Let’s talk about the female orgasm

[FreckledSprite]

I can cum from PiV but in positions that aren’t great for intimacy, which is what I’m actually after anymore. So we make it a point to make me cum during foreplay so we could use a position where I feel more connected but won’t be able to cum in.

 

[LauraLO]

So interesting to read the various accounts that men experience with their mates and definitely from a women's perspective...summary, we are all over the map but many commonalities. Clearly stimulation (partner or self) of our necks, kisses, breasts, nipples, our clitorises, lips, positioning ourselves in receiving a mate's cock or partner's fingers deep and the rapidity of...was surprised that many women didn't share their mental abilities to create orgasmic delight...and I agree you can't truly fake a true orgasm. I've shared in other blogs my ability to sit in a mall or any place that people frequent and watch other women (yes I'm a lesbian) walk by and sit at other tables and admire their beauty and fantasize about us being together sexually...the foreplay and build up...the leading of my partners actions to help me achieve the bliss i desire...the blush and warmth and atrophied fingers and toes....I can edge for the longest time filling my panties up with the sweetest wetness and then go to closest restroom or my car or finish at home...and I can relive everything my mind has held for multiple orgasms into the night....ahhhhhh the love and greatness and pleasures of being a woman...yes i'm dripping as I type...it's just who I am and love it.

 

[hiker283]

My wife and I did not have full on sex until our wedding day. Up till then it had been dry humping, some oral and fingering. I could tell when she climaxed because of her breathing and tensing. If she climaxed from my fingers in her I could feel it. So, I thought a man pistoning in and out was all it took to bring a woman to climax. So, that is what I did. The feeling was fantastic, but I was disappointed I did not make her climax. Second time a couple of hours later she gave me more instruction and had me hold my pelvis against her clit and she climaxed. Feeling her vagina pulse around my penis was incredible. After that I know how to do it and have brought her to climax most of the time for the last 29 years. Like others have observed, sometimes she is not interested in a climax but just wants to be held with me in her and feel me come in her.

It turned out she was not a virgin on our wedding night and knew what she needed to climax. She did not tell me the first time so I would not realize she had experience.

 

[lil_jenni]

I can relive everything my mind has held for multiple orgasms into the night....ahhhhhh the love and greatness and pleasures of being a woman...

I used to do this in my hookup days. I was almost exclusively with guys those days, and my normal routine was to pick a guy, hook up, give him head, and go home and take care of myself by reliving it all in my mind. And even when I had vaginal sex with a hook up, I rarely came from it, so I'd do the same as with giving head -- take care of myself later. That's just how it was for me those days.

 

[live4thebj]

Giving a woman an orgasm does not come with an instructional manual. Fact: most woman need direct clit contact to cum. Fact: not all woman are the same.

I met woman that came when playing with her tits especially her nips.

I made a woman cum by licking and kissing a certain part on her shoulder.

I had woman cum from giving me head.

I had woman cum from anal.

I had woman cum from fisting.

And so much more.

But the most common method I made woman cum is oral and vibrators.

 

[LeaHaven]

So ladies! Please tell us, what does it take for you to achieve orgasm?

if only I knew

 

[J_Bone]

mental abilities to create orgasmic delight...

This definitely. One of the most exciting and sexual lovers I've ever had shared with me her thoughts and mental images she had during sex that would oftentimes be a trigger for her orgasms.

She was multiorgasmic and an absolute dynamo in bed. She described purposefully thinking of what was happening to her in specific detail. She said sometimes it was like an out-of-body experience where she was watching herself get fucked, like watching porn, but with her in it and it was real.

Her use of these thoughts and mental images combined with the physical stimulation resulted in some of the most intense and amazing orgasms I've ever seen from a woman.

 

[aldbeir]

at a younger age my wife would have big pelvic floor pulsing orgasms from PIV .i could feel the pulsing on my cock inside her. these would go on for several moments . these were one and done some rest to recover . i could go again but she was usually done after one .she would also cum from oral but she didn't like those orgasms her description "over too quick" so oral was foreplay up until she pulled me up by the ears and guided me in her. i told her to use my ears after a missed cue. she also has squirting orgasms but not after child birth.

now at age 69 i can sometimes feel her orgasm. she has to be on top and says mostly too much effort for the resulting orgasm.

 

[cheney_dude_2022]

My girlfriend got one orgasm from me putting a vibrator on her clit and then got two more with a different vibrator to her clit as I was fucking her. I think she might have squirted as there was a huge amount of fluid on the bed left most by her. No, I didn't have my O to contribute to the mess.

 

[subdudeme13]

if only I knew

What have you tried, if I may ask.

 

[bethany_s]

So ladies! Please tell us, what does it take for you to achieve orgasm? Can you orgasm through penetration alone or is clitoral stimulation required? This seems quite rare, but my partner can orgasm this way if she is on top and controlling the movements. It blows my mind that some women experience their first orgasm in their 40s or 50s, so when did you experience your first real orgasm and was it a surprise? How does it feel for you and what was the most powerful orgasm you had? I’d love to hear everything and anything you ladies would be willing to share.

Everyone is different and that’s evident from what I’ve learned from friends and online and here over my life. For me most of mine come from clitoral stimulation. Rarely I can have them from just penetration alone, and is usually when I’m in control of the situation such as on top. Like other women I’ve learned I don’t have to have an orgasm to enjoy and have fun and feel connected. Someone else on here said she and her partner usually take care of her first during foreplay, then let her partner finish during sex. That is much how I experience it most times also. And maybe a lot is how partners have learned that many women do that way and almost ‘expected’ that is the norm. I feel like I’m still learning what works and what doesn’t at 32 with my partner. Vibes do help get me there faster, but I also love being teased and brought up slowly, that tends to build more intense ones.

I remember having orgasms in my late teens and early 20s, but don’t recall them being like what they are now. Maybe around my mid 20s I started experiencing them with more focus, intensity, and more like a full body wave. A lot maybe to do with how my partner at the time was helping me to realize my sexual potential. My orgasms have ‘matured’ more. My most memorable orgasms are when it can happen at the same time as my partner, those are truly amazing lol. The connection and depth of emotions, incredible.

 

[Kimlikes]

I had a friend I meant on here several years ago. We would video chat from time to time and when she really got into it camera would be more on her feet than her vagina. I could tell she came by the way she curled her toes and rotated feet inward.

My husband says he can tell I have come when my toes curl up , The hard part for him is knowing when I finish because apparently my toes stay curled for a while after I finish

 

[NightBirdNYC]

As an exhibitionist since I can remember, I have delicious orgasms masturbating when I know someone is watching me, which often is when a voyeur or two in the high rise across from mine are watching. After joining and leaving a couple of sites, I found lit, and aside from 3 experiences I have written about (hope a few here read them), I enjoy the feedback on the videos I occasionally make while home alone, and this one ended with a most fulfilling orgasm
https://vlix.io/video/58d586fc3be7207b5805/

 

[Playblues2020]

I loved the video. Thanks for sharing. Would love to see your face as you cum.

 

[drobert44]

As an exhibitionist since I can remember, I have delicious orgasms masturbating when I know someone is watching me, which often is when a voyeur or two in the high rise across from mine are watching. After joining and leaving a couple of sites, I found lit, and aside from 3 experiences I have written about (hope a few here read them), I enjoy the feedback on the videos I occasionally make while home alone, and this one ended with a most fulfilling orgasm
https://vlix.io/video/58d586fc3be7207b5805/

My o my, how exciting! Love your lingerie!

 

[Playblues2020]

As an exhibitionist since I can remember, I have delicious orgasms masturbating when I know someone is watching me, which often is when a voyeur or two in the high rise across from mine are watching. After joining and leaving a couple of sites, I found lit, and aside from 3 experiences I have written about (hope a few here read them), I enjoy the feedback on the videos I occasionally make while home alone, and this one ended with a most fulfilling orgasm
https://vlix.io/video/58d586fc3be7207b5805/

I love to see a woman's face when she cums. Very sexy

 

[Rob_Royale]

Mrs. Royale needs clitoral simulation to cum, unless we're in a position where I'm hitting her g-spot really well. When we were young and lean our pelvic bones mashing her clit between them was enough. After that we bought a little vibrating bullet that we would set on her clit and our bodies would hold it on place. Cunnilingus will absolutely drive her out of her mind, especially if I can get her g-spot with my fingers.

Making her cum is the best part of sex for me. The intense feeling of satisfaction I get by leaving her breathless on the sheets is amazing.

 

[nsa69kink]

I can cum from PiV but in positions that aren’t great for intimacy, which is what I’m actually after anymore. So we make it a point to make me cum during foreplay so we could use a position where I feel more connected but won’t be able to cum in.

I like this ..... I call it the chill, being connected but not really switched on & working towards that point much l8er

 

[Wld1936]

As an exhibitionist since I can remember, I have delicious orgasms masturbating when I know someone is watching me, which often is when a voyeur or two in the high rise across from mine are watching. After joining and leaving a couple of sites, I found lit, and aside from 3 experiences I have written about (hope a few here read them), I enjoy the feedback on the videos I occasionally make while home alone, and this one ended with a most fulfilling orgasm
https://vlix.io/video/58d586fc3be7207b5805/

Beautiful and sexy!

 

[KRey32]

I can cum from PiV but in positions that aren’t great for intimacy, which is what I’m actually after anymore. So we make it a point to make me cum during foreplay so we could use a position where I feel more connected but won’t be able to cum in.

For me, focusing on her needs first is not only part of the enjoyment it lays a foundation for our whole encounter. I try to remember her whole body is involved. Hopefully I can bring her to orgasm over and over through a variety of means, depending on her preferences. I love listening deeply to her body and feeling her respond, the electricity flowing through her - wave after wave. If I pay close attention I can learn how she responds, especially as it pertains how I please her orally. When it’s time to enter her I’ve found it helpful to let her start on top as she can control how she moves on me which often opens the door for her to cum multiple times. That’s the absolute best.

 

[nsa69kink]

For me, focusing on her needs first is not only part of the enjoyment it lays a foundation for our whole encounter. I try to remember her whole body is involved. Hopefully I can bring her to orgasm over and over through a variety of means, depending on her preferences. I love listening deeply to her body and feeling her respond, the electricity flowing through her - wave after wave. If I pay close attention I can learn how she responds, especially as it pertains how I please her orally. When it’s time to enter her I’ve found it helpful to let her start on top as she can control how she moves on me which often opens the door for her to cum multiple times. That’s the absolute best.

Indeed best, read that bod, let it talk to you, listen to it ...... without it saying a word. Let her melt n she becomes putty

 

[tristantrotsky]

Everyone is different and that’s evident from what I’ve learned from friends and online and here over my life. For me most of mine come from clitoral stimulation. Rarely I can have them from just penetration alone, and is usually when I’m in control of the situation such as on top. Like other women I’ve learned I don’t have to have an orgasm to enjoy and have fun and feel connected. Someone else on here said she and her partner usually take care of her first during foreplay, then let her partner finish during sex. That is much how I experience it most times also. And maybe a lot is how partners have learned that many women do that way and almost ‘expected’ that is the norm. I feel like I’m still learning what works and what doesn’t at 32 with my partner. Vibes do help get me there faster, but I also love being teased and brought up slowly, that tends to build more intense ones.

I remember having orgasms in my late teens and early 20s, but don’t recall them being like what they are now. Maybe around my mid 20s I started experiencing them with more focus, intensity, and more like a full body wave. A lot maybe to do with how my partner at the time was helping me to realize my sexual potential. My orgasms have ‘matured’ more. My most memorable orgasms are when it can happen at the same time as my partner, those are truly amazing lol. The connection and depth of emotions, incredible.

A pussy needs to be coaxed with soft lickings by an attentive cunnilinguist, the lovely little pearl of the clit deserves particular tongue-tip attention, she needs to grind down on her pussy-licker's face until she totally enjoys her orgasm. This is every woman's natural right.

 

[collegegirlsub]

The first time I dated an older man he made me cum over and over. So much more than anyone I had been with my age. I knew that he loved to make me cum. My face becomes noticeably flushed after a good session, and he loved how I looked like that. He made a point of after every time telling me how pretty I was like that. He had made my body feel so good and then his words just made me feel so special and it would make me blush a bit since I knew that he truly meant it.

 

[Playblues2020]

The first time I dated an older man he made me cum over and over. So much more than anyone I had been with my age. I knew that he loved to make me cum. My face becomes noticeably flushed after a good session, and he loved how I looked like that. He made a point of after every time telling me how pretty I was like that. He had made my body feel so good and then his words just made me feel so special and it would make me blush a bit since I knew that he truly meant it.

Are you still with him?

 

[collegegirlsub]

Are you still with him?

I am