Ladies, what is it specifically that you like about recieving cunnilingus?

[deskuser]

The fact that I don't have any control and the feeling of his tongue going deep inside me devouring my wetness which he seems to enjoy. Also the stimulation on my clit is divine. I love it when he fingers me at the same time up my ass and pauses to talk dirty to me.

 

[Erostaticus]

The fact that I don't have any control and the feeling of his tongue going deep inside me devouring my wetness which he seems to enjoy. Also the stimulation on my clit is divine. I love it when he fingers me at the same time up my ass and pauses to talk dirty to me.

Oh yes, yes, yesss !!! Giving head to my woman is like entering heaven. You don't want to leave anymore. Her stimulating vaginal scent always gives me a wonderful animal rush which makes my mouth salivate. That's when I WANT HER the most.

Erostaticus

 

[wildchild1981]

awesome

Mmmmm I love teasing a woman's asshole, squirming until I can't resist slipping my finger as I suck on her clit

That is fantastic! Im a big fan of this. Makes me come very quickly.

 

[Girl2P4U]

I love it when my partner male or female are going down on me and tease around my vagina on my inner thighs then gentley lick my clit, but stop and repeat that, slowly slide a finger inside me, and reach up to touch my nipples. My female lovers have been better at oral having had more female than male partners in my life. Also a finger in my ass right before I reach orgasm makes m see stars.

 

[junk_yard]

I like fingers inside me during. And a finger in my ass.

Ahhh... that takes me back. I always do the finger in her ass move as I lick that pussy, my preference is to work that one finger up to two or three, lubricated of course, and then plunge my cock into that nicely lubed ass just as she is cumming...

 

[CountCunninglvr]

Patience has clearly paid off. First off thank all of you for your input as it is very appreciated. Obviously every woman is different and some have voiced that, but a pattern I see among those women who like cunnilingus seems to be that they favor variety of stimulation along with enthusiasm/expressiveness and a general feeling that the situation is "about them." This basically lines up with what I try to do for women, but I have learned a few new things, which is good. Self- improvement is why I started this thread after all.


Well thank all of you, especially the ladies as it was your experiences and likes I was most interested in learning about...oh and not to mention, I just love hearing women talk about their sexual experiences and what they like done to them, so feel free to keep your thoughts/feelings on this subject coming ladies.

 

[Alanija]

I've wondered the same thing too. Frankly, to address the follow up response, yes, I do like to watch when I get a blowjob and I like to feel like the woman finds some sort of pleasure in doing it and isn't just doing it to please me. I would hope that a woman feels the same way when receiving from a man (or woman for that matter). Pleasuring a woman orally is a great satisfaction and joy for many men (yes and women) and it's good if the receiver can relax and enjoy knowing that the person administering is finding enjoyment in doing it.

I've been quite disappointed in some past instances when it seems like my partner does not feel comfortable in receiving....perhaps a bit embarrassed about having someone that up close and personal. It's no fun when you get the feeling that they are sort of waiting for it to be over so they can move on to "the main event" as some people mistakenly like to refer to fucking. The "main event" is what feels good and is satisfying regardless of what one thinks the path to orgasm "should" be by some misguided definition.

On the reverse side, it's no fun getting a blowjob from a woman who treats it as something that's "expected" rather than something that's given unconditionally because she likes doing it.

This is one hell of a response. I think I agree with every single word written!

I already have a pretty good idea from experince with giving it what women like about this, but I'm interested in what's going through a woman's mind while she has a tongue on her clit.

Where do you go mentally? What do you tend to want more or less of? If you look at the person giving it what is it you like watching?

Help me better myself by telling me what pleases you ladies.

I couldn't really tell you what's going through my head since I have no clue I usually like to close my eyes because then I can focus more on the feelings and !!stop thinking!! I don't like looking at the guy and I also don't like the guy looking at my face cause that somehow makes me embarrassed (yes even at the 52nd time) and I get the feeling he's doing it just for me...

What I absolutely love is if you add fingers to that tongue! Being fucked by his fingers while his tongue is on my clit is what can get me off better than anything else.

 

[BongoGal]

Where do you go mentally?

It varies depending upon the circumstance, but sometimes I close my eyes and let myself slip into complete fantasy mode in which someone else is doing the licking and sucking and such under much different conditions

 

[absorb]

Specifically, I like to face sit on my husband as he licks my pussy. It gives me control and sexual pleasure to do so. I enjoy the feeling of my whole pussy roaming his lips, tongue and face.

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

Have any of you used flavored lotions or do you prefer it au jus?

 

[absorb]

Have any of you used flavored lotions or do you prefer it au jus?

My husband does not like lotions or flavored gels. We tried it a few times, he said they tasted artifical and we never did that again. I have used rasberry chocolate on his cock, but, again that is my preference and my personal choice for oral on him not the other way around.

 

[Rough_gem]

Fingers inside me during, and also I'd rather he has his tongue rigid and deliberate than sort of directionless and flopping all over the place.

 

[catsguy2]

My lady likes that I take my time while eating her out, I tell her how good she tastes, I don’t stop licking until she cums in my mouth. She likes seeing how hard my dick is while I’m eating her. She really likes watching me stroke my dick as she feels my tongue please her pussy.

 

[CountCunninglvr]

I know I haven't posted to this thread in a while, but it's come into my mind again. I've truly enjoyed reading all of the women's responses to what "they" specifically like about recieving cunnilingus. Some of them are just plain hot. The men's responses are welcome, but I really want to hear from the ladies.

So come on ladies, tell me more. I want to refine myself with your hottest memories and preferences. Don't be shy.

 

[beingtrue2me]

I want a man that will really take his time and tease me into another level of aroused. I want to squirm, and wiggle and be almost breathless then have him bring me to an orgasm by fingering me while he licks me. I tend to clinch out of control when I have an O but I want my man to NOT stop regardless of how much I squeeze my legs and beg him not to any more. Sometimes I actually get light headed after an intense O. It only gets that intense from an extended oral session. Just thinking about that will get the flow started.

 

[CountCunninglvr]

I want a man that will really take his time and tease me into another level of aroused. I want to squirm, and wiggle and be almost breathless then have him bring me to an orgasm by fingering me while he licks me. I tend to clinch out of control when I have an O but I want my man to NOT stop regardless of how much I squeeze my legs and beg him not to any more. Sometimes I actually get light headed after an intense O. It only gets that intense from an extended oral session. Just thinking about that will get the flow started.

Wow, this is the kind of uninhibited enthusiasm I'm looking for. I'm learning a lot from it.

 

[LoveToLurk]

I admire your willpower to hold on penetration. Are you waiting to get married to make love ALL THE WAY ? I'm happy to know you enjoy your boyfriend giving you cunnilingus. I think it's the best way for a man to show his girlfriend or wife that he loves her. I love doing it to my wife of 35 years. She tastes as good as the day I met her.

Erostaticus

What a beautiful comment, Erostaticus - that's wonderful that after that many years you and your wife still have such a deep sexual connection! Do you tell her that you still love how she tastes? I hope so! Any woman would love to hear that.

 

[bibethhotwet]

While I love the actual act of having my pussy eaten, my husband has become expert over the years of working up to it. He will spend a lot of time kissing, licking and caressing me from head to toe, getting within inches of , but avoiding direct contact with my pussy. It does not ususally take long before he has me begging him to eat me. Usually he will start at the area between my asshole and pussy and work his tongue in wide circles around my clit and entry moving ever closer with each time. Then he slides his tongue deep in an proceeds to lick my hole and clit with passion. Sometimes he will push my legs back and give my asshole a good licking too. He has learned my movements, moans, etc., over the years and knows when I am close. He will then work two fingers in me and curve them up rubbing my G Spot while rapidly flicking my clit at the same time. It ususally only takes a couple of minutes before I am experiencing earth shattering orgasms. I am a bit of a squirter, which he LOVES, and ususally gets a face full of my juices.

In general I have found women are better at oral on women then men as they know and understand the female body. However men can become experts at eating pussy as well. I would recommend you watch the video Nina Hartleys Guide To Eating Pussy. Great information in it and she is a wonderful teacher.

 

[CountCunninglvr]

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[LadyVer]

Nothing is better than enthusiasm, and faked enthusiasm is obvious. Knowledge on how to use the tongue is a big help. just sayin.

 

[Edensgarden]

A man that loves to lick between my legs is the man for me.

I have found some men say they like it and will go there because they feel they have to. Don't waist my time. I want him to pitch a tent down there and stay all night. I will gladly return the pleasure and then some.

There are men that absolutely LOVE eating pussy and that is such a huge turn on. Just knowing they want to pleasure me like that gets me hot. The more they love it the wider I spread and the wetter I get. I know what gets me off and am not afraid to speak up if I need it faster, slower or whatever.

What's going through my mind? "Oh My Ggg..........Fuuuuucccckkkk....right there....don't stop.....mmmmm.....yeah....I'm going....to.....cuuummm!" Not much more than that as I am concentrating on him and my orgasm.

 

[soccergurl7]

i just love the feeling of a tongue inside me. doesn't get any better than that.

 

[ButtAnalMan]

A man that loves to lick between my legs is the man for me.

I have found some men say they like it and will go there because they feel they have to. Don't waist my time. I want him to pitch a tent down there and stay all night. I will gladly return the pleasure and then some.

There are men that absolutely LOVE eating pussy and that is such a huge turn on. Just knowing they want to pleasure me like that gets me hot. The more they love it the wider I spread and the wetter I get. I know what gets me off and am not afraid to speak up if I need it faster, slower or whatever.

What's going through my mind? "Oh My Ggg..........Fuuuuucccckkkk....right there....don't stop.....mmmmm.....yeah....I'm going....to.....cuuummm!" Not much more than that as I am concentrating on him and my orgasm.

I can do for hour and also between your butt. Love this?

 

[ButtAnalMan]

I like fingers inside me during. And a finger in my ass.

Sure I love to take care of the ass

 

[CountCunninglvr]

A man that loves to lick between my legs is the man for me.

I have found some men say they like it and will go there because they feel they have to. Don't waist my time. I want him to pitch a tent down there and stay all night. I will gladly return the pleasure and then some.

There are men that absolutely LOVE eating pussy and that is such a huge turn on. Just knowing they want to pleasure me like that gets me hot. The more they love it the wider I spread and the wetter I get. I know what gets me off and am not afraid to speak up if I need it faster, slower or whatever.

What's going through my mind? "Oh My Ggg..........Fuuuuucccckkkk....right there....don't stop.....mmmmm.....yeah....I'm going....to.....cuuummm!" Not much more than that as I am concentrating on him and my orgasm.

This is just beautiful.