Lonely girl

[JackKingOff]

Good luck, OP has not been on this thread in almost 2 years, and hasn't posted anything on the site in over a year and half.

 

[Gambit33]

I am so new and awkward at this, but thought I’d dip my toes in and see what happens.

I suppose I’ll start with a little about me.
I’m 38, female. Straight. Married. In an intimate-less & sexless marriage. I haven’t been with anyone but him in a very very long time. I can count on one hand how many partners I’ve had in my life. I definitely lean toward several kinks but haven’t had much opportunity to explore those things. Have never used dating apps. Always been very much a good girl in life. I work with the public and have a naturally bubbly and silly disposition. I completely take care of myself in every aspect of life. I’ve had several tragedies happen within the last 5-10 years and I’m at a crossroads. I find myself happy in most things, but fuck if I’m not so lonely and miss physical and emotional contact. I’m sure my circumstances are not unique, and a lot of people probably find themselves in my situation facing their 40s and just not wanting to waste anymore time wondering if there might just be more to life. But onto the important stuff! I love reading, being outside. Growing things- walking in the woods- feeding my backyard critters. Anything creative and arty. I love sitting around a bonfire at night, watching the fireflies and maybe partaking in a bit of green and having ridiculous conversations with lots of laughs.

What I’m looking for is maybe someone to connect with. Someone kind but strong. Maybe someone who is or was in a similar place as I am. Or maybe not? I don’t need you to be my therapist- just someone to talk to. Maybe awake some feelings in me that are there but have no outlet. I’m not fussy about looks or high maintenance and needy. I don’t want that from you either. Although looks do matter and appearance is important- it’s not top priority. Just be real, be yourself- and you’re kosher.

I really have no idea how any of this sounds. I know I’m a bit clueless for my age about some things. But I’ve been here, in the background, for awhile and am taking a chance and being brave. Let’s waste some time together and see what happens

Hi!

I'm in your exact situation, and I have been for quite some time now. I'm 37 and I've been married since I was 19. It sounds like we share quite a few similar interests. I love gardening! And I would absolutely love to chat with you sometime!
I hope to hear from you soon!

 

[Bones957]

I am so new and awkward at this, but thought I’d dip my toes in and see what happens.

I suppose I’ll start with a little about me.
I’m 38, female. Straight. Married. In an intimate-less & sexless marriage. I haven’t been with anyone but him in a very very long time. I can count on one hand how many partners I’ve had in my life. I definitely lean toward several kinks but haven’t had much opportunity to explore those things. Have never used dating apps. Always been very much a good girl in life. I work with the public and have a naturally bubbly and silly disposition. I completely take care of myself in every aspect of life. I’ve had several tragedies happen within the last 5-10 years and I’m at a crossroads. I find myself happy in most things, but fuck if I’m not so lonely and miss physical and emotional contact. I’m sure my circumstances are not unique, and a lot of people probably find themselves in my situation facing their 40s and just not wanting to waste anymore time wondering if there might just be more to life. But onto the important stuff! I love reading, being outside. Growing things- walking in the woods- feeding my backyard critters. Anything creative and arty. I love sitting around a bonfire at night, watching the fireflies and maybe partaking in a bit of green and having ridiculous conversations with lots of laughs.

What I’m looking for is maybe someone to connect with. Someone kind but strong. Maybe someone who is or was in a similar place as I am. Or maybe not? I don’t need you to be my therapist- just someone to talk to. Maybe awake some feelings in me that are there but have no outlet. I’m not fussy about looks or high maintenance and needy. I don’t want that from you either. Although looks do matter and appearance is important- it’s not top priority. Just be real, be yourself- and you’re kosher.

I really have no idea how any of this sounds. I know I’m a bit clueless for my age about some things. But I’ve been here, in the background, for awhile and am taking a chance and being brave. Let’s waste some time together and see what happens

I'll happily chat. Feel free to DM me.

 

[Canadian1968]

I am so new and awkward at this, but thought I’d dip my toes in and see what happens.

I suppose I’ll start with a little about me.
I’m 38, female. Straight. Married. In an intimate-less & sexless marriage. I haven’t been with anyone but him in a very very long time. I can count on one hand how many partners I’ve had in my life. I definitely lean toward several kinks but haven’t had much opportunity to explore those things. Have never used dating apps. Always been very much a good girl in life. I work with the public and have a naturally bubbly and silly disposition. I completely take care of myself in every aspect of life. I’ve had several tragedies happen within the last 5-10 years and I’m at a crossroads. I find myself happy in most things, but fuck if I’m not so lonely and miss physical and emotional contact. I’m sure my circumstances are not unique, and a lot of people probably find themselves in my situation facing their 40s and just not wanting to waste anymore time wondering if there might just be more to life. But onto the important stuff! I love reading, being outside. Growing things- walking in the woods- feeding my backyard critters. Anything creative and arty. I love sitting around a bonfire at night, watching the fireflies and maybe partaking in a bit of green and having ridiculous conversations with lots of laughs.

What I’m looking for is maybe someone to connect with. Someone kind but strong. Maybe someone who is or was in a similar place as I am. Or maybe not? I don’t need you to be my therapist- just someone to talk to. Maybe awake some feelings in me that are there but have no outlet. I’m not fussy about looks or high maintenance and needy. I don’t want that from you either. Although looks do matter and appearance is important- it’s not top priority. Just be real, be yourself- and you’re kosher.

I really have no idea how any of this sounds. I know I’m a bit clueless for my age about some things. But I’ve been here, in the background, for awhile and am taking a chance and being brave. Let’s waste some time together and see what happens

That was a long time ago you posted this. I am new to Lit membership and just exploring all the threads to follow. Straight married male. If you are still looking and would like to hear or know more, let me know