Leather Femme Daddies.....

[graceanne]

I gave my Daddy this link. Now whether or not She'll chime in is another thing entirely.


Btw, i'm new here. Hello

Hello. Welcome.

 

[snowy ciara]

I gave my Daddy this link. Now whether or not She'll chime in is another thing entirely.


Btw, i'm new here. Hello

Thank you and welcome angelus! I look forward to hearing what She says.

Here's what somebody in a queer daddy/girl group said in response:
"Daddy energy is like the Sun. Bold, confident, Dominant, Prideful. It
warms her tender heart, Keeps her safe and well cared for. The energy is
transcendent, making her drunk with hys strength and desire. It is an
energy that intimadates and soothes. It overpowers with a respect earned.
The electricity that comes when I touch her skin. The weight of my soul
when she is beneath me. The way eyes are drawn to me when I walk into a
room. It is an energy not hidden or shamed. It is Not a burden or an
effort. It is innate to those whose a true to it's purpose. Although it
is mastered and controlled for each purpose in it's path. Her hands yearn
for it. To be bound to it. To be cradled and secured by it. It is not
confused by or with Ego. Only the humble can claim it. It is born and
bred. And it is ME-"

Thank you so much Etoile. It sounds like this Daddy's a poet too. sigh

Okay, I'll get brave and ask A this weekend.

 

[**A**]

It was so cute... All that stammerin' and stutterin'. I've been up all night, just got in from work. But I'll give it shot, sweetheart. I reserve the right to edit myself after I've slept.

Forgetting gender for a moment, I'm a daddy. I don't feel like a mom. It's not a question of nurturing, because I can take care of a girl with the best of them. It's a style of caring, I think. In my mind, a daddy tends to be a little looser with the Dominant energy. I don't want to say that a mommy is more hands on, but sometimes that's the way it looks. The difference between mommies and daddy appears to me, to be a matter of style. Daddy will give you enough rope to hang yourself, mommy will tie the knot and remind you to jump off the wagon instead of hanging around. This isn't to say that a Daddy isn't demanding. I can be very tough with my toys, and I have high standards of behavior that I expect a submissive to meet. I'm not a push-over.

Getting into the Femme Daddy dynamic. I rarely wander into Femme-land. But some submissives bring that out in me. I'm never gonna be heels and pearls, but I am gender-fucked. I've noticed that with bois, I'm more of a guy. The daddy who takes his boi out to get his first tattoo, his first beer, his first brothel. Girls (whom I'm not usually into, my accidental femme) take me somewhere different entirely. It's a little less rough around the edges, more polished. This I think, is where I think you're reading me as more Femme. It's not necessarily totally Femme, but it's closer that where I usually am.

A

 

[Netzach]

It was so cute... All that stammerin' and stutterin'. I've been up all night, just got in from work. But I'll give it shot, sweetheart. I reserve the right to edit myself after I've slept.

Forgetting gender for a moment, I'm a daddy. I don't feel like a mom. It's not a question of nurturing, because I can take care of a girl with the best of them. It's a style of caring, I think. In my mind, a daddy tends to be a little looser with the Dominant energy. I don't want to say that a mommy is more hands on, but sometimes that's the way it looks. The difference between mommies and daddy appears to me, to be a matter of style. Daddy will give you enough rope to hang yourself, mommy will tie the knot and remind you to jump off the wagon instead of hanging around. This isn't to say that a Daddy isn't demanding. I can be very tough with my toys, and I have high standards of behavior that I expect a submissive to meet. I'm not a push-over.

Getting into the Femme Daddy dynamic. I rarely wander into Femme-land. But some submissives bring that out in me. I'm never gonna be heels and pearls, but I am gender-fucked. I've noticed that with bois, I'm more of a guy. The daddy who takes his boi out to get his first tattoo, his first beer, his first brothel. Girls (whom I'm not usually into, my accidental femme) take me somewhere different entirely. It's a little less rough around the edges, more polished. This I think, is where I think you're reading me as more Femme. It's not necessarily totally Femme, but it's closer that where I usually am.

A

Wow, are we long-lost twins? Probably not, but my energy also depends on what it's being fed by other people's energies. I totally agree on your characterization of the Dad/son dynamic, and when I flagged boi bottom I was always kind of on the hunt for that. It's looser generally. I've always found it looser than Daddy/girl, but that could just be the couples I know and how the Daddies I've met normally are with their girls if they are into that kind of relationship.

Mommy is generally more micromanaging. I've found a really deep perversity in that scene, which I like. There's all kinds of really intense psychology in a Mother/daughter dyad in biological relationships that can really get icky and sticky when you play with that concept in a fetish setting.

I do find that with the femme bottom I tend to get into a rigid, repressive, corseted kind of sexuality which emphasizes the really perverse stuff just under the surface. Kinky shit.

Neat post, hi and welcome, BTW.

 

[**A**]

Thanks, hi and thanks! I just reread what I'd written and realized that I was amazingly lucid for having pulled an all nighter! Or I just think I was since I just got off another.

Daddy energy is hard to describe. I don't actually think of myself as a Femme Daddy because I'm gender-fluid. It's almost vampiric the way my gender at any given time changes depending on who I'm with. I ended up out with a girl at a sports bar after she'd played a hell of a soccer game, and was very much the Butch daddy. Same girl 10 days later, watching scary movies and she's in my lap, and it very much a Femme Daddy moment. I'd noticed gendershifts before depending on who I was with at the time, but I've never been with a sub who could pull different responses at different times. Normally, one person consistently gets the same response from me. Ever had that happen? Gendershift with the same person at different times, I mean.

 

[Netzach]

Thanks, hi and thanks! I just reread what I'd written and realized that I was amazingly lucid for having pulled an all nighter! Or I just think I was since I just got off another.

Daddy energy is hide to describe. I don't actually think of myself as a Femme Daddy because I'm gender-fluid. It's almost vampiric the way my gender at any given time changes depending on who I'm with. I ended up out with a girl at a sports bar after she'd played a hell of a soccer game, and was very much the Butch daddy. Same girl 10 days later, watching scary movies and she's in my lap, and it very much a Femme Daddy moment. I'd noticed gendershifts before depending on who I was with at the time, but I've never been with a sub who could pull different responses at different times. Normally, one person consistently gets the same response from me. Ever had that happen? Gendershift with the same person at different times, I mean.

Yes! One paticular person has had this effect on me.

My gender stuff tends to pull out the small bits of switchiness in me, as well.

There's a bio-guy I'm Domme to, who I was boi to on and off as well. If I'm gonna go there it's with him, but male/bottom is just not where I'm at these days. I was quite the horny little fem-fag bottom.

I used to be very turn-on-a-dime fluid, and now I'm just not, I've settled into being femme and top/Dom so much of the time that it's how I ID, what I do what I prefer.

But I did learn a lot. I know I'd never have tolerated a boi/boy exactly like me as a boi for a minute! LOL

 

[**A**]

My hard core guy moments happen most often when I'm hanging out with other tops, so I can see where it'd bring out switchiness in a switch. I've never identified on the bottom in any sense of the word, but I've seen it happen. I'd noticed in some cute little sweetheart's case, when she gets in with a bunch of TG Tops, no matter how they identify, she goes very Femme Zen on me. But when we're around a bunch of bio Tops, especially predominantly bio males, she stays in her usual tomboy mode. I'm thinking of ways to use that in a mind fuck sort of way. Starting out a night at the local club, heading out to the Leather Bar, then home to mess with her head a bit. Or having a bunch of bio-male Tops drop into the bar one night. But that's more advanced theory, I think. I'm trying not to scare her too much!

 

[graceanne]

Just a quick reminder: Not all mommies are dom/mes.

 

[Netzach]

Just a quick reminder: Not all mommies are dom/mes.

Indeed. Nor all Daddies. I like to kick daddy with my maryjanes and get horsey rides.

 

[graceanne]

Indeed. Nor all Daddies. I like to kick daddy with my maryjanes and get horsey rides.

LOL True enough.

 

[waterkemist]

You are just too fast

Nobody pointed me to this thread! *cries*

In other news, Netzach rules the world.

I started thinking of you when I read the thread title. Doesn't mean I understand it, but I fugured you would be about the best to explain it.

 

[Etoile]

Welcome, **A** - it's delightful to see another person for whom genderfucking and D/s are significant parts of your play and your identity. I look forward to hearing more from you.