Just sayin'...

Sorry to the second guessers out there. i did change the post and i apologized for it. I don't know what anyone could do to make you happy...eat your grandma?
Surely your not insulting someones age.

Please if you have to say something instead of bringing up crazy stuff just do yourself a favor and say it somewhere else.
When I became a man i gave up childish things. I would think a woman would do the same.
leave your fairy tales in the books you found..... them in or better yet...post them somewhere else.

I am not a second guesser and no one asked me to post, nor am I coming around to back up a friend. Cookie is perfectly capable of doing that herself. These days I post when and where the spirit moves me...and I lurk a lot, but my posting history is pretty deep here at this point. I am not living in a fairy tale and I am a grown ass woman. Indeed, I thanked you for changing your post...it just looks like you can't just say, "i will do better next time" without further insulting people in particular and women in general while doing it. No one is asking you to be responsible for the bad behavior of other people here and I think it's likely after this ridiculous episode that you will not fall into the catagory of "reply guys". I believe the anecdote Fara shared was to illustrate a personal experience in this board, one that many other women have also experienced here, in order to elucidate *why* you got the reaction you did...i believe she was trying to put it into a larger context, not point fingers at you. I don't know that for a fact, but that's how I read it.

Again...just sayin'

cb

P.S. also...not every little thing is about you honey. ;)
 
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I am not a second guesser and no one asked me to post, nor am I coming around to back up a friend. Cookie is perfectly capable of doing that herself. These days I post when and where the spirit moves me...and I lurk a lot, but my posting history is pretty deep here at this point. I am not living in a fairy tale and I am a grown ass woman. Indeed, I thanked you for changing your post...it just looks like you can't just say, "i will do better next time" without further insulting people in particular and women in general while doing it. No one is asking you to be responsible for the bad behavior of other people here and I think it's likely after this ridiculous episode that you will not fall into the catagory of "reply guys". I believe the anecdote Fara shared was to illustrate a personal experience in this board, one that many other women have also experienced here, in order to elucidate *why* you got the reaction you did...i believe she was trying to put it into a larger context, not point fingers at you. I don't know that for a fact, but that's how I read it.

Again...just sayin'

cb

P.S. also...not every little thing is about you honey. ;)

of course everything about me is not honey. What ever gave you that idea? we all have our perceptions some strike trigger zones in others. If mine have struck yours please try not to be offended. You have not offended me.
 
The wolf was something I posted for Fara's enjoyment. (She used to have a Little Red Riding Hood picture as her avi.) It's not about you.

Cool you didn't have to explain . I have always liked Fara in a motherly sort of way. my mom is not around anymore so its good for me. Hope its good for you too.
 
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If I ever get a donkey I'm going to name it Hoti....



Donkey Hoti... ;)








I'll show myself out... :rolleyes:


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This is a big fat lesson I learned in the last several years.

Feelings can't always be positive and good. Everything changes all the time. It's maddening! Why the fuck not!? I want to feel amazing every single fucking second!

Now, as I think about it, this idea of trying to ALWAYS maintain zen or some positive outlook seems foolish. Like what is my failing that I can't choose happiness today? It's bananas to think we can.

To feel the good, I have to know the bad. To have some light in my life, I have to acknowledge I feel safe in the dark and sit with that for a bit. If I want to feel like I'm actually normal some days, I embrace my fucking bleh, insecure self once in a while. To let my heart keep feeling full and lucky because of Mr. Cookie's big love, I have to curl up in a ball, be mad, angry, super sad.

Fucking emotional see saw.

Anyways. Yeah. It's good to understand this. :heart:
 
To feel the good, I have to know the bad. To have some light in my life, I have to acknowledge I feel safe in the dark and sit with that for a bit. If I want to feel like I'm actually normal some days, I embrace my fucking bleh, insecure self once in a while. To let my heart keep feeling full and lucky because of Mr. Cookie's big love, I have to curl up in a ball, be mad, angry, super sad.

Somebody once said that grief is a way of acknowledging how much somebody mattered.
 
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To feel the good, I have to know the bad. To have some light in my life, I have to acknowledge I feel safe in the dark and sit with that for a bit. If I want to feel like I'm actually normal some days...

Yin and Yang. There are many proverbs and saying throughout many different cultures reflecting the point you have made here. It is only through knowing how bad things can get can we truly appreciate the good.
 
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Test complete. You can now return to regular mundane ramblings....




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Cool you didn't have to explain . I have always liked Fara in a motherly sort of way. my mom is not around anymore so its good for me. Hope its good for you too.

You don’t know me.
I don’t like you.
Find another mom.
 
This is a test.
This is only a test....


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Guy visiting Buckingham Palace meets a handsome Guardsman. After some discussion about the size of his hat, things get... physical. The Queen discovers them but since it's Pride Week, instead of busting them she just grabs popcorn and watches, taking some notes and reminding the Guardsman to use protection.
 
You don’t know me.
I don’t like you.
Find another mom.

lol just now finding that?

you act like my mom ...if you remind me of her then you do


oh yea...I pushed the edit button again. Just thought id tell you in case you didn't figure it out yet ..........if you don't like me nothing i can do about that either

I actually liked your other AV with all the dirty looks on your drawing...better reminder ,,,, but yes you do remind me of her and not much i can really do about that either ignore you i guess but as long as your not talking to me and got me and everyone else on ignore...does it matter?
 
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