Let’s talk about the female orgasm

[Islander55]

I think it's very common. And I'll bet it's even better when your partner just knows what you want, maybe even before you do.

It is always a treat when a partner can sense your needs and make you cum really good.

 

[SouthByWest]

And even better when he brings out a fantasy in you you never even realized you had.

 

[Purple_Fronds]

Perhaps one of the advantages of getting older, I am no longer inhibited about letting my partner know what I want or do not want. It seems that the biggest mistake couples make is not sharing their desires. I would also suggest that people understand that someone may not want sex the same way every time. Especially long term married couples tend to get into a rut. Personally there are times I am into long slow romantic passion but there are other times that I just want to be taken and used. Not in a brutal way but I want to feel that he wants and needs me and I want him to take me and make me his. I am not sure this is common for a lot of women but I am pretty sure it is not that uncommon either.

I think it’s very common and not just for women

 

[Islander55]

I think it’s very common and not just for women

I am not sure how that works for a man but I know I can really get off when this works out.

 

[TonyF862]

Perhaps one of the advantages of getting older, I am no longer inhibited about letting my partner know what I want or do not want. It seems that the biggest mistake couples make is not sharing their desires. I would also suggest that people understand that someone may not want sex the same way every time. Especially long term married couples tend to get into a rut. Personally there are times I am into long slow romantic passion but there are other times that I just want to be taken and used. Not in a brutal way but I want to feel that he wants and needs me and I want him to take me and make me his. I am not sure this is common for a lot of women but I am pretty sure it is not that uncommon either.

 

[Will527]

On the first date with my (now) ex-wife, I went down on her and couldn't tell if she came because she was so quiet. Her thighs tensed up but I wasn't sure that was a sign, and I kept going. Finally she pushed my head away and actually thanked me. I asked her if she came and she said, "hell, yes three times@!" After that I convinced her to let me know so I could take satisfaction in doing it.

 

[RoanMtn]

It's been 20+ years since I've had sex, but I alway prioritized the woman's needs first. I got a lot of joy out of watching her orgasm due to my ministrations.

 

[Elle4u2use2]

Def not oral

Vaginal and anal, yes

 

[Sgts19]

My wife never cums from penetration, with me anyways. Doesn't squirt with me, others had better luck. Only cums once and it's a big one, with me anyways.
She LOVES oral giving and getting so we spend a long time doing that. I love getting her off with my tongue then she more than ready to fuck. She LOVES me going down...always

 

[cypressknee]

The after shocks and my wife not allowing to touch her cause everything is so sensitive…let’s me know I’ve done my job

 

[amigayorbi]

I have achieved it only a few times but I remember her legs quivering for long! Gave me a lot of confidence I could do it.

 

[Wand3rlust]

Too long ago.

 

[el_uno77]

Too long ago.

this thread is about the female orgasm. your post states that it's been "too long" since you've had one. can you explain why this is so. is it medical, phychological or perhaps something else....just curious.

 

[zcraft5]

I am very lucky, and have a very orgasmic wife.

I have been with women who had a very difficult time cumming, and w others (like my wife) who orgasm very easily.

I love making her cum. Her pleasure is my measure!!

Her go-to move is to use her hitachi. She’s been using one for years, and I got her a new one, because she wore her old one out.

She says she has many diffent types of orgasms…

- penetration. From a good hard fucking or a nice loving one….
- body orgasms, where something hot or sexual simply makes her body quiver
- runny ones… she says “I just came in my pants.” And I know a small amount of wetness just went into her panties.
- clitoral (see below) with her permission.

https://www.***********/scl/fi/yheg...Cums.mov?rlkey=65gb825f5pydewb61i0ow7efz&dl=0

i want a good hardback all the time i want need to be taken hard

 

[Playblues2020]

Sharp pain during play time all over my body
And pain on my nipples always helps to make my cum

I have discovered that I like nipple pain. I love it when my wife sucks and bites my nipples (very hard) while she strokes my cock. I've even experimented with needles. A needle or safety pin through my nipples can make my dick get hard.

 

[MileHighBlackDiamond]

The woman I am now with can orgasm from different forms of stimulation. It didn't take long to get to know her body, as she is very vocal, you have no doubt if she is or isn't, no faking it.

She can orgasm from clitoral, penetration and anal all individually, very nice O's, but the big O's come from stimulating more than one.

Each stimuli I add the bigger it gets, and with a vibrator on her clit, dildo/vibrator in her V and me in her ass, when she cums her eyes roll back and her whole body shakes as the waves come over her. I have to hold on as I can feel everything inside her pulsing, squeezing, it truly is a whole body experience.

She needs that aftercare, cuddling, holding her as she comes down from these orgasms, she loses all sense of what is going on around her.

It is absolutely beautiful to watch, I love to see her in such extasy, an extreme euphoric state. I don't care if I cum, it is a euphoric rush for me to give that to her which we we enjoy together weekly if not more.

She has tried to mimic this with toys, but not having the visceral connection to another person, she does not have the same intense orgasms with toys alone.

 

[~Elizabeth~]

The woman I am now with can orgasm from different forms of stimulation. It didn't take long to get to know her body, as she is very vocal, you have no doubt if she is or isn't, no faking it.

She can orgasm from clitoral, penetration and anal all individually, very nice O's, but the big O's come from stimulating more than one.

Each stimuli I add the bigger it gets, and with a vibrator on her clit, dildo/vibrator in her V and me in her ass, when she cums her eyes roll back and her whole body shakes as the waves come over her. I have to hold on as I can feel everything inside her pulsing, squeezing, it truly is a whole body experience.

She needs that aftercare, cuddling, holding her as she comes down from these orgasms, she loses all sense of what is going on around her.

It is absolutely beautiful to watch, I love to see her in such extasy, an extreme euphoric state. I don't care if I cum, it is a euphoric rush for me to give that to her which we we enjoy together weekly if not more.

She has tried to mimic this with toys, but not having the visceral connection to another person, she does not have the same intense orgasms with toys alone.

I remember days like that with a friend years ago. Full body, squirting orgasms. Damn I miss that and what he could do to me.

 

[MileHighBlackDiamond]

I remember days like that with a friend years ago. Full body, squirting orgasms. Damn I miss that and what he could do to me.

I think you need to find how to experience it again... Memories are good for some things, others deserve repeating....

 

[~Elizabeth~]

I think you need to find how to experience it again... Memories are good for some things, others deserve repeating....

I wish.

 

[Sarge9mm]

I'm lucky jn so many ways. My woman has multiple orgasms often and in so many ways. Oral, penetration, toys, we sso alot and enjoy alot. Like that it's open and we try and please the other

 

[drobert44]

I'm lucky jn so many ways. My woman has multiple orgasms often and in so many ways. Oral, penetration, toys, we sso alot and enjoy alot. Like that it's open and we try and please the other

Still teaching my 8 0 yo granny girlfriend to have one, now, where is her G spot?

 

[Sarge9mm]

Still teaching my 8 0 yo granny girlfriend to have one, now, where is her G spot?

I'm still trying get mine have a gspot orgasm. Rabbit be here today to help

 

[forgotmyantidepressants]

I can't cum from vaginal penetration alone and I've always been very envious of you ladies who can.

For that reason, I'm all about clitoral stimulation. I love oral - giving and receiving. When I masterbate, I use my fingers and play with my clit or I use a vibrator.

I started masterbating early, but it took me awhile to achieve an orgasm with a partner. Porn is a terrible substitute for sex-ed. I thought I there was something wrong with me for a long time because I wasn't having these mind blowing orgasms like the women in the porn I was watching.

 

[drobert44]

I can't cum from vaginal penetration alone and I've always been very envious of you ladies who can.

For that reason, I'm all about clitoral stimulation. I love oral - giving and receiving. When I masterbate, I use my fingers and play with my clit or I use a vibrator.

I started masterbating early, but it took me awhile to achieve an orgasm with a partner. Porn is a terrible substitute for sex-ed. I thought I there was something wrong with me for a long time because I wasn't having these mind blowing orgasms like the women in the porn I was watching.

Think about my h s friend, a granny of 80 who had never had one until I licked her to Paradise.....

 

[forgotmyantidepressants]

Think about my h s friend, a granny of 80 who had never had one until I licked her to Paradise.....

I'm glad she got to finally have one.