Just sayin'...

[Bramblethorn]

are you ok guy? Sorry if i got your name wrong.

I'm not bothered by it. I just think that if you're going to make mistakes like that, maybe you shouldn't get too fussed when Gracie abbreviates your own nick.

I do have a slight problem with people seeming to throw their nose into business that doesn't concern them.

oh yea thanks again cookie i guess you cant seem to not throw your nose in another's business either. Oh well.
Its to be expected.

Dude. You're the one who started this by trying to stick his dick into Cookie's business uninvited. I've been here long enough to think of Cookie as a friend, so that does concern me.

 

[Knoturnal]

I'm not bothered by it. I just think that if you're going to make mistakes like that, maybe you shouldn't get too fussed when Gracie abbreviates your own nick.



Dude. You're the one who started this by trying to stick his dick into Cookie's business uninvited. I've been here long enough to think of Cookie as a friend, so that does concern me.

Certainly of i had tried to stick my dick into cookiescats business she would have noticed and we wouldn't be talking here ...jeesus

Dude, since you referred to me in that way. like you said in a earlier post you are not a mod yet you act like you have some sort of authority in this thread.

I have tried to apologize to her and to you. Yet you still keep coming back and complaining about what was to me a misunderstanding. What I ask now what will do it for you and for her who i actually might have caused a problem with.

should i go back and use the exact words that she requested i use like she also has some authority to ask tell or whatever me to do on a post? Would it make you happy? I don't think so. It seems some that have been here longer than others think they have some right to own the thread.

YOU want to be the authority who decides what gets done and who it gets done to no matter what the other person may do. Can you understand that? Is they how we should correctly act?
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Like some here i used to think highly of her and respect her but now i just don't know as it was been said she looses my vote and will every time.



Cookie thanks...thanks for going back and changing your post(s) to make something seem different than what it actually was.

 

[Bramblethorn]

Dude, since you referred to me in that way. like you said in a earlier post you are not a mod yet you act like you have some sort of authority in this thread.

When somebody says "please close that door, it's cold out", that's not "acting like an authority". It's just a request/reminder for courtesy. My request to you was made in that spirit.

If it came across differently, then that is unfortunate and unintended, and I'd welcome your thoughts on how I might have worded my request differently to avoid giving that impression?

 

[Knoturnal]

When somebody says "please close that door, it's cold out", that's not "acting like an authority". It's just a request/reminder for courtesy. My request to you was made in that spirit.

If it came across differently, then that is unfortunate and unintended, and I'd welcome your thoughts on how I might have worded my request differently to avoid giving that impression?

Don't worry about it Bramblethorn. I’m not. Im sure your as innocent as you say you are in your post(s) in the other threads you post in. Besides lets get real. Stop the bs about “please close that door, its cold out” .
Its easy to justify yourself after the fact isn't it? Especially when its you doing the justifying.

 

[twister947]

The last word is the right word about half the time...

 

[Knoturnal]

The last word is the right word about half the time...

Thanks for stopping buy to help prove your hypotheses.

 

[cascadiabound]

*smacks my hand against my forehead*

If 3, 4, 5 people all try to explain how something came across in a way it was probably not intended (giving Knoturnal the benefit of the doubt), ordinarily one would be wise to consider behaving differently in the future, if for no other reason than to not make people (in this case women) feel uncomfortable. To dismiss all the feedback provided (notably very politely and without anyone resorting to name calling or attributing worst possible motives) on this is to dismiss women, which felt rather highlighted when the endearment "honey" got thrown in...and the result leaves a distinct impression of defensiveness and misogyny.

Thanks for revising your original post, Knoturnal ...that helps. A note for the future...quoting someone else's post and commenting on it using singular pronouns... "you" "me" that could easily be interpreted as suggesting or proposing sexual interaction when a person doesn't mean to direct that activity towards that other Litster in particular should be avoided in order to prevent future misunderstandings. (At least in this part of the forum...obviously the norms are quite different over in SRP and in some parts of the PG)

We are all here to have fun, interact, learn stuff, etc. and all that can be done in an adult respectful way. Let's try to be our best selves.

Just saying.

 

[AlwaysFara]

A wolf, just for Fara.

"I still get the feeling you don't completely trust me."
"I don't trust you at all! You tried to eat my grandma!"

Just sayin’.

 

[Knoturnal]

Sorry to the second guessers out there. i did change the post and i apologized for it. I don't know what anyone could do to make you happy...eat your grandma?
Surely your not insulting someones age.

Please if you have to say something instead of bringing up crazy stuff just do yourself a favor and say it somewhere else.
When I became a man i gave up childish things. I would think a woman would do the same.
leave your fairy tales in the books you found..... them in or better yet...post them somewhere else.

 

[AlwaysFara]

Sorry to the second guessers out there. i did change the post and i apologized for it. I don't know what anyone could do to make you happy...eat your grandma?
Surely your not insulting someones age.

*you’re



I’m a stickler.

Thanks for changing your post.

The Reply Guys (I love that term!) are the reason I stopped hosting the Oral Servitude thread. In this case, though, there was no mistake. This was a stranger/strangers to me (but one in particular) reacting to my sexuality every time I posted, even when I asked him not to, even when it’s clear to everyone else that I was in no way speaking of him. He did it to other women, too, all across the Forum. He was repeatedly told no, but he kept doing it. And there have been others, many of them in this forum. Maybe thinking they can get away with it with submissive women more than others??? I don’t know, but that’s the history here.

So, anything that reeks of that even a bit is usually called out. It’s a way for us to have each others’ backs.

 

[AlwaysFara]

Sorry to the second guessers out there. i did change the post and i apologized for it. I don't know what anyone could do to make you happy...eat your grandma?
Surely your not insulting someones age.

Please if you have to say something instead of bringing up crazy stuff just do yourself a favor and say it somewhere else.
When I became a man i gave up childish things. I would think a woman would do the same.
leave your fairy tales in the books you found..... them in or better yet...post them somewhere else.

And I don’t know what this last part means. Asking to be spoken to respectfully is not a fairy tale.
Can you expand, please?

 

[Knoturnal]

And I don’t know what this last part means. Asking to be spoken to respectfully is not a fairy tale.
Can you expand, please?

Having a argument over a what I considered a a misunderstanding and then to have her friends stop by to make remarks of their own is quite like the corrections in a post you have a problem with. It just gets old. bringing up stuff like Wolfs remind me of fairy tales. Relating what I am saying to other people “The reply guys” or who ever you are talking about does me no good either. I am not responsible for what they do and there could be a very good reason. I just don't have a worry like you do about it. Did you begin the thread? Do you have any authority to make it how you might enjoy it?

if you look there is a place here where you may edit your post for whatever reason. if you don't like that button you should reply to someone else about it. I did not make the site. Or love it or argue about it. it is your choice.

Im not the one who has the time to argue about everything and i’m not sure you don't either. If you do, then find a male that wants to be with you enough to not get upset when you argue with him.
good luck in your travels.

 

[AlwaysFara]

Having a argument over a what I considered a a misunderstanding and then to have her friends stop by to make remarks of their own is quite like the corrections in a post you have a problem with. It just gets old. bringing up stuff like Wolfs remind me of fairy tales. Relating what I am saying to other people “The reply guys” or who ever you are talking about does me no good either. I am not responsible for what they do and there could be a very good reason. I just don't have a worry like you do about it. Did you begin the thread? Do you have any authority to make it how you might enjoy it?

if you look there is a place here where you may edit your post for whatever reason. if you don't like that button you should reply to someone else about it. I did not make the site. Or love it or argue about it. it is your choice.

Im not the one who has the time to argue about everything and i’m not sure you don't either. If you do, then find a male that wants to be with you enough to not get upset when you argue with him.
good luck in your travels.

But what if I’m a lesbian?

 

[Knoturnal]

But what if I’m a lesbian?

Well then good luck to you. if you were a lesbian you wouldn't always be in the BDSM thread 99% of the time would you? well maybe you would but since i have known a few in a real life setting I seriuosly doubt you are.

 

[AlwaysFara]

Well then good luck to you. if you were a lesbian you wouldn't always be in the BDSM thread 99% of the time would you? well maybe you would but since i have known a few in a real life setting I seriuosly doubt you are.

Lesbians are here.

And I know a lot more bi and gay subs and Dommes in life.

I’m just poking you.

 

[cookiecat]

https://i.imgur.com/WLvjPkO.jpg

 

[cookiecat]

https://i.imgur.com/X8u1zaB.jpg

 

[Knoturnal]

https://i.imgur.com/WLvjPkO.jpg

Im not sure what that means. Why don’t we try to forget what happened and attempt to be friends. I promise i wont call you sw——- again. sorry

 

[Knoturnal]

Lesbians are here.

And I know a lot more bi and gay subs and Dommes in life.

I’m just poking you.

your telling me? I used to DM for one of the biggest clubs here. There were plenty of everything to go around.

I love lesbians...I am a Dude.

Poke away thats a lot more fun than someone getting upset over not much to get upset about.

 

[Shankara20]

https://66.media.tumblr.com/895fdd3e3ffa44ebd0d53fe7c4c2be2d/tumblr_pxu7nzGxFd1u7qdbxo1_540.jpg

 

[AlwaysFara]

Im not sure what that means. Why don’t we try to forget what happened and attempt to be friends. I promise i wont call you sw——- again. sorry

I don’t think it had anything to do with you.

I can’t speak for cookie, but I doubt it.

And apologizing with an eye roll is a bit insincere.

 

[Knoturnal]

I don’t think it had anything to do with you.

I can’t speak for cookie, but I doubt it.

And apologizing with an eye roll is a bit insincere.

sorry I just saw someone else in another thread call her the exact same thing and she didn't have a word to say about it. I refer to that as Bias and no matter what was said it happened.

So i can choose to still feel abused no matter what you or anyone else thinks. The word i used...sweetie .......is a commonly used word where i come from. So get over it. at least i didn't tell her “ well bless your little heart” it is not my fault people get upset about misunderstandings. we all have to let some things go and in my post i surely was ready too.

see thats just one of the reasons things get old.

 

[cookiecat]

Im not sure what that means. Why don’t we try to forget what happened and attempt to be friends. I promise i wont call you sw——- again. sorry

The post you reference means it was cute how Pooh got his shorts.

 

[cookiecat]

https://i.imgur.com/C0EJRcdl.jpg

 

[Knoturnal]

The post you reference means it was cute how Pooh got his shorts.

sorry I thought it was about the mouse giving him his shirt. I still don't know what it means because i did not follow that as a child.

I am about as familiar with pooh as you are with southern dialect. its cool. lets try to be friends anyway. Life is too short to argue all the time. its stressful.