Levels of Dominance
- Thread starter Ebonyfire
- Start date
Pure
Fiel a Verdad
- Joined
- Dec 20, 2001
- Posts
- 15,135
Nine levels of dominance, document:
It can be seen at:
http://www.albanypowerexchange.com/Lifestyle/dom_types.htm
This document, 'author unknown,' appears to be a re-write/adaptation of the original Vera piece available at various sites, e.g.,
Vera's original "Nine levels of submission," credited.
http://soiuser.hyperchat.com/redox/9levels.html
It can be seen at:
http://www.albanypowerexchange.com/Lifestyle/dom_types.htm
This document, 'author unknown,' appears to be a re-write/adaptation of the original Vera piece available at various sites, e.g.,
Vera's original "Nine levels of submission," credited.
http://soiuser.hyperchat.com/redox/9levels.html
Last edited:
lark sparrow
Literotica Guru
- Joined
- Oct 11, 2002
- Posts
- 1,715
The Ninth Level of Boredom
Oh, you are feisty today, Pure - nice.
So I wanted to see who would bite on the Masterly bit... misguided entertainment perhaps, but can ya blame me?
Don't answer that.
Oh, you are feisty today, Pure - nice.
So I wanted to see who would bite on the Masterly bit... misguided entertainment perhaps, but can ya blame me?
Don't answer that.
MissTaken
Biker Chick
- Joined
- Jun 30, 2001
- Posts
- 20,570
I am finding that our relationship has evolved to include D/s at all possible times. We do have real life constraints that prevent us from having a 24/7, and I would not want 24/7.
By definition, it seems I fit somewhere between these two descriptions:
"The Dominant but uncommitted short term Master:
This person dominates the relationship but may have agreed upon limits. They want to be served by the submissive. They enjoy this in both erotic and non-erotic services by having the submissive take care of their wants and needs within their agreed terms. This person will only play the dominant role when they are in the mood. Many times they will play the role for days at a time, (the weekend only Master), but they retain their freedom to quit at any time. This time is usually agreed to ahead of time or falls within the limit due to time constraints they can be together. You will find this type person in short term and in long term relationships with their "submissive/slave". They normally have a good reason why they can't enter a full time relationship and they control when they will be Dominant. This type person will usually give the submissive/slave assignments, but rarely questions them if they are not completed and does not give feedback once the assignment is complete.
The part-time real Master:
They will have an on-going relationship as Master/slave and they think of the slave as their property at all times. They want the slave to grow and distinguish between the slaves wants and needs. The Master will usually rule the submissive's life to the point that they will give them assignments, tell them what to wear, and how to act. They devote most of their time to other commitments, (job, friends, etc.), but the slave has first pick of the Master's free time. This type person will use scenes to help the slave to grow. They know how to control the pain experience so it never advances faster than the endorphins are released into the slave. They constantly watch the bodily changes of the slave during scenes and will push the slave towards subspace. The Master will control the time after scenes to take care of the slave's needs"
By definition, it seems I fit somewhere between these two descriptions:
"The Dominant but uncommitted short term Master:
This person dominates the relationship but may have agreed upon limits. They want to be served by the submissive. They enjoy this in both erotic and non-erotic services by having the submissive take care of their wants and needs within their agreed terms. This person will only play the dominant role when they are in the mood. Many times they will play the role for days at a time, (the weekend only Master), but they retain their freedom to quit at any time. This time is usually agreed to ahead of time or falls within the limit due to time constraints they can be together. You will find this type person in short term and in long term relationships with their "submissive/slave". They normally have a good reason why they can't enter a full time relationship and they control when they will be Dominant. This type person will usually give the submissive/slave assignments, but rarely questions them if they are not completed and does not give feedback once the assignment is complete.
The part-time real Master:
They will have an on-going relationship as Master/slave and they think of the slave as their property at all times. They want the slave to grow and distinguish between the slaves wants and needs. The Master will usually rule the submissive's life to the point that they will give them assignments, tell them what to wear, and how to act. They devote most of their time to other commitments, (job, friends, etc.), but the slave has first pick of the Master's free time. This type person will use scenes to help the slave to grow. They know how to control the pain experience so it never advances faster than the endorphins are released into the slave. They constantly watch the bodily changes of the slave during scenes and will push the slave towards subspace. The Master will control the time after scenes to take care of the slave's needs"
TwistaFate
Really Really Experienced
- Joined
- Nov 14, 2002
- Posts
- 305
level of dominance
I am just me, no more, no less, my level is just what it is
I am just me, no more, no less, my level is just what it is
Mr Blonde
Literotica Guru
- Joined
- Nov 11, 2001
- Posts
- 864
I would say that with only a couple exceptions all of my relationships have fallen into either the 5th, 6th or 7th categories:
The true Dominant play Master
The Dominant but uncommitted short term Master
The part-time real Master
At this stage, I would probably want to focus on the 7th category (part time real master) for the future and would only find partial satisfaction by going any lower than the 6th category.
These are approximate categories but I think we understand this is just a conceptual starting point.
The true Dominant play Master
The Dominant but uncommitted short term Master
The part-time real Master
At this stage, I would probably want to focus on the 7th category (part time real master) for the future and would only find partial satisfaction by going any lower than the 6th category.
These are approximate categories but I think we understand this is just a conceptual starting point.
@}-}rebecca----
not enough discipline ...
- Joined
- Oct 31, 2005
- Posts
- 13,063
Gander to go with the goose , have fun I'll pour 
@}-}rebecca----
not enough discipline ...
- Joined
- Oct 31, 2005
- Posts
- 13,063
: chuckles : Drink your milk Mr Ultraviolence.Retrieval said:
@}-}rebecca----
not enough discipline ...
- Joined
- Oct 31, 2005
- Posts
- 13,063
You're supposed to fake it until you do. Didn't the Dom Council send you the memo ?FungiUg said:
Blushing Bottom
purrrrrrrrrrfect pleasure
- Joined
- Aug 25, 2005
- Posts
- 4,118
What about Masturbator?
J
JAMESBJOHNSON
Guest
I didnt see me on the list, so I picked DOMINANT-NON MASTER.
Niccolo Machiavelli's THE PRINCE is my guide book. Patriarch, don, lord, whatever. I create the standards in my world. I also separate the kink from the power dynamics. I create my world and youre free to come to it...and go from it. Petulant, irrascible, shrews go first. You meet the standards or you go.
It is imperative that I remain attractive and do what needs to be done to hold your loyalty and devotion. I do what a good prince does.
Niccolo Machiavelli's THE PRINCE is my guide book. Patriarch, don, lord, whatever. I create the standards in my world. I also separate the kink from the power dynamics. I create my world and youre free to come to it...and go from it. Petulant, irrascible, shrews go first. You meet the standards or you go.
It is imperative that I remain attractive and do what needs to be done to hold your loyalty and devotion. I do what a good prince does.
