Lonely girl

[DuvessaNight]

ladies, I am up for grabs.

Hey bo, get your own personal no stealing my prospects away!

 

[Bbl87]

Thanks for the offer! I will definelty take you up on it when I need to. Same to you! I initially came to Lit to write on the story side but found this wonderful community. I'm still finding my way in here. I'm pleased to make your acquaintance

Duvessa's very good people for sure.

 

[Mandarinfish]

OP sounds incredible. Hope she finds what she needs out there.

 

[DuvessaNight]

OP sounds incredible. Hope she finds what she needs out there.

Thank you

 

[DuvessaNight]

What a difference two weeks can make

Not exactly sure what I’m looking for now, except maybe some cool people to chat with. Pms are welcome if you wanna make a new friend

 

[Farming83]

What a difference two weeks can make

Not exactly sure what I’m looking for now, except maybe some cool people to chat with. Pms are welcome if you wanna make a new friend

Messaged you. Hope to hear back.

 

[whynotbr]

I am so new and awkward at this, but thought I’d dip my toes in and see what happens.

I suppose I’ll start with a little about me.
I’m 38, female. Straight. Married. In an intimate-less & sexless marriage. I haven’t been with anyone but him in a very very long time. I can count on one hand how many partners I’ve had in my life. I definitely lean toward several kinks but haven’t had much opportunity to explore those things. Have never used dating apps. Always been very much a good girl in life. I work with the public and have a naturally bubbly and silly disposition. I completely take care of myself in every aspect of life. I’ve had several tragedies happen within the last 5-10 years and I’m at a crossroads. I find myself happy in most things, but fuck if I’m not so lonely and miss physical and emotional contact. I’m sure my circumstances are not unique, and a lot of people probably find themselves in my situation facing their 40s and just not wanting to waste anymore time wondering if there might just be more to life. But onto the important stuff! I love reading, being outside. Growing things- walking in the woods- feeding my backyard critters. Anything creative and arty. I love sitting around a bonfire at night, watching the fireflies and maybe partaking in a bit of green and having ridiculous conversations with lots of laughs.

What I’m looking for is maybe someone to connect with. Someone kind but strong. Maybe someone who is or was in a similar place as I am. Or maybe not? I don’t need you to be my therapist- just someone to talk to. Maybe awake some feelings in me that are there but have no outlet. I’m not fussy about looks or high maintenance and needy. I don’t want that from you either. Although looks do matter and appearance is important- it’s not top priority. Just be real, be yourself- and you’re kosher.

I really have no idea how any of this sounds. I know I’m a bit clueless for my age about some things. But I’ve been here, in the background, for awhile and am taking a chance and being brave. Let’s waste some time together and see what happens

Sounds ideal, my marriage is the same and need a chat sometimes

 

[B2fromA2looking4U]

Welcome to Lit.

Your inbox is about to blow up. You don’t owe everyone a response, and you don’t have to be polite to creepy perverts that don’t speak to you respectfully.

There are good men here. They’re worth finding. Don’t let the creepers run you off.

Good advice for any dating site too. You are vulnerable and lonely so be very thoughtful and direct on what you need.

 

[bcfunburst]

I am so new and awkward at this, but thought I’d dip my toes in and see what happens.

I suppose I’ll start with a little about me.
I’m 38, female. Straight. Married. In an intimate-less & sexless marriage. I haven’t been with anyone but him in a very very long time. I can count on one hand how many partners I’ve had in my life. I definitely lean toward several kinks but haven’t had much opportunity to explore those things. Have never used dating apps. Always been very much a good girl in life. I work with the public and have a naturally bubbly and silly disposition. I completely take care of myself in every aspect of life. I’ve had several tragedies happen within the last 5-10 years and I’m at a crossroads. I find myself happy in most things, but fuck if I’m not so lonely and miss physical and emotional contact. I’m sure my circumstances are not unique, and a lot of people probably find themselves in my situation facing their 40s and just not wanting to waste anymore time wondering if there might just be more to life. But onto the important stuff! I love reading, being outside. Growing things- walking in the woods- feeding my backyard critters. Anything creative and arty. I love sitting around a bonfire at night, watching the fireflies and maybe partaking in a bit of green and having ridiculous conversations with lots of laughs.

What I’m looking for is maybe someone to connect with. Someone kind but strong. Maybe someone who is or was in a similar place as I am. Or maybe not? I don’t need you to be my therapist- just someone to talk to. Maybe awake some feelings in me that are there but have no outlet. I’m not fussy about looks or high maintenance and needy. I don’t want that from you either. Although looks do matter and appearance is important- it’s not top priority. Just be real, be yourself- and you’re kosher.

I really have no idea how any of this sounds. I know I’m a bit clueless for my age about some things. But I’ve been here, in the background, for awhile and am taking a chance and being brave. Let’s waste some time together and see what happens

 

[bcfunburst]

Married male, 75, on West Coast, also seeking correspondence with Friendly Female. Lived through your similar situation for many years. I do enjoy sharing via e-mail. No head games here. Just seeking an honest friendship. Don't be shy! Best of luck to You!

 

[Jdufort33]

I am so new and awkward at this, but thought I’d dip my toes in and see what happens.

I suppose I’ll start with a little about me.
I’m 38, female. Straight. Married. In an intimate-less & sexless marriage. I haven’t been with anyone but him in a very very long time. I can count on one hand how many partners I’ve had in my life. I definitely lean toward several kinks but haven’t had much opportunity to explore those things. Have never used dating apps. Always been very much a good girl in life. I work with the public and have a naturally bubbly and silly disposition. I completely take care of myself in every aspect of life. I’ve had several tragedies happen within the last 5-10 years and I’m at a crossroads. I find myself happy in most things, but fuck if I’m not so lonely and miss physical and emotional contact. I’m sure my circumstances are not unique, and a lot of people probably find themselves in my situation facing their 40s and just not wanting to waste anymore time wondering if there might just be more to life. But onto the important stuff! I love reading, being outside. Growing things- walking in the woods- feeding my backyard critters. Anything creative and arty. I love sitting around a bonfire at night, watching the fireflies and maybe partaking in a bit of green and having ridiculous conversations with lots of laughs.

What I’m looking for is maybe someone to connect with. Someone kind but strong. Maybe someone who is or was in a similar place as I am. Or maybe not? I don’t need you to be my therapist- just someone to talk to. Maybe awake some feelings in me that are there but have no outlet. I’m not fussy about looks or high maintenance and needy. I don’t want that from you either. Although looks do matter and appearance is important- it’s not top priority. Just be real, be yourself- and you’re kosher.

I really have no idea how any of this sounds. I know I’m a bit clueless for my age about some things. But I’ve been here, in the background, for awhile and am taking a chance and being brave. Let’s waste some time together and see what happens

New to this, so maybe I missed it, but what state are you in?

 

[Conniewantsit]

Not looking to chat, just wanted to let you know your not alone. I’ve spent the past two weeks trying to get comfortable here. Generally people are very polit and enjoy connecting with others discussing many things - sex included. Take the time to feel comfortable, relax and have fun.

 

[Gaj1962]

I am so new and awkward at this, but thought I’d dip my toes in and see what happens.

I suppose I’ll start with a little about me.
I’m 38, female. Straight. Married. In an intimate-less & sexless marriage. I haven’t been with anyone but him in a very very long time. I can count on one hand how many partners I’ve had in my life. I definitely lean toward several kinks but haven’t had much opportunity to explore those things. Have never used dating apps. Always been very much a good girl in life. I work with the public and have a naturally bubbly and silly disposition. I completely take care of myself in every aspect of life. I’ve had several tragedies happen within the last 5-10 years and I’m at a crossroads. I find myself happy in most things, but fuck if I’m not so lonely and miss physical and emotional contact. I’m sure my circumstances are not unique, and a lot of people probably find themselves in my situation facing their 40s and just not wanting to waste anymore time wondering if there might just be more to life. But onto the important stuff! I love reading, being outside. Growing things- walking in the woods- feeding my backyard critters. Anything creative and arty. I love sitting around a bonfire at night, watching the fireflies and maybe partaking in a bit of green and having ridiculous conversations with lots of laughs.

What I’m looking for is maybe someone to connect with. Someone kind but strong. Maybe someone who is or was in a similar place as I am. Or maybe not? I don’t need you to be my therapist- just someone to talk to. Maybe awake some feelings in me that are there but have no outlet. I’m not fussy about looks or high maintenance and needy. I don’t want that from you either. Although looks do matter and appearance is important- it’s not top priority. Just be real, be yourself- and you’re kosher.

I really have no idea how any of this sounds. I know I’m a bit clueless for my age about some things. But I’ve been here, in the background, for awhile and am taking a chance and being brave. Let’s waste some time together and see what happens

Hi is love to chat with you. Gaj1962

 

[Justme216918]

I am so new and awkward at this, but thought I’d dip my toes in and see what happens.

I suppose I’ll start with a little about me.
I’m 38, female. Straight. Married. In an intimate-less & sexless marriage. I haven’t been with anyone but him in a very very long time. I can count on one hand how many partners I’ve had in my life. I definitely lean toward several kinks but haven’t had much opportunity to explore those things. Have never used dating apps. Always been very much a good girl in life. I work with the public and have a naturally bubbly and silly disposition. I completely take care of myself in every aspect of life. I’ve had several tragedies happen within the last 5-10 years and I’m at a crossroads. I find myself happy in most things, but fuck if I’m not so lonely and miss physical and emotional contact. I’m sure my circumstances are not unique, and a lot of people probably find themselves in my situation facing their 40s and just not wanting to waste anymore time wondering if there might just be more to life. But onto the important stuff! I love reading, being outside. Growing things- walking in the woods- feeding my backyard critters. Anything creative and arty. I love sitting around a bonfire at night, watching the fireflies and maybe partaking in a bit of green and having ridiculous conversations with lots of laughs.

What I’m looking for is maybe someone to connect with. Someone kind but strong. Maybe someone who is or was in a similar place as I am. Or maybe not? I don’t need you to be my therapist- just someone to talk to. Maybe awake some feelings in me that are there but have no outlet. I’m not fussy about looks or high maintenance and needy. I don’t want that from you either. Although looks do matter and appearance is important- it’s not top priority. Just be real, be yourself- and you’re kosher.

I really have no idea how any of this sounds. I know I’m a bit clueless for my age about some things. But I’ve been here, in the background, for awhile and am taking a chance and being brave. Let’s waste some time together and see what happens

I think we should chat. Seriously!

 

[metal4lace]

I am so new and awkward at this, but thought I’d dip my toes in and see what happens.

I suppose I’ll start with a little about me.
I’m 38, female. Straight. Married. In an intimate-less & sexless marriage. I haven’t been with anyone but him in a very very long time. I can count on one hand how many partners I’ve had in my life. I definitely lean toward several kinks but haven’t had much opportunity to explore those things. Have never used dating apps. Always been very much a good girl in life. I work with the public and have a naturally bubbly and silly disposition. I completely take care of myself in every aspect of life. I’ve had several tragedies happen within the last 5-10 years and I’m at a crossroads. I find myself happy in most things, but fuck if I’m not so lonely and miss physical and emotional contact. I’m sure my circumstances are not unique, and a lot of people probably find themselves in my situation facing their 40s and just not wanting to waste anymore time wondering if there might just be more to life. But onto the important stuff! I love reading, being outside. Growing things- walking in the woods- feeding my backyard critters. Anything creative and arty. I love sitting around a bonfire at night, watching the fireflies and maybe partaking in a bit of green and having ridiculous conversations with lots of laughs.

What I’m looking for is maybe someone to connect with. Someone kind but strong. Maybe someone who is or was in a similar place as I am. Or maybe not? I don’t need you to be my therapist- just someone to talk to. Maybe awake some feelings in me that are there but have no outlet. I’m not fussy about looks or high maintenance and needy. I don’t want that from you either. Although looks do matter and appearance is important- it’s not top priority. Just be real, be yourself- and you’re kosher.

I really have no idea how any of this sounds. I know I’m a bit clueless for my age about some things. But I’ve been here, in the background, for awhile and am taking a chance and being brave. Let’s waste some time together and see what happens

I'd be up for a chat!

 

[Stopokochac]

What a beautiful post! You sound like a really awesome girl and I really hope you find what you're looking for.
If you want, feel free to message me and we can see if it leads to anything

 

[Xxxoner]

I am so new and awkward at this, but thought I’d dip my toes in and see what happens.

I suppose I’ll start with a little about me.
I’m 38, female. Straight. Married. In an intimate-less & sexless marriage. I haven’t been with anyone but him in a very very long time. I can count on one hand how many partners I’ve had in my life. I definitely lean toward several kinks but haven’t had much opportunity to explore those things. Have never used dating apps. Always been very much a good girl in life. I work with the public and have a naturally bubbly and silly disposition. I completely take care of myself in every aspect of life. I’ve had several tragedies happen within the last 5-10 years and I’m at a crossroads. I find myself happy in most things, but fuck if I’m not so lonely and miss physical and emotional contact. I’m sure my circumstances are not unique, and a lot of people probably find themselves in my situation facing their 40s and just not wanting to waste anymore time wondering if there might just be more to life. But onto the important stuff! I love reading, being outside. Growing things- walking in the woods- feeding my backyard critters. Anything creative and arty. I love sitting around a bonfire at night, watching the fireflies and maybe partaking in a bit of green and having ridiculous conversations with lots of laughs.

What I’m looking for is maybe someone to connect with. Someone kind but strong. Maybe someone who is or was in a similar place as I am. Or maybe not? I don’t need you to be my therapist- just someone to talk to. Maybe awake some feelings in me that are there but have no outlet. I’m not fussy about looks or high maintenance and needy. I don’t want that from you either. Although looks do matter and appearance is important- it’s not top priority. Just be real, be yourself- and you’re kosher.

I really have no idea how any of this sounds. I know I’m a bit clueless for my age about some things. But I’ve been here, in the background, for awhile and am taking a chance and being brave. Let’s waste some time together and see what happens

Hey kick chat

 

[bridgewaTers45]

I am so new and awkward at this, but thought I’d dip my toes in and see what happens.

I suppose I’ll start with a little about me.
I’m 38, female. Straight. Married. In an intimate-less & sexless marriage. I haven’t been with anyone but him in a very very long time. I can count on one hand how many partners I’ve had in my life. I definitely lean toward several kinks but haven’t had much opportunity to explore those things. Have never used dating apps. Always been very much a good girl in life. I work with the public and have a naturally bubbly and silly disposition. I completely take care of myself in every aspect of life. I’ve had several tragedies happen within the last 5-10 years and I’m at a crossroads. I find myself happy in most things, but fuck if I’m not so lonely and miss physical and emotional contact. I’m sure my circumstances are not unique, and a lot of people probably find themselves in my situation facing their 40s and just not wanting to waste anymore time wondering if there might just be more to life. But onto the important stuff! I love reading, being outside. Growing things- walking in the woods- feeding my backyard critters. Anything creative and arty. I love sitting around a bonfire at night, watching the fireflies and maybe partaking in a bit of green and having ridiculous conversations with lots of laughs.

What I’m looking for is maybe someone to connect with. Someone kind but strong. Maybe someone who is or was in a similar place as I am. Or maybe not? I don’t need you to be my therapist- just someone to talk to. Maybe awake some feelings in me that are there but have no outlet. I’m not fussy about looks or high maintenance and needy. I don’t want that from you either. Although looks do matter and appearance is important- it’s not top priority. Just be real, be yourself- and you’re kosher.

I really have no idea how any of this sounds. I know I’m a bit clueless for my age about some things. But I’ve been here, in the background, for awhile and am taking a chance and being brave. Let’s waste some time together and see what happens

Hello,

It looks like it has been a while since you originally posted on here. I hope that you were successful in finding friends. You sound a really nice person. Physical and emotional contact makes us human, in my mind anyhow.

Stay Safe.

 

[Pad_Foot]

What a difference two weeks can make

Not exactly sure what I’m looking for now, except maybe some cool people to chat with. Pms are welcome if you wanna make a new friend

Congrats!! I am glad that Lit showed you its good side!!
Still praying that I’m not on the bad naughty slimy list!!

 

[Egrand]

I am so new and awkward at this, but thought I’d dip my toes in and see what happens.

I suppose I’ll start with a little about me.
I’m 38, female. Straight. Married. In an intimate-less & sexless marriage. I haven’t been with anyone but him in a very very long time. I can count on one hand how many partners I’ve had in my life. I definitely lean toward several kinks but haven’t had much opportunity to explore those things. Have never used dating apps. Always been very much a good girl in life. I work with the public and have a naturally bubbly and silly disposition. I completely take care of myself in every aspect of life. I’ve had several tragedies happen within the last 5-10 years and I’m at a crossroads. I find myself happy in most things, but fuck if I’m not so lonely and miss physical and emotional contact. I’m sure my circumstances are not unique, and a lot of people probably find themselves in my situation facing their 40s and just not wanting to waste anymore time wondering if there might just be more to life. But onto the important stuff! I love reading, being outside. Growing things- walking in the woods- feeding my backyard critters. Anything creative and arty. I love sitting around a bonfire at night, watching the fireflies and maybe partaking in a bit of green and having ridiculous conversations with lots of laughs.

What I’m looking for is maybe someone to connect with. Someone kind but strong. Maybe someone who is or was in a similar place as I am. Or maybe not? I don’t need you to be my therapist- just someone to talk to. Maybe awake some feelings in me that are there but have no outlet. I’m not fussy about looks or high maintenance and needy. I don’t want that from you either. Although looks do matter and appearance is important- it’s not top priority. Just be real, be yourself- and you’re kosher.

I really have no idea how any of this sounds. I know I’m a bit clueless for my age about some things. But I’ve been here, in the background, for awhile and am taking a chance and being brave. Let’s waste some time together and see what happens

Hi lonely girl.

I know exactly how you feel, I had a great relationship, we did just about everything a sexy couple can do, but my little darling got MS, and is now wheelchair bound and unable to be sexy at all, god I so miss that, I feel for you not getting enough, cant write much just now but saw your words and felt I needed to make contact, I live in the UK and am a lot older than you but gif you would like to chat see if we have that something we both miss then peddle contact me at [Personal contact information removed per forum rules] look forward to hearing from you

Andy XXX

 

[Grant55]

Hi lonely girl.

I know exactly how you feel, I had a great relationship, we did just about everything a sexy couple can do, but my little darling got MS, and is now wheelchair bound and unable to be sexy at all, god I so miss that, I feel for you not getting enough, cant write much just now but saw your words and felt I needed to make contact, I live in the UK and am a lot older than you but gif you would like to chat see if we have that something we both miss then peddle contact me at look forward to hearing from you

Andy XXX

Hey bud. It's against lit rules to post contact info publicly

 

[Willseventytwo]

I am so new and awkward at this, but thought I’d dip my toes in and see what happens.

I suppose I’ll start with a little about me.
I’m 38, female. Straight. Married. In an intimate-less & sexless marriage. I haven’t been with anyone but him in a very very long time. I can count on one hand how many partners I’ve had in my life. I definitely lean toward several kinks but haven’t had much opportunity to explore those things. Have never used dating apps. Always been very much a good girl in life. I work with the public and have a naturally bubbly and silly disposition. I completely take care of myself in every aspect of life. I’ve had several tragedies happen within the last 5-10 years and I’m at a crossroads. I find myself happy in most things, but fuck if I’m not so lonely and miss physical and emotional contact. I’m sure my circumstances are not unique, and a lot of people probably find themselves in my situation facing their 40s and just not wanting to waste anymore time wondering if there might just be more to life. But onto the important stuff! I love reading, being outside. Growing things- walking in the woods- feeding my backyard critters. Anything creative and arty. I love sitting around a bonfire at night, watching the fireflies and maybe partaking in a bit of green and having ridiculous conversations with lots of laughs.

What I’m looking for is maybe someone to connect with. Someone kind but strong. Maybe someone who is or was in a similar place as I am. Or maybe not? I don’t need you to be my therapist- just someone to talk to. Maybe awake some feelings in me that are there but have no outlet. I’m not fussy about looks or high maintenance and needy. I don’t want that from you either. Although looks do matter and appearance is important- it’s not top priority. Just be real, be yourself- and you’re kosher.

I really have no idea how any of this sounds. I know I’m a bit clueless for my age about some things. But I’ve been here, in the background, for awhile and am taking a chance and being brave. Let’s waste some time together and see what happens

Interesting post and in a similar Situation, I know this post is dated but message me if your interested in discussing further would love to chat. Missing a womens touch, scent, and feel in New England, but not apposed to some travel.

 

[Xxxoner]

Oh well... I was just trying to connect and have fun dates you know fwb . If you're cool with that lmk..

 

[Capcanuck]

I am so new and awkward at this, but thought I’d dip my toes in and see what happens.

I suppose I’ll start with a little about me.
I’m 38, female. Straight. Married. In an intimate-less & sexless marriage. I haven’t been with anyone but him in a very very long time. I can count on one hand how many partners I’ve had in my life. I definitely lean toward several kinks but haven’t had much opportunity to explore those things. Have never used dating apps. Always been very much a good girl in life. I work with the public and have a naturally bubbly and silly disposition. I completely take care of myself in every aspect of life. I’ve had several tragedies happen within the last 5-10 years and I’m at a crossroads. I find myself happy in most things, but fuck if I’m not so lonely and miss physical and emotional contact. I’m sure my circumstances are not unique, and a lot of people probably find themselves in my situation facing their 40s and just not wanting to waste anymore time wondering if there might just be more to life. But onto the important stuff! I love reading, being outside. Growing things- walking in the woods- feeding my backyard critters. Anything creative and arty. I love sitting around a bonfire at night, watching the fireflies and maybe partaking in a bit of green and having ridiculous conversations with lots of laughs.

What I’m looking for is maybe someone to connect with. Someone kind but strong. Maybe someone who is or was in a similar place as I am. Or maybe not? I don’t need you to be my therapist- just someone to talk to. Maybe awake some feelings in me that are there but have no outlet. I’m not fussy about looks or high maintenance and needy. I don’t want that from you either. Although looks do matter and appearance is important- it’s not top priority. Just be real, be yourself- and you’re kosher.

I really have no idea how any of this sounds. I know I’m a bit clueless for my age about some things. But I’ve been here, in the background, for awhile and am taking a chance and being brave. Let’s waste some time together and see what happens

Hi, it seems we have much in common.
Pm me and we'll see about some ice breakers

 

[NEthingGoze]

I am so new and awkward at this, but thought I’d dip my toes in and see what happens.

I suppose I’ll start with a little about me.
I’m 38, female. Straight. Married. In an intimate-less & sexless marriage. I haven’t been with anyone but him in a very very long time. I can count on one hand how many partners I’ve had in my life. I definitely lean toward several kinks but haven’t had much opportunity to explore those things. Have never used dating apps. Always been very much a good girl in life. I work with the public and have a naturally bubbly and silly disposition. I completely take care of myself in every aspect of life. I’ve had several tragedies happen within the last 5-10 years and I’m at a crossroads. I find myself happy in most things, but fuck if I’m not so lonely and miss physical and emotional contact. I’m sure my circumstances are not unique, and a lot of people probably find themselves in my situation facing their 40s and just not wanting to waste anymore time wondering if there might just be more to life. But onto the important stuff! I love reading, being outside. Growing things- walking in the woods- feeding my backyard critters. Anything creative and arty. I love sitting around a bonfire at night, watching the fireflies and maybe partaking in a bit of green and having ridiculous conversations with lots of laughs.

What I’m looking for is maybe someone to connect with. Someone kind but strong. Maybe someone who is or was in a similar place as I am. Or maybe not? I don’t need you to be my therapist- just someone to talk to. Maybe awake some feelings in me that are there but have no outlet. I’m not fussy about looks or high maintenance and needy. I don’t want that from you either. Although looks do matter and appearance is important- it’s not top priority. Just be real, be yourself- and you’re kosher.

I really have no idea how any of this sounds. I know I’m a bit clueless for my age about some things. But I’ve been here, in the background, for awhile and am taking a chance and being brave. Let’s waste some time together and see what happens

This sounds very much like the situation my late lover was in when we first met. She too was in a marriage that failed to fulfill her, and I was looking for a connection because while my marriage is good, there is no physical intimacy anymore and hasn't been for many years. The emotional connection we built and shared for thirteen amazing years sustained and exalted me and her. I would love to find something similar again. Her death left me empty for several years, but your message touched me and gave me hope that it was possible to hope for another relationship that could be possible to fulfill similar mutual delight. Please let me know if any of this interests you, I would be delighted to explore a possible connection.