Ladies: Would You Give One of Your Guy Friends a BlowJob

[30bandits]

I used to go running with a male friend and when we stopped I often noticed that he seemed to be semi-hard in his running shorts. He was together with a friend of mine so of course nothing ever happened, but I often wondered what it would have been like to sneak into the bushes, get down on my knees and "service" him. I was never sure if he had thoughts of his own.

if that is you in your profile photos, i am sure he did...if not he is blind.

 

[ShaneoD]

I have seen a few women answer on here that they would or might...if the friend asked. Maybe I am naive, but I can barely imagine a guy asking for a blowjob from an otherwise platonic female friend. My response would be something like, "Excuse me? What? Me? WHY? Why don't you just jerk off?"

I might consider it if he had a damned good reason to not take care of his own needs. If he were incapable of using his arms because of a medical issue, then I would consider it. I might even say that it would be just a handjob and then have it turn into a bj after it got going.

A neighbor boy I had known since grade school asked me on a date, and while he didn't exactly ask, it was pretty clear what he wanted. Apparently I had a little bit of a reputation from boy talk in the locker room. So yes, it can happen.

I used to go running with a male friend and when we stopped I often noticed that he seemed to be semi-hard in his running shorts. He was together with a friend of mine so of course nothing ever happened, but I often wondered what it would have been like to sneak into the bushes, get down on my knees and "service" him. I was never sure if he had thoughts of his own.

The one thing I've realized from these posts is that the one time a man might be truely submissive is when he's hoping for a blowjob from a lady he has no idea if he's going to get one from.

 

[BongoGal]

A neighbor boy I had known since grade school asked me on a date, and while he didn't exactly ask, it was pretty clear what he wanted. Apparently I had a little bit of a reputation from boy talk in the locker room. So yes, it can happen.

I'd say that the 'on a date' part changes the dynamic.

 

[30bandits]

I'd say that the 'on a date' part changes the dynamic.

air quotes....

 

[amyforfun]

I have, and will again.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Nope. I don't find sex rewarding unless it's with a romantic partner. I need the feels.

 

[EnigmaSquared]

The single time an offered was extended, I declined; it seemed like a surefire way to ruin a valued friendship.

Though, if I'm honest, the offer itself damaged the friendship, albeit to a much smaller degree. It planted in my mind a fantasy that had never crossed my mind before and I suddenly became a bit obsessed with the idea. For a few weeks, that became my go-to wank fodder. Completely changed the way I looked at and thought of the girl. It made me possessive and jealous over her in ways I never was prior to the offer. Suddenly, our previously innocent, platonic physical contact became awkward and sexually tense. Part of me hated her for ever offering, for twisting my mind and my heart in that way, and I became a bit distant and cold because of it. I had to work through some shit that I shouldn't have had to. (Granted, being in college at the time, I wasn't exactly at my most mature, so that didn't help the situation.)

Maybe give it serious thought before you ask/offer, and then some more before you follow through.

 

[shmily]

The single time an offered was extended, I declined; it seemed like a surefire way to ruin a valued friendship.

Though, if I'm honest, the offer itself damaged the friendship, albeit to a much smaller degree. It planted in my mind a fantasy that had never crossed my mind before and I suddenly became a bit obsessed with the idea. For a few weeks, that became my go-to wank fodder. Completely changed the way I looked at and thought of the girl. It made me possessive and jealous over her in ways I never was prior to the offer. Suddenly, our previously innocent, platonic physical contact became awkward and sexually tense. Part of me hated her for ever offering, for twisting my mind and my heart in that way, and I became a bit distant and cold because of it. I had to work through some shit that I shouldn't have had to. (Granted, being in college at the time, I wasn't exactly at my most mature, so that didn't help the situation.)

Maybe give it serious thought before you ask/offer, and then some more before you follow through.

I had never thought of it in that way. I have been asked and some i did, some i didnt feel it so didnt. I have offered before and again some yes some no. As i reflect on it some relationships changed some didnt.

 

[Strixaluco]

I don't think I would. Wouldn't want to risk to change the friendship. Besides, if it is a man in the friend zone, it would feel like a chore - and that really doesn't make for a good bj! If he wasn't in the friend zone... well then it would be all or nothing.

 

[hanban24]

Would you give it to him after he just broke up with girlfriend and was upset about it? Too make him feel better and why?

No. I save that level of intimacy for people I’m dating. I’ve got a lot of guy friends, but they remain my guy friends because we don’t do anything sexual.

 

[SingleInNJ84]

I had two FWB that absolutely loved my mouth. There are two guy friends I’d consider sucking off but they’d need to make the first move, so it’ll probably never happen

 

[khemchee]

Hooked up with a friend earlier this week. It had been a while for him.

 

[ShaneoD]

Hooked up with a friend earlier this week. It had been a while for him.

I need better friends

 

[HoneyMeadows]

If we have that level of intimacy where I am confident it wouldn't ruin the friendship then yes. It's a big if though.

 

[Curvyscotswoman]

If i could trust him to keep quiet, and he was up for it then yes

 

[ILuv2Taste]

If i could trust him to keep quiet, and he was up for it then yes

I'm would be up for it, up and hard

 

[khemchee]

I need better friends

Ha, it wasn't even meant to be like that. I just sent him a message asking him to like a pic a photographer posted of me. Then he started talking about how hot I was. One thing led to another lol. Guess you're bold when it's been a few years.

 

[ShaneoD]

Ha, it wasn't even meant to be like that. I just sent him a message asking him to like a pic a photographer posted of me. Then he started talking about how hot I was. One thing led to another lol. Guess you're bold when it's been a few years.

I'm 100% sure you'd have got that same response from any man with two working eyes and a heartbeat

 

[khemchee]

I'm 100% sure you'd have got that same response from any man with two working eyes and a heartbeat

He hasn't asked for a follow up so I dunno lol

 

[ShaneoD]

He hasn't asked for a follow up so I dunno lol

Maybe he surprised himself with how forward he was and can't believe you agreed, I imagine he has relived that memory more than once if that's the case

 

[Leigh81]

His one friend that I've played around with before during the hot wife days I would again if I were allowed

 

[Bigspurt]

His one friend that I've played around with before during the hot wife days I would again if I were allowed

So you aren't allowed any more?

 

[mortis]

It happened after cleaning her girlfriends pond, couple hours of very dirty work with a power washer. I was soaked and filthy, she insisted on me taking a shower while she washed and dried my clothes. Sat on the couch in a towel and she said thank you in a way that made the effort worth it.

 

[Erictills95]

Just saying, any ladies need a guy friend lol

 

[warmsensation]

He hasn't asked for a follow up so I dunno lol

i would definitely blow my husbands friend...