Ladies: Does porn get you off?

[Texguy84]

Well, how about ....

Not what you DON'T LIKE...

But what you DO LIKE.

It does sound like the lack of plotline, believable characters that one can relate to, this aspect of porn women don't like.

What about porn where there's nothing but a girl jumping on a Symbian? I have seen a couple of those that were totally awesome, well, from the male point of view.

Well, I'm a dude, so it's not about what I like, but I did post about what my wife likes farther up, since it seemed relevant.

 

[JRaven]

I like the written porn best. Even the worst stories on Literotica have better plot, better characters than most videos. Written porn gets my mind horny.

Although, when in mixed company, videos tend to work better.

Jenny

 

[SweetMerry]

Does porn get me off? Yes! I don't necessarily need a story line, but it really turns me on when I can see that both (or however many) partners are really enjoying what they are doing. I like to see spontaneous, real facial expressions and the occasional giggle or surprised gasp.

The minute I see a blank, bored look, I shut right down. I like sex to be fun and passionate. So when I see someone who's so jaded about it as to be bored, I feel sorry for them and kind of angry, which shuts my libido down pronto.

 

[Tmmldr]

Does porn get me off? Yes! I don't necessarily need a story line, but it really turns me on when I can see that both (or however many) partners are really enjoying what they are doing. I like to see spontaneous, real facial expressions and the occasional giggle or surprised gasp.

The minute I see a blank, bored look, I shut right down. I like sex to be fun and passionate. So when I see someone who's so jaded about it as to be bored, I feel sorry for them and kind of angry, which shuts my libido down pronto.

I completely agree. There's nothing more arousing <guy talking here> than a woman who is excited, smiling and enthusiastic about for example, sucking cock.
Or for example if it's a scene wher the guy is going down on a girl, I find myself looking at her facial expressions.

Of course they are actors, so they can fake stuff - that's okay.

 

[lild3vilk1d992]

It depends on the content, personally. In some cases written works do the job better than video. Video, though, can be helpful as well...

I agree. lol some video is really fake so it turns you off, but if you get a really good piece of writing then its off...haha

 

[oldkinky]

Got some favorites? Well, or things that seemed incredibly hot at the time?

My wife loves watching hardcore porn. Neither of us care about a plot since most plots in porn are corny-we just like to watch sex.

DW especially likes seeing multiple dicks like in gangbangs and in group sex. She likes one gal and a group of guys who take turns fucking the gal while the others either masturbate or get a blowjob. One DVD from Private Studios that she especially likes is Top 10 Gangbangs. She loves cum shots.

She loves DP, FMF threesomes with cum swapping, group sex, strap on fucking-F on M, gal on gal, but no guy on guy, wife swapping, creampie eating, mutual masturbation, dirty talk and almost any other sex activity.

We always have a hardcore DVD playing during sex. We love mutual masturbation while we watch. It is so hot for both of us to listen and watch with my dick in her. We almost never watch alone.

 

[Hail27]

I really enjoy porn. Both visual and written. But the films that do the most for me are ones where the women / men are obviously and really enjoying it. I hate the fake crap.
Also I tend to fast forward some of the oral sex sections, they are just sooo long.

But I REALLY love erotic fiction. Both on literotica, modern and historical.

 

[Tmmldr]

It would be very interesting to have those 1-5 star ratings on both video porn and erotic fiction SEPARATED by male and female readers/viewers.

I think there would be a lot of similar opinions: Too long anything is boring, whether an intro, oral scene or whatever. Glassy eyed robot mechanics is a turnoff. But the ladies would like the buildup and romantic scenes more than the guys, no question.

Here's one for example, it starts off with some close up sucking by the mom but that leads into the phone call, where she talks with her husband and plans a romantic night. All the time working some guy's cock. Corny, amusing, wonderful voice this woman has. So there's a sort of bit of a plot, average body, action next door, believable.

http://xhamster.com/movies/195450/my_friends_mom_with_a_blowjob.html

What's shown here is a mature woman who is content with her sexuality, having some middle of the day fun in a way a lot of us wish we could.

 

[wellnow]

It would be very interesting to have those 1-5 star ratings on both video porn and erotic fiction SEPARATED by male and female readers/viewers.

I think there would be a lot of similar opinions: Too long anything is boring, whether an intro, oral scene or whatever. Glassy eyed robot mechanics is a turnoff. But the ladies would like the buildup and romantic scenes more than the guys, no question.

Here's one for example, it starts off with some close up sucking by the mom but that leads into the phone call, where she talks with her husband and plans a romantic night. All the time working some guy's cock. Corny, amusing, wonderful voice this woman has. So there's a sort of bit of a plot, average body, action next door, believable.

http://xhamster.com/movies/195450/my_friends_mom_with_a_blowjob.html

What's shown here is a mature woman who is content with her sexuality, having some middle of the day fun in a way a lot of us wish we could.

Wow Tmmldr, you should write reviews. IMO, it is a great video and not mainstream porn, what ever that is. This is the first time I have seen cum collected with a napkin. Refreshingly different.

Thanks,

wellnow

I like your taste and perspective. It would be great to see any others that you like.

 

[Tmmldr]

Just one more. Here's Chloe in Brown Bunny doing a great blowjob. It's raw sex.

The guy comes across as a complete jerk, who just wants to get off in that mouth and run. Chloe is so feminine and sensitive, as well as having total control of the guy, that you think, gee, this girl could do way better...

http://xhamster.com/movies/8264/chloe_sevigny_brown_bunny_blowjob.html

Not a word is said. But I think there's a great plotline there....

<<chuckle>> I've heard the entire movie is absolutely terrible.

 

[SexyMel2812]

I enjoy amateur porn. I can't get excited by the pretty people with false boobs and other bits.
I really like written porn, you can use your imagination to to make it so much better for yourself.

 

[Tmmldr]

I enjoy amateur porn. I can't get excited by the pretty people with false boobs and other bits.
I really like written porn, you can use your imagination to to make it so much better for yourself.

http://www.literotica.com/s/how-i-became-a-male-stripper

 

[Tony_Stark]

I enjoy amateur porn. I can't get excited by the pretty people with false boobs and other bits.
I really like written porn, you can use your imagination to to make it so much better for yourself.

Well said Mel! I think the majority of porn fans prefer what you speak of which makes me surprised at how many "produced" films continue to come out. A film with a porn "star" per se, is the one I avoid.

 

[AngelBella]

Porn definately gets me off. I'm sort of odd with porn though. I am not bi or anything but when watching porn, my sole focus is on the woman. Very rarely the man. Women are such exquisite creatures.

AngelBella

 

[smallncute]

Porn definately gets me off. I'm sort of odd with porn though. I am not bi or anything but when watching porn, my sole focus is on the woman. Very rarely the man. Women are such exquisite creatures.

AngelBella

Nicely said though I am bi-sexual.


Like many of you, I prefer to read stories (or write).

Also as mentioned, stories with a plot, for me often it is the build up to why the couple are being intimate. For example my story the Inquisitive baby sitter, it is the interaction between the two main characters before they end up in bed, the tension...

I can and do enjoy video clips but mainly with my partner; the best way to get him hard again is t have the laptop in bed and watch a couple of videos first!

Miranda

 

[msjuicypussy]

It most certainly does slow sloppy bj's, creampie eating and titty sucking does it for me.

 

[Plinth]

Wow Tmmldr, you should write reviews. IMO, it is a great video and not mainstream porn, what ever that is. This is the first time I have seen cum collected with a napkin. Refreshingly different.

Thanks,

wellnow

I like your taste and perspective. It would be great to see any others that you like.

Agreed, this is a great review of a great clip. She is luscious -- I love how she plucks at her nipples with her fingers.

 

[Tmmldr]

Agreed, this is a great review of a great clip. She is luscious -- I love how she plucks at her nipples with her fingers.

It's the kind of woman's attitude and style that makes a guy say immediately:

"I'd fuck her".

Here's a lovely girl who alternately teases, fucks, strokes and worships a cock, who brings this guy to cumming, backs off when he first spurts, then slowly jacks him to the full orgasm. Smoking hot, an artist, someone from my dreams come to life.

http://www.youporn.com/watch/463768...ives-the-best-handjob/?from=search_full&pos=7

I've done this sort of thing to women, but never received it or seen such a thing.

 

[TrueFox]

Does porn get me off? Yes! I don't necessarily need a story line, but it really turns me on when I can see that both (or however many) partners are really enjoying what they are doing. I like to see spontaneous, real facial expressions and the occasional giggle or surprised gasp.

The minute I see a blank, bored look, I shut right down. I like sex to be fun and passionate. So when I see someone who's so jaded about it as to be bored, I feel sorry for them and kind of angry, which shuts my libido down pronto.

Ditto. Plus I hate looking at straight genital shots for extended periods of time, and if the porn is boring, sometimes I invent stories about the participants. lol.

 

[Tmmldr]

Ditto. Plus I hate looking at straight genital shots for extended periods of time, and if the porn is boring, sometimes I invent stories about the participants. lol.

So...is it "time for a break?"



And your pics redefine hotness.

Lovely.

 

[40ishCouple]

Sometimes.....

It can...depends so much on the porn....I tend not to like the gangbang stuff, but like authentic looking group sex scenes with natural looking people in them....European porn tends to be better for that. I do like girl on girl, but that's because I fantasize about that a lot....I'm not real hot on anal and abuse....just my tastes (no pun intended)

 

[Tmmldr]

Does porn get me off? Yes! I don't necessarily need a story line, but it really turns me on when I can see that both (or however many) partners are really enjoying what they are doing. I like to see spontaneous, real facial expressions and the occasional giggle or surprised gasp.

The minute I see a blank, bored look, I shut right down. I like sex to be fun and passionate. So when I see someone who's so jaded about it as to be bored, I feel sorry for them and kind of angry, which shuts my libido down pronto.

Why is it then that something like the mvideo, Palmer's Addicted to Love, with those totally plastic, expressionless women in sexy black outfits, is so erotic? It creates fantasies of doing them on impulse, without that plastic expression ever changing, and without any resistance or inhibition. You suspect that they'd do it any way, any number of guys and or girls, on command.

Expressionless, at least in this case, is highly erotic. Is it exactly because it isn't a porno, but stirs the fantasy, that makes it great?

And maybe there WOULD be an occasional giggle or surprised gasp.

 

[Tmmldr]

Here's a vid of a really hot blonde, and all of the things that she does to herself have only one goal - to get herself off, to get the most intense orgasmic experience possisble. There's not one bit of attention to you, the viewer, your feelings, your state of arousal, what you care about or want to see.

This is all about her, herself, her fingers, and what she can do to herself, and how she can make herself feel. If there is a plot or a story, it is total abandonment to selfishness, yet if she can do this to herself, I can't help but wonder what she could do to a guy she cared about. If there is a story, it's the story of a woman moving from vague stirrings and longings, to a total, sweaty collapse and convulsions, and then into a dreamy, half unconscious bliss.

http://xhamster.com/movies/620925/a_sweet_young_blonde_rubs_her_tender_pussy.html

And you are left wondering, if a person can reach that point by themselves, can I get them to that same point? If so, how?

 

[xhardchick]

If porn gets me off? YES YEAH AND HELL YEAH!

 

[Athalia]

I really wish i could say porn movies did it for me. I keep trying but without an emotional connection i have trouble. Stories however, now they do the trick

Same here.

Occasionally, a bondage or S/M movie will do it for me, but only if the dominator is female (and preferably naked). And the "I Feel Myself" videos and some of the Abby Winters stuff turn me on. With rare exceptions, the usual Lesbian and male/female videos leave me cold. Bad acting? Faked orgasms? No emotional resolution? All of the above?


But I spend way more time than I should reading erotica and watching the movies in my head.