Lil_Jenni's Adventures, Past and Present...

I hope you and the family are doing well. Probably quite the adjustment to go from three to five, but I'm sure you'll do great!

Best wishes to all of you. :)
Thanks. And yeah, it's very different. Especially since it is six now... my mom is still here. She's very evasive whenever we try to find out when she's planning to go home. I mean, I love her and all, and she's a big help, but she needs to go...
 
Thanks. And yeah, it's very different. Especially since it is six now... my mom is still here. She's very evasive whenever we try to find out when she's planning to go home. I mean, I love her and all, and she's a big help, but she needs to go...
My wife and I had the agreement that if we invited either mother, we had a set start date and set end date for their visit. Too much of either, on top of a new baby, was exhausting. By the third kid, we invited for a select weekend or something depending on m work needs and time free. :)

Might just have to lay down the law and tell her time is up. Not easy, but sometimes it's the only way.
 
Mom wanted to stay through the weekend of my birthday, which is the Oct 11th. That is too long. Way too long. I suggested she go home and both she and my dad come back up for my birthday. She got pissy, and then I got mad and bought her a ticket home for Tuesday. She's not really talking it me. 🙄🤷‍♀️🫤

But I'm feeling really good, and I'm ready to take care of the twin bitches on my own (don't tell Hubby I called them that... He's asked me to stop, so I only do it now when he's not around 😉). Hell, I need to do it on my own. So... She's going home Tuesday. 😈
 
Mom wanted to stay through the weekend of my birthday, which is the Oct 11th. That is too long. Way too long. I suggested she go home and both she and my dad come back up for my birthday. She got pissy, and then I got mad and bought her a ticket home for Tuesday. She's not really talking it me. 🙄🤷‍♀️🫤

But I'm feeling really good, and I'm ready to take care of the twin bitches on my own (don't tell Hubby I called them that... He's asked me to stop, so I only do it now when he's not around 😉). Hell, I need to do it on my own. So... She's going home Tuesday. 😈
Hopefully she'll realize that you were right and get over it. If not, she might just not get to visit that often. ;)
 
Mom's gone and I'm busy as fuck, but... happier than I've been since the twinzees were born. Just me, my guys and my girls, and our dog... and a little cat who showed up outside and is making a case to come live inside... 😸
One more pet and you have one for each kid. 🤣
 
I'm not the biggest cat person, so she's lucky I'm in such a maternal zone right now... 🤪

I have posted pics of her in neighborhood groups to see if someone is looking for her. But I think both my son and the dog will be crushed if someone claims her... 🤣🤣🤣
Lost cause when the dog loves the cat too. 🤣

And congratulations on getting the house back to just you guys. :)
 
I'm feeling good, and I am almost close to thinking I may someday get a handle on the whole having twins thing... 🤪

On the plus side, I'm getting my taste for cum back. I was having some issues with the taste for awhile, which was very unusual because I've pretty much always liked the flavor and have always found Hubby's quite yummy. But for a bit there... ugh... Now recently it's been fine. I'm not craving it like I used to, so not quite back to yummy status... but it's not making me want to spit anymore either. So... progress. 😈😁👍
 
I'm feeling good, and I am almost close to thinking I may someday get a handle on the whole having twins thing... 🤪

On the plus side, I'm getting my taste for cum back. I was having some issues with the taste for awhile, which was very unusual because I've pretty much always liked the flavor and have always found Hubby's quite yummy. But for a bit there... ugh... Now recently it's been fine. I'm not craving it like I used to, so not quite back to yummy status... but it's not making me want to spit anymore either. So... progress. 😈😁👍
My wife said SO many things changed regarding her palette after pregnancy. Some she reacquired the taste for, some she never did
 
My wife said SO many things changed regarding her palette after pregnancy. Some she reacquired the taste for, some she never did
I've had a lot more of this type of thing this time compared to the first time. My OBGyn told me carrying twins can result in more changes because the hormone production is usually higher with twins. Fuck, my hips and boobs are proof of that.

My hips didn't change hardly at all the first time. They are definitely wider now, and that's with having a C-section a bit early. 😟😡🤬

As for boobs, it could be the milk of course, but I'm a bit more than a cup size up from my nursing bras I had from the first pregnancy. We'll see how much sticks around. My fear is none will and I'll be flat and floppy... 😟
 
I've been trying not to burden people here with my shit, but this is my thread, so fuck it...

You want to know the worst part of having twin infants? Hint: It's not It being overly busy. Yeah, that's rough, and there are times I don't think I will ever be up to the task, but at least I'm busy.

It's the boredom that comes between bouts of manic activity. With one infant, a caregiver can usually find time for other activities. But I don't feel I can. Part of it's exhaustion, but that's not the real problem. The real problem is that I'm always on edge because I know one of them is going to need something at any minute. So I don't do anything that really engages my mind because I know I'll be interrupted. So, inbetween flurries of activities, I sit around bored and exhausted and watching TV, although not shows I have to think about.

Even posting here is sometimes not possible. I stopped in the middle of this post because one was wet. I checked the other, and she's dry, but I'm guessing it's a matter of time. So here I'll sit, waiting to be called to duty... 🫤
 
Oh, and another thing. They can be little angels when their daddy is taking care of them, but the moment it's me again, they turn in to little bitches. it's pooping and crying and refusing to eat and not going to sleep... last night I ran out to the store when Hubby got home because I needed to get out of the house. They slept the whole time I was gone, but woke up screaming (well, one did, which woke up the other) five minutes after I was home. Hubby took care of them, but still... he got over an hour to relax after he got home from work because the both actually slept at the same time. I almost never get anywhere close to that long, because most of the time they don't want to sleep at the same time. 🤬🤬🤬
 
To finish out my pity party, it's my birthday tomorrow, and I'm going to be fucking 37. Can I even claim mid-30s anymore? Fuck.

All I want is to be left alone tomorrow, but I know that's not possible. Hubby is taking the day off, so I should be able to find some time to relax, but what I really want is to be by myself someplace quiet... and snowy, but it barely even feels like fall...

FUCK! The other one's crying. I bet she's wet now. Fucking figures. 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬
 
Again, not laughing at you, just the situation! It's why we're DONE with having kids. Love them with everything I am, but NOPE, NEVER again!

It's going to get easier, maybe not right away, but that day will come. With twins it's usually soon than with one at a time. Before you know it they'll be keeping each other busy, which leaves more time for you!

Glad to hear you and everyone are doing well!
 
Before you know it they'll be keeping each other busy, which leaves more time for you!
That's what I've been told by other parents of twins. I can't wait. Hell, I'd settle for them sleeping at the same time. But, they didn't even do that in utero, so why start now just because they are slowly killing mommy? 🙄
 
Mid thirties… 32 - 38 you are still good

Sexual prime starts at 40 so cheer up

Oddly ? You will miss the baby days so cherish the good moments
 
My wife found that too and we didn't have twins. The babies would sleep for me, even if I had to hold them. Only for her with breast milk.

I usually took first or third shift at night so my wife could sleep. She only watched her phone or TV too. And the mom fog stayed.

My wife only had breasts through breastfeeding. Hers aren't saggy, but they are small again

It will get better, but might be a couple of years. You got this.

And if I don't see you tomorrow, happy birthday, beautiful!
 
I'm feeling good, and I am almost close to thinking I may someday get a handle on the whole having twins thing... 🤪

On the plus side, I'm getting my taste for cum back. I was having some issues with the taste for awhile, which was very unusual because I've pretty much always liked the flavor and have always found Hubby's quite yummy. But for a bit there... ugh... Now recently it's been fine. I'm not craving it like I used to, so not quite back to yummy status... but it's not making me want to spit anymore either. So... progress. 😈😁👍
There's no better feeling than feeling a man cum in your mouth. :heart:
 
To finish out my pity party, it's my birthday tomorrow, and I'm going to be fucking 37. Can I even claim mid-30s anymore? Fuck.

All I want is to be left alone tomorrow, but I know that's not possible. Hubby is taking the day off, so I should be able to find some time to relax, but what I really want is to be by myself someplace quiet... and snowy, but it barely even feels like fall...

FUCK! The other one's crying. I bet she's wet now. Fucking figures. 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬
I feel for you. When I had my kids I was fucking TERRIFIED of having twins/triplets. Kudos to you for fighting through this. It'll probably be awesome when they're like 5
 
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