Made to Cry, how you prefer it?

[ownedsubgal]

But I still maintain red eyes and snot ain't sexy LOL

i agree! lol

 

[liberatedslave]

My Sir knows how to continuously push me, slowly and steadily, until I reach the point where all my senses and emotions are pulled so tight that he can break them completely with a whisper. These times make us so much closer, especially as I don't often cry in daily life (he actually cries at more films than I do).

That said, the first time I ever really disappointed him...

I got a really savage face-fucking and it lasted such a long time. I guess I could have safeworded when allowed to breathe but I was completely awestruck by the way he could be so utterly cold while taking me. I also wanted to please him and make things up to him.

It was the first time I ever really saw Sir's sadistic streak. I suppose I see him as more dominant than outright sadistic and he's always considerate of my needs and limits, that time he was almost totally indifferent. I had bruises where he had gripped my head and a very sore throat. I couldn't even look at him afterward, he instantly forgave me and held me so gently as though I was so precious. The change in him was so fast and so complete that it just made me cry even harder. I knew then that I truly had given myself as his property and that any kindness or grace he afforded me had to be earned.

... *swoons at the memory*

 

[Honey_B]

I have never been able to make my submissive cry. He seems to be one of those creatures who simply can't or won't, or both. Instead, when the emotions of a scene really get to him, he laughs.

You have no idea how much that pissed me off at first. It just made me want to hit him harder! Now, I understand that it his way of psychological release and has nothing more to do with happiness than one laughs when tickled tortured.

 

[Vessira]

One of the reasons I've brought this up is in my new relationship, I find myself terribly happy, but life in general can just be so draining and exhausting. But due to things going well for me romantically, I haven't really had a reason to cry, but the need is still there as a release to let go of stress. I've been thinking about how to broach this with my Dom, and how I'd like him to make me cry, because I understand it's a release I'd like to have and I typically do not like anyone seeing me cry, so I see it as yet another form bonding between us, but I'm not sure how I want it done.

Although it did almost happen yesterday. We happened to go to a gun store/shooting range because my Dom was interested in checking it out. The place was filled with stuffed animals everywhere, and I got incredibly uneasy and it took all my willpowe to not break down there as I found the place extremely sad and disturbing. Perhaps I can tell him if he ever wants to punish me/make me cry all he needs to do is take me back there.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

But I still maintain red eyes and snot ain't sexy LOL

Depends on whether you're the skull fucker or skull fuckee.

and started balling.

Bawling or balling (v.intr. 2)?

 

[graceanne]

Depends on whether you're the skull fucker or skull fuckee.Bawling or balling (v.intr. 2)?

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[NemoAlia]

I've cried, hm, twice with my Dom that I can think of. (Although he's welcome to correct me if he remembers differently )

Once, regarding kneeling, and once when I woke from a deep sleep because he'd punched me in the back. Not hard, or anything, but we're not into body blows, or non-consent play, so it seemed a major violation of trust, especially to a sleepy me. Once I recovered from the shock of it, I stopped crying and had to laugh at the fact that he'd been dreaming about hitting somebody else, and wound up punching me.

Edited to add: Okay, yes, I've cried lots more times than that with him -- I am not at all inhibited in that respect. Usually, though, it's when I'm trying to communicate something that makes me feel vulnerable or otherwise emotionally charged -- not because of something he's done. If I didn't have that crying catharsis during conversations, though, I'd probably look for it in scenes.

 

[shy slave]

Depends on whether you're the skull fucker or skull fuckee.

Yeah, Yeah

You may have a point there, but like OSG I am sticking to 'it ain't sexy!!'

 

[the captians wench]

Some times I forget just how cleansing being made to cry can be.

Now I don't fight tears, well except when I'm at work, but I don't really cry easily either, and especially not from pain. So when things get to be too much for me to handle, I ask to be tortured to tears.

I know he enjoys pushing me to the point that I'm sobbing, and I really need to just let go and sob some times, so it really works out. But as I was comming down last night, I got to thinking about how refreshed it really does make me feel.

I remember a sub friend of mine saying that she loved to be pushed to tears, that it was rejuvinating. And the same guys that session her, have sessioned me. Now it's not that I can take more than her, quite the opposite, just like I said I don't cry easily, and none of them have been able to get me to the point where I break down and just start sobbin on the floor. Infact the one of them is proud of the fact that he got my eyes to water.

Now the sessions that I have with them are usually a minimum of 2 hours, last night it wasn't even a half an hour before I was shaking and sobbing uncontrolably, and I was preforming the task on myself. Tho I must admit, Jounar's method of using thumb tacks has a pain potential far greater than any flogger or paddle that's ever been used on me. The only thing that might rivel it would be a knife, but that's always been more relaxing than painful.

Anyway, the total surrender of everything that's been building up in me by way of crying my eyes out with an ass that has little bumps covered in vinager all over it just makes me feel 100lbs lighter.

Just curious if anyone else has simular feelings when this happens.

 

[Netzach]

I have never been able to make my submissive cry. He seems to be one of those creatures who simply can't or won't, or both. Instead, when the emotions of a scene really get to him, he laughs.

Having enjoyed the variation I have, I personally believe those to be pretty much the same response after a certain point. Which is nice.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Oh well I have found a new way to make me cry..less than 2 seconds of my Il Divo album and I am gone!

Catalina

 

[littlegirlslut]

I am so close to being able to let go to this point... blah... I want to have that release so badly... I just - can't - yet.

 

[_prudence_]

As a sadist, I enjoy inflicting pain to the point of tears. Trust me, I WILL find that one toy in the toy bag that will push you over the edge if you want to fight it...

As a Dominant, I will find that issue/stressor/breaking point/past problem that will push you over the edge and into tears.

I will play someone to tears or push them emotionally to tears if they want it (negotiated) or if they've been suppressing the tears and need the release.

How I get the tears to come will vary from person to person, scene to scene. I'm flexible about how I get there, I revel in them when they arrive.

There's something about Evil Geoffs posts that I like, cant quite put my finger on it yet. *grinning*

 

[Blushing Bottom]

I think everyone should be balled vs bald at least once.

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.Bawling or balling (v.intr. 2)?