the point, at a US size 14-16 where he thinks I'm too skinny...

The body mass index is a load of crap. It doesn't take body type or sex into account. According to the BMI, I'm overweight. Yeah I have a bit of a pot belly, but the only time my doctor was concerned about my weight was when I started losing it too quickly (not eating due to acid reflux will do that to you).

I've always liked curvy women (I agree with Bell about the term BBW). I don't know why, but that's always been my preference. For me, the only time weight is an issue is if it's having a negative impact on her health. I'm not telling you to stop trying to get fit, though. If you feel physically and mentally better, I say go for it!

On a side note, in my book, brains are a must! A woman can be the most beautiful think on two legs, but if she can't carry on a conversation and actually know what she's talking about, forget it. Intelligence is very sexy.

 

[Shysweet]

Really glad to see this thread.

I love curvy women.

 

[Shysweet]

I found this thread to be a wonderful read. I really appreciated seeing all sides of what was lovely and not so lovely.

I have always been a larger girl. I don't think of myself as fat and I can handle looking at myself naked in the mirror which a lot of my friends cannot do. I did find it interesting though to read that BBW term also includes women who mostly have larger breasts...

I don't, and I feel sometimes that because I don't I miss out on the whole men being attracted to me thing. I know who I am and I find myself to be pretty. So I am just waiting to see what man out there see's me and goes "Ahh Hell Yeah I Want That!"

So thank you for all the information and reading it was quiet enjoyable.

My thoughts EXACTLY.

 

[Shysweet]

BBW Thing

This is kind of my own thoughts and feelings. I finally came to terms with my own body probably 5 years ago. At one time had a lot more of a weight "problem". Always been told I was pretty never thought I wasn't. But the advertisements and bombardment of the skinny girls did bother me.

Just once in awhile an unkind comment will bother me. I really do love to show off on here and in real life. I love being curvy and like looking at curvy and like TOUCHING curvy. Sorry Belle know you dont swing that way but I do.

Anyway...I do think beauty comes from the inside and it's loving who you are. I do but have been really tested lately... I really don't consider myself to be a BBW I mean I don't shop at Lane Bryant (nothing wrong with it I used to). Worked hard to be able to be in sizes I enjoy. I consider myself "curvy".

I enjoy the look of it. The feel of it. On myself and others. Like it that I fill out a sweater, dress or a pair of jeans rather nicely. Still always work on myself you just have to. I don't want to be sloppy or jiggly. I like to turn heads when I walk by. I look too.

 

[TheRorschachPhoenix]

Not sure if this has been mentioned already (I'm too lazy at this time of night to read all eleven pages after reading a few already), but just from my personal observations, BBWs and even former BBWs that are now slim and cute by conventional standards just seem to have nicer and warmer personalities toward me personally.

I think many of them are just used to be judged and they in turn developed an extra positive character trait to not be as judgmental of others on a whole. In other words, they really can focus on personality more.

Just my 2 cents worth,

- TRP

 

[tcook]

Just once in awhile an unkind comment will bother me. I really do love to show off on here and in real life. I love being curvy and like looking at curvy and like TOUCHING curvy.

Anyway...I do think beauty comes from the inside and it's loving who you are. I do but have been really tested lately... I really don't consider myself to be a BBW I mean I don't shop at Lane Bryant (nothing wrong with it I used to). Worked hard to be able to be in sizes I enjoy. I consider myself "curvy".

I like "curvy" better than "BBW"...
I don't have a problem with thin women, but I like curvy women better...they're a bit softer- better to cuddle and just hold close.

... seem to have nicer and warmer personalities ...

I agree with this somewhat, I think that the personality difference is because it is harder to accept your beauty when it's not what society (Hollywood et al.) deem as normal.
There are plenty of people that fit into this defined norm that have good personalities, but in my experience most seem to be a bit colder or more superficial.

 

[Shysweet]

Love to feel

a man's hands traveling over those curves. Oh yeah yum yum...

 

[neci]

hehehehe this thread makes me smile. i like the term curvy more than bbw... just a personal preference. i think that irregardless of size, it is an inner comfort and beauty that i find appealing. it is how a woman carries herself, how she embraces herself as a sexual being that makes her sexy. i will never have a skinny stick body. nope. the ass is here to stay, and it's about loving it and enjoying it to the fullest extent. i do work at staying healthy, but i am not going to turn down a piece of cake at a party to avoid the results on my midsection. i mean really. that just means more strenuous sex is needed to work the calories off right?

 

[tcook]

a man's hands traveling over those curves. Oh yeah yum yum...

Mmmm...and your curves are very enticing

hehehehe this thread makes me smile. i like the term curvy more than bbw... just a personal preference. i think that irregardless of size, it is an inner comfort and beauty that i find appealing. it is how a woman carries herself, how she embraces herself as a sexual being that makes her sexy. i will never have a skinny stick body. nope. the ass is here to stay, and it's about loving it and enjoying it to the fullest extent. i do work at staying healthy, but i am not going to turn down a piece of cake at a party to avoid the results on my midsection. i mean really. that just means more strenuous sex is needed to work the calories off right?

I completely agree with you - it's more important to enjoy life than to have the so called "perfect" figure...




Not trying to hurt anyone's feelings here or anything - but (IMHO) there's a difference between curvy sexy women, and just plain fat...it goes for guys too, some of us are larger and no amount of gym time/walking(jogging)/whatever is going to make a big impact -- but if you eat junk food all the time and don't try to stay somewhat healthy, that's not attractive.

 

[bellinda69]

a man's hands traveling over those curves. Oh yeah yum yum...

I agree! love the feel of a man's big strong hands exploring my curves. mmmmm the thought sends shivers down my body.

 

[TheBigandBaldGuy]

I agree! love the feel of a man's big strong hands exploring my curves. mmmmm the thought sends shivers down my body.

Would gladly volunteer for that duty, and is in for the long haul!!

 

[goatchick1]

so many positive wonderful thoughts and feelings here, made me smile...i've been a big girl all my life and at 54 am just now getting to where i truly enjoy it and feel confident with myself in my 5' 10", 200 pound "curvey" frame....reading these thoughts are reassuring.

 

[bellinda69]

Would gladly volunteer for that duty, and is in for the long haul!!

mmmmmmmmm.....well i do love those big hands of yours.

 

[TheBigandBaldGuy]

mmmmmmmmm.....well i do love those big hands of yours.

And I do love your soft, delicious curves...mmm, I'd so love to get my big hands on you and my big cock in you!

 

[bellinda69]

And I do love your soft, delicious curves...mmm, I'd so love to get my big hands on you and my big cock in you!

mmmmmmmm......i love the way ur mind works.

 

[WA_cop]

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