Lines you would NEVER cross?

[bridgeburner]

I won't do anything I feel uncomfortable with, unprepared to do safely, and uninterested in doing.

I know that seems cryptic, but it's really a long laundry list and it depends who I'm doing it with. When I'm with one of my partners I will never use a knife. When I'm with another I will never put anything in his dickhole. When I'm with M I will never be intentionally verbally degrading.


Kids and animals are so out of the pale they don't show on my radar. Well, except for a Catherine the Greatlike horse obsession or two, but name me a woman who doesn't have a horse fixation of some kind. That is between me and my giant dildo, it's not like I'm about to head to the petting zoo.

I don't think it's the least bit cryptic.

Two things in particular stand out for me --

-Why would anyone even need to mention that he's got no intent to permanently blind his submissive to make her more dependent on him? We'd be here all year making lists of things beyond the pale.

And

- I'm with M on the verbal degradation thing. I'm not willing to intentionally harm someone's sense of self-worth because it's a hard limit for me on the receiving end. There are a lot of physically edgey things that scare the crap out of me that I can say I might be willing to try with the right person in the right circumstances but I am not on board for the big soul-fuck ever.


-B

 

[Recidiva]

I don't think it's the least bit cryptic.

Two things in particular stand out for me --

-Why would anyone even need to mention that he's got no intent to permanently blind his submissive to make her more dependent on him? We'd be here all year making lists of things beyond the pale.

-B

I read that three times before I made the distinction between "bind" and "blind". I guess I can't even read some stuff. *shiver*

 

[Little Bird]

I would never do anything with knifes or drawing blood. Not because I think it disgustng, but because I know I think it arousing.
And it's like drugs: Once you start you never know where it will lead you to.

 

[FurryFury]

I would never do anything with knifes or drawing blood. Not because I think it disgustng, but because I know I think it arousing.
And it's like drugs: Once you start you never know where it will lead you to.

*smiles*

I understand your worry and attraction.

Fury

 

[georgewas]

No baby fucking!! Aside from that there isn't a that wouldnt seem appealing under the right circumstances. I'm not the squemish type.

 

[RavenStorm]

I agree with Little Bird about the knives and blood.

I know that it is a huge turn on to me and I would love to do it with the right person, but it is something that I am afraid I might actually get addicted to. That is the one turn on to me that is a little over the top that I am afraid I would never want to stop doing if it ever began.

All the other things that I would never do are of course scat, beastiality, incest. I am a survivor of incest.

But to each their own whatever it takes to get them off.

 

[Shankara20]

rape, incest, sex with animals or the dead, scat/pee play, and anything that will be perament. All hard lines for me.

I will do pee play, but agree on the others. I had a breath-play experience while tide down and will never never do it again. I don't like humiliation play but will do service play.

I might do a cutting for body art and for the experience. And I really really want to experience a flesh hook suspension. But I can not see myself being branded. I have helped hold rituals for several brandings. In '82 I received a severe leg burn that required surgery from an automobile accident that my wife died in. While I enjoy fire play, both give and receive, have bunches of tattoos and body piercings I can not get close to the idea of being branded - yet.

 

[AvaAdore]

Hard limit: being made to quit drinking coffee!

 

[lne_iii]

Hard limit: being made to quit drinking coffee!

-laughs- I think that's a cruelty none would ever impose. Fully agree there heh.

 

[FurryFury]

I agree with Little Bird about the knives and blood.

I know that it is a huge turn on to me and I would love to do it with the right person, but it is something that I am afraid I might actually get addicted to. That is the one turn on to me that is a little over the top that I am afraid I would never want to stop doing if it ever began.

All the other things that I would never do are of course scat, beastiality, incest. I am a survivor of incest.

But to each their own whatever it takes to get them off.

Hot av you have there!

Fury

 

[gingermango]

No blood, no scat, no kids. Pretty much anything else is negotiable between the Goddess and I.

 

[angelsrose]

It seems for me I have a long list of things I won't do, and I think it is also because I have really had many people to expierance things with. Some hard limits of mine are breathe play, well in all actuality anything to do with anything around my neck except for jewelery scares the living daylights out of me, there is a whole reason for it though. I can barely stand someone stroking my neck nicely, without my body shaking. It took someone I was with a solid 9 months before I felt remotely ok with him caressing my neck. Blood play,no. But piercing, maybe with the right person. Permanent or temporary. Incest, anything to do with animals, scat, and I really can't stand having someone cum on my face. I guess theres a lot of what I amy consider extreme besides this stuff that for me, I just don't know that I will *ever* beable to do. And maybe one day with the right person I will be willing to do more then I have thought about. I am open to the possiblity that there may be someone in this world who i am willing to go to extremes for when HE asks it of me. Til then...... I am happy with the things that I am not so afraid of.

And I agree...don't ever make me stop drinking coffee.

 

[FurryFury]

Now I'm jonesing for some really good fancy coffee with a bud. *grr*

Only my bestest coffee bud has two little ones now and can't get out like she used to. She got me addicted in the first place.

Fury