Kinda Worried

[Homburg]

Hey ~ I'm going to take that to bed with me tonight because I love the way it sounds - Plush Girls Rock.

Heh, that's makes me smile like crazy. Go right ahead and take that phrase anywhere you want

 

[Chris_Xavier]

the raw truth is, Im NOT proud of my body, because NOBODY has ever given me a reason to think like that.

-Rach

Rachel.. I've not taken the time to read all the posts in front of me - so if I am repeating anything, I do apologize.

First of all.. yes.. attitude is a huge part of what turns me on. I have seen women that are about the size of a small car and if they have a sexy attitude, it can get my crank going.

Secondly, if you are so unhappy about your size.. do what you can about it. If you are big boned.. then this sounds ugly.. but you are going to have to deal with it. If it is a weight issue.. exercise.. it will be good for you and give you the confidence you want.. also there might be some physical factors involved such as a thyroid imbalance or some other medical issue.

Trust me when I say this, Rachel - there are men out there who simply adore "large women" and think that the fashion models are just over sized toothpicks.

Have a good 'un.

 

[shy slave]

I am not a Dom or a man so I can't comment on what men find sexy.

However, I do think this is a brave thread.

It must have taken courage to sit down and write it, to then press 'send' takes even more courage.

People who do not use the net regularly imagine we all hide our real personas but that is not always the case.

rachy, IMO just by having the courage to start this thread shows you have alot to offer anyone who sees 'you'

 

[rachy91]

Thank you so much chris and Shyslave, especially you Shy, not much to say now, Nets playing up so not so many replies

 

[SouthernDom]

Im a female submissive, but have only had one online relationship with a D, but im kinda worried that because im bigger then normal for my age and that no body will want me, this is a fear of mine since childhood but i wondered if D's actually like girls that arent skinny/muscly and stuff like that

Sub and Dom perspectives are most welcome!!!

Sexy is as sexy carries herself.....................it's all in the personality and attitude.

 

[ImOnIt]

Healthy is sexy - no matter your body type
I cant relate on the weight issue, but i think confidence is an issue that just about everyone has, regardless of *any* physical factors.

I recently started being aware of WHY i feel like i do on certain days, and i was amazed at how ive been able to change things. Ive been working/going to uni/everything, and some days ive been real fatigued, and i just accepted it - but heres something that could help you.

Be aware of yourself.

eat well, excercise, sleep, dont spend too long at the computer, do stuff with friends, start conversations with people.

If youre feeling horrible (and therefor feeling ugly, self concious, judging yourself) try and identify what is going on for you... maybe make a mental list.

-i went to bed too late cause i was posting on lit
-i didnt do my washing so im not wearing clothes i feel comfortable in (if not, BUY clothes you feel comfortable in)
-i forgot to drink water yesterday so im really thirsty (and i know this means i look around too much and get self-conscious)

SO - i know i need to , get some water or powerade asap, come home drink a little more water... eat a good dinner (whatever is suitable for you) and go for a short walk before i sleep early.

this is sorta a round-about way to feeling like you want to... and you have to put the care into yourself to get the selfconfidence, and a body to match